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The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis·Hosted by Dave Willis and Ashley Willis·597 episodes

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The Naked Marriage invites couples to uncover God’s design for lifelong love. Through honest, faith-centered conversations, hosts Dave and Ashley Willis talk openly about challenges couples often face but rarely talk about. With wisdom, vulnerability, and humor, they offer fresh perspectives and practical ways to build a deeply connected marriage.

Why listen

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis gives couples frank, faith-centered marriage advice without dodging awkward topics like sex, trust, resentment, money, trauma, and communication. Most episodes feel like a practical coaching conversation, with Dave and Ashley responding to real listener questions and bringing in guests when a personal story or ministry perspective adds depth. It is a strong fit for Christian couples who want direct, encouraging help they can talk about together after listening.

Series(2)

Episodes

31 min
Jul 20, 2026
Sex series (Part 8): The Habits That Lead to Lifelong Fulfillment in Marriage

Lasting intimacy is build on more than physical attraction. Dave and Ashley discuss how friendship, health, commitment, and fun can strengthen your connection, protect your marriage from comparison, and help build a marriage that thrives through every season of life. Listener Question: My spouse vents to friends or family about our problems instead of talking to me first, and it makes me feel disrespected. How should we set boundaries around that? 9 Days to Great Sex eBook: https://www.daveandashley.com/9-days-... __________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Jul 17, 2026
The Two Wings Every Marriage Needs to Fly | Marriage Minute

A healthy marriage requires both deep friendship and a thriving romantic connection — neglecting either one will keep your relationship from truly taking off. Focus on building shared experiences and bringing your lives together to strengthen both wings of your marriage._______________We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.comDave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry.Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry.The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas.Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

40 min
Jul 13, 2026
Sex series (Part 7): Understanding Sexual Aversion in Marriage

Sexual aversion can leave couples feeling confused, rejected, and disconnected. Dave and Ashley explore how past trauma, shame, relationship wounds, and unhealthy experiences can shape intimacy, and how couples can rebuild safety, trust, and connection.Listener Question: There are days I don’t feel in love with my spouse—nothing’s wrong, I just feel disconnected. What does it actually look like to ‘choose love’ in those moments?9 Days to Great Sex eBook: https://www.daveandashley.com/9-days-...Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZdMarriage Builders: https://www.marriagebuilders.com/how-to-overcome-sexual-aversion.htm21 Day Inner Healing Journey by Jimmy Evans: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/21-day-inner-healing-journey__________Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.comDownload our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZdWe want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.comDave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry.Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry.The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas.Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Jul 10, 2026
Why Your Body Avoids Sex (And How to Heal) | Marriage Minute

If you struggle with sexual aversion in your marriage, you can retrain your mind and body to feel safe and open again through a gentle, step-by-step process. Visit MarriageBuilders.com to access the full article and begin your journey toward experiencing intimacy as the blessing it was designed to be._______________We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.comDave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry.Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry.The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas.Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

32 min
Jul 6, 2026
Sex series (Part 6): What Husbands Need to Know About Menopause

Many couples struggle with the physical and emotional changes that come with perimenopause and menopause. Dave and Ashley share their personal experiences, helpful resources, and practical strategies for maintaining intimacy and connection during this season. Listener Question: My spouse broke my trust a while ago—not an affair, but something that still really hurt—and even though I want to move forward, I still feel guarded. What does rebuilding trust actually look like day-to-day? 9 Days to Great Sex eBook: https://www.daveandashley.com/9-days-... Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd __________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Jul 3, 2026
Sex During Menopause: What Every Couple Must Know | Marriage Minute

If pain or exhaustion has made intimacy feel impossible during menopause, you're not alone — 30% of women stop having sex simply because they don't know how to address it. Small changes like prioritizing sleep, using lubricants, scheduling sex, and extending foreplay can help you and your spouse rediscover a satisfying intimate life. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

35 min
Jun 29, 2026
Sex series (Part 5): The Sex Questions Every Couple Wants Answered

Dave and Ashley respond to some of the most frequently asked questions about sex in marriage, including sex toys, masturbation, sexual frequency, and how to talk about intimacy when emotions run high. They also share practical tools for communicating with love, honesty, and understanding. Listener Question: Every time we get into an argument, it escalates fast—one of us shuts down and the other gets louder. What does healthy communication actually look like in the middle of that moment? 9 Days to Great Sex eBook: https://www.daveandashley.com/9-days-... Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd __________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Jun 26, 2026
Should Christians Use Sex Toys in Marriage? | Marriage Minute

You have freedom to enhance intimacy in marriage, but be careful where your satisfaction is really coming from. It becomes dangerous when a device starts replacing your spouse rather than serving your relationship. Like seasoning on a steak, it should enhance the experience — not become the meal itself. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

33 min
Jun 22, 2026
Sex Series (Part 4): The Lies We Believe About Sex in Marriage

Whether they come from culture, past relationships, pornography, or even church teaching, unrealistic expectations can quietly damage intimacy. Dave and Ashley explore how to identify false beliefs and replace them with a healthier vision for sex in marriage. Listener Question: How can you fix a marriage if your spouse will not let go of being hurt by feeling ignored? I've done everything I can to show them I have changed the behavior that caused their feelings to happen in the first place. 9 Days to Great Sex eBook: https://www.daveandashley.com/9-days-... Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd __________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Jun 19, 2026
Why You Keep Fighting: Everyone Brings This Into Marriage | Marriage Minute

Most marriage conflicts come from unspoken expectations — you and your spouse each carry a hidden picture of what marriage should look like, and the frustration builds when those pictures clash. The fix is to stop assuming and start talking. Throw your pictures away and work towards creating a shared vision together. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

33 min
Jun 15, 2026
Sex Series (Part 3): When Obstacles Get in the Way of Intimacy

Every couple hits obstacles in the bedroom — but they don't have to stay stuck. In Part 3 of our Summer Sex Series, Dave and Ashley Willis tackle the most common roadblocks to a healthy sex life: mismatched drives, stress, mental health, passionless routines, and physical limitations. Plus, a real talk on counterfeit solutions and how to reconnect in even the hardest seasons. 9 Days to Great Sex eBook: https://www.daveandashley.com/9-days-... 21 Day Inner Healing Journey: https://store.xomarriage.com/collecti... https://www.xonow.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd Video on Christian Sex Positions (Part 1): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRwuVGKDM_E Video on Christian Sex Positions (Part 2): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Od-mFJ1SZ8 __________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Jun 12, 2026
Is Your Marriage Passionate? | Marriage Minute

Passion in marriage isn't just physical — it's about giving your complete focus and best energy to your spouse every day. When you pursue them with that kind of intentionality, your whole relationship (including your sex life) transforms. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

37 min
Jun 8, 2026
Sex Series (Part 2): When Your Drives Don't Match

What happens when one spouse wants sex more than the other? In this episode, Dave and Ashley talk about mismatched sex drives—what causes them, what not to do, and how couples can navigate the gap with understanding, communication, and care. 9 Days to Great Sex eBook: https://www.daveandashley.com/9-days-to-great-sex 21 Day Inner Healing Journey: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/books/products/21-day-inner-healing-journey __________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Jun 5, 2026
Why You're Not on the Same Page About Sex | Marriage Minute

If you and your spouse are struggling with mismatched desires around sex, the real issue is often a breakdown in emotional intimacy — not just physical drive. Start by asking each other how connected you truly feel emotionally and spiritually, and invest in growing those areas together. 9 Days to Great Sex eBook: https://www.daveandashley.com/9-days-to-great-sex 21 Day Inner Healing Journey: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/books/products/21-day-inner-healing-journey https://www.xonow.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

41 min
Jun 1, 2026
Sex Series (Part 1): Beach Chair, Kitchen Stool, Baby Seat, Broken Chair

Sex in marriage isn’t one-size-fits-all—it changes with the seasons. In this episode, Dave and Ashley talk through what intimacy can look like in busy, broken, and in-between moments, and how communication and intentionality can help you stay connected through it all. 9 Days to Great Sex eBook 21 Day Inner Healing Journey www.xonow.com __________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
May 29, 2026
Why You and Your Spouse Should Schedule Sex | Marriage Minute

In busy seasons, waiting until you're "in the mood" can mean intimacy never happens — but scheduling sex and asking "am I willing to get in the mood?" can completely change your dynamic. Instead of making negative assumptions, simply talk to your spouse and take the first step toward meeting each other's needs. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

52 min
May 25, 2026
Healing a Toxic Relationship with Jake and Sierra Bradway

After a relationship marked by addiction, abuse, and toxic cycles, Jake and Sierra share how everything changed when they surrendered their lives to Jesus. This episode is a powerful reminder that no relationship is too far gone, and that healing, freedom, and a new foundation are possible. Learn more about Jake and Sierra's ministry: https://www.jakeandsierra.com Learn more about Marriage Intensives: https://xomarriage.com Are you or someone you know suffering from abuse? Please visit: https://www.thehotline.org From Gutters to Glory by Jake & Sierra Bradway 21 Day Inner Healing Journey by Jimmy Evans __________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
May 22, 2026
Is Your Marriage at Rock-Bottom? Jesus Changes Everything | Marriage Minute

No matter what "gutter" your marriage is in — abuse, addiction, or financial crisis — surrendering to Jesus is the one thing that can change everything. You don't have to be stuck in the crazy cycle. Like Jake and Sierra, build your life on the foundation of Christ - there's no other path out of brokenness. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com. Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
May 21, 2026
Why Marriage Conflict Is Actually Good for You | Marriage Minute

The friction you experience in your marriage isn't something to fear — it's actually sharpening you into a better version of yourself. Learning to handle conflict effectively, rather than avoiding it, can completely transform the dynamic of your relationship. 🎧 Hear the full episode — tune in Monday on the Naked Marriage Podcast. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

42 min
May 18, 2026
Divorce-Proofing Your Marriage with Randy and Debbie Stroman

After both experiencing divorce, Debbie and Randy Stroman made a decision to do things differently. They share a simple but powerful process for resolving conflict, uncovering root issues, and building a marriage grounded in truth, transparency, and God’s promises.Listener question: It's been 3 years since I found out about my husband's emotional affair and he has never admitted to the full extent. He also refuses counseling and to discuss my questions anymore. He says he wants to move forward but not in the way that I would like. I need full transparency and truth and loyalty. I can't live a fake life. I have been very close in my relationship with Christ where he has not and I am trying to follow God's word in my marriage. I am asking for guidance.Learn more about Marriage Intensives: https://xomarriage.comGod's Promises for Your Marriage by Randy & Debbie StromanFrom Pain to Paradise by Karen Evans__________ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

42 min
May 11, 2026
The Lies Shame Tells Us with Joshua Broome

Joshua Broome shares how shame, pornography, and a hidden past once defined his life and how God transformed his life and marriage. Listener question: My husband and I are pastors of a church. What advice do you have for making sure we protect our marriage while doing ministry? And how do we best make marriage a priority for our church? __________ Purchase Joshua's latest book here: https://a.co/d/08ZiTOoM Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1 min
May 8, 2026
Saying YES to Everything is Destroying Your Marriage | Marriage Minute

Is your schedule secretly sabotaging your marriage? Every time you say YES to something, you're saying NO to your family. In this Marriage Minute, Joshua Broome unpacks how unchecked priorities create disorder — and how disorder leads to dysfunction and eventually destruction. YES is not neutral. If your relationships feel off, it might be time to check the hierarchy of your life. 🎧 Hear the full episode — tune in Monday on the Naked Marriage Podcast. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

36 min
May 4, 2026
From Addiction to Redemption with Eric Kennedy

No story is too broken for redemption. Eric Kennedy shares how recovery, faith, and community transformed his life. Listener question: My wife and I have been married going on 5 years and we have two daughters, one is my 14 yr old stepdaughter and the other is our 3 yr old. We both come from broken homes, and my wife has dealt with sexual and physical abuse from many men since childhood. Some of that past pain she takes out on me in various ways. Divorce is not in my vocabulary, but over time it’s become more of an option. But I am determined to honor God first in my commitment to Him and our marriage, even though she dishes it out pretty hard. What do I do? Learn more about Recovery Vow at: https://www.recoveryvow.com/ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
May 1, 2026
Healing Together: How Trauma Affects Your Marriage | Marriage Minute

Every person carries wounds — and if left unaddressed, those wounds will show up in your marriage. In this Marriage Minute, Dave and Ashley Willis break down how past trauma silently damages even the strongest relationships, why we unconsciously push away the people who love us most, and what it takes to break the cycle. Whether you're dealing with childhood trauma, emotional baggage, trust issues, or communication breakdown in your marriage, this episode speaks directly to the heart of what so many couples are quietly struggling with. Dave and Ashley also dive into the powerful biblical story of Hosea — a timeless picture of unconditional love, pursuing a spouse who keeps pulling away, and how God's relentless love for us mirrors what healthy, grace-filled marriage can look like. If you're searching for Christian marriage advice, marriage healing, or how to support a spouse with trauma, this short episode is the perfect place to start. Join us every Monday for full-length episodes packed with real, practical marriage help. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31 min
Apr 27, 2026
What Will Your Marriage Be Known For?

Every marriage is shaping a legacy, whether we realize it or not. Listener question: My husband and I seem to have trouble with compromising. This may seem trivial but it really does have an affect on both of us. I always like to have all of the blinds and curtains in our home open during the day and he likes to have them all shut except maybe one window letting in a little bit of light. I feel like I need the natural light to feel more energized and happy, I suffer from depression and anxiety and being in a dark environment doesn't help. He says that he is compromising by having blinds on one window partially open. He feels that I just want things my way. Do you have any advice for us? Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Apr 24, 2026
Marriage Minute: Legacy Has Nothing to Do With Money

A school lunch lady with very little changed generations — just through her faith and love. Your marriage is leaving a mark on the future right now. Make it count. Come back Monday for the full episode! We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

38 min
Apr 20, 2026
How Trust Can Be Rebuilt

When trust is broken, it can feel like everything in the marriage has been shaken, but healing is still possible. Listener question: What do you do if your spouse doesn't want counseling? My husband talks to me harshly sometimes and I feel I need to walk on eggshells. My 2 year old pics up on it and even told his dad to get out of the room this morning. I bring up counseling and he says no. I tell him I don't want to be talked to like this but I don't see a path forward. Looking back, I can see the red flags in our dating life. But I made the choice to marry him and I do love and care about him. Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1 min
Apr 17, 2026
Marriage Minute: Forgiveness Is Free. Trust Isn't.

These two things are NOT the same — and confusing them could be hurting your marriage. 💔 Forgiveness is a gift you give freely, just as God gives us grace at our worst. But trust? That has to be earned through consistent action over time. In this week's Marriage Minute, Dave & Ashley Willis break down one of the most misunderstood concepts in marriage. Tune in for this quick dose of truth, then come back Monday for the full episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast! We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

45 min
Apr 15, 2026
Inviting God into Your Marriage (and Arguments) with Josh & Johanna Chumley

Living out your faith in marriage isn’t always comfortable. Josh and Johanna Chumley, Pastors of DREAMarriage, explore what it looks like to invite God into real moments, walk in humility, address hidden struggles, and keep an eternal perspective in the middle of everyday challenges. Listener question: My spouse says it’s the ‘little things’ that matter most, but I honestly don’t know what that looks like in real life. What are some small habits that actually make a big difference in marriage? Learn more about the Unstoppable Us Marriage Conference: https://www.dreamcitychurch.us/locations/phoenix-az/ministries/marriage-family/conference/ Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31 min
Apr 13, 2026
The Friendship Side of a Naked Marriage

Many couples focus on romance but slowly lose the friendship that brought them together. Friendship may be the key to transforming your marriage. Listener question: How can you encourage (in a loving way) your spouse to take more initiative in romance and sex? I feel like I'm always the one planning dates, giving romantic surprises, initiating intimacy, and in general looking for ways to draw closer together, even saying sorry first after a fight. Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Apr 10, 2026
Marriage Minute: Are You & Your Spouse Actually Best Friends?

Friendship and romance in marriage are like two wings on the same bird — you need both to soar! In this week's Marriage Minute, Dave Willis shares why friendship is one of the most overlooked yet critically important parts of a lasting marriage. If you've ever seen a couple married 50+ years still laughing and holding hands, you're looking at best friends. Tune in for this quick dose of encouragement, then come back Monday for the full episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

32 min
Apr 6, 2026
Why Your Marriage Needs Shared Faith

A naked marriage is strengthened when both spouses submit to something greater than themselves. Listener question: My best friend is married but she's flirting all the time with a guy she works with. I think she's in the danger zone of having an affair. How can I intervene? Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Apr 3, 2026
Marriage Minute: Faith is a Team Sport

Marriage was never meant to be lived alone — and neither was faith. In this week's Marriage Minute, Dave Willis reminds us that the Christian life is built on community: encouraging one another, praying for one another, and doing life together. And it all starts with you and your spouse. Tune in for this quick dose of encouragement, then come back Monday for the full episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast! Learn more at http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

39 min
Mar 30, 2026
Carrying Each Other's Burdens

Being strong for your spouse doesn't mean saving them. It means standing beside them through everything. Listener question: My wife neve wants to do anything around the house. I'm the one who makes all the income and I feel like she expects me to do most of the housework too. I feel like I don't have a partner. What do I do? Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

36 min
Mar 23, 2026
How to Get on the Same Page About Money

Financial unity is about shared access, shared decisions, and shared responsibility. Listener question: We are saving money for a house and living temporarily with my parents. My husband hates this living arrangement and it's starting to take a toll on our marriage. What should we do? Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

38 min
Mar 16, 2026
Talking About Sex Without Shame

A naked marriage leaves no topic off-limits, including sex and desire. Listener question: My wife never wants to have sex. She says she doesn't need it. Can a sexless marriage survive? What can I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Order Dave & Ashley's book, The Counterfeit Climax: https://a.co/d/09PS3KOF Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

34 min
Mar 9, 2026
When Family Dynamics Test Your Marriage

Family relationships can be a blessing, but they can also quietly strain a marriage. Listener question: My husband has a fetish and only wants to make love if I'm wearing certain items. What should I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. ‍ Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. ‍ The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

34 min
Mar 2, 2026
Why Communication Breaks Down in Marriage

Many couples want the same things but don't know how to communicate it without creating distance. Listener question: I'm feeling attracted to one of my husband's friends. I hate that I have this attraction. What should I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Learn more about Dave & Ashley at http://daveandashley.com ---- Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. ‍ The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

32 min
Feb 23, 2026
What a Naked Marriage Really Means

It's not about changing your spouse but about choosing honesty, humility, and care that helps each of you be at your best. Listener question: My husband has been having an affair and still reaches out to the other woman. What do I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

38 min
Feb 18, 2026
I Thought I Married the Wrong Person with Jimmy Evans

Dave and Ashley are joined by XO Marriage founder Jimmy Evans, who shares his own story of believing he married the wrong person and what ultimately changed his marriage. Listener question: My wife's brother is always asking us for money... Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 min
Feb 16, 2026
A New Season for The Naked Marriage

In this relaunch episode, Dave and Ashley share what's ahead for the podcast and the vision for this new season. Listener question: My wife is obsessed with our kids...how can I get my wife back? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 min
Feb 9, 2026
WE ARE BACK!

The Naked Marriage Podcast returns with NEW episodes on Monday, February 16! The Naked Marriage invites couples to uncover God’s design for lifelong love. Through honest, faith-centered conversations, hosts Dave and Ashley Willis talk openly about challenges couples often face but rarely talk about. With wisdom, vulnerability, and humor, they offer fresh perspectives and practical ways to build a deeply connected marriage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 min
Dec 18, 2024
I Don't Like the People My Spouse Is Following on Social Media // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!!--------------Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

32 min
Dec 16, 2024
When Joy and Sorrow Collide

Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we’re opening up about a topic that touches so many hearts—dealing with grief during the holidays. Christmas can bring a mix of joy and sorrow, and we’re talking about how to honor those feelings while leaning on your marriage for support. From navigating your unique grieving processes to creating new traditions that bring healing, we’ll share personal stories and practical tips to help you stay connected and find hope this season.-----------Chapters00:00 Introduction to Grief During the Holidays03:00 Understanding Individual Grief Responses05:52 Supporting Each Other Through Loss10:06 The Importance of Professional Help12:50 Creating New Traditions16:08 Finding Joy Amidst Grief20:10 Celebrating Life and Memories23:54 Prayer and Reflection26:13 Q&A: Balancing Transparency and Surprise Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 min
Dec 11, 2024
Addressing boredom in marriage // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!!--------------Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28 min
Dec 9, 2024
Why Marriage Matters: Building Love That Lasts

Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into why marriage is more than just a relationship—it’s a reflection of love, trust, and unity. We’ll talk about the real benefits of a committed marriage, from building deeper intimacy to creating a strong foundation for family. We also tackle common struggles like anxiety in relationships and how to keep your connection thriving, even in tough times. Whether you’re navigating challenges or looking to strengthen your bond, this episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt encouragement.-----------------Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast01:25 The Importance of Marriage: Why Get Married?08:20 The Security and Commitment in Marriage14:00 Marriage as a Reflection of Divine Love19:49 Navigating Challenges in Marriage22:10 Q&A: Addressing Intimacy and Anxiety in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 min
Dec 4, 2024
Why Don't You Talk About Mutual Orgasm? // Humpday Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!!--------------Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 min
Dec 2, 2024
10 Truths to Strengthen Intimacy in Marriage

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into the second part of our conversation about the ten things sex is not in marriage. We’ll unpack why guilt should never be the driving force in intimacy, how to navigate tricky in-law dynamics without letting them impact your connection, and why open communication about your needs and desires is the real key to satisfaction. Marriage is about more than just physical intimacy—it’s about building a bond that’s honest, loving, and life-giving. Join us as we explore what it means to prioritize a healthy perspective on sex and how to keep intimacy thriving in every season of marriage.--------Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast03:02 Understanding Boring Sex05:54 The Importance of Mutual Satisfaction09:11 Navigating Guilt in Sexual Relationships12:03 Self-Focus vs. Mutual Enjoyment14:51 The Duty of Sex in Marriage18:06 Addressing In-Law Dynamics in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 min
Nov 25, 2024
5 Myths About Married Sex That Might Surprise You

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into a conversation about what married sex isn’t—and we promise it’s a game-changer. We’ll unpack five truths about intimacy, from why sex should never feel forced or used as a bargaining chip, to tackling the discomfort or dread that can sometimes sneak into the bedroom. We’re keeping it real with a Q&A on navigating different sex drives in marriage, giving you practical advice to create a more open, honest, and connected intimate life. Let’s grow stronger together!-----Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast01:56 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex03:23 Sex Should Not Be Forced06:40 Sex Is Not a Bargaining Tool09:28 Sex Should Not Be Painful12:43 Sex Should Not Be Dreaded16:40 Sex Should Not Be Uncomfortable19:29 Q&A: Navigating Different Sex Drives Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 min
Nov 20, 2024
balancing family time and intimacy // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!!--------------Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices