Marriage After God

In this week’s episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith continue their 30-week marriage devotional series by exploring what it means to truly abide in Christ. After discussing hiding from God in the previous episode, this conversation shifts toward the beauty of intimacy with God—remaining close to Him, drawing strength from Him, and allowing His Spirit to transform our lives and marriages. Key TakeawaysAbiding in Christ means remaining close to Him and drawing life from Him.God’s Word nourishes, strengthens, and transforms our hearts and marriages.Prayer cultivates intimacy and communion with God.The Holy Spirit empowers believers to walk in obedience and love.Loving others is evidence of abiding in Christ.Healthy marriages overflow from healthy relationships with God.Parents are called to faithfully teach their children God’s Word and ways.Sanctification involves surrender, repentance, and trusting God’s pruning process.Scripture references discussedJohn 15:1–12Psalm 119:1–8Matthew 6:19–21Luke 6:43–45Proverbs 22:6Matthew 7:7–8Hebrews 11:6Hebrews 12:1–2Acts 1:8Galatians 5:16–182 Peter 1:3Romans 8:10–17If you’ve been encouraged by this series, please share it with a friend or another married couple!Like and subscribe to catch the remaining episodes.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026

In week 26 of the Marriage After God devotional series, Aaron and Jennifer tackle the hard truth: we all sin, and the natural impulse is to hide. This episode unpacks what it means to acknowledge sin, respond with repentance, and pursue restoration in marriage and faith. Drawing from Scripture (James 4:17; Romans 14:23; Genesis 3:6–11; Ephesians 5), they discuss the roots of hiding, the pull of shame, and the life-giving path of confession, accountability, and walking in the Spirit.Key TakeawaysSin is universal: we all fall short and the Bible teaches a clear standard for sin.Hiding vs. repentance: the natural instinct to hide is common, but God calls us toward repentance and reconciliation.Practical response: acknowledge sin, repent humbly, seek restoration with your spouse, and rely on the Holy Spirit rather than self-justification.Genesis 3 reminder: Adam and Eve hid after sin, but God pursued them and restoration began with honest confession.Guardrails for marriage: use accountability, grace, and ongoing conversation to safeguard your relationship from repeated sin.Scripture references discussedJames 4:17Romans 14:23bGenesis 3:6–11Ephesians 5 (context for how we love and walk with each other)Who this episode is forMarried couples navigating temptation, sin, and relational tension.Believers seeking practical steps to confess, repent, and restore intimacy with God and spouse.Listeners wanting a biblically grounded framework for handling sin in marriage.If you’ve been encouraged by this series, share it with a friend or another married couple.Like and subscribe to catch the remaining episodes.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God <a href="https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/" rel="nofo

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we explore how God’s design brings order to every sphere—creation, institutions, church, and specifically marriage. We discuss how without order life becomes chaotic, how even the smallest parts of life reveal a coordinated design, and why aligning with God’s order leads to fruitfulness and peace in the home.Key PointsGod is a God of order: order = design and purpose, from cells to creation to marriage.Order in creation: Genesis 1–2 shows day-by-day structure; God declares His creation “good.”Evidence of a Creator: the intricate, interdependent parts of systems (e.g., a cell’s parts like nucleus, ribosomes, mitochondria) rely on each other to function.Order in church and home: 1 Corinthians 14:40 emphasizes decency and order in gathering; diverse gifts function together for a common purpose.Practical impact on marriage: aligning with God’s order reduces chaos, brings peace, and increases fruitfulness in the home.Humble posture before God’s ways: Isaiah 55:8–11 reminds us that God’s thoughts and ways are higher; trust and surrender to His design for marriage and life.Scripture References1 Corinthians 14:40 – “All things should be done decently and in order.”Genesis 1–2 – Creation order and purpose.Colossians 1:16–17 – Creation through Him and for Him; He holds all things together.Isaiah 55:8–11 – God’s thoughts and ways are higher than ours.Practical TakeawaysSeek God’s order in daily marriage life: roles, responsibilities, and communication should reflect His design.When chaos arises, pause, align with Scripture, and pursue orderly practices that uplift one another.Use creation as a faith-revealing reflection: order points to a purposeful Creator and a purposeful marriage.If you’ve been encouraged by this series, share it with a friend or another married couple.Like and subscribe to catch the remaining episodes.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagr

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron chats with Joshua Becker, author of Uncluttered Faith, founder of Becoming Minimalist, speaker, and longtime advocate for living with less in order to live more. Based in Peoria, Arizona; 26-year marriage; two adult children.They explore how owning less can deepen your faith, strengthen your marriage, and free up time, energy, and resources for what matters most—family, faith, and shared purpose. They also discuss the real-world realities of minimalism in marriage, practical compromises, and how technology and consumer culture influence our everyday choices.Key TakeawaysHow Joshua Becker’s personal journey led to a minimalist lifestyle and a faith-centered approach to possessions.How minimalism can strengthen marriages by aligning values and freeing up time for what truly matters.Strategies for couples to tackle decluttering together without resentment or conflict.The cultural factors behind rising consumerism and practical steps to resist overconsumption.00:00: Introduction and Joshua’s perspective on happiness, meaning, and possessions00:20: Podcast purpose and Joshua Becker’s background02:00: Joshua’s bio and family03:33: How minimalism started for Joshua; blog origin04:36: Marriage and shared values; navigating differences06:08: Realities of marriage when pursuing minimalism07:56: Why minimalism is gaining traction in society09:21: Broader economic and cultural factors fueling minimalism10:21: The debt landscape and its relation to consumerismIf you enjoyed the episode, please subscribe, leave a rating, and share with a spouse or friend who might benefit from a more intentional, faith-centered approach to possessions.Connect with Joshua Becker:Uncluttered FaithBecoming MinimalistYoutubeFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband RevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop<s

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we dive into the critical role of unity in marriage and how that unity extends to the body of Christ. Learn how being unified helps you use your gifts to spread the gospel and do God’s work together.We dive into what makes up a godly marriage and explore how the husband and wife are distinct parts that together form one body, grounded in biblical imagery from 1 Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 5. Listen as we discuss how individuality and unity collaborate to create a thriving, covenantal relationship where we sacrificially lay down our own interests for the good of the marriage and the body of Christ.Key PointsBody metaphor for marriage: many parts, one body; each partner matters (1 Corinthians 12).Individuality within unity: each spouse brings unique gifts, backgrounds, and preferences that strengthen the union.One flesh: marriage is a single unit—care for each other as you care for yourself.Roles in marriage: husbands as spiritual leaders and protectors; wives as supportive partners who strengthen the home and faith.Daily commitment to unity: choosing to lay down personal interests for the other and for the marriage.Scripture References1 Corinthians 12: many parts, one bodyEphesians 5: husband’s love, leadership, and unity in marriagePractical TakeawaysReflect on how our marriage functions as a team with complementary roles.Identify one concrete way we can demonstrate sacrificial love today.Have a short, honest check-in about “our parts” and how we can better support each other’s God-given roles.If you’ve been encouraged by this series, please share it with a friend or another married couple! Also:Like and subscribe to catch the remaining episodes.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: parts of marriage, husband and wife roles, marriage unity, one fle

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we dive into the critical role of unity in marriage and how that unity extends to the body of Christ. Learn how being unified helps you use your gifts to spread the gospel and do God’s work together.Key Points:Unity vs. isolation: why oneness is God’s design and how isolation harms marriages.Signs of being disconnected and how to recognize them in your relationship.Scriptural foundations: Proverbs 18:1 and 1 Peter 5:8–9 on isolation, vigilance, and spiritual warfare.The power of accountability and church/community support in strengthening marriage.The relationship between personal sin, shame, and isolation—and how confession and prayer lead to healing.How unity in marriage empowers you to steward your gifts and advance God’s mission together.Practical Takeaways:If you’re feeling distant from your spouse, take proactive steps to re-engage with each other and your faith community.Consider joining a marriage group or church Bible study to regain connection, accountability, and support.Bible references: Proverbs 18:1; 1 Peter 5:8–9Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: marriage unity, unity in marriage, biblical unity, marriage devotional, isolation in marriage, Christian community, body of Christ, accountability partners, marriage group, spiritual warfare, Proverbs 18.1, 1 Peter 5:8, Husband After God, Wife After God, prayer in marriage, gospel-centered marriage, gifts of the Spirit

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss the vital practice of daily prayer for your marriage. We explain how prayer aligns hearts with God, strengthens unity between spouses, and equips couples to recognize and respond to spiritual warfare. Key PointsDaily prayer as a non-negotiable foundation for a thriving marriagePrayer as alignment with God’s will, not a means to control outcomesThe power of praying together to build unity and onenessEcclesiastes 4:12: the threefold cord of spouse, self, and GodSpiritual warfare: recognizing unseen battles and relying on God’s presence2 Kings 6:17— opening eyes to see the spiritual reality around usPractical encouragement to use devotionals for deeper study, journaling, and spouse-focused promptsBible Verses MentionedEcclesiastes 4:122 Kings 6:15-17 (story of Elisha and the servant’s eyes opened)Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords:

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss the impact of praying for your spouse, highlighting how deliberate prayer fosters intimacy, unity, and spiritual growth within marriage. We share practical tips for starting and deepening a joint prayer life, anchored in biblical principles and personal experiences.What we cover in this episode-Praying for your spouse benefits both individuals and the marriage as a whole.Initiating prayer with your spouse can be simple and impactful, such as asking, “How can I pray for you?”Praying together fosters vulnerability, trust, and emotional intimacy.Biblical scriptures emphasize the spiritual unity and oneness in marriage.Prayer is a spiritual discipline that realigns hearts and strengthens bonds.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: marriage, prayer, intimacy, spiritual growth, unity, biblical principles, marriage devotionals, praying for spouse, spiritual leadership, vulnerability

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with Casey and Meygan Caston, the husband-and-wife team of Marriage365, who are passionate about helping couples build Christ-centered marriages that overflow into strong families and healthy communities. Through their own journey of learning to love with greater patience, intentionality, and emotional awareness, they have developed a heart for encouraging couples to prioritize their relationship at home. In this episode, they talk about the biblical foundation of love and how it begins in the most important place — our homes.Together, we explore Jesus’ teaching on the two greatest commandments: to love God and to love others. But what does that look like practically? The conversation unpacks how loving your spouse well is the first and most important opportunity to live out that command.In this episode we discuss how-Loving your spouse is your first and daily opportunity to love others well.Patience and kindness inside the home shape the emotional health of your family.Children learn what love looks like by watching their parents’ relationship.Genuine love requires intentionality, humility, and reliance on God.Scripture MentionedMatthew 22:37–39 — The two greatest commandments1 Corinthians 13:4–7 — Love is patient, love is kindJohn 13:35 — “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”Connect with Casey and Meygan:Marriage365 WebsiteThe Marriage HabitFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband RevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop Marriage After GodBecome a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: love, patience, marriage, parenting, relationships, kindness, emotional intelligence, Christian marriage, biblical love, family discipleship

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the vital habit of praying for yourself and why it matters as much as praying for others. Jesus models daily dependence on the Father, so how much more should we? Learn what it means to pray without ceasing, and gain practical steps to deepen your own prayer life with guidance from the Holy Spirit.What we cover in this episode-The biblical basis for prayer and its importanceJesus' example of prayer and dependence on the FatherThe concept of praying without ceasing and practical applicationThe significance of praying for oneself and othersThe role of the Holy Spirit in guiding and interceding in prayerJoin in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: prayer, spiritual discipline, relationship with God, Jesus' example, praying for yourself, Holy Spirit, prayer life, biblical prayer, spiritual growth, intimacy with God

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we explore God’s calling on our lives and marriages. We talk about how every believer has a purpose — no matter their background, status, or past. Calling isn’t just about career or ministry; it’s about who God has called us to be.We unpack the biblical meaning of calling, what it means to live holy and set apart, and how love and obedience are central to fulfilling God’s will. When we understand that our first calling is to Christ, it transforms how we show up in our marriage, our home, and our daily lives.What we cover in this episode-What “calling” means from a biblical perspectiveWhy holiness and being set apart matters in marriageLove as a foundational calling for every believerObedience and humility in responding to God’s directionBiblical examples of men and women called by GodPractical ways to live out your calling within your marriageJoin in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: God’s calling, marriage, purpose, holiness, love, obedience, Christian life, spiritual growth, biblical principles

In this episode of the Marriage After God Podcast, we talk about what it truly means to build a resilient marriage. Every couple faces trials, pressure, and seasons of weakness — but those moments don’t have to tear a relationship apart.Instead, when we anchor our marriage in Christ, choose encouragement over criticism, and take responsibility for our words, trials can actually strengthen our relationship. We discuss how faith in Jesus provides the endurance we need, how the Holy Spirit empowers us when we feel depleted, and why the way we speak to one another has a lasting impact on intimacy and unity.What we cover in this episode-Why every marriage will experience trials and pressureHow faith in Christ produces endurance and spiritual resilienceThe role of the Holy Spirit in our weakest momentsThe power of encouragement in strengthening your spouseHow careless words can damage connection and trustWhy perspective changes how we respond to challengesThe importance of communication during difficult seasonsJoin in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: resilient marriage, Christian marriage encouragement, trials in marriage, faith in marriage, power of words, marriage devotional, overcoming challenges together, spiritual resilience, biblical marriage advice

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we unpack the vital role wisdom plays in marriage and everyday life. We discuss how wisdom is not merely knowing what is right, but faithfully applying God’s truth in our decisions, attitudes, and actions. This episode encourages couples to seek the Lord for wisdom in every area of life and marriage, trusting that God’s guidance leads to unity, stability, and lasting fruit.In this episode-Wisdom is a defining attribute of God and a gift He desires to give.The fear of the Lord is the foundation of true wisdom.Foolishness is knowing the truth but failing to act on it.Wisdom requires application, not just information.Godly wisdom strengthens marriage and builds trust.Walking in wisdom promotes emotional stability and peace.Wisdom impacts practical areas like finances and decision-making.Applying God’s wisdom fosters deeper intimacy in marriage.Seeking wisdom begins with prayer and humble obedience.Godly wisdom is essential for leading a family well.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: wisdom, marriage, godly wisdom, worldly wisdom, biblical principles, applying wisdom, trust, intimacy, financial stewardship, emotional stability

In this episode of the Marriage After God Podcast, we discuss God’s design for marriage and the biblical roles of husbands and wives outlined in Ephesians 5. We talk about how love and submission aren’t about control or hierarchy, but about trust, humility, and serving one another the way Christ serves us.Husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, and wives are called to respect and submit to their husbands. When both spouses walk in obedience to God’s design, marriage becomes a place of safety, unity, and deeper intimacy. We pray this episode is an encouragement for living out these roles daily and reminds you that love is more than a feeling — it’s a choice we make every day.In this episode-God clearly defines the roles of husbands and wives in ScriptureLove is an action and a daily choice — not just an emotionWives are called to submit to their own husbands as an act of trust in GodHusbands are commanded to love sacrificially like Christ loves the ChurchSubmission is a posture of the heart, not weaknessLeadership in marriage looks like service and selflessnessHealthy communication helps couples live out their roles wellMutual respect strengthens connection and trustObedience to God’s design leads to greater security and intimacySmall, practical acts of love build a thriving marriageJoin in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: marriage, biblical marriage roles, husband leadership, wife submission, Ephesians 5 marriage, Christian marriage, sacrificial love, respect, intimacy, marriage devotionals

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with J. Parker to talk about a topic many couples struggle to discuss openly — sex and intimacy in marriage. J. shares how she began writing anonymously about sexual intimacy in Christian marriage after realizing there were very few safe, honest resources for couples wrestling with mismatched sex drives and unspoken frustration.Together, we explore how intimacy is deeply connected to the overall health of a marriage, why communication is essential in navigating sexual challenges, and how humor and honesty can help break the shame and taboo surrounding these conversations. This conversation offers encouragement, perspective, and practical hope for couples seeking greater connection in their marriage.In this episode we discuss–Open conversation about sex is vital for healthy marital intimacy.Intimacy in marriage is connected to emotional and relational health.Sex is a spiritual act designed to reflect God’s covenant love.Couples must approach sexual challenges as teammates, not adversaries.God cares about every aspect of your marriage — including intimacy.Connect with J Parker:The Higher Desire WifeFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband RevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop Marriage After GodBecome a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: marriage, intimacy, sex, communication, higher desire wife, Christian marriage, sexual health, pornography, marriage resources, personal testimony

In today’s episode of the Marriage Devotional series, we talk about anger and fear and how they impact marriage. We discuss how feelings of disrespect can trigger anger and explain why unchecked emotions can lead to destructive patterns in relationships. We also examine how fear often fuels anger and disrupts communication, encouraging couples to recognize emotional triggers, practice self-control, and seek God’s guidance in navigating their responses.In this episode-Unchecked anger and fear can damage marriage.Self-control is key to responding wisely.God models righteous anger paired with mercy.Identifying emotional triggers helps change reactions.Fear often fuels anger and affects communication.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: marriage, anger, fear, emotional health, self-control, biblical perspective, communication, devotional, personal growth

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about why forgiveness is essential to a thriving marriage. We explore what biblical forgiveness really is — and what it isn’t — and why withholding forgiveness quietly builds walls between spouses. We share how humility, repentance, and grace work together to bring healing and restore intimacy. Our hope is to encourage every couple to practice forgiveness as a daily reflection of God’s mercy toward us.In this episode-Forgiveness is vital for a healthy, lasting marriage.Forgiveness does not excuse sin — it releases the debt.God’s grace empowers us to forgive what feels impossible.Humility and repentance open the door to reconciliation.Withholding forgiveness creates distance and division.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: forgiveness, marriage, reconciliation, grace, biblical teaching, communication, humility, healing, intimacy, spiritual growth

Today our devotional episode explores how pride damages marriages by fueling defensiveness, distance, and conflict. We look at what Scripture says about pride, how it shows up in everyday interactions, and why humility is essential for restoring intimacy and unity.In this episode-Pride creates distance and conflict in marriage.Defensiveness and control are signs of pride at work.Scripture calls us to humility over self-exaltation.Humility opens the door to healing and connection.The Holy Spirit helps us recognize and overcome pride.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: pride in marriage, humility, Christian marriage, conflict, intimacy, reconciliation, selflessness, spiritual growth, marriage podcast, biblical marriage

In this episode, we talk about the importance of putting on the armor of God and how it impacts our daily lives and marriages. Scripture reminds us that our battle is not against each other, but against spiritual forces of darkness, which means we need God’s strength, His truth, and His righteousness to stand firm.We walk through several pieces of the armor—like the belt of truth, breastplate of righteousness, and the shoes of the gospel of peace—and discuss what they practically look like in a Christian marriage. When we anchor ourselves in truth, guard our hearts with righteousness, and cling to the peace that comes from the gospel, we are better equipped to resist temptation, overcome fear, and cultivate unity in our relationship.Our hope is to remind couples that God has already given us everything we need to stand strong—we simply need to put it on daily.In this episode-The armor of God is essential for spiritual protection in marriage.Each piece has a purpose—and understanding that purpose helps us stand firm.We must rely on God’s strength, not our own.Truth fosters unity, vulnerability, and trust in marriage.Putting on God’s armor daily helps us build a Christ-centered marriage.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: God’s economy, marriage, finances, generosity, stewardship, trust in God, biblical money, financial unity

In this episode Aaron sits down with marriage expert Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, to talk about the heart behind lasting marriages—and why love must be expressed with humility, grace, and the attitude of Christ.Drawing from over 60 years of marriage, decades of pastoral counseling, and the lessons that shaped his life’s work, Dr. Chapman shares how early conflict in his own marriage led him to a transformative encounter with God that forever changed the way he loved his wife. Together, Aaron and Gary explore how love languages can heal—or harm—when used incorrectly, and why serving your spouse must always come before trying to change them.This episode also introduces Dr. Chapman’s newest book, The Love Language That Matters Most, which goes deeper into the dialects of love languages, personality differences, and the dangers of using love as manipulation instead of sacrifice.In this episode we discuss–Long-term marriage faithfulnessBiblical foundations for loving your spouseServant leadership in marriageAvoiding manipulation through love languagesWhy humility changes everything in relationshipsConnect with Gary Chapman:Love Language AssessmentThe Love Language That Matters MostFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband RevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop Marriage After GodBecome a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, love languages, Christian marriage, Gary Chapman, Five Love Languages, servant leadership, biblical marriage, communication in marriage, humility, forgiveness, grace, conflict resolution, emotional intimacy, marriage advice, Christian

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about what it means to live according to God’s economy in our marriage. Money is one of the most common areas of tension for couples, yet Scripture calls us to approach our finances with trust, generosity, and open hands.We share personal experiences of walking through financial uncertainty and how God used those seasons to shift our perspective. Instead of holding tightly to what we had, we learned to trust God as our provider and see generosity as an act of faith. God’s economy doesn’t always align with the world’s expectations, but it consistently leads to freedom and joy.When couples commit to a shared, biblical view of money, finances become less about control and more about stewardship. Trusting God together with our resources strengthens unity in marriage and reminds us that everything we have ultimately belongs to Him.In this episode-God’s economy calls us to trust Him rather than rely on money.Finances can create tension in marriage without a shared biblical perspective.Holding money with open hands reflects faith and surrender to God.Generosity brings joy and deepens trust in God’s provision.Stewardship begins with recognizing that all we have belongs to God.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: God’s economy, marriage, finances, generosity, stewardship, trust in God, biblical money, financial unity

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with Pastor Craig Thompson to talk honestly about the tension and blessing of balancing ministry with marriage and family. Together they explore the reality of spiritual warfare in the home, the importance of staying grounded in a healthy church community, and the daily choices that shape the spiritual health of a family.Craig shares from his own experience as a pastor, husband, and father—highlighting the need for intentionality, grace, and constant reliance on the Holy Spirit. Their conversation encourages couples to prioritize their marriage, invest in their children, and stay rooted in biblical community as they navigate the trials that come with Christian living.In this episode–Balancing ministry and family requires humility, intentionality, and grace.Pastors—and all parents—must prioritize their families while faithfully serving others.Spiritual warfare is real and active in everyday family life.Forgiveness, grace, and repentance are essential for healthy relationships.Strong community support fuels spiritual growth and resilience.Small, daily acts of faithfulness build long-term family health.Children thrive when they see their parents put family first.Being plugged into a healthy church strengthens marriages and family dynamics.Discipleship flourishes within the context of committed community.The ongoing battle against our flesh is part of following Christ and pursuing holiness.Connect with Craig Thompson:WebsiteFighting for Your Family Christmas DevotionalFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband RevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop Marriage After GodBecome a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, family, spiritual warfare, parenting, church, community, forgiveness, pastoral duties, family dynamics, Christian living

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we dive into the reality of conflict in marriage and the deeper spiritual layers behind the tension we often feel. We share how easy it can be to see each other as the enemy, when Scripture reminds us that the real battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces and the desires of our own flesh.We talk about the tactics of deception and accusation that can creep into our hearts, pulling us away from unity. We also explore how humility, love, and intentional communication help us fight fair and stay connected even in the hardest moments.In this episode-Conflict in marriage is normal—and Scripture offers guidance for handling it well.We must remember who the real enemy is and refuse to fight against each other.Spiritual warfare often plays out in our closest relationships.Deception and lies can fuel conflict if we don’t recognize them.Accusations tear down unity.Unity requires humility, intentionality, and a softened heart.Our posture and body language can reveal more than our words during conflict.Practical, biblical tools help couples navigate disagreements with grace.Prayer disarms conflict and invites the Holy Spirit into the moment.Fighting the good fight together strengthens and protects the marriage.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, conflict resolution, spiritual warfare, unity, communication, fighting fair, biblical principles, relationship advice, love, understanding

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about how much our conduct shapes the culture of our marriage. We share how the way we speak, respond, and show love reveals what we truly believe about God—and how it impacts the emotional and spiritual climate of our home.We discuss the husband’s role in protecting and caring for his wife and family, and how a wife’s conduct can strengthen and encourage her husband’s faith. As we reflect on Scripture and our own experiences, we encourage couples to stay rooted in prayer, lean on the Holy Spirit, and commit to living out love every day.In this episode–Our conduct in marriage flows from our beliefs about God.Husbands are called to protect their wives and families.How we view ourselves shapes how we love each other.A wife’s conduct can influence her husband’s walk with God.Emotional and spiritual protection matter deeply.Conduct builds trust and intimacy over time.Staying close to God keeps us close to each other.Prayer strengthens both husband and wife.We shouldn’t grow weary in doing good for our spouse.The Holy Spirit guides how we treat one another.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, conduct, husband, wife, protection, emotional support, spiritual growth, devotionals, relationship advice, prayer

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the truth that Christ alone deserves the throne in our lives. The conversation challenges all of us to lay down anything we’ve elevated above Him and to find our worth, value, and identity solely in who He is. When we honor Christ as our ultimate authority, we experience the fullness, purpose, and freedom found only in Him.In this episode–Christ does not want to share any throne in your life.We are called to seek our worthiness and value in Christ alone.All honor and glory belong to Christ and Christ only.Placing anything above Jesus diminishes His rightful authority.True value is found in a relationship with Him.Christ deserves our full devotion and undivided heart.Searching for worth outside of Him always leads to emptiness.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025KeywordsChrist, authority, worthiness, value, honor, glory, identity, devotion

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss God’s holiness, the process of Him refining us, and how marriage provides the context for Him to continue that sanctification in our lives. We share how difficult seasons often reveal what’s hidden beneath the surface—exposing impurities, refining character, and drawing us closer to God. Through the work of the Holy Spirit, husbands and wives can experience deep personal growth, greater unity, and more authentic love. We hope this episode is a reminder of the importance of forgiveness, reconciliation, and recognizing how God can use trials to strengthen and mature a marriage over time.In this episode–Trials in marriage reveal what lies beneath the surface.Just as fire brings impurities of gold to the top, challenges expose the sin in our hearts.The Holy Spirit is faithful to refine us and scrape away what doesn’t belong.We are better today than we were years ago.We’ve become quicker to forgive and quicker to reconcile.Our love grows deeper with each passing year.Marriage is always moving toward something greater.Trials refine our character and strengthen our marital bond.Love matures through challenges, forgiveness, and the work of the Holy Spirit.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywordsmarriage, growth, forgiveness, trials, love, Holy Spirit, reconciliation, personal development

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the meaning and significance of reconciliation in marriage. We discuss how sin creates distance in relationships and how forgiveness and reconciliation work together to restore unity and intimacy. Through biblical insights, practical encouragement, and personal experiences we hope to help couples pursue healing, trust, and oneness in their marriage.In this episode–Reconciliation is essential for unity and intimacy in marriage.Understanding what reconciliation truly means helps us apply it in our relationships.Sin creates relational separation that must be addressed with humility and truth.Forgiveness is necessary for reconciliation, but forgiveness alone doesn’t always restore closeness.God calls believers to be ambassadors of reconciliation in their marriages.Open and honest communication is key to rebuilding trust.Reconciliation takes time and intentional effort, especially after deep hurt.God’s love empowers us to forgive, restore, and pursue unity.A thriving marriage is marked by a continual posture of reconciliation.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywordsreconciliation, marriage, forgiveness, intimacy, spiritual growth, conflict resolution, Christian marriage, unity, trust, communication

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore what it truly means to love sacrificially within marriage. We discuss how genuine love mirrors the love of Christ—selfless, patient, and enduring—and how the Holy Spirit empowers couples to live this out daily. We remind listeners the fruits of the Spirit as essential qualities that nurture a healthy, grace-filled relationship. When both husband and wife surrender to God’s Spirit, your marriage can be a powerful reflection of the gospel.In this episode–Sacrificial love is essential in marriage.Belief in God strengthens our ability to love sacrificially.The Holy Spirit empowers couples to love beyond themselves.Initiating love requires intentionality and commitment.Faith deepens connection and unity in marriage.Marriage should reflect God’s selfless love.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywordssacrificial love, marriage, empowerment, Holy Spirit, fruits of the Spirit

Today on the podcast, Aaron talks with Christin Rosa, who shares her powerful journey of faith through marriage, infertility, and motherhood. Christin opens up about the cultural differences in her marriage, the challenges of infertility, and the prenatal struggles she faced with her son, Nate. Through prayer, courage, and unwavering faith, she and her husband learned to advocate for life and trust in God’s plan. Christin also shares how her experiences inspired her to write Saving Hope, a testimony of God’s goodness and the healing that comes from walking through trials with Him.In this episode–Christin Rosa’s inspiring journey of faith and family.Navigating marriage dynamics can be challenging yet deeply rewarding.Infertility often becomes a season of deeper reliance on God.Cultural differences shape the dynamics of marriage and parenting.Community support is vital during times of hardship.Facing prenatal challenges requires faith, courage, and trust in God.Advocating for life reflects the sanctity of God’s design.Prayer and fellowship bring strength and hope in dark seasons.Parenting is a journey of continual growth and grace.Connect with Christin Rosa:WebsitePreorder Saving Nate Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband RevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop Marriage After GodBecome a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: faith, marriage, motherhood, infertility, cultural differences, community, parenting, hope, prayer, advocacy, God’s faithfulness

In this episode, we remind couples that marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts. We explore what it means to see your spouse as a blessing, not a burden, and how gratitude can transform your perspective. Join us as we discuss the power of forgiveness, intentional communication, and daily appreciation in cultivating a thriving marriage that reflects God’s grace and love.In this episode–Your spouse is a gift from GodMarriage is designed to be a blessing, not a burdenGratitude changes how we see and treat our spouseForgiveness restores connection and peaceSincere gifts—whether words, actions, or time—build intimacy“Two are better than one” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)Life and marriage are gifts to cherish dailyHealthy communication expresses appreciation clearlySeeing your spouse through God’s eyes strengthens your relationshipReflecting God’s grace is at the heart of a marriage after GodJoin in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywordsmarriage, gifts, love languages, forgiveness, relationship advice, gratitude, communication, partnership, faith, devotionals

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith talks with Heath Hardesty, a pastor, husband, and father who shares his journey from plumbing to ministry. Heath discusses what it means to live an integrated faith—where every part of life, from family to work, reflects a relationship with Jesus.They explore apprenticeship to Christ as a daily practice of gentleness, prayer, and presence, and the importance of lament and joy in the Christian life. Heath’s book All Things Together invites believers to weave faith through every aspect of their marriages, families, and communities.TakeawaysHeath Hardesty shares his journey from plumbing to pastoring.Faith should shape every area of life, not just Sundays.Apprenticeship to Jesus is about living what we believe.Gentleness, prayer, and presence strengthen marriage and family.All Things Together explores a whole-life approach to faith.Connect with Heath Hardesty:https://www.heathhardesty.org/All Things Together: https://a.co/d/9vVNtUEFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: Heath Hardesty, marriage, parenting, integrated faith, discipleship, apprenticeship, family dynamics, grief, loss, Christian living

In this episode of the Marriage After God Podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith explore the biblical design for marriage and the distinct yet complementary roles of husbands and wives. They discuss how servant leadership mirrors Christ’s example and how companionship plays a vital role in building a thriving, Christ-centered relationship.Aaron unpacks what it means for husbands to lead through service and humility, following the example of Jesus, while Jennifer encourages wives to support, encourage, and pray for their husbands. TakeawaysGod granted man the role of the wife as a helper.Husbands are called to lead as Christ leads the Church.Servant leadership means leading by example, not by force.Wives are encouraged to support and uplift their husbands.Companionship is essential for a thriving marriage.Effective communication fosters trust and understanding.Quality time together strengthens intimacy and connection.Prayer is vital for both spouses in fulfilling their roles.Marriage is a reflection of God’s covenant love.Both spouses should pursue their relationship with God individually.👉 Join us and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After God here:  shop.marriageaftergod.com or on Amazon:Husband After God: https://a.co/d/hi4epJpWife After God: https://a.co/d/8A15f2SFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, servant leadership, companionship, roles in marriage, husband and wife, spiritual leadership, communication, trust, marriage devotional, biblical marriage

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith sits down with Bobby Jamieson, a pastor, author, and church planter based in Washington, D.C. Bobby shares his experiences in ministry and family life, offering biblical wisdom drawn from the book of Ecclesiastes. Together, they explore what it means to find purpose and joy amid the challenges of parenting, leadership, and life in a busy culture. Bobby unpacks the themes of contentment, gratitude, and self-sacrifice, showing how Ecclesiastes points us toward lasting fulfillment in God rather than the fleeting pursuits of success or pleasure. TakeawaysPrayer is foundational in parenting and spiritual leadership.Raising teenagers requires patience, empathy, and emotional presence.True ministry and family life require continual self-sacrifice.Ecclesiastes offers timeless wisdom for those seeking meaning in modern life.Lasting contentment comes from accepting and embracing one’s lot in life as a gift from God.Connect with Bobby Jamieson:Everything Is Never Enough: https://a.co/d/7O0Z8ifFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: Bobby Jamieson, Ecclesiastes, church planting, parenting, family dynamics, contentment, happiness, ministry, self-sacrifice, marriage

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith explore the question, “Did God design marriage?” Together, they reflect on the intentionality behind marriage, the unique relationship between men and women, and the biblical foundation that defines this sacred covenant. They emphasize how love and respect work hand in hand within marriage and how obedience to God’s Word should guide our actions—regardless of our spouse’s response.The discussion highlights that marriage is not a random arrangement but a purposeful reflection of God’s image and His relationship with the Church. They also share how the Holy Spirit empowers couples to walk in unity and to embrace growth through challenges. They encourage listeners to see marriage as a divine invitation to reflect Christ’s love, celebrate differences, and pursue God together.TakeawaysMarriage is designed by God with intentionality.The Bible opens with the concept of marriage.Marriage is a unique identifier of humanity.Men have a deep need for respect, while women need love.Obedience in marriage is not contingent on the spouse’s actions.The Holy Spirit guides us in our marriage journey.Marriage reflects the relationship between Christ and the Church.Celebrating differences in marriage strengthens the bond.Growth in marriage comes through challenges and learning.Pursuing God together is essential for a strong marriage.👉 You can join us and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After God here:  shop.marriageaftergod.com or on Amazon:Husband After God: https://a.co/d/hi4epJpWife After God: https://a.co/d/8A15f2SFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, God's design, love, respect, biblical foundation, intentionality, differences, obedience, Holy Spirit, growth

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith sits down with Trevin Wax and Thomas West to discuss their new book, The Gospel Way Catechism. Together, they explore the modern challenges facing the church and families as cultural narratives compete with biblical truth. The conversation highlights the importance of discipleship within the home, the role of parents in shaping their children’s faith, and how the Gospel Way Catechism serves as a practical resource for teaching and defending the faith. They also discuss the need for a renewed focus on community, truth, and church revitalization in a culture marked by individualism and confusion.TakeawaysThe Gospel Way Catechism equips believers to articulate biblical truth clearly.Cultural narratives often conflict with God’s design for faith and family.Parents play a vital role in spiritual formation and discipleship.The Church must be intentional about countering secular ideologies with truth.Individualism can isolate believers from the community God designed.Catechisms help Christians build a firm foundation of belief and understanding.Discipleship within families strengthens the Church as a whole.Contending for the faith is essential in today’s cultural climate.Church revitalization begins with biblical teaching and faithful leadership.Living out the Gospel in community demonstrates God’s truth to the world.Connect with Trevin Wax and Thomas West:Book: https://a.co/d/i60p1l2Website: https://gospelwaycatechism.com/Instagram: @trevinwax, @thomasawest Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron:<a href="https://

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer unpack the purpose of marriage as God designed it. Together, they explore how every couple is uniquely created in His image and called to reflect His love and unity through their relationship. Drawing from Ephesians 5, they discuss how marriage mirrors Christ’s love for the Church, emphasizing forgiveness, oneness, and devotion to God’s greater mission.Key Takeaways:Purpose is an innate human desire.We are created in God’s image to reflect His character and love.Marriage is not random—it has divine intention and design.Unity in marriage enhances each person’s individual purpose.Ephesians 5 reveals the sacred mystery of marriage.Marriage reflects Christ’s love for the Church.Forgiveness is foundational in maintaining a godly marriage.Our marriages are meant to serve God and fulfill His purposes.A faithful marriage influences future generations for God’s glory.A marriage after God is a continual journey of knowing Him more deeply.👉 You can join us and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After God here:  shop.marriageaftergod.com or on Amazon:Husband After God: https://a.co/d/hi4epJpWife After God: https://a.co/d/8A15f2SFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, purpose, God’s image, love, unity, Ephesians, forgiveness, family, devotionals, Christian

In this episode, Aaron Smith interviews Roy Wooten of the Crucible Project, a ministry helping men heal, grow, and build meaningful community. Roy is also a husband of 37 years, and a grandfather. Roy shares his journey of marriage, personal transformation, and the lessons he’s learned about communication, vulnerability, and confession.  Together, he and Aaron discuss the power of communication, vulnerability, and confession in building a healthy relationship. Roy opens up about emotional triggers, the importance of creating safe spaces, and how men can find healing and transformation through community and grace.Key Takeaways:Marriage is a journey filled with both challenges and joy.Communication and emotional awareness strengthen connection.Vulnerability and confession bring healing and growth.Men need safe spaces to process and avoid isolation.The Crucible Project offers community and transformation.Grace and redemption pave the way for authentic living.Connect with Roy Wooten:Website: https://thecrucibleproject.org/Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords:marriage, communication, vulnerability, healing, confession, men’s ministry, Crucible Project, emotional triggers, transformation, grace

We are so excited to announce something new for the Marriage After God podcast! Over the next 30 weeks, we’ll be walking through our very first devotionals—Husband After God and Wife After God.This series is designed to help you and your spouse:Draw closer to God togetherStrengthen your relationship through Scripture and prayerEngage in honest conversations about marriage and faithDiscover God’s purpose for your marriageEven if you don’t have a copy of the devotionals, you can still follow along with us each week. But we strongly encourage you to grab the books so you can write notes, answer the discussion questions, and pray through them with your spouse.👉 You can get your copies here: shop.marriageaftergod.com or on Amazon:Husband After God: https://amzn.to/4mFVxA1Wife After God: https://amzn.to/3KtZlH4We want to challenge you:Commit to joining us each week for the next 30 weeks.Invite your spouse to do this together with you.Ask another couple to join you and walk through the series as a community.New episodes in this devotional series will be released every Wednesday morning, so think of it as your midweek marriage Bible study. We are praying this journey will be powerful, transformative, and unifying for you and your spouse. Let’s see what God does when we give Him our marriages!Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025KeywordsMarriage, Devotional, God, Couples, Faith, Community, Purpose, Family, Spiritual Growth, Bible Study

In this episode, we sit down with Joby Martin to talk about marriage, parenting, and the meaning of manhood in today’s culture. Joby unpacks how faith must be the foundation of every strong relationship and why mutual submission to Christ is key to a thriving marriage. We also dive into the importance of mentorship, intergenerational relationships, and community support for personal and spiritual growth. Joby challenges men to redefine greatness through service and love and to take responsibility in their families and communities. Most importantly, he reminds us of the redeeming power of the blood of Jesus and the fresh start He offers to all.TakeawaysFaith must be the foundation of a strong marriage.A Christ-centered marriage thrives through mutual submission.Parenting calls for both freedom and guidance.True manhood is defined by serving others, not by consumerism.Intergenerational relationships provide wisdom and growth.Mentorship from older, wiser men is essential.Men are called to take responsibility in their families.Community support fuels spiritual and personal growth.Greatness is found in service and love.The blood of Jesus offers redemption and a fresh start.Investing time in relationships strengthens family relationships.Connect with Joby Martin:Instagram: Joby Martin https://www.instagram.com/jobypmartin/Church Website: https://coe22.com/Book:https://a.co/d/cEcAimUFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron:<a href="https://marriageaftergod.com/patron" rel="nofollow"

The Heart of Discipleship In HomeschoolingIn this episode, Aaron sits down with David and Leslie Nunnery to talk about their journey into homeschooling and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. They share how homeschooling is about so much more than academics—it’s about relationships, discipleship, and intentionally aligning family priorities. Together they discuss overcoming doubts, navigating challenges, and using daily life as a natural opportunity for discipleship.Takeaways:Homeschooling is not just about education; it's about relationships.Discipleship should be the focus of homeschooling.Parents are the primary disciplers of their children.Building a strong family culture is essential for effective homeschooling.Daily life provides natural opportunities for discipleship.It's important to align family goals and priorities.Homeschooling can be a tool for deeper family connections.Overcoming the "enough" question is crucial for new homeschoolers.Creating a habit of family devotions fosters spiritual growth.Investing time in relationships strengthens family bonds.Connect with David and Leslie Nunnery:Website: https://teachthemdiligently.net/Instagram: @teachdiligently Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords:homeschooling, discipleship,

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith reflect on their recent family camping trip and the unexpected challenges that came with it. They share how music, creativity, and prayer became sources of encouragement and connection during the experience. Together, they discuss the importance of recovery days, facing fears, and adopting the “gap and gains” mentality as tools for spiritual and relational growth. Through personal stories and honest reflection, Aaron and Jennifer encourage couples to embrace challenges as opportunities to grow closer to God and to each other.TakeawaysThe journey of marriage is filled with ups and downs.Music can be a powerful tool for connection and inspiration.Creativity in family life can foster deeper relationships.Facing challenges together strengthens the bond between partners.Spiritual growth often occurs during difficult times.The “gap and gains” mentality can shift our perspective on progress.Recovery days are essential for maintaining balance in life.Prayer is a vital component of recovery and connection in marriage.Facing fears can lead to personal growth and resilience.Future plans should include intentional time for reflection and connection.Our Books:https://shop.marriageaftergod.comHusband After God devotional: https://a.co/d/1nVcFGs Wife After God devotional: https://a.co/d/8XoPQmJ Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become

Aaron Smith sits down with Gary Thomas, bestselling author and teaching pastor, to talk about his journey into marriage ministry and the role of the local church in our spiritual growth. They discuss the dangers of entitlement, the lies that keep us from intimacy with God, and the importance of multi-generational ministry. Gary reminds us that gratitude and grace are key to cultivating joy and compassion in our walk with Christ.Key TakeawaysThe local church is essential for community and growth.Entitlement robs us of gratitude and joy.Struggles with sin are expected in the Christian life.Spiritual adventure keeps our faith vibrant.Recognizing our sin helps us have compassion toward others.The church should be a place of healing and support.Gratitude for God’s grace leads to a joyful life.Connect with Gary Thomas:Website: https://garythomas.com/Books: https://garythomas.com/books/Instagram: @garythomasbooksFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywordsmarriage, ministry, church, community, spiritual growth, intimacy with God, entitlement, sin, grace

In this episode, Aaron Smith sits down with Dr. Juli Slattery to explore sexuality from a Christian perspective. Together, they discuss how cultural shifts have shaped our understanding of marriage and sexuality, the growing tension between psychology and faith, and why open, biblical conversations are vital for families today. Dr. Slattery shares how surrendering our sexuality to God, addressing shame, and grounding ourselves in truth are key to experiencing healing and intimacy. This conversation also highlights the role of parents in guiding their children with wisdom and truth in the face of cultural pressures.Key TakeawaysSexuality is a critical topic for Christians today.Cultural shifts have changed perceptions of marriage and sexuality.Many Christians wrestle with how psychology integrates with faith.The purpose of sexuality has shifted toward self-fulfillment rather than God’s design.Parents must engage in open, honest conversations with their children about sexuality.Surrendering sexuality to God involves addressing shame and brokenness.Understanding God’s truth is essential to combat cultural lies.True healing requires a personal relationship with Jesus.Cultural pressures can complicate biblical conversations around sexuality.Teaching children truth equips them to navigate a complex and confusing world.Connect With Dr. Juli SlatteryInstagram: @authenticintimacyBooks: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B00HNSB114?ccs_id=686b0293-8c34-414f-a1f0-f19bf3d32d58Website: https://www.authenticintimacy.com/Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywordssexuality, marriage, biblical counseling, cultural shifts, parenting, surrender, healing, truth, intimacy, Christian perspective

In this episode, Aaron Smith sits down with author Jackie Avilés, to share her powerful story of walking through a terminal cancer diagnosis. Jackie Avilés is widely known as the “Internet’s Hope Coach.” She imparts hope grounded in biblical truth—offering Scripture-based encouragement and practical strategies to help people move from despair into hope-filled living. In today’s episode, Jackie opens up about how her faith in God sustained her through suffering, the importance of prayer, and what it means to lament well in times of pain.Key Takeaways:Jackie shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with stage four terminal metastatic breast cancerHow faith and prayer can carry usr through life’s toughest challengesThe significance of lament and finding hope in God during seasons of sufferingThe impact of trials on marriage and family relationshipsEncouragement for couples to lean on God’s promises and find strength in weaknessBe encouraged as Jackie reminds us that even when we feel pressed, we are not crushed—because of Christ in us.Connect With Jackie ​​Avilés:Instagram: @jackie_avilesWebsite: https://jackieaviles.com/Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: testimony, suffering, faith through trials, Christian marriage, cancer, God’s promises, strength in weakness

Aaron and Jennifer Smith share reflections from a full and meaningful summer—homeschooling adventures, the value of preserving memories, and the encouragement they received at a recent homeschool conference. They open up about the bittersweet transition of leaving their home church and how gardening has become a personal metaphor for growth. Through prayer, community, and faith, they embrace the process of change, finding joy in transformation.Key TakeawaysPrioritizing relationships with family.Creating tangible memories.Homeschooling thrives with intentional planning.Transitioning from a church community can be emotional but necessary.Gardening illustrates personal growth and consistent effort.Prayer and support from friends are vital during hard times.Change requires patience, communication, and faith.Joy can be found in the journey of transformation.Follow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: marriage, parenting, homeschooling, planning, family, growth, change, prayer, community, memories, encouragement

This week Aaron Smith sits down with Jay Holland, husband to Emily, and the biological, adoptive, and foster father of four children. For over 25 years he’s served as a pastor in college and student ministries and has personally navigated seasons of special‑needs parenting within his own family, and is the voice behind the Let’s Parent on Purpose podcast. Together, they discuss the intersection of marriage, parenting, and youth ministry. Jay shares powerful insights on raising children in today’s culture, the importance of rites of passage in shaping manhood and womanhood, and how parents can intentionally model faith and humility in their homes.Whether you’re navigating the challenges of parenting or seeking to strengthen your marriage in the midst of raising kids, this episode is packed with biblical wisdom and practical encouragement.Key Topics:Marriage and parenting in a digital ageThe importance of rites of passage for boys and girlsBuilding community and mentorship for youthTechnology’s effect on mental health and connectionModeling repentance and humility in parentingEncouraging bravery and risk-taking in the physical worldTeaching children their identity in ChristPrioritizing joy and intimacy in marriageConnect with the Jay Holland:Let’s Parent on Purpose podcast:Things for Thursday Newsletter: text THINGS to 66866letsparentonpurpose.comFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resourc

In today’s episode, Aaron Smith sits down with Ashton and Spencer Draper to share their inspiring journey of adoption, faith, and perseverance. Spencer and Ashton met through a mutual friend at a youth conference, drawn together by their shared love for Jesus and a heart for faith-filled living. Through the ups and downs of a difficult adoption journey and ongoing health challenges, they’ve learned to walk in grace, patience, and purpose—anchored by God’s faithfulness. Spencer works as a planner in manufacturing, while Ashton is a sign language interpreter and author of the book “Big Yellow House.” Whether playing games, watching movies, or raising their family, they’re committed to living faithfully and using their lives to serve Christ’s Kingdom.From their early years of marriage, to adopting their son Bismarck from Ghana, the Drapers open up about how God has worked through health challenges, biblical counseling, and their passion for adoption to strengthen their marriage and deepen their faith.Key Topics:The Drapers’ early marriage and decision to adoptAshton’s lifelong passion for adoption and its rootsThe challenges and blessings of adopting BismarckNavigating health struggles and their impact on marriageThe transformative power of biblical counselingEncouragement for couples considering adoptionResources Mentioned in This Episode:The Big Yellow House by Ashton Draper – Purchase on AmazonGobena Coffee – Adoption fundraising supportParenting by Paul TrippForgive by Tim KellerConnect with the Drapers:Follow Ashton Draper on FacebookPurchase The Big Yellow House https://a.co/d/4IEmWCdFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop:<a href="https://shop.marriage

In this episode, Aaron welcomes bestselling author and speaker Vicki Courtney to share wisdom from her new book Motherhood Is Not Your Highest Calling. Vicki Courtney is a speaker, author, wife of 38 years, and mom of three grown children. With over 25 years in ministry, she encourages women to pursue biblical truth in a modern world. Together they explore how moms can resist cultural pressure, embrace a Christ-centered identity, and keep their marriage and faith first.Key Takeaways:Identity in Christ over cultural expectationsNavigating mom guilt and social media pressurePrioritizing marriage in the parenting yearsFaith-filled conversations with kidsConnect with Vicki CourtneyWebsite: https://vickicourtney.com/Book: https://a.co/d/dWaVrgtInstagram: @vickicourtneyFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: Christian motherhood, Christian parenting, Identity in Christ, Faith and motherhood, Biblical womanhood, Christian marriage and parenting, Motherhood, calling

In this episode, Aaron sits down with Dan and Sam, a couple passionate about weaving adventure and faith into every part of family life. They share how parenting hasn’t stopped their pursuit of exploration—it’s deepened it. Together, they talk about the importance of viewing marriage as a ministry, prioritizing family as your first disciples, and how community and faith sustain their journey. They also discuss the heart behind their book Always Choose Adventure, encouraging listeners to live with purpose and intentionality, no matter the season.Takeaways:Marriage is a ministry, and your family is your first mission field.Adventure doesn’t end with kids—it becomes even more meaningful.Community and faith are foundational to a strong marriage.Always Choose Adventure challenges families to pursue God’s calling with courage and joy.Connect with Dan & Sam:Authors of Always Choose Adventure https://a.co/d/i3IPPepFollow them on Instagram: @DanAndSamFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025Keywords: adventure, marriage as ministry, family discipleship, intentional parenting, faith, community, purpose, exploration, Christian living