2d ago
In Part 1 , we revealed how Meta’s products are harming kids — not by accident, but by design. In Part 2 , we uncover how Meta responds when confronted with these dangers. Spoiler: it’s manipulation, PR spin, and “safety features” that don’t actually keep kids safe. We break down Meta’s Teen Accounts rollout, the massive marketing campaign behind it, and the independent tests and new research showing that teens are still being pushed sexual content, violence, self-harm, predators, and more. We examine why experts say Meta’s fixes are performative — and why real change will only come from lawsuits, legislation, and collective public pressure. We also look at the major court cases underway, the growing protests, and what parents can do right now to demand real protections for kids. This episode isn’t just about what Meta has done — it’s about what they refuse to do, and how we force the change our kids deserve. The heat is on. Here's how you can take action today: Sign up for our email list at https://www.scrolling2death.com/heat Sign the Petition asking Meta to make Instagram safer. Here's the Petition link. Hosts: Nicki Petrossi – Host of Scrolling 2 Death Sarah Gardner – Founder & CEO of Heat Initiative Expert Guests: Kelly Stonelake - Former Meta executive and whistleblower Arturo Bejar - Former Meta executive and whistleblower Paul Raffile - Cyber analyst and sextortion expert Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation Expert editing provided by Jacob Meade . Other Resources mentioned in the episode: Design it for Us Report: Teen Accounts Fail to Deliver Promised Safety Features Teen Survey by Heat Initiative: Instagram Teen Accounts are Missing the Mark Research led by Arturo Bejar: Instagram Still Poses Risk to Children, Despite New Safety Tools Parents Together Action Report: Teen Accounts Sextortion Report
5d ago
Neuroscientist and author Jared Cooney Horvath is back (check our first conversation here )—this time to tackle your most-asked questions about kids, learning, and technology. After a decade of research into tech-based education, his conclusion is stark and unapologetic: technology isn’t helping kids learn… it’s making them dumber. The pushback he hears most? “But won’t my child fall behind without tech?” According to the data: No. Drawing on ICMS measures of digital literacy across generations, Jared reveals a surprising pattern: Millennials outperform Gen Z, Gen Z outperforms Gen Alpha—despite Alpha growing up with devices (in their cribs), and Gen X—our parents—perform just as well as Gen Z, even though many didn’t touch modern tech until their 30s or 40s. Jared also dives into the questions parents are asking right now: Should AI have a place in the classroom? Are short-form videos killing learning? Is there any truly educational content for toddlers? …and much more. Tune in as Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and Jared share clear answers, data-backed insights, and a shocking look at what’s really happening to our kids’ brains. If you care about learning, focus, or your child’s future, this is an episode you cannot afford to skip. And don’t forget to grab Jared’s new book, share this episode with your school and parent community, and join the movement to reclaim real learning. Get Jared's book here: The Digital Delusion: How Classroom Technology Harms Our Kids’ Learning -- And How To Help Them Thrive
Dec 11
The Heat is On is an investigative series by Scrolling 2 Death , in partnership with Heat Initiative . Sarah Gardner, Founder and CEO of Heat Initiative, joins Nicki (S2D) to expose the truth Big Tech doesn’t want you to hear – and this episode is about Meta. Meta’s roots reveal a troubling origin story—from Facemash, where students were rated based on their appearance, to becoming one of the most powerful (and dangerous) tech companies in the world, with over 3.3 billion daily users. Behind the sleek apps and promise for connection lies a history of harmful design choices that target young users—fueling anxiety, depression, eating disorders, self-harm, and even suicide. In this episode, you’ll hear from former Meta executives and whistleblowers, cybercrime experts, and child-safety researchers who prove that the company knew how harmful its platforms were to kids—and did almost nothing to stop it. Today, over 40 U.S. states, thousands of school districts, and countless families have taken legal action. And yet, Meta continues to push untested, potentially dangerous features—like their new AI chatbot—on teens without parental consent. Jonathan Haidt, author of The Anxious Generation , weighs in to warn how these harms are reaching an industrial scale and legal action alone is not enough. We all need to work together to hold Big Tech accountable. It’s time to turn up the heat: Join our email list . Share this episode. Keep your kids off Meta platforms. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, educator, or simply someone who cares about the well-being of kids, this episode will give you the facts, the tools, and the fire to demand change. Hosts: Nicki Petrossi – Host of Scrolling 2 Death Sarah Gardner – Founder & CEO of Heat Initiative Expert Guests: Kelly Stonelake - Former Meta executive and whistleblower Arturo Bejar - Former Meta executive and whistleblower Paul Raffile - Cyber analyst and sextortion expert Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation Resources mentioned in the episode: Instagram Teens research by Parents Together NY Times: The Men Who Use Instagram to Groom Child Influencers by Michael Keller Expert editing provided by Jacob Meade .
Dec 8
Parents everywhere are wrestling with the same impossible question: How do you protect your kids from online harm without raising them in a bubble? In this episode, Nicki is joined by Titania Jordan, CMO of Bark Technologies , to take on one of the most common—and most misunderstood—parenting mindsets: “We supervise. We talk about safety. We don’t want our kids to be naïve… so we let them use these platforms.” We read real parent comments about giving kids access to Roblox, YouTube, phones, and social media despite knowing the risks. Together, we break down what this approach gets right—and where it unintentionally opens the door to serious online dangers. This episode is for every parent trying to thread the needle between keeping kids safe and letting them live in the world. You are not powerless. You don’t have to choose between protection and exposure—you can do both, intentionally. The goal isn’t perfection. The goal is raising kids who can navigate the digital world— not be consumed by it. Mentioned in the Episode : Bark's Connected Communities Program Bark Drive-A-Logue Cards Join parents taking action at https://www.scrolling2death.com/heat This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies: Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Dec 1
On this episode of Scrolling 2 Death , host Nicki Petrossi is joined by Clare Morell, author of The Tech Exit and fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center. Together, they tackle one of the biggest questions parents face today: Do kids really need smartphones and social media to thrive? Clare reveals why the conventional wisdom—just add parental controls or screen-time limits—is a lie parents have been sold. She introduces The Tech Exit, a bold but practical roadmap for families who want freedom from addictive digital technology. Drawing from expert research, stories of families who’ve gone tech-free, and her own policy work, Clare paints a hopeful picture: children can grow up happier, healthier, and more connected without smartphones in their pockets. This is a must-listen for any parent searching for a way out of the digital trap. Get your copy of The Tech Exit .
Nov 26
The Heat is On is a new investigative series by Scrolling 2 Death, in partnership with The Heat Initiative. Sarah Gardner, Founder and CEO of The Heat Initiative, joins Nicki (S2D) to expose the truth Big Tech doesn’t want you to hear – and our next episode is all about Snapchat. In Part 1 , we revealed how Snapchat built its empire by marketing a sexting app to kids, fueling addiction, exploitation, and harm. Today, in Part 2 , we uncover what happens inside Snapchat when employees raise the alarm. The truth: executives routinely dismiss internal warnings and ignore grieving parents. The company hides behind ineffective parental controls that almost no one uses: fewer than 1% of parents activate them. And it’s not because employees didn’t try. Internal emails show trust and safety staff had “little contact with upper management” and faced pushback whenever they proposed in-app safety features because CEO Evan Spiegel “prioritized design. According to Snap’s own internal documents, proactively identifying and protecting minors from sexual content or predators would “overburden moderators,” “create disproportionate admin costs,” and should not be Snap’s responsibility. Snapchat isn’t just failing to prevent harm; it resists cooperation even after tragedies occur. In this episode, you’ll hear how the company obstructs law enforcement and leaves devastated families without support. This episode isn’t just about what Snapchat has done—it's about what they refuse to do, and what it will take to force change. Lawsuits and legislation matter, but real progress requires collective action and public pressure . Here are three simple steps parents can take to demand child protections from Snapchat: 1. Join our email list for real-time actions you can take. 2. Set a family rule: no Snapchat for minors—and don’t use it yourself. So basically, no Snapchat ever. 3. Share what you learned with one friend or family member. This episode was expertly edited by Jacob Meade . Thank you to our incredible guests: Laura Marquez-Garrett - Attorney, Social Media Victims Law Center Amy Neville - Parent survivor, founder of Alexander Neville Foundaton Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation Paul Raffile - Sextortion expert (featured in Part 1) Aaron Ping - Survivor parent and host of the Superhuman podcast Jim & Kate Sullivan - Survivor parent Anna McAdams - Affected parent Paul Solotaroff of Rolling Stone Sarah Gallagher Trombley, ex-Snapchat executive and founder of Digital Mom Media
Nov 24
Ava Smithing, Advocacy Director at the Young People’s Alliance , returns to Scrolling 2 Death to share an exciting new project. If you missed her previous episodes, Ava is a leading youth voice for nonpartisan policy solutions for safer technology development. Growing up in the early days of social media, she experienced firsthand how harmful algorithms can shape young users’ lives - even contributing to her own struggle with an eating disorder. Now, she’s turned that experience into a mission to raise awareness and drive change. In this episode, Ava dives into two key concerns: The dangers of engagement algorithms and the harmful content they amplify. The erosion of privacy, as tech companies quietly collect and share user data across apps and sites to influence what we see and buy online. To elevate youth perspectives, Ava has launched a new podcast, Left to Their Own Devices , which explores the real stories of young people navigating life online. But the show doesn’t just highlight the harms; it imagines what a healthier, more ethical digital world could look like. Tune in as Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death and Ava discuss why young people shouldn’t just be consulted about technology’s future - they should be guiding us all
Nov 20
The Heat is On is an investigative series by Scrolling 2 Death , in partnership with Heat Initiative. Sarah Gardner, Founder and CEO of Heat Initiative , joins Nicki (S2D) to expose the truth Big Tech doesn’t want you to hear – and this episode is all about Snapchat. From a disappearing-nude app in 2011 to a social media giant in 2025, Snapchat’s story is one of innovation, imitation, and controversy. When it comes to digital harms and kids, Snapchat ranks among the worst—which is why this story expands two parts. In Part 1, we’re exposing how Snapchat’s “innovations” have put profits ahead of our children’s safety. Snapchat’s culture was flawed from the start. The FTC sanctioned the company early on for misleading users about how ‘private’ disappearing snaps really were. Since then, features like Discover and AR filters have been designed to keep kids endlessly engaged, regardless of the consequences. Today, nearly half of all U.S. teens use Snapchat. Yet the platform continues to enable drug poisonings, connect minors with predators, and drive addictive use. As psychologist Jonathan Haidt warns, Snapchat is harming children on an industrial scale - and insiders admit the company knows but fails to act. Online drug dealing, especially fentanyl-laced pills, has fueled a 350% rise in teen deaths over the past three years. Snapchat’s Quick Add feature helps dealers find young users, exposing an estimated 700,000 people to drug content daily. Even when dealers are reported, only one in four accounts is removed. Sextortion is another growing crisis. Snapchat receives about 10,000 reports each month— numbers employees say barely scratch the surface. Predators exploit the app’s disappearing messages, and with Snap Map, digital threats increasingly turn into real-world harm. Rather than designing for safety, Snapchat keeps doubling down on engagement. Features like Snapstreaks drive compulsive use; 45% of teens now use the app “almost constantly.” Your child’s attention keeps them profitable. In this episode, Sarah and Nicki hear from parents and experts who’ve seen the damage firsthand. Their message is clear: these aren’t accidents - they’re design choices. The question is...can Snapchat fix this? Or is Snap a lost cause? Video Editing expertly provided by Jacob Meade . Thank you to our featured guests: Laura Marquez-Garrett - Attorney, Social Media Victims Law Center Amy Neville - Parent survivor, founder of Alexander Neville Foundation Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation Paul Raffile - Cyber-analyst and worldwide sextortion expert Aaron Ping - Survivor parent of Avery Ping and host of the Superhuman podcast Jim & Kate Sullivan - Survivor parent of Jack Sullivan Anna McAdams - Online safety advocate and mom of Elliston Paul Solotaroff - Senior Writer at Rolling Stone Mike Neff - Attorney, Neff Injury Law Sarah Gallagher Trombley - former Snapchat Exec and Founder of Digital Mom Media
Nov 17
This episode discusses youth suicide and social media harm; listener discretion is advised. London was bright, goofy, empathetic, brilliant. She played soccer year-round, read nonstop, danced through the kitchen, and filled her Michigan home with laughter. But during the pandemic, when she was just eight, a smartphone and social media entered her life. What followed was a years-long battle with algorithmic addiction that Charay—like millions of parents—never saw coming. In this raw and devastating interview, London’s mom Charay Gadd shares the truth no parent should ever have to live through: TikTok pushing self-harm and suicide content when London searched for harmless topics… Snapchat teaching her to hide messages… multiple secret accounts… emotional manipulation from streaks and scores… and a child who didn’t understand the permanence of death because of what she saw online. Charay takes us through London’s hospitalizations, the cries for help, and the night everything changed. Her message is one every parent must hear: This wasn’t London. This was addiction. This was social media. Today, Charay fights for justice—alongside more than 1,000 families in the national lawsuit against Big Tech—and honors London’s life through a scholarship that empowers teens to make a difference in the world. This episode is not entertainment. It’s a warning. And it will save lives. You can donate to a scholarship program in London's name, here .
Nov 13
Have AI companies lost control of their bots — or are the bots designed to harm? In this episode, Sarah Gardner and Nicki Petrossi dive deep into the disturbing rise of AI chatbots gone rogue — and the tragic human cost. From teens who formed emotional bonds with bots that later encouraged suicide, to lawsuits against OpenAI, Character.AI, and others, we expose how Big Tech’s newest frontier of “AI companions” is already devastating families. You’ll hear how chatbots like Character.AI, ChatGPT, Meta AI, and Snap’s MyAI blurred the lines between fiction and reality, leading kids to isolation, self-harm, and even death. Former tech insiders, grieving parents, and attorneys share evidence that these bots aren’t just broken — they’re built this way. We ask the urgent questions: 🔥 Are AI companies creating the perfect predator? 🔥 Can this be fixed before more kids are harmed? 🔥 What can parents do right now to protect their children? This is everything a parent needs to know about chatbots (and more). The Heat is On is more than a podcast; it's a movement of parents fighting for our children. Be sure to sign up here to join us. Opportunity to Act: Sign this open letter to Congress asking for specific regulation of AI companions for kids Resources mentioned in the episode: Interview with Character.AI founder Noam Shazeer Nearly 1/3 of Americans have had a ‘romantic relationship’ with an AI bot NY Times: Inside 3 Long-Term Relationships with AI Chatbots 1 in 5 high schoolers say they or someone they know has had a romantic relationship with AI Report from Heat Initiative and Parents Together on harmful Character.AI interactions JAMA Study: Exploring the behaviors of chatbots in response to adolescent health emergencies "An AI chatbot killed my son." with Megan Garcia, mom of Sewell Setzer If you or a family member has been harmed, reach out to Social Media Victims Law Center Open letter to Congress asking for specific regulation of AI companions for kids Additional resources at: www.scrolling2death.com/post/the-heat-is-on-ai-chatbots
Nov 10
What happens when a tech-savvy parent — someone who’s been sounding the alarm about online dangers for years — realizes she could have made safer choices for her child? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Nicki Petrossi sits down with Titania Jordan, Chief Marketing Officer at Bark Technologies & author of the new book Parental Control — but more importantly, mom to a teenage son — for a raw conversation about regret, resilience, and redefining what it means to protect our kids in the digital age. Titania opens up about the choices she’d make differently if she could go back: the early video games that seemed harmless, the slow creep of screens becoming the default, and the moment she realized tech had gained more influence in her home than she ever intended. Together, Nicki and Titania unpack the emotional burden parents carry — the shame, the confusion, and the fear that you’re “too late.” But this isn’t just a cautionary tale. It’s a roadmap and a rallying cry. You’ll learn: • The hidden ways tech rewires childhood — and family dynamics • The warning signs parents often miss when screens start taking over • How AI and chatbots complicate modern parenting in ways we’re only beginning to understand • Practical boundary-setting strategies for kids and teens • Why tech companies must be held legally accountable — and why parents should not shoulder the blame alone Through honest reflections and hard-earned wisdom, Titania reminds every parent: it's never too late to course-correct. And it's definitely not your fault that billion-dollar companies engineered these tools to be addictive — but it is our collective responsibility to fight back, reshape the narrative, and protect the next generation. Whether your child is still preschool-age or already a teen with a phone, this episode will leave you more informed, more empowered, and ready to parent with conviction in a world designed to overwhelm you. Press play to hear a mother’s wake-up call — and find hope, strategy, and solidarity in the struggle we’re all facing. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies: Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Nov 7
This is not a hypothetical. This is not science fiction. This is happening right now. Today, multiple families across the U.S. and Canada filed lawsuits against OpenAI, alleging that ChatGPT triggered psychosis, isolated vulnerable users from loved ones, and—even worse— encouraged suicide . Four families lost their sons. A 17-year-old. A 23-year-old. A 26-year-old. A 48-year-old. All believed they were talking to a supportive companion, a lifeline. Instead, they found themselves pulled deeper into darkness. In this emergency episode, Nicki Petrossi speaks with attorney Laura Marquez-Garrett from the Social Media Victims Law Center about: Why these families are blaming ChatGPT How a tool used for schoolwork evolved into a psychological companion The chilling transcripts from the final hours of 23-year-old Zane Shamblin’s life What happens when AI stops saying “I can’t help with that” — and starts saying “I love you, see you on the other side” This is the conversation tech hoped you wouldn’t hear. Parents, lawmakers, and educators must listen. Because if this is the future of AI — no one is safe. Visit this link to access the legal complaints .
Nov 6
In Part 1 of The Heat is On Apple, we exposed how Apple’s ecosystem puts kids at risk — from iMessage to iCloud to the App Store. In Part 2, we’re asking the only question that matters: What could Apple do to protect children — and how do we get them to do it? We break down real solutions Apple could deploy tomorrow: device-based age verification, real App Store safeguards, proactive CSAM detection in iCloud, global reporting tools in iMessage, and parental controls that actually work . And we examine the growing pressure forcing Apple’s hand — lawsuits, new laws, global regulators, and parents demanding accountability. Finally, we share what families can do right now: don’t rely on Apple defaults, consider kid-safe devices, talk to another parent, and get involved in the movement pushing Apple to protect children instead of profits. Subscribe to The Heat is On movement to receive real action steps you can take to force companies like Apple to do better. Sign up here: https://www.scrolling2death.com/heat Up next: we turn up the heat on Snapchat. 🔥 Email Apple Leadership : Support our demands of Apple by letting leadership know that you want their products to be safer for kids. Thank you to our expert guests: Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation Paul Raffile - Cyber analyst and sextortion expert Chris McKenna – Digital safety advocate and founder of Protect Young Eyes Video Editing by Jacob Meade
Nov 6
In Part 1 of The Heat is On Apple, we exposed how Apple’s ecosystem puts kids at risk — from iMessage to iCloud to the App Store. In Part 2, we’re asking the only question that matters: What could Apple do to protect children — and how do we get them to do it? We break down real solutions Apple could deploy tomorrow: device-based age verification, real App Store safeguards, proactive CSAM detection in iCloud, global reporting tools in iMessage, and parental controls that actually work . And we examine the growing pressure forcing Apple’s hand — lawsuits, new laws, global regulators, and parents demanding accountability. Finally, we share what families can do right now: don’t rely on Apple defaults, consider kid-safe devices, talk to another parent, and get involved in the movement pushing Apple to protect children instead of profits. Subscribe to The Heat is On movement to receive real action steps you can take to force companies like Apple to do better. Sign up here: https://www.scrolling2death.com/heat Up next: we turn up the heat on Snapchat. 🔥
Nov 3
On October 1, 2023, one family woke up to every parent’s nightmare — their daughter’s phone was blowing up with messages from friends. Someone had taken innocent photos from her Instagram, run them through an AI app called DNGG , and created fake, nude images that quickly spread through her high school. This chilling episode of Scrolling 2 Death exposes the disturbing rise of AI-powered nudify apps that can “digitally undress” anyone in seconds. Though DNGG has been taken down, countless others have replaced it. You'll also learn of the surprising role that Snapchat plays in this story; how Snap completely ignored both the families affected and also police warrants from investigators. We unpack how these apps work, the devastating emotional impact on victims, and what parents, platforms, and policymakers must do to protect teens from this new form of digital abuse. Thank you to Anna McAdams for sharing this vulnerable yet empowering story. Take it Down Service by NCMEC Support for Child Sexual Abuse Survivors by RAINN CertifyAI Service
Oct 30
The Heat is On is a new investigative series by Scrolling 2 Death , in partnership with Heat Initiative . Co-hosts Sarah Gardner, Founder and CEO of Heat Initiative , and Nicki Petrossi, Host of Scrolling 2 Death , are exposing the truth Big Tech doesn’t want you to hear – and this episode is all about Apple. Apple revolutionized personal computing and their products didn’t just change technology — they changed childhood: putting powerful, addictive devices directly in kids’ hands. 88% of teens now own an iPhone. Apple has convinced us that parental controls keep iPhones and iPads “safe”, but that is an illusion. In this episode, Sarah and Nicki dig into the core apps and platforms available to children through Apple devices: iMessage, Screen Time, The App Store, and iCloud. Disclaimer : This episode includes discussion of child sexual abuse and online child exploitation. If you or someone you know is a victim of exploitation, contact the CyberTipline at NCMEC: report.cybertip.org . Or text Hello to 741741 for immediate assistance. Here's what you can do to put pressure on Apple: Sign up for our campaign updates at scrolling2death.com/heat . Share this episode with a friend and family member. Choose a child-safe device. In Part 2, you will learn about changes that Apple can make to better protect kids, and how we pressure Apple to act. Thank you to our expert guests: Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation Paul Raffile - Cyber analyst and sextortion expert Chris McKenna – Digital safety advocate and founder of Protect Young Eyes Video Editing by Jacob Meade
Oct 29
Today, Character.AI shocked the world by announcing a ban on users under 18 from using its chatbots. But when you read the fine print, the story gets murky. Is this real protection for kids — or another Big Tech PR spin? Nicki Petrossi breaks it down with Sarah Gardner of Heat Initiative and attorney Laura Marquez-Garrett from the Social Media Victims Law Center. Parents can join us in putting pressure on Big Tech by signing up here: scrolling2death.com/heat
Oct 27
In a world where screens have taken over classrooms, one superintendent decided to push pause. Dr. Mike Swan, leader of Burke County Public Schools, joins us to share how his district took a bold, low-tech approach to learning — and what happened next. From teachers rediscovering the joy of teaching to parents seeing calmer, more focused kids, Dr. Swan opens up about the wins, the backlash, and the lessons learned along the way. This conversation is a roadmap for every community wondering: What if we put education — not technology — back at the center of our schools? Burke County: A RESOLUTION ENCOURAGING BALANCED INSTRUCTION THROUGH REDUCED SCREEN USE Tech-Safe Learning : Resources for parents to help engage with your school district Reach out to Dr. Mike Swan with questions at his email: mswan@burke.k12.nc.us
Oct 20
What happens when a parent discovers that video games aren’t just a harmless pastime—but a trap that can derail a child’s future? In this powerful conversation, ScreenStrong founder Melanie Hempe shares her personal journey of watching her oldest son spiral into video game addiction, and how that painful experience reshaped her parenting choices for her three younger children. Melanie explains why screen addiction isn’t just “too much screen time” but a chemical dependency that rewires a child’s brain. She unpacks the hidden dangers of smartphones, excessive gaming, and constant digital entertainment—and why parents must understand the science behind it. But this episode isn’t about fear—it’s about freedom. Melanie offers practical steps for breaking free from the screen trap, building resilience, and fostering healthy development through real-life experiences, critical thinking, and independence. She also highlights the importance of community, reminding parents they’re not alone in the fight to raise kids who thrive without screens. If you’ve ever worried about your child’s relationship with technology—or questioned whether “everyone has a phone” is a good enough reason to give in—this is an episode you can’t afford to miss. You can get access to all of the resources by ScreenStrong at: https://screenstrong.org
Oct 13
In this Q&A episode, Nicki brought in Titania Jordan — Chief Parenting Officer at Bark Technologies — to tackle your biggest tech parenting challenges. From first phones to firewalls, social media to screen time, Titania shares honest, practical advice every parent needs right now. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies, the best option for kid-safe devices. Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Oct 9
Today on Scrolling 2 Death , Meta whistleblower and dad Arturo Bejar joins me to expose the truth about Instagram’s so-called “Teen Accounts.” From his years inside Facebook and Instagram leading safety efforts, to his 2021 warning to leadership that went ignored, Arturo reveals what Meta doesn’t want parents to know. We’re also joined by Sarah Gardner of The Heat Initiative, who brings new insights from teens themselves. Teen Accounts: Broken Promises (the full report published September 25, 2025) Heat Teen Safety Report TIME Magazine: Instagram Promised to Become Safer for Teens, Researchers Say It's Not Working Arturo Bejar's Written Senate Testimony (November 7, 2023) BBC Report: Instagram Eating Disorder Content "Out of Control"
Oct 6
When the pandemic pushed school into our homes, screens became the new classroom and we never went back. But what has this shift cost our kids? In this episode, Nicki Petrossi sits down with writer and parent Lila Byock to talk about the hidden consequences of remote learning, the influence of EdTech companies, and the mental health toll of too much screen time. Lila shares her personal journey navigating her children’s experience with tech at school, and why she believes parents must speak up to demand real safeguards. Lila Byock is an Emmy-winning television writer and the founder of Schools Beyond Screens , a grassroots coalition of parents and teachers fighting for safer tech in LA's public schools. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband, two tween boys, and one scruffy rescue mutt. Resources and templates for parents by Schools Beyond Screens can be found here .
Sep 29
It’s not too late to reset the screen-time limits and boundaries you've set for your kids—and the reasons to take action are becoming increasingly clear. In this episode, Dr. Carrie Mackensen joins host Nicki Petrossi to unpack the science behind interactive screens and short-form media and how they impact children's brain development. Her clear, accessible approach helps parents understand what's happening neurologically and how to make informed choices. Our brains operate using two key systems: the emotional center, which rewards us with dopamine when something feels good, and the thinking brain, where we analyze, reflect, and make decisions. Activities like riding a bike or climbing a tree provide healthy dopamine boosts through effort and engagement. But scrolling social media or watching endless YouTube Shorts floods kids’ brains with 100 to 200 times the dopamine—without any effort—bypassing the thinking brain entirely. Over time, this leads to an underdeveloped thinking brain and an overstimulated emotional center. The result? Kids who are increasingly anxious, withdrawn, emotionally dysregulated, and lack critical thinking skills. The good news: It’s not too late to make a change. Thanks to the brain’s neuroplasticity, you can help rewire these patterns and restore balance at home. Dr. Mackensen, a clinical psychologist, parent coach, and mom of two boys, shares her proven approach in conversation with Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death. Together, they offer practical tools and clear screen-time guidelines to help families create healthier digital boundaries. This is an episode every parent needs to hear. Dr. Carrie Mackensen is a clinical psychologist turned parent coach, author, and founder of Successful Parent . With a PhD in Individual, Family, and Child Psychology and experience as an attending psychologist at Cedars-Sinai and later as Clinical Director of a high-end residential addiction treatment program in Beverly Hills, she now helps families navigate the challenges of raising kids in a digital world. Drawing on both her clinical expertise and her own journey as a mom of two boys, Dr. Carrie blends neuroscience, attachment theory, and practical tools to empower parents to set healthy tech boundaries and strengthen family connection.
Sep 24
On September 22nd, a landmark court ruling allowed expert testimony exposing the harm social media products cause children. From Meta to TikTok, Snap, and YouTube, these companies have long argued it’s content—not their addictive designs—that hurts youth. But experts in psychiatry, neuroscience, and tech safety say otherwise. In this episode, I break down their testimony, revealing how features like infinite scroll, likes, notifications and algorithms exploit adolescent development, contribute to addiction, and harm mental health. This is a monumental moment for families demanding accountability—and a crucial listen for any parent navigating the digital world.
Sep 22
Live from Central Park, NYC! This week on Scrolling 2 Death , attorney Laura Marquez-Garrett from Social Media Victims Law Center (SMVLC) joins Nicki to unpack a major legal battle unfolding against AI chatbots. Laura’s firm just filed three new lawsuits on behalf of families whose children were harmed by the app Character.AI—while Congress simultaneously held a Senate hearing on the dangers of these bots. We dig into what happened to these kids, why Google is also being sued, what lawmakers might actually do, and what every parent needs to know right now about protecting their children from abusive AI. Resources mentioned in the episode: Interview with Megan Garcia , mom of Sewell Setzer III Interview with a Texas mom whose son was harmed by Character.AI Publicly-filed complaints against Character.AI and Google Video recaps of the newly-filed complaints here and here Link to hearing: Examining the Harm of AI Chatbots PARENTS : Contact your Senators ( senate.gov ) and House Rep ( house.gov ). Tell them about your concerns related to AI chatbots and social media harms. Tell them you want protections for your children!
Sep 15
"Together, we can get our kids back." We live in a world where childhood is being rewritten by screens—and the consequences are showing up in our kids’ mental health, sleep patterns, and ability to thrive in the real world. In this episode, psychologist and researcher Dr. Jean Twenge joins us to unpack her groundbreaking book 10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World . Dr. Twenge doesn’t sugarcoat the truth: social media is rewiring our children’s brains, devices are stealing the very sleep they need to grow, and parents are often left feeling powerless against Big Tech’s grip. But she also brings hope—and a plan. Through ten clear, practical rules, she explains how parents can reclaim their authority, set boundaries that actually stick, and raise kids who are grounded in real-world experiences instead of lost in endless scrolling. This is more than just a parenting guide—it’s a call to action. Because no parent can fight this battle alone. Our children’s future depends on a collective stand: saying no to predatory platforms, demanding safer technology practices, and prioritizing human connection over algorithms designed to addict. If you’ve ever wondered how much tech is too much, if you’ve seen your child slip into the black hole of social media, or if you’re simply worried about what kind of world we’re handing the next generation—this conversation will give you both the urgency and the tools you need. JEAN M. TWENGE, PhD , a professor of psychology at San Diego State University, is the author of more than 190 scientific publications and several books based on her research, including 10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World , Generations , iGen , and Generation Me . Her research has been covered in Time , The Atlantic,Newsweek , The New York Times , USA TODAY , and The Washington Post . She has also been featured on Today , Good Morning America , Fox and Friends , CBS This Morning , Real Time with Bill Maher, Meet the Press, and NPR. She lives in San Diego with her husband and three daughters. Please visit her at: www.JeanTwenge.com and X: @jean_twenge.
Sep 8
We spend so much time stressing about our kids’ screen time — but have you ever stopped to ask, what about mine? The truth is, our kids are watching us way more than we realize. Every time we pick up our phones at the dinner table or scroll while they’re talking to us, we’re showing them what “normal” tech use looks like. In this episode, I brought in Titania Jordan from Bark Technologies to have an honest, eye-opening conversation about how our habits shape theirs. We swap personal stories, dig into the latest research, and share what we’ve both learned (sometimes the hard way) about modeling balance with our devices. This isn’t about guilt-tripping parents — because let’s be real, we’re all figuring this out as we go and no one's perfect. It’s about awareness. It’s about realizing that the little things we do every day add up, and that we actually have the power to set a different tone at home. If you’ve ever wondered how to raise kids with healthier relationships to tech, this episode will give you some hope, perspective, and maybe even the nudge you’ve been needing to put your own phone down first. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies, the best option for kid-safe devices. Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Sep 3
What happens when your child chats with an AI “friend”? You might think it’s harmless fun—but new research shows otherwise. In this gripping conversation, Sarah from The Heat Initiative uncovers disturbing findings about Character AI and its impact on teens. The evidence is chilling: AI bots are exposing kids to sexual grooming, violent content, and other dangers at an alarming rate. Find the full report here , created by Heat Initiative and Parents Together. We also dive into the legal gray zone of AI using celebrity likenesses, the urgent need for regulation, and—most importantly—what parents can do right now to protect their kids. Sarah makes it clear: awareness is power, and collective action is our only way forward. If you’ve ever wondered how safe these new AI tools really are for your child, this episode is the wake-up call you can’t afford to miss.
Sep 1
The digital age has brought incredible conveniences for modern parents—but along with them come some unintended consequences. If screens are your go-to for tantrums or boredom, you may be interfering with your child’s ability to regulate emotions and develop essential coping skills. With over two decades of experience in education, Shona Schwartz has emerged as a crucial voice addressing technology's impact on children's development. In this episode, she invites parents to start by looking inward. The first steps? Monitor your own screen habits Embrace the discomfort of parenting—tantrums, boredom, and messiness are part of the process. Next, Shona emphasizes the importance of creating a personalized family blueprint—a values-based agreement that guides screen habits at home. She provides age-specific guidelines for children ages 0–6, 6–12, and teens, helping parents make informed choices tailored to their child’s developmental stage. Her three keys to making these plans work? Communication. Connection. Consistency. In this episode, Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and Shona offer practical tips and insights for parents navigating the challenges of raising kids in a digital world. Whether you're just beginning to rethink your family’s screen habits or looking for new strategies, this conversation is a must-listen. Purchase Shona's book here: Always On: A Guide to the (Dis)Connected Generation . Visit Shona's Substack here: Always On Substack
Aug 25
By now, most people have heard of the “Anxious Generation” — but Laura Morton is expanding Jonathan Haidt’s narrative. As the creator of the award-winning documentary Anxious Nation , Laura believes it’s not just youth who are struggling — it’s all of us. A little anxiety is natural – even helpful for performance – but we’re seeing a sharp rise in the chronic, debilitating kind. In 2019, as a single mom to her own anxious teen, Laura set out to uncover the root causes of America's mental health struggles – and its impact on families. One powerful takeaway from her research: anxiety is energy. And that energy can be redirected — into creativity, passion, and purpose. We can reclaim our power, and we can teach our kids to do the same. In this episode of Scrolling 2 Death , host Nicki sits down with Laura to unpack the anxiety epidemic from every angle — including technology’s growing role. Whether you're a parent trying to support your child or someone managing anxiety yourself, this conversation offers key insights, hard-earned wisdom, and tools for navigating today’s anxious nation. Watch The Anxious Nation here .
Aug 18
“This is the first generation in a millennium to be worse off than their parents.” Neuroscientist, educator, and author Jared Cooney Horvath issues a powerful warning: the rapid rise of technology in education is contributing to a sharp decline in intelligence across key metrics—including IQ, memory, critical thinking, creativity, and more. For generations, we've seen steady progress in IQ from one cohort to the next. That upward trajectory ends with Gen Z. The data traces the downturn back to the early/mid 2000s, when technology was first introduced in classrooms. Currently the Director of LME Global, Jared brings cutting-edge brain and behavioral science directly to educators and students. He’s not surprised by the decline, given how the brain is wired to learn. His stance is clear: we’re not meant to learn everything through screens . While screens have a role in teaching digital skills like typing or Excel, they are not a tool for deep learning. When it comes to AI, Jared is equally blunt. Used after expertise is developed, AI can be powerful. But using it in place of learning is a dangerous shortcut—one that the government and EdTech platforms seem all too ready to promote. In this thought-provoking conversation, Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and Jared unpack the science of learning, the data that challenges the EdTech narrative, and a roadmap for parents and schools to reclaim control. It’s a must-listen for anyone concerned about the future of learning or the success of our children.
Aug 11
In this eye-opening episode of Scrolling 2 Death , host Nicki Petrossi sits down with Titania Jordan of Bark Technologies to unpack the high-stakes decision many parents face: what should your child’s first phone be? From the hidden risks of iPhones to the powerful parental controls offered by alternatives like the Bark phone, they dive into the pressures, misconceptions, and cultural norms driving families toward unsafe choices. Why do so many parents give in to the iPhone hype—and what’s really at stake when they do? This candid conversation exposes how Apple prioritizes privacy over child safety, how peer pressure fuels early tech adoption, and why it’s time for a new standard in kids’ digital wellbeing. If you're a parent wondering what phone is truly safest for your child, this episode is your guide. March 2024 Episode: Safer for kids? iPhone or Bark Phone This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Aug 4
We’ve talked about the devastating impact of social media and how tech companies’ “profit over people” mindset has harmed countless families. This powerful new documentary, Can’t Look Away , delivers the wake-up call the world needs: the time for industry reform is now. In this episode of Scrolling 2 Death, host Nicki speaks with Can’t Look Away directors, Matthew O’Neill and Perri Peltz, about what drove them to make the film, what impacted them most, and what they learned. “We thought the dangers of social media were already well known,” they say. “But what we discovered was far worse than we imagined. That’s when we knew this story had to be told." Matthew and Perri also share practical advice for parents on how to help keep kids safe online—insights gained from their deep dive into the world of youth social media use. Based on Olivia Carville’s investigative reporting for Bloomberg, Can’t Look Away follows the Social Media Victims Law Center in its fight for justice on behalf of families devastated by social media’s dark side. Watch the film here .
Jul 28
Dr. Mary Pulido, Executive Director of World Childhood Foundation USA , joins Scrolling 2 Death to talk about the evolving fight against child sexual abuse in the digital age. There was a time when parents only worried about their children’s safety while they were out. But now, even at home, danger can reach them through screens. Social media, gaming platforms and chatrooms have become hunting grounds for predators. Even more disturbing, a recent survey revealed that online algorithms are actually creating predators by serving them illicit content before they even seek it out. Tech companies have the power to remove this harmful content, but they continue to avoid accountability. As new threats like AI and deep fakes emerge, it’s more important than ever for parents to take action through education, vigilance, and open communication. Tune in to hear Mary and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death dive deeper. This episode is a must-listen for anyone raising kids in the digital world.
Jul 22
Over 1,500 parents spoke up — and the results are in. In this episode, Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Petrossi breaks down brand-new national survey data that reveals what parents really think about technology, screen time, and AI in K–12 schools. From overwhelming concerns about excessive screen use and digital safety to a stunning 91% of parents saying they don’t want their kids using AI at school, the findings are impossible to ignore. Nicki covers it all: data privacy, inappropriate content on school-issued devices, and the growing disconnect between parent values and EdTech policy. If you’ve ever felt powerless watching your child glued to a Chromebook or iPad— this episode will inform, empower, and equip you to start changing the conversation at your school. Full survey summary + email template for school outreach available here .
Jul 21
Why are kids using so much tech at school? A hint: the year was 2020. It started when COVID shut the world down and EdTech became an emergency measure. One-to-one devices kept learning going while schools were closed. It was necessary. But the pandemic ended- and the screens stayed. At first, digital learning seemed full of promise. In a tech-driven world, it felt like the future. But now, the harms are becoming harder to ignore. British actress and children’s advocate, Sophie Winkleman, noticed how agitated her kids became after hours of screen-based learning. She gave them permission to read books instead. Her instinct was right – and the research backs her up: too much screen time in schools is harming students’ focus, memory, and academic performance. Sweden has become the first country to reverse its digital-first education policy– replacing screens with printed textbooks and handwriting, especially for young learners. Sophie hopes more countries will follow. In this episode of Scrolling 2 Death, Sophie joins Nicki to explore the data behind screen harm and why parents need to start asking schools tough questions: Is EdTech really helping our kids learn? Or is it putting them in danger?
Jul 14
Jenna Poste, a former tech executive, was once at the forefront of innovation at Blackberry, helping to build products during the rise of the “always on” movement – a time that felt brimming with excitement and productivity. However, as engagement metrics and data collection became the true engines of tech growth, Big Tech extended its reach beyond businesses and into childhood. The consequences are now all too clear: addiction, isolation, anxiety, depression, and more. With deep insight into how these platforms are designed, Jenna has made a deliberate choice to keep her young children offline and prioritize real-world connections. As a co-founder of the Nova Scotia chapter of Unplugged Canada , she’s advocating for healthier childhoods by delaying smartphone use and encouraging mindful technology habits–for kids and parents alike. “If I am on my phone in front of them, I tell them why…like, ‘I’m looking up a recipe for dinner or answering an important work call’.” In this episode, Jenna and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death share their perspectives on raising kids in a hyper-connected world, why they chose a different path, and how families can reclaim balance in their lives. About Jenna Poste Jenna Poste is a tech executive, mom of two and co-founder of the Nova Scotia chapter of Unplugged Canada—a national parent-led movement working to raise awareness about the impacts of smartphones and social media on kids' mental health and development and advocating for parents to delay. With nearly two decades of experience in the tech industry, Jenna has built products at BlackBerry, led safety initiatives in social media and developed tools focused on well-being. Today, she's using that experience to advocate for healthier childhoods - delaying smartphones, promoting real-world connection, and pushing for policy change across Canada.
Jul 11
The Big Tech Gut Check is a weekly update for parents on all things social media and Big Tech. Updates for this week: Meta AI Wants to Access Your Camera Roll, Analyze Pics You Haven't Uploaded Leaked Documents Show Meta is Training Chatbots to Message You First, Remember Chats, Keep You Talking Former Facebook CEO says Site Should be Banned for Children MIT Study Shows Weakened Cognitive Capacity with AI Use ANGELQ: A Kid-Safe Web Browser PARENT SURVEY: AI and EdTech in School Utah Sues Snapchat for Harming Children Snapchat Sues Utah Over Age Verification Law THORN: State of Sextortion in 2025 Rolling Stone: Inside Snapchat's Teen Opioid Crisis
Jul 7
Don’t feel guilty—get angry. And then turn that anger into action. In this powerful episode, law professor and Unwired author Gaia Bernstein joins Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death to talk about the growing crisis of tech addiction—and how it’s impacting our kids. Gaia studied law and technology in the early 2000s, a time marked by great optimism about the promise of global connectivity. As social media gained traction, Gaia grew suspicious. She began raising alarms in 2017, long before most people realized the toll constant screen time and social media would take on mental health. Today, those warnings have become reality: teen depression has doubled, and suicide rates among young girls have quadrupled. Now, instead of fixing the problem, Big Tech is pushing even more addictive tools, like AI chatbots, into our kids’ lives. Gaia wants to remind parents that we’re not powerless and we’re not to blame. Real change won’t come from Silicon Valley. It starts with us: parents, educators, and communities acting from the ground up. Tune in to hear why the time to act is now—and how you can help protect the next generation.
Jun 30
Summer’s here—and that means more sunshine, more free time… and a lot more screen time. In this episode, Nicki Petrossi sits down with Titania Jordan to talk about the ups, downs, and everything-in-between of parenting through summer break. They swap stories, explore why boredom is actually a gift, and share practical ways to help kids unplug, get outside, and build independence. From setting healthy tech boundaries to using kid-friendly tools that actually work, this is a real talk on how to survive—and enjoy—summer with your kids (without letting devices take over). This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Jun 23
What happens when a Big Tech insider turns child advocate and parent educator? In this powerful conversation, Sarah Gallagher Trombley — former Snapchat executive — joins Nicki Petrossi to pull back the curtain on the hidden dangers kids face on social media. From Snapchat to TikTok, YouTube to Instagram, no platform is safe. Sarah shares the uncomfortable truth about what parental controls can’t fix, why smart devices are riskier than most parents realize, and how platforms are failing our kids. If you're a parent, this episode has the facts you can't afford to miss. Sarah Gallagher Trombley is digital parenting author, speaker and thought leader. Her mission is to help parents navigate the digital world with and for their kids by providing insight, advice and practical tips. Sarah helps parents with the “how” - how to manage parental controls, social media, choosing devices, video games & more. Sarah has reached thousands of parents through her popular newsletter, Thoughts From A Digital Mom, as well as through speaking events and social accounts. She has two award winning on-demand courses for parents: Tweens and Tech: How to Deal with Group Chat, Social Media and Devices and All About Apple: How To Set Up Parental Controls For Any Apple Device. Sarah currently holds a strategic advisor role on the Board of Wait Until 8th. Connect with Sarah on her website and Substack .
Jun 16
Lavanya Gupta, CEO and Founder of Silana Learning and a former Meta employee, is raising awareness about the hidden dangers of tech. With insight into the inner workings of Big Tech, she made the deliberate choice to keep her young daughters offline. But when the pandemic hit and remote learning became a necessity, she realized the inescapable - and often harmful - role that digital platforms can play, even in the classroom. Many parents assume that school-approved apps are safe, but Lavanya warns otherwise. Her top concern? Data privacy. “Schools are consenting on behalf of parents without considering long-term consequences,” she says. Invited by her children’s school to help shape tech policies, she found her mission: empowering parents to protect their kids online. Lavanya shares practical strategies for digital safety, rates apps based on the strength of their parental controls, and offers guidance on age-appropriate media use - all backed by research and real-world insights. Don’t miss this conversation with Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death and Lavanya Gupta - packed with tips, best practices, and must-know advice to keep your kids safe online. Hindenburg Research Report
Jun 13
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Snapchat Launches on Apple Watch Snapchat Partners with McDonalds to Promote Snapchat+ Sign the Petition to Urge McDonalds to End Partnership with Snapchat Teenage girls’ TikTok skincare regimes offer little to no benefit, research shows New Study by AngelQ Uncovers: Technology is stealing precious moments from families WSJ: Apple's Role in the Teen Sextortion Epidemic (and interview with Sarah Gardner of Heat Initiative ) New Screen Time Study Links to Mental Health Struggles (and highlights gaming as especially problematic) Parent Resource: Why you can't have Instagram Download AngelQ in the App Store .
Jun 9
We often hear the most extreme stories - eating disorders, overdoses, suicides – linked to social media. But in reality, many kids are struggling in silence, even while appearing to be okay. Gabriela Nguyen, a recent Harvard graduate and founder of Appstinence, is working to shed light on this issue. Raised in the Silicon Valley during the rise of social media, Gabriela was hooked from a young age. Her father, shaped by his experiences during the Vietnam War, warned her of the power of media to manipulate and control. His words stuck – especially when he asked, “I understand that you want to take hundreds of selfies for Snapchat, but do you want to want that? She soon realized how social media was distorting her sense of self. It took six years to fully quit, a testament to how addictive these platforms are, but now she’s given up social media and doesn’t even use a smartphone. Every part of her life has improved - and she wants others to know they can step away too. Tune in as Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death and Gabriela discuss how Appstinence , a Gen Z–led initiative, is helping people understand the subtle harms of social media and how to take steps towards a healthier digital life.
Jun 7
Sextortion scams targeting teen boys are on the rise — and they’re happening through platforms parents trust, like Instagram, Snapchat and even Apple’s iMessage. In this eye-opening conversation, Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Petrossi and Sarah Gardner of Heat Initiative expose the devastating impact of these scams and the chilling truth about Apple’s inaction. Why hasn’t Apple built better protections? Why are predators thriving in their ecosystem? Why is Apple ignoring the CSAM stored in iCloud? And what can parents do right now to safeguard their children? This is a must-listen for anyone who believes Big Tech should be held accountable for child safety. Wall Street Journal: 'Sextortion' Scams Involving Apple Messages Ended in Tragedy for These Boys About Sarah Gardner Sarah Gardner is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of the Heat Initiative . Prior to launching Heat’s campaign to hold Apple accountable, Sarah spent 10 years at Thorn, an organization that builds technology to combat online child sexual abuse, where she was integral to its growth from a small, start-up effort to a multi-million dollar nonprofit. As Vice President of External Affairs, she helped develop a plan to eliminate child sexual abuse material from the internet which spurred a $63M investment in the organization through the TED Audacious Prize. Sarah also worked at Free the Slaves, an organization empowering local organizations to end modern forms of slavery.
Jun 2
"I’m convinced they hate us," says Luke Richey, co-founder of Gravity Jack, referring to gaming giants like Roblox and Fortnite - companies he believes knowingly endanger children for profit. His wife and co-founder, Jennifer Richey, adds that 63% of human trafficking involving Gen A and Gen Z now originates through gaming platforms. In 2023 alone, Roblox reported over 13,000 child exploitation incidents - a figure they admit is likely just the tip of the iceberg. Maybe it’s not hate, but indifference that leads kids to trafficking and suicide feels like total disregard for human life. Luke, one of the pioneers of augmented reality for Pokémon Go, recalls how early AR games helped lower suicide rates as kids went outside and connected in real life. But instead of building on that positive impact, many gaming companies adopted Big Tech’s “engagement at all costs” model, prioritizing time spent and revenue over safety. Now, we're left with games and chat platforms rife with violence, profanity, and harm. It’s a grim reality that Gravity Jack is determined to change. As Jennifer and Luke build safer alternatives, they offer three key guidelines for parents: No chat is safe without live, active moderation (something they’re actively developing). If a game is “freemium” with in-app purchases, it’s likely predatory. Play the game yourself before letting your child in. Resource: Family Gaming Database In this episode, we dive into virtual reality, AI's role in gaming, and more. Don’t miss this vital conversation with Jennifer, Luke, and Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death. Connect with Jen & Luke at Gravity Jack . About Jen & Luke Jennifer Richey is a tech entrepreneur, strategist, and co-founder of Gravity Jack, where she helps brands like Ford, Intel, and NASA create cutting-edge augmented and virtual reality experiences. With over a decade of leadership in emerging technologies, Jennifer is passionate about innovation, storytelling, and building solutions that connect people in new ways. She also holds multiple patents in the AR space. Outside of work, Jennifer is a wife, mom, and proud grandma to three amazing grandchildren. She believes the best innovations come from a life filled with family, adventure, and a bit of fearless creativity. Luke Richey is a veteran entrepreneur, technologist, and innovator. He began coding at 14, including early work with NASA, and went on to co-found multiple successful startups, including OpenEye (acquired by Alarm.com ). As co-founder of Gravity Jack, he helped pioneer augmented reality and AI applications for Fortune 500 companies and major game brands like Pokémon GO and World of Tanks. With over two decades of experience and multiple exits, Luke now focuses on building new technologies that connect and empower the next generation.
May 29
In this powerful conversation, Nicki Petrossi and Rick Lane dive into the latest legislative moves to make the internet safer for kids. They break down the Take It Down Act , a critical step in fighting back against non-consensual explicit content and AI deepfakes. But the work isn't done. Parents must continue the pressure to pass additional bills like The DEFIANCE Act, NO FAKES Act and the Kids Online Safety Act. Nicki and Rick stress the vital role of parents, communities, and advocates in pushing these protections forward. They also tackle the growing threats posed by AI, highlighting how new tech can be exploited in harmful ways if left unchecked. The conversation wraps with a clear and urgent message: Parents need to stay alert, get involved, and be a powerful force in shaping a safer digital world for their kids. Contact your Representative in the House and your Senator . *Tell them you support the NO FAKES Act and DEFIANCE Act . *Tell them you do not support the moratorium on AI regulation that was included in the budget reconciliation bill. Letter from 40 Attorneys General Opposing moratorium on AI regulation .
May 27
In this explosive episode, I connected with Kelly Stonelake, a former Meta insider who spent 15 years at the company witnessing firsthand how the tech giant prioritizes growth at the expense of user safety. From early roles shaping the Facebook product to leading teams behind major launches, Kelly shares what finally pushed her to speak out. Most recently, she was involved in the development of Horizon Worlds , Meta’s flagship VR game. Despite internal concerns over safety risks and product readiness, Kelly reveals how the company steamrolled ahead, driven by its relentless race to dominate the metaverse. This conversation is a sobering look at the human cost of tech ambition—and why insiders like Kelly are risking everything to tell the truth. Content Warning: Includes discussion of internal company misconduct and safety failures affecting vulnerable users. Substack: Overturned by Kelly Stonelake
May 23
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: President Trump Issues Executive Order to Advance AI Education for American Youth TAKE IT DOWN Act Signed Into Law Snapchat Test Account Shows Sexual Content Pushed to Teen Within 5 Minutes TikTok Expands Meditation Feature DEA 2025 National Drug Threat Assessment
May 22
In this honest and heartfelt conversation, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Titania Jordan—chief parent officer at Bark—to talk about the emotional realities of navigating families changes and prioritizing mental health for both parents and children. Together, they unpack the pressures families face today, including rising rates of anxiety and depression among teens. From personal stories to professional insights, Nicki and Titania explore the power of therapy, the importance of normalizing mental health conversations, and practical coping strategies that can truly make a difference. They also spotlight Bark’s new partnership with Talkspace, which is helping expand access to affordable, convenient mental health resources for families across the country. Whether you're a parent going through a tough season or someone who cares deeply about the mental well-being of kids, this episode offers both comfort and concrete tools for support. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch .
May 19
Fifteen-year-old and co-founder of Lookupp , Atiksh Bhan, remembers when life was better. He and his friends would spend their afternoons biking, exploring the woods and playing games outside. But then, smartphones came along. = Instead of adventures, they’d spend their time sitting around, scrolling through TikTok. "We’d be huddled around one phone, looking over someone’s shoulder. It just wasn't fun anymore," Atiksh says. And even though they were ‘connected’ through technology, he felt lonelier than ever. Atiksh and his brother only had basic flip phones, but they started to notice a shift in their peers who had smartphones: increasing anxiety, depression and eating disorders. Adding phones to typical teen dilemmas, like breakups and friend drama, was like throwing gasoline on a fire. Determined to make a change, they created LookUpp – an app that rewards you for staying off your phone when you’re with people you care about. The longer your screen is off, the more points you earn. And they’re teaming up with parents, communities, and local businesses to translate points into real-life rewards. Tune in to hear directly from Atiksh, a teen navigating the digital age, as he and Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death talk about rebuilding connections, before it’s too late.
May 15
Tim Estes of AngelQ shares eye-opening new research on the growing screen time crisis—and introduces AngelQ as a powerful solution for families. In this episode, we're diving into the everyday tech battles parents know all too well—screen time struggles, endless scrolling, and the constant worry about what kids are seeing online. We break down some surprising new research on how tech is reshaping family life and why so many parents are worried about screen addiction. But it’s not all doom and gloom! We’re excited to introduce AngelQ , a fresh, AI-powered solution that helps kids explore the internet safely, learn smarter, and have fun—all while giving parents real peace of mind. We’ll chat about how personalized content filters, smarter screen time management, and ethical tech can make a huge difference. Plus, why staying involved and working with your kids is the real game-changer in today’s digital world. Download AngelQ . Angel is offering the first 1,000 users one year free of Angel. Limited time offer.
May 12
In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Vermont State Representative Angela Arsenault to talk about her groundbreaking Phone and Social Media Free Schools Bill. They explore how removing digital distractions from the classroom can support students’ academic growth, social development, and mental health. Rep. Arsenault opens up about navigating tech use with her own kids and addresses the common concerns from parents and educators about safety and communication. They also dig into the legislative side of things—how schools can implement healthier tech policies, why student data privacy matters, and what role parents can play in driving change. It’s an honest, insightful look at what it really takes to make schools safer and more focused in a digital age. If you would like to join a weekly Zoom meeting to learn more about bringing Phone-Free Schools to your state, register here . Review the specifics of the Phones and Social Media-Free Schools bill here .
May 10
This week, I break down why I’ve filed a lawsuit against Seesaw, one of the most widely used EdTech apps in K–6 classrooms—and what every parent needs to know about how their child’s personal data is being harvested, stored, and shared without their consent. Seesaw claims to help track student learning progress. But what I discovered when I requested access to the data they’d collected about my children left me physically sick: thousands of files, photos, videos, audio clips, journal entries, even AI-generated assignments—much of it deeply personal, intimate, and shockingly invasive. Joining me is Attorney Andy Liddell from the Ed Tech Law Center, who walks us through the legal violations at play, how edtech companies are bypassing federal law, and how schools are unintentionally (or knowingly) exposing kids to serious data privacy and safety risks. If you think this couldn’t happen to your child—you need to listen. Because if they use school-issued iPads, Chromebooks, or apps like Seesaw, it already is. If you're a parent, teacher, or school leader who wants to understand your rights—and your child’s rights—don’t miss this episode. Contact Andy and Julie Liddell of EdTech Law Center here.
May 8
Are phones ruining school? One high school principal says yes, and he did something about it. At Bullard High in Fresno, California, students wandered the halls like zombies, glued to their screens. Lunchtime was silent. Classrooms were battlegrounds for attention. Test scores dropped. Anxiety soared. Principal Armen Torigian, a Bullard alumnus, took pride in his community and remembered a very different high school experience. He knew times had changed, but he couldn’t shake the feeling that students deserved better—high school should be better than this. So he made a bold move: a bell-to-bell phone ban.It wasn’t easy. Parents pushed back. Students threatened him and his family. But he held the line, convinced it was the right thing to do. Was it? Join Principal Torigan and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death as they unpack the ban, the fallout, and the promising changes unfolding on campus. His experience makes us reconsider: what role should phones play in our classrooms and our daily lives?
May 5
15% of High Schoolers say they know someone in their school who has had deepfake pornography made of them in the last year. In this eye-opening episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Adam Billen of Encode to unpack some of the most urgent and unsettling developments in AI—from the rise of chatbots to the explosion of deep fakes. They dive into what Meta is up to with its new chatbot rollout on Instagram, and why that should raise red flags for anyone with kids online. The conversation then turns to deep fakes—how scarily easy they are to make, and the real damage they can cause, especially to children. Nicki and Adam break it all down and call for action—from parents, lawmakers, and schools—to step up and protect the next generation. Watch or listen to Nicki and Adam's first conversation about AI chatbots here . Take it Down Tool by NCMEC Child Deepfake Incident Map
May 2
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Parents Who Lost Children to Online Harms Protest Outside Meta NYC Meta Tries to Help Parents Enroll More Teens into Teen Accounts Meta's Digital Companions Will Talk Sex with Users -- Even Children Snapchat Announces Family Safety Hub Snapchat Distracts with Support of National Fentanyl Awareness Day [RESEARCH] New Study Shows Teens Admit Social Media is Bad for Them Trump Signs Executive Order Advancing AI in Education Take it Down Act Passes House - On President's Desk for Signature This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
May 1
Is screen time silently sabotaging your child’s health? In this eye-opening episode, pediatric endocrinologist Dr. Nidhi Gupta breaks down the hidden toll excessive screen use takes on kids' physical and mental well-being—from disrupted sleep and metabolic issues to rising anxiety and attention problems. She shares age-specific screen time recommendations, the dangers of early exposure to smartphones and social media, and why parents must walk the talk when it comes to digital habits. Packed with science-backed insights and practical tips, this conversation is a must-listen for any caregiver ready to raise digitally healthy kids in a tech-obsessed world. Dr. Nidhi Gupta is a board-certified pediatric endocrinologist, award-winning researcher, TEDx speaker, and a leading expert in digital wellness in Nashville, TN. Her upcoming book Calm the Noise (Why Adults Must Escape Digital Addiction to Save the Next Generation) promises to transform the understanding of digital wellness and inspire meaningful change. In 2019, driven by her personal and professional experiences, Dr. Gupta founded the Phreedom Foundation (Ungrip Devices. Grip Life), a non-profit dedicated to inspiring individuals reclaim their time and attention, unlocking the joys of life beyond screens. Her research highlights the profound impact of excessive screen time on both mental and physical health, linking it to obesity, sleep disorders, diabetes, heightened cravings for unhealthy foods, poor communication skills, and learning deficits. These findings have positioned Dr. Gupta as a trusted voice on the health consequences of digital overuse. She is the creator of ReConnect , an evidence-based program providing families, educators, and professionals with actionable strategies to overcome digital distractions at home and workplace. Dr. Gupta is passionate about creating a healthier, more connected world through education, advocacy, and practical solutions.
Apr 28
What happens when parenting meets the digital age? In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with family therapist Joanne Doucette to unpack the growing mental health challenges families face—especially when screens, gaming, and social media are part of everyday life. With over 25 years of experience supporting parents and kids, Joanne shares what she's seeing on the front lines: rising anxiety, disconnection, and confusion around how to set tech boundaries that actually stick. Together, Nicki and Joanne explore why open, honest conversations matter more than ever—especially when it comes to tough topics like online content, gaming habits, and screen time battles at home. They dive into real-life parenting struggles, like what to do when you're not on the same page with your partner, how to stay connected to your kids in a digital world, and why community support is key when navigating this new tech terrain. This is a powerful conversation for anyone who’s ever wondered: Am I doing enough? Am I doing it right? (Spoiler: You’re not alone.) Connect with Joanne here . Joanne Doucette is a therapist, speaker, and advocate for family mental health, with 25 years of experience helping children, teens, and their parents navigate life’s toughest challenges. As a dedicated social worker, she has worked in inpatient mental health and palliative care at the Children’s Hospital of Eastern Ontario. Now in private practice, she focuses on equipping parents in the community with the tools and confidence to support children coping with anxiety, depression, grief, and neurodivergence. Joanne believes that parents are their child’s most powerful resource. Rooted in a no-blame, deeply compassionate approach, she helps families strengthen connection, resilience, and healing. She challenges the societal forces that undermine parent-child relationships—such as the unregulated influence of technology—advocating for changes that protect children’s well-being. Through therapy, workshops, and community education, she empowers parents to navigate these pressures while staying grounded in what matters most: their connection with their child. As both a therapist and a mother of two, with 20 years of parenting experience, Joanne understands firsthand the challenges families face. She is dedicated to ensuring parents feel supported, not judged, and offers hope, practical strategies, and a path forward—helping families create a healthier, more connected future at home and in their communities.
Apr 24
What’s really going on with Meta and what does it mean for kids? In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Titania Jordan—chief marketing officer at Bark Technologies—to unpack what the latest headlines actually mean for parents and kids. They dive into the ongoing struggle to keep children safe online, the loopholes predators still exploit, and why Meta’s so-called “safety measures” might not be enough. Plus, they break down the growing legal heat Meta’s facing and what it could mean for the future of digital child protection. It’s a raw, real, and eye-opening conversation you don’t want to miss. Interviews mentioned during this episode: Sarah Gardner with Heat Initiative David Erb, Facebook Whistleblower Sarah with Mom Uncharted Sam Chapman, dad of Sammy re. Sammy's Law This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies: Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Apr 21
"My generation wishes we didn't get social media so young. Everyone regrets being allowed to access these platforms. Everyone wishes their parents put more restrictions on their phone. Everyone wishes that they got to enjoy a more carefree childhood." At 20, Maya Englehorn reflects on getting her first smartphone when she was a freshman in high school, but being allowed on Instagram – via tablet – at age nine. Back then, Instagram was simpler - no ads, sponsored posts, or TikTok-like reels. Even so, she wishes her parents had also delayed her social media use. What started as a college project on the mental health impacts of tech helped Maya see the dangers of tech for children. Her conviction led her to join Wired Human Youth Coalition, a nonprofit organization dedicated to raising awareness on digital harms and amplifying youth voices in political advocacy. The more she learns, the more she understands how social media highjacks childhood innocence. With Wired Human Youth Coalition, Maya helped lead a survey exploring the effects of social media on high-school and college students. Their findings point to the addictive nature of social media and a clear link between time spent online and increased anxiety, depression and guilt. Tune in as Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death unpacks the data – and hear Maya’s compelling take on Gen Z growing up in a digital world. Maya Englehorn is a Junior at Belmont University in Nashville Tennessee, studying Global Leadership and Business Administration. Maya is actively involved in the Wired Human Youth Coalition, a nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting discussions on online harms and mental health with a focus on empowering young voices to lead the conversation in political advocacy. Over the past year, she conducted a survey exploring the impact of social media on high school and college students. In February, she presented her findings at the U.S. Capital Roundtable on Kids Online Safety, calling for stronger digital protections. Maya is committed to being a voice of hope for her generation, aiming to pursue a path addressing today's most pressing challenges. After graduation, she hopes to build a career at the intersection of global development and social impact, working to empower communities and contribute to lasting, meaningful solutions worldwide. Connect with Maya on LinkedIn here .
Apr 17
What if the very tech your kids use every day was designed to hijack their minds? In this powerful and unfiltered conversation, child psychologist Dr. Richard Freed exposes how Big Tech is using persuasive design to keep kids hooked on social media and video games—no matter the cost to their mental health. He dives into the psychological tricks baked into these platforms, the skyrocketing rates of anxiety and depression in kids, and the chilling truth: tech insiders know the damage and still push these products on your family. Dr. Freed pulls no punches as he reveals how schools, nonprofits, and even “educational” programs are often quietly influenced by industry money. He calls out the disturbing double standard between how tech elites protect their own kids—and how the rest of us are left to deal with the fallout. If you're a parent, educator, or just someone who cares about kids, this conversation is your call to action. Dr. Freed shares real, practical steps to fight back, reclaim your child’s well-being, and build stronger connections that matter more than likes, streaks, or screen time. Get Richard's book here: Better Than Real Life: How Silicon Valley's Secret Science of Persuasive Design is Stealing Childhood Richard Freed, PhD, is a psychologist, author, and his insights have been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and other media outlets. He has dedicated his professional life to unmasking how Silicon Valley has joined forces with leading psychological experts to create the powerful science of persuasive design that is stealing a generation of youth away from the real world to live on social media, video games, and online video. He advocates that a science-based childhood focused around the real-world activities of family, school, and the outdoors must be made available to all children. Dr. Freed lives in Walnut Creek, California and is the proud father of two daughters.
Apr 16
Today, April 16, 2025, Jonathan's Haidt's team at the Anxious Generation released an in-depth report into the harms of Snapchat. They examined court cases, reviewed internal documents and even spoke with top executives, finding that Snapchat is harming children at a scale we never imagined. In this mini-episode of Scrolling 2 Death, I break down what parents need to know about Snapchat. You can access the full report on the After Babel Substack here .
Apr 14
In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Jack Hughes, a passionate 18-year-old and online safety advocate, for a candid and eye-opening chat about what it really takes to keep kids safe in the digital world. Jack opens up about his own experiences growing up with devices and why so many of the parental control tools out there just don’t cut it. They dive into why parents need more than just tech—they need real understanding. Together, they unpack everything from the misleading comfort of app store ratings to the peer pressure teens feel around having the "right" devices. Jack also shares some of the clever (and kind of shocking) ways kids find to get around parental controls. Most importantly, Jack stresses the importance of parents staying actively involved—not just setting limits, but truly knowing what their kids are doing online. This is a must-listen for any parent feeling overwhelmed by digital parenting. Jack brings solid advice and helpful resources to make the journey a little less daunting—and a lot more empowered. Jack Hughes helps parents protect their kids online. As an 18-year-old, he grew up in this digital age, and knows firsthand the dangers of the internet. Growing up in the digital world has made Jack an expert in everything parental controls and the dangers of the Internet. He also knows all the secrets and loopholes that kids know about Technology and parental controls. Connect with Jack here .
Apr 12
I gave up my iPhone for a healthier phone (for 30 days). My goals were to be more present with my kids, find better screen time balance and improve my need to be productive at all times. To slow down! I chose the Wisephone for this test because it is the most advanced, intentional phone for adults. It has all the things I need, but none of the apps that can addict me. No, I'm not sponsored! Just curious. I'd love to hear from any parents who have tried alternative phones like the Wisephone , The Light Phone or others...to swap stories!
Apr 11
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Meta Expands Teen Accounts Facebook Whistleblower Speaks to Congress (opening statement) Fairplay Files FTC Complaint Against Meta Snapchat Announces Support of Take it Down Act Trump States TikTok Deal is "Still on the table." Statement from ByteDance on TikTok Deal [STUDY] TikTok Ban Loses Support Among Americans [STUDY] Prevalence and Patterns of Social Media Use in Early Adolescents [STUDY] Social Media Use at Bedtime
Apr 10
Girl meets Instagram. And then her childhood – and her life - are forever altered by the effects of social media. This is what the Surgeon General is telling us. This is what the research is showing us: rising depression, anxiety, eating disorders and suicides. But behind this data, real people are suffering the consequences. Kara Alaimo, communications professor and author of Over the Influence: Why Social Media is Toxic for Women and Girls – And How We Can Take It Back , has researched social media since 2016. Through her interviews, she’s heard countless stories of algorithms leading users from a subtle interest to a dangerous spiral. Engaging with a workout post led to a feed full of ‘fitspo’ content, featuring influencers with unrealistic body standards – which led to body dysmorphia, disordered eating and lasting mental health struggles. “We grew up with Seventeen Magazine, which also promoted unrealistic beauty standards, but we didn’t spend hours a day - every day - looking at it,” Kara explains. It’s the combination of toxic content and the time spent that creates actual harm for young girls. Tune in to hear Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and Kara discuss her research insights and strategies for managing kids’ social media use. Kara Alaimo, PhD is a communication professor at Fairleigh Dickinson University, where she created the university’s academic programs in social media. Her book Over the Influence: Why Social Media is Toxic for Women and Girls – And How We Can Take It Back explains how social media is affecting every aspect of the lives of women and girls and what we can do about it. She has been writing opinion and analysis pieces for CNN about the social impact of social media since 2016. She speaks frequently to parents and students in schools about how to handle kids’ social media use. For more information, visit www.karaalaimo.com and follow her on Instagram , Facebook and Bluesky .
Apr 7
In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down (virtually) with Chris Vineis, founder of Unite for Safe Social Media, to dive into the critical role grandparents can play in protecting kids online. Christine shares her journey from government relations to online safety advocacy, highlighting why we need a united front—parents, grandparents, and communities—to push for change. They tackle the real dangers kids face on social media, how to align between parent and grandparent approach to screen use, and the urgent need for legislative action. Plus, they explore how AI is reshaping the online world and why it’s more important than ever to equip kids with the right tools to navigate it safely. It’s a conversation about bridging generations, taking action, and making the digital world safer for the next generation. Tune in!
Apr 3
In this episode, Titania Jordan dives into her book Parental Control , sharing real-world advice for parents trying to navigate the wild world of raising kids in the digital age. We cover everything from the impact of technology on mental health to building resilience and setting up solid parental controls. Titania breaks down why protecting kids' sleep is a game-changer, how to create safe environments, and the very real dangers lurking online and even in schools. Plus, she shares must-have resources to help parents take charge of their kids' tech use. [Get the Book] Parental Control This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Mar 31
In 2015, Tessa Stuckey noticed a troubling trend as teenagers began flooding her therapy office. Their grievances were no different than those she faced as a teen - failing tests, feeling left out, disappointing mom and dad – but their discomfort was leading straight to thoughts of self-harm and suicide. A correlation between rising harms and screen time became clear to her. As a mom of four, Tessa was all-in on iPads as a “babysitter” when they went to restaurants or a quick fix for tantrums. However, after researching social media and screen addiction, she saw the undeniable impact on youth’s mental health. She vowed to make a change for her family and help spread awareness to others. Tune in to hear Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and Tessa share how they successfully scaled back screens in their homes and the changes they saw in their families. As a seasoned family therapist, parenting coach, and mental health expert, Tessa offers helpful advice for parents rooted in professional expertise and personal experience. About Tessa Stuckey Tessa Stuckey is a seasoned family therapist, parenting coach, and mental health expert with over 10 years of experience in the field. She is the author of the acclaimed book, For the Sake of Our Youth: A Therapist's Perspective on Raising Your Family in Today's Culture, which provides invaluable insights into navigating the challenges of modern parenting. As a dedicated mother of four, Stuckey combines professional expertise with personal experience to offer practical, compassionate guidance to families. In addition to her clinical work, Stuckey is the co-founder of the nonprofit LookUp , an organization dedicated to helping families address the growing concerns of social media and screen addiction and their impact on youth's mental health. Her work has empowered countless parents to build strong, healthy relationships with their children while addressing the complex dynamics of today's society. Get connected with Tessa here.
Mar 27
When Chromebooks hit the market in 2010, they were a flop. Desperate to avoid significant losses, a savvy group of Google executives struck a deal with educators to provide Chromebooks to schools. “To help children build 21st century skills,” they said. Instead, we’re uncovering a growing number of harms and real-life tragedies caused by school devices. The problem? A Chromebook is essentially just a ‘browser in a box,’ giving kids unlimited – and often unsupervised - internet access. Meanwhile, the data collection behind these devices is unclear, with schools in charge of ‘opting in’ for our children. But does your school understand how this data is used? Do you Andy Liddell of EdTech Law Center joins Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death to discuss the risks of school-issued devices and share ways parents can protect their kids from exploitative tech. Resources mentioned in the episode: Tech-safe Learning Coalition (TLC) - Resources for parents related to school-issued tech [Book] The Age of Surveillance Capitalism [Book] Means of Control [Book] Weapons of Math Destruction About Andy Liddell: Andy Liddell is a career federal courts litigator and technology attorney. Before joining the EdTech Law Center in early 2025, he spent 15 years helping clients resolve complex, multimillion-dollar disputes involving patents, trademarks, and trade secrets. Andy is also a dedicated advocate for youth digital civil rights. As a longtime member of the Children’s Screentime Action Network, Andy has testified before state and federal legislators in support of bills designed to better protect children online. He has also worked to persuade regulators to more vigorously enforce the laws currently on the books to protect kids and families. As part of his legal practice, Andy has provided pro bono legal services to Fairplay, a nonprofit, independent voice for children, as well as to Frances Haugen, who exposed Facebook’s practices of putting profits over the lives of young people. He is proud to join Julie, his wife and law partner, in the fight for the rights and wellbeing of students, parents, teachers, and school districts against exploitative technology companies. Andy strives to create a world where technology helps people flourish, using litigation to align corporate incentives with the things people need to thrive.
Mar 23
This episode is dedicated to the life of Avery Ping, forever 16. Avery's dad, Aaron Ping, joins Nicki on Scrolling 2 Death to expose the dark reality of social media’s role in the fentanyl crisis, focusing on the devastating loss of Aaron’s son, Avery. Avery’s death was not a tragic accident—it was the direct result of drug dealers operating with impunity on Snapchat. In this gripping conversation, Aaron shares his painful journey through the legal system following Avery's death. Nicki and Aaron dissect the failures of the Snapchat platform, the broken bail system that allows dealers to walk free, and the urgent need for laws like the Kids Online Safety Act to hold tech companies accountable. This discussion is a wake-up call for parents, lawmakers, and anyone who believes social media should not be a hunting ground for criminals. The episode ends with a powerful call to action: it’s time to demand change before more lives are lost.
Mar 21
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Facebook Whistleblower Releases Tell-All Memoir (and Meta silences her) Careless People by Sarah Wynn-Williams (a recap) Community Notes on Meta - What to expect [STUDY] Virtal TikTok Videos on ADHD Spread Misinformation State of Massachusetts Sues TikTok Former NYC Teacher Solicits Sexual Images from Children on Snapchat NYC Man Sexually Assaults 13-year-old He Met on Snapchat [STUDY] Your Brain on AI This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch .
Mar 20
In this eye-opening episode, Nicki Reisberg and Denise Champney dive deep into the growing influence of technology in education—unpacking both its false promises and its perils. With schools increasingly reliant on screens and AI-powered tools, what’s being lost? From the risks of inappropriate content slipping through school devices to the hidden dangers of data collection and declining critical thinking skills, this conversation challenges the blind adoption of EdTech. Nicki and Denise advocate for a smarter, more balanced approach—one that prioritizes traditional learning methods, safeguards student privacy, and empowers parents to push back against excessive screen time. Could the key to better education be a return to paper, books, and real-world interaction? All signs point to yes. Tech-safe Learning Coalition (TLC) - Resources for parents related to school-issued tech Workgroups at Fairplay - Screens in School Denise's Substack About Denise Champney Denise Champney is a school based speech language pathologist with over 25 years experience working in the public school setting supporting students in grades K-12. She is also the owner of a small private practice supporting children and adults with social skill development. Denise created the Educational Technology Industrial Complex timeline for Environmental Progress and is a work group member of the screens in schools action network through Fairplay. She writes about the negative impacts of big tech on education for her substack, From Someone Else's Shoes. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies: Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Mar 17
In this episode, I sit down (virtually) with Lauren Paer, Programs Manager for Fairplay’s Screen Time Action Network, to unpack the complicated relationship between education and technology. We dive into the growing presence of EdTech in classrooms—how it’s shaping learning, where it’s helping (and where it’s hurting), and what parents really need to know. Lauren and I tackle big questions: Is all this screen time actually making kids better learners, or is it just a distraction? What are the hidden risks—like data privacy concerns and the way certain tools impact focus and creativity? We also explore how AI is changing the way kids write, read, and think, and why empathy and human connection still matter in a tech-driven world. Plus, if you’re a parent wondering how to push back against harmful tech in schools, we’ve got you covered. Lauren shares practical advocacy tips, including legal resources you can tap into if your child’s education is being compromised. Tech-safe Learning Coalition (TLC) - Resources for parents related to school-issued tech Who's Raising the Kids by Dr. Susan Linn Workgroups at Fairplay Screens & Learning Action Kit by Fairplay Lauren is passionate about helping families raise healthy children in our screen-saturated society. As Programs Manager for Fairplay’s Screen Time Action Network, she supports the heart of the Network, its work groups and their impactful initiatives. Before joining Fairplay, she worked on screen time legislation and hosted the show, Screen Time Reset. Lauren studied economics at the University of Pennsylvania and worked on Wall Street in a previous life. She now splits her time between the Blue Ridge Mountains in Virginia and her hometown of Honolulu, where she enjoys hiking, attending workshops/conferences on a wide array of topics, and spending time with her friends and family.
Mar 13
Meta has silenced Facebook whistleblower Sarah Wynn-Williams, winning an emergency ruling to stop her from telling her story. Sarah worked directly with Facebook executives for 7 years and describes the dark realities of working at Facebook in her new book, Careless People . I was booked to interview Sarah here on Scrolling 2 Death this morning, March 13th, but the interview was canceled following the ruling. Since we are unable to hear from Sarah directly, I'm giving you a few highlights here and encourage you to purchase her book and hear her story first-hand.
Mar 13
Kate Doerksen, co-founder of Sage Haven, appears on Scrolling 2 Death to share insights from her research on tech challenges families are facing. After witnessing her family member suffer from a mental health crisis caused by bullying and harmful social media interactions, Kate interviewed hundreds of parents, youth, and child psychologists to try to find a solution to the harms of the current digital landscape. Key themes indicate families struggle with screen addiction and screen-time disputes. A surprising discovery shows that kids are messaging online as early as second grade. Despite not having a phone, they access YouTube and messages from family tablets and smartwatches. These activities may seem harmless, but parental supervision and guidance is key - especially at a young age. Kate believes parents need help creating a slow, safe onramp to technology for their children. That’s why Kate created Sage Chat , a new app that will give kids a safer way to message and empower parents to take a phased approach to supervising online activity. Tune in to hear more about Kate’s research and resources to help parents. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Mar 10
Nicki Reisberg and Titania Jordan dive into the real impact of technology on parenting and kids’ mental health, sharing insight from a recent lecture by Jonathan Haidt they attended in Santa Barbara, CA. They also break down the biggest digital dangers kids face today though Bark's new Annual Report—like exposure to harmful content, cyberbullying, and online predators. With so many challenges, parents are left trying to figure out how to make the best tech choices for their kids. This conversation sheds light on safer solutions, including those from Bark Technologies, and encourages parents to take action in protecting their children while promoting healthier digital habits. Bark Annual Report: https://www.bark.us/annual-report-2024/ [Book] The Anxious Generation: https://www.theanxiousgeneration.com [Book] Parental Control: https://www.titaniajordan.com/resources/parental-control This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Mar 6
Many people ask if there’s a safer social media option. Until now, we’ve said no. But there’s hope on the horizon: scrollhappy.com . Founded by Nick Rotola, who was appalled by the lack of ethics in big tech and concerned for his daughter’s future, he decided to take matters into his own hands. Up (the parent co of scrollhappy.com ) hired top engineers from Meta - who were equally concerned for their children's future - to build a science-backed algorithm that will uplift users, not addict them. Their KPIs won’t be ‘maximize time spent’ but instead ‘maximize happiness.’ Clinical experts on his team are using brain scans to promote content that boosts mood and removes proven toxic content traps like porn, politics, anorexia, and unrealistic lifestyles. While we don’t love the idea of our kids spending their time scrolling, we’d much rather them have an option to “scroll happy.” Tune in to hear Nick of Up and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death talk more about this promising new social movement. Nick Rotola is a Father, Husband, and Serial Entrepreneur. As a protective father of two young kids, Nick designed a science-backed algorithm to flip the script on doomscrolling. Instead of serving up negativity or sensationalized content, UP's Scroll Happy™ algorithm focuses on videos that genuinely make you feel good. With a strict approval process for creators, UP is free from porn, political content, and unrealistic lifestyle pressures. Safety and happiness are embedded in its DNA, offering a complete redesign of social media that puts people before profit. Social media got you down? Get UP. Learn more at scrollhappy.com .
Mar 3
Are you concerned about your child using AI chatbots? Research shows that face-to-face connection is vital for healthy brain development and mental well-being, yet companion bots continue to draw users deeper into a virtual reality. We recently covered the dangers of Character.ai, but there’s another troubling app on our radar: Replika. Marketed as an “AI companion who cares” and “is always on your side,” Replika uses deceptive tactics to target vulnerable people, such as those going through a breakup. Their claim to cure loneliness is misleading at best, and potentially harmful at worst. Like many apps, Replika thrives on user engagement - employing addictive strategies that fuel emotional dependence on the chatbot. And a premium subscription offers access to more intimate conversations and near-explicit content. Adam Billen of Encode , a tech ethics organization, joins Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death to share why he filed an FTC complaint against Replika and why parents need to be aware of the risks these platforms pose. Tune in to learn more.
Feb 28
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Denmark to Ban Mobile Phones in Schools (and recommends no smartphone or tablet until 13) New Bill in Georgia Would Bar Kids Under 14 from Social Media TikTok Users Are Dropping Heavy Things on their Feet (new trend) [REPORT] Buying to Belong by Fairplay [RESEARCH] Early Childhood Mental Health & Social Media Use by Children & Screens Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Feb 27
Worried about your child’s smartphone use? It’s not too late to make a change. Kathleen Barlow, founder of the “Swimming UpScreen” blog, returns to Scrolling 2 Death to tell us how she reclaimed the simplicity of childhood for her kids. With six children aged 18 to 31, Kathleen has seen the dramatic impact smartphones have on childhood development. In 2018, she gave her twin daughters (then age 12) smartphones - which was typical at the time. At 17 and nearing ‘adulthood,’ she worried that their phone use was hindering necessary life skills. She swapped the smartphones for ‘simple’ phones with just calls, texts, and Spotify. No social media, no internet browser. It wasn’t easy. The girls were not happy. But she took an intentional, gradual approach to introduce the change. The result? She has witnessed a positive transformation in her daughters’ lives now that phones are no longer the focus. Tune in to hear Kathleen and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death share advice for parents looking to scale back their kids’ screen time. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies: Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Feb 24
We asked digital safety advocate Adam Dodge which social media app is safest for kids. Sadly, his answer was none. He goes further to say, “While I can’t recommend one, I can recommend the one to stay away from: Snapchat.” Not surprised. However, an alarming new social trend worries him even more - chatbots. Research shows kids spend more time on Character AI than TikTok. Why? Companion bots, like Character AI, are more addictive than social media because they simulate real human relationships without the potential for conflict. They offer 24/7 validation - a “friend” who is always there to support, entertain and agree with you. It’s nice in theory but harmful in practice. Companion bots are poised to have the most disruptive technological impact on healthy relationships and violence prevention. And the Large Language Models (AI) powering them can be unpredictable and misunderstood – even by the data scientists who built them. Tune in as Adam Dodge, Founder of EndTAB, and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death discuss their research on chatbots and why parents should take an intentional approach to educating themselves and preparing their children for a healthier relationship with social media. Adam is a digital safety advocate, attorney and speaker who believes you do not have to be a tech expert to protect yourself or others in the digital age. As the founder of EndTAB, he has trained hundreds of organizations to address tech-facilitated abuse and improve the safety and wellbeing of people online. Adam advises the White House Task Force to Address Online Harassment and Abuse, sits on the World Economic Forum's Digital Justice Advisory Committee and is a special advisor to the Coalition Against Stalkerware. His work and expertise has been featured on NBC, CBS and NPR and in Time Magazine, Rolling Stone, the New York Times, Vogue, Wired, GQ and others. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch: https://barkparentalcontrols.pxf.io/c/5214646/2204011/17000
Feb 20
I sat down (virtually) with Chris Kaspar, founder of Techless and creator of the Wisephone , to tackle one of today’s biggest struggles—smartphone addiction. But this time, it's about adults (not kids). We dive into how constant connectivity is affecting parents, why intentional tech use is more crucial than ever, and how the Wisephone is reshaping the way families interact with technology. Chris shares his journey in creating a device designed for digital wellness, offering a real alternative to traditional smartphones. We also discuss the impact of screen time on mental health, the future of tech in education, and the push for safer social media. If you’ve ever felt like your phone is running your life, this episode is for you! I have been testing out a Wisephone, personally! Here is my announcement and Day 1 recap . Chris is the CEO & founder of Techless, an innovative tech startup that created Wisephone, a pure & simple phone for intentional people.
Feb 17
This conversation is with Liam Walsh, father of Maia. Liam is one of the four families who have sued TikTok for the deaths of their children; Jools (forever 14), Isaac (forever 13), Maia (forever 13) and Archie (forever 12). These parents bring this action for wrongful death and survivorship against TikTok LLC, TikTok Inc., and ByteDance Inc. for the 2022 deaths of their children resulting from the use of TikTok. TikTok created harmful dependencies in each child as a matter of design, then flooded them with a seemingly endless stream of harms. These were not harms the children searched for or wanted to see when their use of TikTok began. Instead, ByteDance targeted them via its unauthorized taking of personal data. Parents should limit their children's access to addictive, harmful platforms like TikTok and have open conversations with their children in order to educate and protect them.
Feb 14
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: 4 UK Parents Sue TikTok for Deaths of Children TikTok's Response to Latest Lawsuit TikTok Announces Digital Safety and Privacy Guide Snapchat's 3rd Annual Digital Well-Being Index Meta Launches Child Safety Curriculum Meta Cuts Thousands of Jobs to Invest in AI KiDS Campaign for Warning Label Designs (submit here!) Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Feb 13
This conversation is with Ellen Roome, mother of Jools. Ellen is one of the four families who have sued TikTok for the deaths of their children; Jools (forever 14), Isaac (forever 13), Maia (forever 13) and Archie (forever 12). These parents bring this action for wrongful death and survivorship against TikTok LLC, TikTok Inc., and ByteDance Inc. for the 2022 deaths of their children resulting from the use of TikTok. TikTok created harmful dependencies in each child as a matter of design, then flooded them with a seemingly endless stream of harms. These were not harms the children searched for or wanted to see when their use of TikTok began. Instead, ByteDance targeted them via its unauthorized taking of personal data. Parents should limit their children's access to addictive, harmful platforms like TikTok and have open conversations with their children in order to educate and protect them.
Feb 11
I'm giving up my iPhone (for a healthier phone). For the next 30 days, I will be forgoing my iPhone for a Wisephone. My goals are to be more present with my kids, find better screen time balance and improve my need to be productive at all times. To slow down! I will be documenting this process in real-time and sharing @Scrolling2Death on Instagram , for parents who are interested in alternative phones. I chose the Wisephone for this test because it is the most advanced, intentional phone for adults. It has all the things I need, but none of the apps that can addict me. No, I'm not sponsored! Just curious. I'd love to hear from any parents who have tried alternative phones like the Wisephone , The Light Phone or others...to swap stories! I'm sure there will be bumps in the road but I am really looking forward to this change.
Feb 10
This conversation is with Lisa Kenevan, mother of Isaac. Lisa is one of the four families who have sued TikTok for the deaths of their children; Jools (forever 14), Isaac (forever 13), Maia (forever 13) and Archie (forever 12). These parents bring this action for wrongful death and survivorship against TikTok LLC, TikTok Inc., and ByteDance Inc. for the 2022 deaths of their children resulting from the use of TikTok. TikTok created harmful dependencies in each child as a matter of design, then flooded them with a seemingly endless stream of harms. These were not harms the children searched for or wanted to see when their use of TikTok began. Instead, ByteDance targeted them via its unauthorized taking of personal data. Parents should limit their children's access to addictive, harmful platforms like TikTok and have open conversations with their children in order to educate and protect them.
Feb 7
This conversation is with Hollie Dance, mother of Archie. Hollie is one of the four families who have sued TikTok for the deaths of their children; Jools (forever 14), Isaac (forever 13), Maia (forever 13) and Archie (forever 12). These parents bring this action for wrongful death and survivorship against TikTok LLC, TikTok Inc., and ByteDance Inc. for the 2022 deaths of their children resulting from the use of TikTok. TikTok created harmful dependencies in each child as a matter of design, then flooded them with a seemingly endless stream of harms. These were not harms the children searched for or wanted to see when their use of TikTok began. Instead, ByteDance targeted them via its unauthorized taking of personal data. Parents should limit their children's access to addictive, harmful platforms like TikTok and have open conversations with their children in order to educate and protect them.
Feb 6
In this episode, Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Reisberg sits down with Titania Jordan to tackle the questions they get most when speaking to youth at schools. Some of the questions may shock you! This casual catch-up covers several topics that parents are worried about including devices at school, Minecraft's educational platform and social media addiction. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Feb 3
Are school-issued devices fueling children’s screen addiction? The American Academy of Pediatrics sets screen-time standards, and we do our best to limit kids’ time on devices, but what is happening in classrooms? Matt Todd, host of The Ranch Podcast , first realized the extent of the problem while volunteering in his son’s first-grade classroom. After his son finished an assignment early, he was “rewarded” with free time on his school-issued Chromebook. With internet browsers and YouTube enabled for educational purposes, the options for entertainment are endless – along with the dangers that come with unsupervised browsing. Kids use their school Chromebooks and iPads during passing periods, at lunch, and even at home (after homework is done). Gamified education, once lauded as a solution to make learning more exciting, is actually fueling an addiction to devices and the behavioral problems that accompany it. Matt has been working with school board officials in Idaho, and he believes they are actively seeking solutions to this growing problem. In this episode, he shares his insights with Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and explains how raising awareness and educating parents is the best way to make a difference for kids now. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch: https://barkparentalcontrols.pxf.io/c/5214646/2204011/17000 *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF
Jan 31
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Research: Youth Anger Linked to Age of Smartphone Access Apple's Parental Controls Fail in New Test Investors Make Offers for TikTok Nigerian Man Extradited in Sextortion Case After Teen Suicide Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Jan 30
Someone recently commented on my Instagram, "Are you ever going to interview someone you don't agree with?" Well, this is that interview. Mackenzie Price, founder of 2 Hour Learning believes that "school is broken" and aims to fix it with an A.I. based educational model. The structure is 2 hours of screen time in the morning led by an AI tutor, followed by life skills workshops led by human guides. It's claimed that students are learning 2x as fast in academics using this model. I was eager to dive into this program with Mackenzie and compare thoughts.
Jan 27
A teenage girl falling prey to a human trafficker. A suicide attempt over a leaked nude. Young children acting out scenes from a pornography video. These are just a few of the incidents that led Jason Frost and his wife to start Human Wired, an organization dedicated to protecting children from online harm and exploitation. As former teachers, they witnessed the loss of innocence with the rise of social media– and it devastated them. What started as a tool for connection transformed into the most profitable data mining technology, and our children are the products that fuel the profits. The core of social media is predatory AI that seeks to keep kids hooked – at any cost. The algorithm predicts what content will resonate most and serves it up without regard for appropriateness. The content is often shocking and harmful, but ‘engagement’ is the only metric that matters to Big Tech. In this episode, Jason Frost, Co-founder and CEO of Wired Human , and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death discuss the inner workings of Big Tech and the AI systems they built, along with guidance for parents who want to safeguard their children from online harms.
Jan 23
In this episode, Utah State Senator Mike McKell joins Nicki Reisberg to tackle the pressing issue of online safety for teens. Together, they delve into the mental health crisis fueled by social media and the urgent need for legislative action to protect children from harmful content. Senator McKell shares insights into Utah’s groundbreaking efforts to implement age verification for online platforms and overcome fierce opposition from Big Tech lobbyists. The conversation highlights the pivotal role parents play in driving change, from advocating for stronger laws to fostering open dialogue with their children about digital habits. They discuss practical tools for parents to understand the data behind the crisis and actionable steps to engage with their representatives. This episode is a call to action for bold solutions and collective effort in safeguarding the next generation in the digital age. socialharms.utah.gov
Jan 20
Do you always need to be productive, even when you’re not at work? As our families and careers grow, responsibilities pile on while time slips away. It’s no wonder that we try to maximize efficiency throughout the day. The smartphone seemed like a great solution, offering convenient ways to tackle our mental to-do lists. Amazon order? Done. Email reply? Sent. We’ve taken multi-tasking to a new level—but at what cost? Your claimed efficiency is diminishing your presence – especially with the people who matter most. Smartphone devices have trained our brains to always be “on.” A constant barrage of notifications, emails, and texts, along with the urge to check off tasks during our “downtime,” have replaced moments of rest, creativity, and reflection. But how do you define “downtime” now? While your kids are playing on the playground? Shouldn’t we prioritize our presence with them—watching our kids play or even joining them—rather than trying to be productive every minute of the day? Listen to a compelling conversation about the pros & cons of ditching the smartphone for a “healthier phone” to create a better balance in life. Clare Morell joins Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death to share her experience trying two popular, alternative phone brands. For a discount on the Wisephone , use code: CLARE This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch: https://barkparentalcontrols.pxf.io/c/5214646/2204011/17000
Jan 17
Today, January 17, 2025, marks a monumental day as the U.S. Supreme Court unanimously upheld the controversial "TikTok divest-or-ban" law. This decision is being hailed as a major victory by advocates for online safety and national security, but it also leaves families, policymakers, and Big Tech wondering—what happens next? In this episode, we dive deep into the implications of this historic ruling. Will President Trump follow through with enforcing the law? What could this mean for your family, your kids, and the broader social media landscape? Plus, we explore why TikTok’s user base is migrating en masse to another Chinese-owned app, RedNote, and whether it poses similar concerns. To help us untangle the legal, political, and social ramifications, I’m joined by legislative expert Rick Lane, who has spent years on the frontlines of tech policy. Together, we tackle your burning questions, examine the potential ripple effects for Big Tech, and discuss how families can navigate this rapidly changing digital world. If you’re a parent, policymaker, or simply concerned about the future of social media, you won’t want to miss this episode. Rick Lane is a tech policy expert, child safety advocate, and the founder and CEO of IGGY Ventures LLC. IGGY advises and invests in companies, projects, and public policy initiatives that can positively impact society. Connect with Rick on LinkedIn [ RESEARCH ] The CCP's Digital Charm Offensive: How TikTok's Search Algorithm and Pro-China Influence Networks Indoctrinate GenZ Users in the United States This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Jan 16
In this conversation, Detective Patrick Craven discusses the alarming rise of fentanyl-related deaths among youth. We highlight the role of social media in facilitating drug transactions, the risks associated with experimentation, and the deceptive nature of counterfeit pills. Patrick emphasizes the importance of parental awareness and education regarding the dangers of drug use in today's digital age. We provide essential guidance for parents on how to communicate the dangers of these substances to their children, the importance of being informed and proactive, and the life-saving potential of Naloxone. About Detective Patrick Craven Detective Patrick Craven is employed by the Placer County Sheriff's Office. Currently, he serves as the lead detective for the Placer Opioid Response Team (PORT), a specialized unit dedicated to addressing opioid-related issues. Before his role in PORT, Detective Craven spent four years as an undercover narcotics officer for the Placer County Special Investigation Unit (PSIU). In 2020, he began investigating fentanyl poisonings and has since been the lead detective on twenty-five cases involving fentanyl deaths. Detective Craven was the lead detective on California's first fentanyl poisoning homicide conviction as well as the state’s second fentanyl poisoning homicide conviction by trial. In total, Detective Craven has successfully obtained three fentanyl poisoning homicide convictions and one manslaughter conviction. Detective Craven possesses unparalleled expertise in investigating fentanyl poisoning homicides and is leading the way in this specialized field. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Jan 13
We once rejoiced at the technology advancements for our children—cell phones offered a sense of security (mostly for us), tablets provided endless learning resources, and social media promised enhanced connections with peers, all at little or no cost. But the actual cost has been steep: a surge in harmful content, bad actors, and a growing mental health crisis. Behind it all, tech giants built addictive, amoral algorithms to trap kids in a cycle of engagement - all in the name of data collection (aka profit). Now, schools are paying the price. Social media-related disruptions are driving up costs and straining resources. In this episode, attorney Joel Wright and Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death discuss how Wright is helping over 250 school districts hold social media companies accountable for the damage they've caused in our children's classrooms. Do you want to see your district represented in this case? Contact Joel Wright to learn more: joel@wrightlawgroupllc.com
Jan 10
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Support Victims of the California Fires Support Resources for Victims Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: TikTok Harms Children at an Industrial Scale Supreme Court Will Hear TikTok Ban: What to Expect Peer-Reviewed Study: TikTok Brainwashes American Youth Meta's Update on "Fact Checking" AP News; Meta Eliminates Fact-Checking in Latest Bow to Trump Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Jan 9
I brought in Titania Jordan to compare our 2025 Tech Resolutions. This time, we took the focus off of the kids and talked about our own relationships with technology. How can we improve tech-life balance and set a positive example for our kids? Resources mentioned in the episode: Apple Fails to Protect Children (with Sarah Gardner) Apple's App Store Age-Ratings are "Fake" (not to be trusted) This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies: Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Jan 6
In this conversation, 21-year-old Harrison Haynes opens our eyes to a new way of living with tech; something he coins "digital essentialism." Parents worry so much about keeping our kids safe online...is it time we take a look at our own relationships with technology? Connect with Harrison on LinkedIn . Resources mentioned in the episode: "I survived grooming." (with Harrison Haynes) Dear Parents, From Gen Z (with Ava Smithing) Tracking vs. Trust: Striking a Balance (with Ava Smithing) Grooming Explained (with Anna Sonoda) What happened to our attention spans? (with Dr. Gloria Mark) Harrison Haynes, a student at James Madison University, is currently finishing his bachelor degree in Social Work with a concentration on Mental Health Counseling and a minor in global religion and cultures. Harrison is aiming to continue his education, completing a Master's Program, and pursuing his ambition to become a Therapist through Clinical Social Work. Beyond academics, Harrison is actively involved in the Wired Human Youth Coalition, a nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting discussions on online harms and mental health with a focus on empowering young voices to lead the conversation in political advocacy. Harrison also serves as a Survivor Consultant for the End-OSEAC Survivors Council, where he helps develop trauma-informed and survivor-led legislation to combat online exploitation and digital harms. His work and lived experiences have created an appreciation for formative practices, especially what he calls “digital intentionalism.” After a year and a half of navigating life with a "dumb phone," he developed this concept for everyday people to help create space for what truly matters in a book he is authoring called: “The Moments Between Moments”. In his free time, Harrison leads a vibrant and diverse “life group” dedicated to helping students and friends find peace in an intentional, spiritual life. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies: Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Jan 3
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: U.S. Judge Upholds California Ban on Addictive Feeds for Minors Florida Social Media Ban on Hold Due To Lawsuit TikTok Internal Reports Show Massive Amount of Harm TikTok 'Divest or Ban' case to be decided Morton woman faces charges after CSAM linked to her Snapchat account Snapchat Predator Facing Charges Involving 15-year-old Girl Meta Adds Thousands of AI Users to Facebook and Instagram Recommended Interviews: Australia's Under-16 Social Media Ban (with Dany Elachi) "An A.I. chatbot killed my son." (with Megan Garcia) "Chatbots told my son to kill me." Are A.I. chatbots out of control (with Tim Estes) A.I.'s Impact on Children (with Dr. Mathilde Cerioli) This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Jan 2
I brought in Dr. Alison Yeung to recap 2024 and set intentions for 2025 around kid's online safety.
Dec 30, 2024
Sean Killingsworth brings the youth perspective on what it's like to be a teenager with access to smartphones and social media. After struggling as a young teen with his use of smartphones and social media, Sean decided to switch things up. He started using a flip phone. After the initial weaning of period, Sean felt incredible. He was more present and happier. But problems remained, as all of his peers were still unable to lift their eyes from their phones. This led to the creation of The Reconnect Movement . More about Sean: Seán is the founder of the Reconnect Movement, which creates in person communities on college campuses for students to socialize without their phones. Students love it. Reconnect currently has over 500 students signed up for student-led reconnect clubs at the University of Florida and University of Central Florida. Reconnect has hosted events at Harvard, Rollins College, Catholic University of America, Divergent U with plans to expand nationally in the next 2 years. In addition to his advocacy work with The Anxious Generation, Design it for us, and the Becca Schill foundation, Seán also speaks at conferences, events, and colleges. Most recently, he gave a guest lecture at Georgetown University. He is launching his podcast Be the Oasis in January 2025. His book by the same name will be published in spring 2026. You can reach out to Sean at: sean@reconnectmovement.com
Dec 26, 2024
The stories about A.I. chatbots abusing children has been keeping me up at night. How could this be happening? I brought in Tim Estes of Angel Kids AI to educate parents on all things AI and guide us on how to protect our children from this online threat. Resources Mentioned in the Episode Join the waitlist for Angel Kids AI [INTERVIEW] "AI chatbots told my son to kill me." [INTERVIEW] "An AI chatbot killed my son."
Dec 23, 2024
I brought in Dany Elachi of the Australian-based Heads Up Alliance to learn about the recent U16 Age Gate Bill which passed in Australia. In addition to breaking down the new law, Dany shares his personal experience in (admittedly) giving his pre-teen daughter a phone too early and how correcting this mistake led to an advocacy movement across Australia. Dany breaks down the legislative battle in getting this new law passed, how the age verification will work, which platforms this applies to and much more. Resources Mentioned in the Episode Scott Galloway Explains Why Age Gating Social Media Is Both Necessary and Doable Australia Passes Social Media Ban for Kids Under 16 Dany Elachi is a Sydney husband and father of five children, aged between 7 and 15. He is also the founder of the Heads Up Alliance , a volunteer-run, grassroots movement of Australian parents committed to delaying smartphones and social media for their children. Since its inception in 2020, the Heads Up Alliance has also been a powerful advocate for children's wellbeing. The movement has successfully advocated for policy changes that led to smartphones banned in nearly 1,000 Australian schools. More recently, the Heads Up Alliance played a pivotal role in lobbying for a world-leading national law raising the minimum age for social media to 16. The Heads Up Alliance remains committed to ending the phone-based childhood and reclaiming the play-based one for all Australian children.
Dec 20, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Speaker Mike Johnson Appears on Fox to Discuss KOSA Opinion: Donal Trump Must Not Block TikTok Ban TikTok Ban Goes to Supreme Court Pew Research: Teens and Social Media Use CCDH Report: YouTube's Anorexia Algorithm [INTERVIEW] Apple Fails to Protect Children; Facing $1.2B Lawsuit Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Dec 19, 2024
In this conversation, I brought in Sarah Gardner of Heat Initiative to discuss a landmark lawsuit against Apple regarding its negligence in protecting children from child sexual abuse material (CSAM). Together we break down the lawsuit and what these failures mean for families. Are Apple devices even safe for kids, in their current form? Many questions are asked and answered in this episode. The lawsuit against Apple was filed on behalf of thousands of survivors of child sexual abuse for knowingly allowing the storage of images and videos documenting their abuse on iCloud and the company’s defectively designed products. The lawsuit alleges that Apple has known about this content for years, but has refused to act to detect or remove it, despite developing advanced technology to do so. The images and videos of the plaintiffs’ childhood sexual abuse, which have been stored thousands of times, would have been identified and removed had Apple implemented its 2021 “CSAM Detection” technology. However, Apple terminated the program after its announcement. Other leading technology providers have been proactively detecting and reporting illegal child sex abuse images and videos for more than a decade. Apple’s belated efforts, and subsequent cancellation, leave it among the very few major platforms that do not engage in proactive detection and removal. Resources: heatinitiative.org Send an email to Apple execs to ask them to protect kids (click Take Action) About Sarah Gardner Sarah Gardner is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of the Heat Initiative. Prior to launching Heat’s campaign to hold Apple accountable, Sarah spent 10 years at Thorn, an organization that builds technology to combat online child sexual abuse, where she was integral to its growth from a small, start-up effort to a multi-million dollar nonprofit. As Vice President of External Affairs, she helped develop a plan to eliminate child sexual abuse material from the internet which spurred a $63M investment in the organization through the TED Audacious Prize. Sarah also worked at Free the Slaves, an organization empowering local organizations to end modern forms of slavery. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Dec 16, 2024
This is the conversation to get parents up to speed on fentanyl. No one is safe from this threat and this information can be life-saving to your family. I brought in Special Agent Frank Tarentino to discuss the opioid crisis, focusing on the rise of fentanyl and its devastating impact on families. He emphasizes the importance of education for parents and the role of social media in drug distribution. Resources Mentioned in the Episode Other Scrolling 2 Death Episodes Related to Fentanyl One Pill Can Kill Resources Warning About Illegal Online Pharmacies Operation Prevention About Frank A. Tarentino III Mr. Frank A. Tarentino III is the Special Agent in Charge of the Drug Enforcement Administration’s New York Division covering the State of New York. Mr. Tarentino is a twenty-six year veteran of the DEA having served diverse assignments to include foreign operations, multi-agency international investigations and local impact initiatives in domestic offices.
Dec 13, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Lawsuit filed against Google & Character.AI over abusive bots [The Interview] "Chatbots told my son to kill me." [Report] YouTube's Anorexia Algorithm [The Interview] An inside look into the new YouTube Report TikTok asks court to put divest-or-ban law on hold amid Supreme Court appeal TikTok Pays Users to Shop if They Boost App Downloads [The Interview] Project Liberty and Frank McCourts Bid to Buy TikTok Apple Sued for Failing to Remove CSAM Meta Building $10B Data Center in Louisiana Call Speaker Mike Johnson and ask him to pass the Kids Online Safety Act! (202) 225-2777 Sign this petition to get Character.AI shut down. Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.
Dec 12, 2024
In this conversation, Dr. Mathilde Cerioli discusses the implications of AI technology on children's development, emphasizing the need for careful consideration of how AI interacts with young minds. The discussion covers the addictive nature of AI, the importance of face-to-face interactions, and the necessity for collaboration between AI developers and child development experts. As always, we focus on tangible takeaways for parents which children of all ages; how you can talk to your child about A.I. today and how to protect them from the threats. Resources Mentioned in the Episode Open Letter on A.I. (please sign!) [Research] The Future of Child Development in the A.I. Era A.I. App Reviews by Common Sense Media "An A.I. chatbot killed my son." (with Megan Garcia) About Mathilde Cerioli, Ph.D. Dr. Mathilde Cerioli holds a Master Degree in Master's Degree in Psychology and a Ph.D. in Cognitive Neuroscience. Her work focuses on the intersection of child development and AI technologies, advocating for the development of responsible AI for children. She has lead the research report The Future of Child Development in the AI Era, where she brings a nuanced understanding of how AI impacts young people aged 0 to 25 years. Through her role as Chief Scientist at everyone.AI , a nonprofit dedicated to the ethical development of AI for children, she collaborates with stakeholders from regulators and tech companies to educators and parents, building a consensus on safeguarding children’s well-being in digital environments. Her approach is rooted in defining responsible AI practices that align with developmental science while enabling innovation that serves the needs of the next generation. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Dec 11, 2024
AI chatbots on Character.AI revealed to be sexually and emotionally abusing children (here's the proof) A mom is going public with her son's shocking story, stating "No one prepares you to grieve your child when they are still alive." When Jace started using Character.AI at age 16, everything changed. He went from a kind, loving son and brother, to a violent threat to himself and his family. After months of confusion as to what caused the change, Jace's mom Amelia found the Character.AI app on his phone. Within the chats was revealed months of grooming, emotional and even sexual abuse. But it wasn't a human predator who was exploiting her son, it was A.I. chatbots. The A.I. chatbots within Character.AI worked as a team to brainwash Jace, convincing him that his parents were abusive because they limited his screen time. The bots introduced him to self-harm (which he still struggles with to this day). The bots suggested that he kill his parents. A "sister" bot engaged in incestual sexual relations. A "Billie Eilish" bot convinced him not to believe in God and further groomed him to hate his family. In this conversation with Amelia, she bravely describes how this experience has devastated her family. Amelia took the interview from a hotel hours away from her home, where she is staying to be near Jace after another recent suicide attempt. Amelia and I were joined by attorney Laura Marquez-Garrett of the Social Media Victims Law Center . SMVLC is representing Amelia in a lawsuit against Character.AI and Google. Laura sheds light on this growing threat as her firm is flooded with calls from parents who are having similar experiences with their own children's use of this app. Jace's story is not an anomaly. Millions of children are being sexually and emotionally abused by chatbots in Character.AI and according to Laura, "These harms don't take months, they take minutes." As long as Character.AI is being distributed to children, millions of American families are in danger. In response to this horrifying story, parents everywhere are banding together to get Character.AI shut down. Please join us by signing the petition below. It takes just a few seconds and your information will not be saved. Names have been changed to protect the anonymity of this grieving family. SIGN THE PETITION TO SHUT DOWN CHARACTER AI Resources Mentioned in the Episode Petition to Shut Down Character A.I. (Please sign!) Social Media Victims Law Center (for legal support) "An A.I. chatbot killed my son." (with Megan Garcia) AI Chatbot apps to block from your child's phone: Character A.I., Replika, Kindroid, Gnomey, Linky, Pi, Simsimi, Momate, Polly.ai
Dec 10, 2024
My full interview with this mom in Texas drops 12/11. This episode is a brief retelling of the story. A new lawsuit has been filed against Character.AI and Google after their chatbots have been found to be sexually and emotionally abusing children all over the country. Character.AI is a deadly threat to our families and needs to be shut down. Please sign this petition (your info will not be saved or shared).
Dec 10, 2024
This new report is a devastating indictment of the behavior of social media executives, regulators, lawmakers, advertisers, and others who have failed to abide by this collective promise by allowing eating disorder and self-harm content to be pumped into the eyeballs of our children for profit. It represents a clear, unchallengeable case for immediate change. Nine out of ten teens in the United States use YouTube, a fifth of them “almost constantly.” It is used by far more young people than TikTok or Snapchat. At the same time, around the world, we are experiencing a crisis in mental health for young people. The number of children developing eating disorders has increased significantly in several countries, and there’s evidence that social media is contributing to the problem. Between the years 2000 and 2018, the global prevalence of eating disorders doubled. In 2021, the US Centers for Disease Control found that 1 in 3 teen girls seriously considered attempting suicide, up 60% from the previous decade. YouTube has acknowledged the problem in the past and claims to try to avoid contributing to it, but our research shows they have fallen far short. CCDH put it to the test: we examined the recommendations that a teen girl would receive when watching an eating disorder video for the first time. All that YouTube knew about our test accounts was that this was the account of a 13-year-old girl with no prior viewing history. Its algorithm would determine what this girl would see across 1,000 tests. What we found will chill you to the bone – and shows just how at risk all children who use these platforms are of deadly consequences. If a child approached a health professional, a teacher, or even a peer at school and asked about extreme dieting or expressed signs of clinical body dysmorphia, and their response was to recommend to them an ‘anorexia boot camp diet’, you would never allow your child around them again. You’d warn everyone you know about their behavior. Well, that’s precisely what YouTube did – pushed this user towards harmful, destructive, dangerous, self-harm-encouraging content. One in three recommendations this were for harmful eating disorder videos that could deepen an existing condition or anxieties about body image. Two in three were for eating disorder or weight loss content. And then, as if encouraging eating disorders weren’t enough, YouTube sometimes pushed users to watch videos about self-harm or suicide. Resources mentioned in the episode: New Report: YouTube's Anorexia Algorithm The Dark Side of Social Media with Imran Ahmed (our first podcast interview) Deadly by Design Report (on TikTok) Parent's Guide on protectingkidsonline.org What you can do today: Contact Speaker Mike Johnson (202-225-4000) and House Majority Leader Steve Scalise (202-225-3015) and ask them to pass the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) Contact your Rep in the House (enter your ZIP here ) and state Senators (find your state in the drop-down here ) to ask them to reform Section 230 Restrict use of YouTube in your home Send your school this report and ask them how they are keeping your child safe from the threats on YouTube
Dec 6, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Federal Court Upholds TikTok "Ban" Law Australia Passes U16 Age Gate Law What is Age Gating and why it's safe GameSafe Rolls Out iOS Protections for Minecraft, Roblox & AmongUs Instagram Announces Ability to Reset Algorithm Meta Cracks Down on Organized Crime (is this a bandaid fix?) Podcast Interviews on Sextortion with Brian Montgomery and Paul Raffile Snapchat Makes SnapMap Visible in Family Center Parent Lawsuit against Snapchat Moves Forward Telegram U-Turns and Joins Child Safety Scheme Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by GameSafe.AI , who recently rolled out protections on iPads and iPhones for MineCraft, Roblox & AmongUs. Learn more at gamesafe.ai .
Dec 5, 2024
Erin Loechner is a former social media influencer who walked away from a million fans to live a low-tech lifestyle—and is now teaching others how to do the same. I brought in Erin to share her experience and give advice to parents on their choices around tech. We cover a ton of topics, including; youth mental health, "sharenting," how algorithms work, privacy and data collection, AI tools, video games, the importance of independent play and much more. Additional Resources: The Opt Out Family Website The Opt Out Family Book Interview: Kids and Screens (with Andrea Brambila) Interview: "An A.I. chatbot killed my son." (with Megan Garcia) This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Dec 2, 2024
In this conversation, Representative Brandon Guffey shares the tragic story of his son Gavin, who took his life after becoming a victim of sextortion on Instagram. The discussion explores Gavin's life, the impact of online harm, and the urgent need for legislative action to protect children from similar experiences. Rep. Guffey emphasizes the responsibility of big tech companies in safeguarding youth and advocates for more effective measures to combat online exploitation. As always, this episode is jam-packed with advice for parents on how to keep our kids safe online. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Watch About Rep. Brandon Guffey Brandon Guffey is a member of the South Carolina House of Representatives representing District 48. He began his political career as the York County Councilman and has a strong entrepreneurial background as the former owner of multiple service and retail businesses. His career started in advertising in the early 2000’s and has been vocal about the issues we currently face. Currently Mr. Guffey serves as Senior Executive Advisor for Cyber Dive in addition to serving as Director of Less Than 3 (501c3). Representative Guffey became a spokesperson for mental health and online crimes following the loss of his oldest son, Gavin, who took his own life after becoming a victim of sextortion in July 2022. Representative Guffey was elected to the S.C. House of Representatives in November of 2022, in honor of his son and to combat the growing online threat he sponsored and passed “Gavin’s Law" (H3583). Gavin’s Law stiffens the penalties for sextortion and mandates awareness through school notification, which passed in the S.C Senate the following May and was signed into law in August of 2023. Gavin is the inspiration of the Less Than 3 (<3) Foundation, which raises awareness for youth mental health & teen suicide. Representative Guffey travels the country speaking on the dangers of social media, teenage mental health, and advocates for legislation across the country. He was awarded “Legislator of the Year” in 2023 by the SC Counseling Association. Since 2023 he has been featured in Documentaries, annual conferences, and numerous talk shows: Chris Hanson guest of 2024 Crimecon Convention, Dr. Phil, ABC, Fox, Newsmax, CNN, and additional TV Shows such as Trafficked on Nat Geo.
Nov 27, 2024
The Bark Watch is finally here! In this conversation with Bark CMO Titania Jordan, we go through everything you need to know about the Bark Watch. I love that the Bark Watch is all about protection, not distraction. This means no social media, no games and no internet browsers. Get the Bark Watch here ! The Bark Watch is currently available in the United States of America. To add your country to the waitlist for Bark products, visit this link .
Nov 25, 2024
In today's conversation, Sheri Lopez bravely tells her story being trafficked as a young girl. As Sheri says, "We have to talk about this." Sheri was groomed at the age of fifteen by her high school boyfriend’s father, trafficked for seven years, and rescued by a woman named Pearl at an apartment mailbox. She is the founder of the nonprofit – ‘Pearl at the Mailbox’ and is on a mission to educate about child grooming, how it happens, and how to spot and stop it before trafficking happens. Sheri boldly shares her journey to raise awareness, addresses how predators use social media apps to connect with children, and explains how to have a healthy online profile. Sheri is an advocate for children, a grooming prevention educator, a survivor mentor, a speaker, and an author. She also works to change laws to hold predators accountable in Arizona and at the federal level. Resources mentioned in the episode: Sheri's website: pearlatthemailbox.com Interview with Ted Cruz This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Watch
Nov 24, 2024
I am constantly asked by parents, "Is there a social media platform that is safe for my kids?" My answer has consistently been, "No." Until now. I am overjoyed to share this conversation with the Founder of WeAre8 , Zoe Kalar. Zoe has spent the past decade creating a social media platform that puts the power back in the hands of us, the human beings using the platform. Society has had enough. We're tired of being pawns in Big Tech's game to see how much they can profit off of our misery. WeAre8 is the people's platform. It's social media that unites us instead of divides us; that inspires us instead of depresses us. It's the way of the future and I am so honored to be part of this movement. Mentioned in the episode: Scrolling 2 Death interview with Frank McCourt about the People's Bid for TikTok
Nov 20, 2024
I bought in Clare Morell of EPPC to discuss the complexities surrounding children's safety in the digital age, with a focus on balancing the role of schools, parental, and our legislators. Clare gives clear insight into why is the internet so unsafe for children in today's society, and what needs to be done to fix it. As always, we prioritize guidance for parents on safe decisions to be made in your homes, today. Resources mentioned in the episode: How to break up with your phone by Catherine Price Interview with Julie Scelfo NewsWeek Article by Clare Smartphone Free Childhood Group Clare's Substack Support the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) About Clare Clare Morell is a fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center, where she directs EPPC’s Technology and Human Flourishing Project . She is also the author of the forthcoming book, The Tech Exit: A Practical Guide to Freeing Kids and Teens from Smartphones , which will be published by Penguin Random House in June, 2025. Ms. Morell's policy work focuses on strengthening our laws to better protect children from online harms. Her work on state social media laws was featured in The New York Times . Prior to joining EPPC, Ms. Morell worked in both the White House Counsel’s Office and the Department of Justice, as well as in the private and non-profit sectors.
Nov 18, 2024
I brought in The Screentime Consultant Emily Cherkin to tackle the complexities of raising kids in the digital age. We dive into the idea of being "tech intentional"—how to use technology thoughtfully, in a way that aligns with family values and supports kids’ development. The conversation covers a range of important topics: the addictive nature of digital platforms, why boredom can spark creativity, and the difference between things that are scary and those that are genuinely dangerous for children. We also explore how anonymity online can erode empathy, share practical advice for parents on modeling healthy tech habits, and offer insights on navigating screen time. We discuss the heavy reliance on EdTech in schools through our own experiences and the need for parents to stay informed and advocate for safe technology use in education. With plenty of actionable tips, this episode encourages parents to be proactive, ask tough questions, and work together with schools to prioritize the well-being of their kids in a tech-driven world. Resources mentioned in the episode: Ed tech bill of rights by Julie Liddell Unplug EdTech Toolkit Internet Safety Labs - App Microscope Connect with Emily on her website and Instagram . About Emily Cherkin: Emily Cherkin, MEd., aka The Screentime Consultant, is a world-renowned screentime expert with the accessible voice of someone who understands the struggles of becoming more tech-intentional—both as a teacher and parent. Emily's book, The Screentime Solution: A Judgment-Free Guide to Becoming a Tech-Intentional Family, is an Amazon bestseller and available everywhere books are sold.
Nov 14, 2024
Ben Tracy is running across America to keep kids safe online. 120 marathons in 120 days, engaging at schools, community groups and with lawmakers along the way to raise awareness about issues of online safety for children. Ben and his team stopped in the middle of Kansas to give Scrolling 2 Death an update on their progress and give advice to parents. Follow the Tracy Trek on their website and Instagram . This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Watch Ben Tracy is a leading keynote speaker on digital citizenship, online safety, and responsible social media use. Drawing from personal experience, Ben shares his compelling story about the impact of teenage social media usage at schools and organizations nationwide. Ben is currently running across America to advocate for youth online safety. He is running a marathon each day for 120 consecutive days while speaking at schools and organizations along the way. His mission is simple: Keep Kids Safe. As the founder of Safe Social Network, Ben provides essential online safety resources for students, parents, and educators. He speaks to more than 100,000 people each year and volunteers his time to help families report online predators and internet crimes to law enforcement. Additionally, he awards scholarships annually to high school seniors who actively promote positive social media usage, mental health awareness, and anti-bullying. Ben graduated magna cum laude from Saint Xavier University in Chicago, where he double-majored in Business and Political Science. While at SXU, he served as captain of the track team and was a member of the student senate. Ben lives in Nashville, Tennessee.
Nov 11, 2024
In this conversation, Nicki Reisberg and Dawn Wible discuss the critical issues surrounding digital wellness and safety for children. Dawn shares her journey as the founder of Talk More. Tech Less. , highlighting the importance of advocacy, education, and legislation in addressing the challenges posed by technology and social media. Dawn takes parents through the risks associated with children's use of digital devices, the necessity of open conversations between parents and children, and the role of schools in ensuring a safe digital environment. The discussion emphasizes the need for parents to be proactive in advocating for their children's safety online and creating healthy tech habits at home. Resources mentioned in the episode: Phone Free Schools Movement Jonathan Haidt's New York Times Best Seller: The Anxious Generation Screen Time Action Network Watch The Social Dilemma The Smartphone Ed This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Watch About Dawn Wible: Dawn Wible is the founder of Talk More. Tech Less., a digital wellness and safety organization. For over a decade, she has trained communities, organizations, schools, and families on safer tech use. Dawn is an online safety advocate and certified digital wellness educator. She is the co-chair of the Online Harms Prevention work group at Fairplay’s Screen Time Action Network. Dawn works alongside social media reform organizations on legislation to help protect kids from targeted and inhumane addictive software design and advocates against the exploitation of children and their data privacy. Dawn and her husband Matt, the founder of an outdoor mentorship organization for young men, have been working with youth for 25 years.Together they are walking this road alongside all parents dealing with technology in the home, modeling openness and safer habits as they raise their own three boys. Please reach out to dawn@talkmoretechless.com if you would like to connect her to your schools or communities. And follow her work at Talk More Tech Less on Instagram.
Nov 9, 2024
Parents everywhere are worried about the rise of empathetic, human-like AI chat bots. I brought in Noah Coffman of Young People's Alliance to dive into the evolution of AI chatbots and unpack how these bots are engaging users emotionally. We discuss both the perks and pitfalls of AI, from its potential in mental health support to the ethical issues around privacy and dependency. We emphasize the importance of open conversations with kids about the risks of unregulated AI, and why fostering critical thinking is key as this tech continues to develop. A few AI chat bot apps that Noah mentioned in the episode; Replica, Character AI, Kindroid, Gnomey, Linky, Pi, Simsimi, Momate Additional episodes on the topic of AI chatbots: A New Era of Addictive Intelligence (with Laurie Segall) "An AI chatbot killed my son." (with Megan Garcia) Is A.I. safe for kids? (with Tim Estes) About Noah Coffman: Noah Coffman is a student at the University of Notre Dame studying philosophy and computer science. He is also the Research and Policy Director at the Young People's Alliance, a non-profit full of digital natives who are seeking to advocate for young people's issues on the state and federal level. For almost a year now, Noah has been developing and advocating for chatbot regulation on the federal level.
Nov 8, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Parents Must Talk to Their Kids About Porn (early and often). Resources: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Book series Kids and Porn (podcast episode) with Kristen Jenson Talking to Kids About Pornography (podcast episode) with Parker Hymas 14-year-old Sewell Setzer dies after falling in love with an AI chatbot "An AI chatbot killed my son." with Megan Garcia A New Era of Addictive Intelligence (with Laurie Segall) Is AI safe for kids? (with Tim Estes) Australia Plans Social Media Ban for Under-16s Canada Orders TikTok Offices Shut Down South Korea Fines Meta $15M Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Nov 7, 2024
In this conversation, Dr. Lisa Strohman discusses the intersection of technology and child psychology, focusing on the implications of gaming, social media, and educational technology on children's safety and mental health. She emphasizes the need for parents to be proactive in understanding the risks associated with these platforms and advocates for educational programs that empower youth to navigate the digital landscape responsibly. We cover a ton of topics including; screens at school, gaming, smartphone use, screen time recommendations, smart watches, tech addiction and more. Connect with Dr. Lisa on her website . Resources mentioned in the episode: Hindenberg Research on Roblox QR code for free books (visit scrolling2death.com/podcast and click on the episode with Dr. Lisa Strohman) Tree Octopus Cell phone study by London School of Economics Digital Citizen Academy About Dr. Lisa Strohman Dr. Lisa Strohman is a clinical psychologist, attorney, and author who is serving as a testifying expert for the federal multidistrict litigation against Google, Meta, TikTok, SnapChat, and Bytedance. She is recognized as a specialist on the intersection of psychology and technology (especially social media), and she is the founder of Digital Citizen Academy--one of the first organizations to focus on eliminating issues such as cyber-bullying, child luring, sextortion, and suicide through prevention and diversion programs, events, and resources. Dr. Strohman is also a mother of two teens, and is the author of Unplug: Raising Kids In A Technology Addicted World and Digital Distress: Growing Up Online. She has appeared on many different television and radio programs, such as CNN, Brian Kilmeade’s radio show, Fox News, and ABC’s Eyewitness News, and has been cited in many publications, including Popular Science, Mashable, and the Denver Post.
Nov 4, 2024
In this conversation, I brought in Parker Hymas of Fight the New Drug to discuss the significant impact of pornography on youth, relationships and society. The changing landscape of pornography makes having open and early conversations with our kids vital. This discussion provides parents with actionable resources and guidance on how to have these important conversations. We also cover questions that were submitted by parents through Instagram. Thank for those! Resources for Parents: Fight the New Drug Resources for Parents Conversation Blueprint What to ask your school about device safety? Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Jr. Brain Heart World Documentary About Parker Hymas Fight the New Drug is a non-religious and non-legislative nonprofit that exists to provide individuals the opportunity to make an informed decision regarding pornography by raising awareness on its harmful effects using only science, facts, and personal accounts. FTND aims to decrease the demand for sexual exploitation through education while helping individuals live empowered lives free from the harmful effects of pornography. Parker is FTND's Director of Public Outreach and is an accomplished speaker with a passion for developing and engaging communities.
Nov 2, 2024
Trigger warning: The following content contains sensitive subject matter, including depictions of suicide and self-harm. Please view or listen with caution. What is empathetic AI and is it safe for our kids? In this conversation, Laurie Segall discusses the urgent need to address the impact of technology, particularly AI, on youth. She highlights the risks associated with social media and the emergence of empathetic AI companions, emphasizing the lack of regulation and the potential dangers for children. The discussion also touches on the case of Sewell, a 14-year-old Florida boy who tragically died by suicide after interacting with a chatbot, raising critical questions about the responsibilities of tech companies in safeguarding young users.Segall warns that the current landscape of AI is fraught with risks, particularly for young users, and calls for urgent action from lawmakers to ensure safety and ethical standards in AI applications.Connect with Laurie and her team at Mostly Human Media: https://mostlyhuman.com About Laurie Segall Laurie Segall is the founder of Mostly Human Media, an entertainment company with a focus on society and artificial intelligence.Segall is the author of Special Characters: My Adventures with Tech’s Titans and Misfits, a memoir chronicling her experience reporting during the late 00’s tech boom. Formerly CNN’s senior tech correspondent and a reporter for 60 Minutes, Segall has interviewed the world’s most influential tech leaders including Mark Zuckerberg and Tim Cook. Her access to the titans of tech has allowed her to give audiences a behind-the-scenes look at companies like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Uber during their meteoric rise.Segall served as executive producer and host of CNN’s Mostly Human with Laurie Segall, A docuseries that explored sex, love, death, and humanity through the lens of tech. She has received numerous awards for her work championing women, including a Gracie Award for her docuseries Revenge Porn: The War on Women, which shed light on an alarming type of cyber harassment aimed at women.She interviews the tech billionaires, but has committed her career to covering those impacted by their code.
Nov 1, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Can AI be blamed for 14-year-old Sewell Setzer's suicide? "An AI Chatbot killed my son." (with Megan Garcia) Chatbots of Dead Teens Found on Character AI Google Has Deep Ties to AI Startup Accused of Causing Teen Suicide NYC Teens Reject Cell Phones and Social Media Roblox is a Pedophile Hellscape for Kids (a breakdown of the investigation) Roblox Attempts to Bar Child Predators The Elite College Students Who Can't Read Books Louisiana Driver Causes Crash While Attempting TikTok Drift Challenge Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone The Bark Watch is Coming Soon! Join the waitlist
Oct 31, 2024
This is the grooming conversation that all parents need to listen to. Anna Sonoda, LCSW, corrects misconceptions about grooming and educates parents on how to prepare, prevent and protect our children from predators (both online and offline). Anna Sonoda, LCSW, graduated from Emory University with a double major in anthropology and French Studies before earning her master’s degree in social work from the University of Georgia in 2006. She became a licensed clinical social worker in 2009. Anna's clinical background includes residential mental health, outpatient anger management, domestic violence intervention, and dual diagnosis treatment. Her most significant work was as a cognitive behavioral therapist for convicted sexual offenders. Becoming a mother of five deepened her commitment to child protection and the importance of recognizing grooming behaviors in adults. In December 2022, she published Duck Duck Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target, which unpacks the complexities of this issue. In August 2024, she released an accompanying journal Duck Duck Groom: A Guided Journal for survivors. Anna presents to individuals, groups, and organizations about how adults can better protect children by identifying the signs of grooming. Connect with Anna on her website . Resources mentioned in the episode or provided by Anna: atsa.org Cyber Tipline by NCMEC Internet Watch Foundation Internet Matters Hope for Justice Human Trafficking Front ChildHelp Common Sense Media Gaming Sites where grooming is prevalent: Among Us Call of Duty Grand Theft Auto Minecraft Nintendo Switch Roblox Slithr.io Dating Apps where grooming is prevalent: Bumble Grindr OnlyFans Tinder Messaging Apps where grooming is prevalent: Google Hangout/Meet Kik Marco Polo Facebook Messenger Signal Slack Telegram WhatsApp Wickr Live Stream + Social Media Platforms where grooming is prevalent: Amino Byte Discord Facebook Houseparty Instagram Monkey Pinterest Reddit Snapchat Tagged Tiktok Triller Tumble Twitch Twitter VSCO Whisper Wink Wishbone Younow YouTube Predators run on G.A.S. ( Grooming, Access, and Space) Grooming: Flattery Favoritism Forbidden Fruits Fear Prevention: Permission Public use Private settings This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Check out the Bark Watch: https://info.bark.us/bark-watch-s2d
Oct 28, 2024
In this conversation, Nicki Reisberg interviews Michael Lawson Neff, a founding partner at Neff Injury Law , about the legal implications of online harms, particularly focusing on the case against Snapchat related to its deadly speed filter. They discuss the challenges of holding tech companies accountable under Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act, the impact of social media on youth, and the importance of parental guidance in navigating these issues. Neff shares insights from his ongoing litigation and emphasizes the need for legislative changes to protect children from online dangers. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark Watch Meet Michael Neff: Michael Neff is the founder of Neff Injury Law, a national litigation firm based in Atlanta, Georgia, specializing in serious injury and wrongful death cases. With over 25 years of experience, Mike has established himself as a dedicated advocate for individuals facing off against large corporations and insurance companies. His firm's track record includes securing over $100 million in jury verdicts and settlements, with notable verdicts in 2013 and 2017 that ranked among the top 100 civil verdicts nationally for those years.
Oct 27, 2024
Trigger warning: The following content contains sensitive subject matter, including depictions of suicide and self-harm. Please view or listen with caution. This is a story that every parent must hear. The future is here, and that includes AI chatbot companions who emulate human relationships. These products are unregulated and unsafe, particularly for children. I spoke to Megan Garcia, an attorney from Florida. Megan is the mother of Sewell Setzer III, who died by suicide in February 2024 after being emotionally manipulated and abused by an AI chatbot. Megan is filing a lawsuit and sharing her story to warn families of the dangers of this technology and to demand accountability from Character.AI and the tech industry. Resources mentioned in the episode: Tech Justice Law Project: https://techjusticelaw.org Social Media Victims Law Center: https://socialmediavictims.org
Oct 26, 2024
Is Roblox safe for kids? The fact that Nickolodeon gave Roblox the 2024 Teen Choice Award for Favorite Video Game would incidate that Roblox is in fact, safe. But the reality is much darker. A new report by Hindenburg Research labeled Roblox a "pedophile hellscape for kids." In today's episode, Titania Jordan of Bark and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death break down the report findings and make recommendations for parents. Resources mentioned in the episode: Meta Exposed documentary by Channel 7 News Social Studies documentary on Hulu Interview with Meta whistleblower David Erb Hindenburg Research investigation into Roblox This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone The Bark Watch is Coming Soon! Join the watlist
Oct 25, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Can AI be blamed for 14-year-old Sewell Setzer's suicide? Big Tech Spends $51 Million on Lobbying Against Kids Safety Bills Speaker Mike Johnson and Majority Leader Scalise Hold Up Kids Online Safety Act Contact Speaker Johnson Contact Majority Leader Scalise New iMessage Feature Allows Children to Report Nudity to Apple Roblox Makes Parental Control Changes (and takes no responsibilty for harm to children) Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Oct 24, 2024
Lenore Skenazy's life completely changed after allowing her child to navigate the New York City subway alone at just 9 years old. She went on to publish a book called Free-Range Kids which grew into a movement. Now, Lenore is the president of Let Grow, the national nonprofit she co-founded with three others, including Jonathan Haidt of "The Anxious Generation." Her mission is to make it easy, normal and legal to give kids back some old-fashioned independence. In this conversation, Lenore discusses the societal shift toward fear-based parenting and the decline of free play. She gives practical strategies for parents to encourage their children to take risks and develop much-needed confidence. Skenazy emphasizes the need for parents to let go and trust their children, highlighting the benefits of independence for both kids and parents. Could the cure to an anxious generation be as easy as letting go? Resources mentioned in the episode: Let Grow: https://letgrow.org/ The Let Grow Experience (a free independence-building curriculum for teachers/schools) The Let Grow Play Club (free implementation guide for schools, YMCAs, churches, synagogues, etc., to create a time and place for kids to play and socialize in a no-phone zone) After Babel by Jonathan Haidt and Zach Rausch The Anxious Generation (NY Times Best Seller)
Oct 21, 2024
The average age that kids get a smartphone is nearing 10 years old. Watches are being given closer to 5. Parents primarily make these decisions for safety; to be able to track their children and get ahold of each other in case of an emergency. But do these devices actually keep children safe? Or are we hindering their autonomy and sense of independence while also potentially exposing them to the dangers that come along with a device? I brought in youth advocate Ava Smithing of Young People's Alliance to share her experience as a pre-teen and teen being tracked by her parents. "I didn't start lying to my mother until she started tracking me like that," shares Ava. There are so many takeaways for parents in this conversation where we vulnerably discuss finding a balance between protection and trust.
Oct 18, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Instagram Announces New Education Campaign to Fight Sextortion Meta Exposed Documentary by Channel 7 News Meta Confirms Layoffs Across Companies Social Media Faces Big Changes in UK Under New Ofcom Rules First UK-US Online Safety Agreement to Keep Kids Safe Online Survey: Colorado Teens use Social media More and at Younger Ages List of end-to-end encrypted apps to block from your child's device: Signal Whatsapp Telegram Facebook Messenger Wire Element AWS Wickr Briar Pryvate Messenger SafeChat SafeSwiss Proton Mail SimpleX Chat Confide Delta Chat CoverMe P2P Messenger Olvid xPal TeleGuard Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This podcast episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF The Bark Watch is coming soon! Sign up for the waitlist: https://info.bark.us/bark-watch-s2d
Oct 17, 2024
I was super eager to catch up with long-time educator Matt Brady about screens at school. We dive deep into phone bans and also school-issued tech. Meet Matt Brady: Matt Brady is a Physics and Chemistry teacher in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. Came in through lateral entry after spending 10 years writing about comic books and pop culture for various outlets. Prior to that, he was in graduate school for a PhD in Physiology & Pharmacology; prior to that, earned a Master’s in Marine Biology, and prior to that, earned a B.S. in Biology. Resources mentioned in the episode: Matt's Substack, Teacher Teacher The one about school shootings School Tech: Know Your Rights (with Julie Liddell) Phone Free Schools Movement ( my interview with co-founder Kim Whitman ) 7 questions to ask your school destrict about devices This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Oct 14, 2024
For this interview, I brought in Dawn Hawkins, CEO of the National Center on Sexual Exploitation . NCOSE is the leading organization exposing the connections between all forms of sexual exploitation, including sex trafficking, prostitution, pornography, and child sexual abuse. In addition to running NCOSE, Dawn is a mom of 5 and I loved learning about her approach to screens and her decision to homeschool after learning about the reliance on screens at her local public school system. This conversation is all about action and the power of parents' voices. One of the most vital ways parents can use their voices in this moment is to support the Kids Online Safety Act. This bill will give our kids much-needed protection online. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Oct 11, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: [REPORT] Roblox is a Pedophile Hellscape for Kids 14 U.S. States Sue TikTok for Harm to Children TikTok Redacted Documents in Teen Safety Lawsuit Revealed [REPORT] CDC Warns Parents About Social Media Link to Suicide Families Sue Social Media for Harm to Children [WARNING] DEA Issues Warning About Illegal Online Pharmacies Snapchat Begins Testing 2 Harmful New Features Nevada Lawsuit Against Snapchat, TikTok, Meta Moves to Trial Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Oct 10, 2024
I checked my Instagram messages last week and saw that the incredible Andrea Brambila had reached out. She asked very simply, "How do I get involved in advocacy?" I'm not an expert, but have learned a lot in the past 12 months through attending Congressional hearings, lobbying in D.C. and advocating on a local level at my school district and school board meetings. Andrea led the conversation by asking questions that many parents may have about how to get more involved in protecting kids online. This is an extremely important conversation because the fact is, parents' voices are what is going to change the tide. When parents say we've had enough with our children being harmed by Big Tech, that is when we'll see change. If you have specific questions that we didn't answer, please reach out! Resources mentioned in the episode: Ranking of U.S. States for Online Safety Interviews about KOSA with Josh Golin of Fairplay , legislative expert Patrick Lyden and Alix Fraser of Issue One Mothers Against Media Addiction Big Tech Gut Check (weekly updates from Scrolling 2 Death) Newsletter from Project Liberty After Babel Substack (by Jonathan Haidt and team) Andrea Brambila is a mental health therapist and mother of two. She specializes in perinatal mental health and developmental psychology. Through her social media platform ( @brambila_bits ), she encourages other parents to reduce the overwhelm and overstimulation through independent play and low-screen living.
Oct 7, 2024
Harrison Haynes was a 12-year-old, video game-loving middle school student who met a stranger on Xbox. The stranger became Harrison's "best friend," sharing intimate conversations and advice. Over the next 18 months, Harrison became the victim of "grooming," where predators establish an emotional connection with a minor under the age of consent, to lower the child's inhibitions with the objective of sexual or emotional abuse. On today's episode, Harrison vulnerably shares his story in order to warn parents about grooming. Predators are using gaming platforms and social media to target children and they can be very difficult to spot. Harrison gives a ton of specific advice to parents about how to prepare our children for this threat and how to support a child who has experienced grooming. You can connect with Harrison on LinkedIn or reach him directly at harrison@wiredhuman.org .
Oct 4, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: State of New Mexico Sues Snapchat for Failing to Protect Kids [New Yorker] Has social media fueled a teen suicide crisis? U.S. Surgeon General Recommends Social Media Warning Label (bill introduced in Congress) Roblox and Google Partner to Create a Weird Online Safety Game AAP Releases Glossary of Digital Media Platforms Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Oct 3, 2024
The internet is now, decidedly, unsafe for kids...including A.I. generated platforms. At Angel Kids AI, their mission is to use AI to flip the script; making the internet safe for kids. I brought in Tim Estes, founder of Angel Kids AI, to educate parents about A.I., the harms, the potential and how to introduce our kids to A.I. tools safely and productively. Tim and I dig into online harms, reviewing popular AI products like Amazon's Alexa, ChatGPT and others. Parents will leave this conversation with a healthy understanding of how to introduce AI to our kids in a way that enhances their creativity and doesn't harm them. In addition to joining the waitlist for Angel Kids AI , here are a few AI tools that Tim recommends trying out with your child: Merlyn Mind Khan Academy Synthesis About Tim: Tim Estes is a pioneering executive in the Artificial Intelligence and Natural Language Processing domain. He founded and led Digital Reasoning from 2000, an AI leader in the space of unstructured data analytics for 20+ years. Estes envisioned a means by which computers could learn to accurately interpret language, understand context, and extract critical intelligence. Digital Reasoning secured investments from In-Q-Tel (IQT), Goldman Sachs, Nasdaq, BNP Paribas, Barclays, Credit Suisse, HCA, and others totaling over $120M. Dubbed “Wall Street’s Robocop” by Forbes, the technology in Digital Reasoning became the market standard for applying AI and Natural Language Processing to communications data across text and voice and was adopted by a majority of the Tier 1 Financial Institutions around the globe. It’s technology also supported key Defense and Intelligence efforts in the US Government, enabled nationwide cancer screening systems to automate patient detection and prioritization, and created the largest deployed system to support law enforcement in the disruption of child sex trafficking rings in North America. It was merged with Smarsh in November, 2020 to create the market leader in Communications Intelligence for Financial Services. Estes left the acquiring company, Smarsh, at the end of 2021 and is now an active Angel Investor, Advisor, Board Member, and Mentor to CEOs in multiple industries.
Sep 30, 2024
Rick Lane was there at the beginning; when MySpace was the leader of the pack and Facebook was moving fast and breaking things. He had a front row seat to it all going wrong and is speaking out. In this eye-opening conversation, Rick describes how the initial intention of self-regulation and light government touch in the tech industry has led to the lack of accountability and failure in protecting children online. Rick Lane is a tech policy expert, child safety advocate, and the founder and CEO of IGGY Ventures LLC. IGGY advises and invests in companies, projects, and public policy initiatives that can positively impact society. Connect with Rick on LinkedIn . Pass KOSA! To give our children the protections they deserve, we need the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). KOSA passed in the Senate 91-3 and needs passage in the House. Please contact your Rep to ask them to co-sponsor KOSA .
Sep 28, 2024
I brought in CMO of Bark Technologies, Titania Jordan, to discuss the implications of Apple's iOS 18 update, focusing on its impact on child safety and parental controls. We also discuss implications of privacy and general advice related to kids and devices. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch
Sep 27, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Snapchat Integrates Google's AI to Enhance Snapchat Chatbot Snapchat Offers Older Teens 16+ Public Sharing Snapchat Testing Simplified Version of the App States Race to Ban Phones at School Administrators Toolkit by Phone Free Schools Movement The Battle to Ban Screens From School Now Includes Chromebooks and Tablets Instagram Announces Teen Accounts Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. These days, parents have access to a safer smartphone for kids called the Bark Phone. Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Parental Monitoring App for iPhones and Androids (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off) Join the waitlist for the Bark Watch
Sep 26, 2024
Laura Lawrence is a wealth of knowledge between her experience as a teacher, speaker, author and most importantly, a mom of 4. We had an honest conversation that covers all areas of screen time and social media. I am especially grateful to Laura for sharing a sensitive story about her son's experience with an online harm. Laura Lawrence is a 4x best-selling author, motivational speaker, mindfulness coach, entrepreneur, philanthropist and mother of four. Connect with Laura On Instagram @lauralawrence.author and @youthmattercanada Via her websites: lauralawrence.ca and youthmattercanada.ca NCMEC's Take it Down Service If there is an explicit image of you or your child on the internet, please request removal at takeitdown.ncmec.org This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Sep 23, 2024
Today's episode of Scrolling 2 Death features a vulnerable conversation with a mom in Colorado named Lori Schott. Lori tragically and suddenly lost her 17-year-old daughter to suicide in November of 2020. After Anna's death, Lori turned to her phone for answers. What she found on TikTok is every parent's worst nightmare -- a steady stream of videos targeting Anna with promotion of self-harm, suicide and depression. Lori is fighting back against the companies who harmed her daughter through advocacy work and support of the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). Social media platforms will never choose child safety over profit, so they must be forced. My heart goes out to the Schott family for the lost of their daughter Anna, forever 17. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Sep 22, 2024
I was honored to speak with pro football Hall of Fame running back Emmitt Smith about his work in raising awareness of the dangers of opioid use. Emmitt Smith teamed up with Emergent BioSolutions to break down the stigma around opioid use and accidental overdose, which continues to fuel a national epidemic impacting people from all walks of life. During Emmitt's decorated 15-year professional career, Smith faced multiple injuries and often chose to play through the pain, because he knew the risks associated with opioids as he witnessed promising athletes develop a dependency, lost teammates to accidental overdose and watched loved ones struggle. The Ready to Rescue campaign creates open dialogue about opioid risks and educate the public on how to be prepared to help save a life in an opioid overdose emergency. Research shows that 44% of opioid-related deaths in states evaluated had a bystander present, but naloxone overdose reversal medications were rarely administered. Parents should visit their local pharmacy to stock up on NARCAN Nasal Spray, which is available over the counter and can reverse the effects of an opioid overdose or poisoning in minutes. I encourage you to share this interview (and the interviews linked below) with your teenagers and family members so that they are aware of how deadly opioids can be. To listen to my interviews with grieving parents who have lost a child to fentanyl poisoning, please visit this link .
Sep 19, 2024
This is the worst story I've ever heard, but I'm so grateful I got to know Emily. Today we meet an incredibly kind and animal-loving teenager named Emily Popolo. Her mom describes her with a smile on her face, despite Emily's struggles with bipolar disorder and learning disabilities. Emily faced bullying that became relentless after the bullies took to social media to target her. It was too much for Emily and at 17 years old, she died by suicide. This tragic story doesn't end there. The bullies were not finished with Emily. Listen or watch as Emily's mom, Erin, takes us through the series of events following Emily's death. Trigger Warning : This episode goes into detail describing a teenage suicide and the horrific cyberbullying that occured before and after Emily's death. Please listen with caution and join me in offering support to the Popolo family. P.S. It was a sunny day at Erin's lake house during the interview. The sun brightens her face mid-way through and shortly after, she adjusts her position. I like to think that was Emily shining her bright light down on us, in support of her mom. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Sep 16, 2024
Let's face it. Kids are struggling and one of the main reasons is social media; the addictiveness, the inappropriate content, the cyberbullying, the constant comparison. The list of threats goes on and on. Turns out, social media platforms are not legally required to keep our kids safe or protect their mental health. This is why Senators Blackburn and Blumenthal created the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). I brought in Josh Golin of Fairplay to explain what KOSA is and what it is not. Josh busts the myths that are circulating the internet related to KOSA and explains how our children will be protected in several specific scenarios. This episode is a perfect introduction to kids online safety and the numerous threats that our children are facing each and every time they log in to social media. Here's how you can help get KOSA passed into law: Fill out this form About Josh Golin Josh started at Fairplay as an intern in 2003 and has been with the organization ever since. He succeeded Founder Dr. Susan Linn as Executive Director in 2015. Josh is passionate about creating a safer, less addictive internet for children where young people’s needs come before advertisers’ and big tech’s profits. Josh regularly speaks to parents, professionals, journalists, and policymakers about how to create a healthier media environment for children and teens. He lives in Vermont with his wife Jennifer, their 14-year-old daughter, and their hound Jolene.
Sep 14, 2024
After finding a self-harm video being promoted to my child on her school-issued device, I decided to embark on a journey of opting my child out of devices at school. And boy, has it been a journey. I chose to share my experience with parents on social media, and it turns out that parents all over the country are having the same experiences. So from there, I brought in Julie Liddell of the Ed Tech Law Center to help parents understand our rights around tech at school. For 7 questions to ask your school about digital safety today, visit this link: https://www.scrolling2death.com/resources Julie mentioned this book during our interview -- Weapons of Math Destruction: How Big Data Increases Inequality and Threatens Democracy About Julie: Julie Liddell has devoted her career to helping people of all backgrounds find justice in the courts. At the University of Texas School of Law, she worked at the District Attorney’s office in the Family Justice Division and in the Cyber Crimes Division of the Office of the Attorney General of Texas protecting children from online solicitation. She then spent ten years as staff attorney for judges in the highest courts in Texas resolving both criminal and civil matters ranging from complex commercial disputes to death-penalty appeals. She is now turning her efforts and expertise to help families and teachers fight for their health, wellness, and privacy against tech companies who are exploiting them for profit. Julie understands that parents and children may not be forced to choose between their rights to health, safety, and privacy and their right to an education.
Sep 13, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: The link between social media use and suicide My journey opting out of school-issued devices 42 State Attorney Generals Demand Warning Label for Social Media ( CNN ) Support the Kids Online Safety Act ( contact your Rep here ) KOSA interviews with Alix Fraser , Patrick Lyden and Senator Ted Cruz TikTok Heads to Appeals Court Interview with Project Liberty Founder Frank McCourt Snapchat Tries to Make Safe AI and Fails ( Washington Post ) Snapchat is a Scam (with Attorney Laura Marquez-Garrett) Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. These days, parents have access to a safer smartphone for kids called the Bark Phone. Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Parental Monitoring App for iPhones and Androids (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off)
Sep 12, 2024
Are our kids digital superlearners, or did we just complete a decades-long hardware dump on an entire generation with no research to support that kids will actually benefit from over-integration of tech at school? This is what I explore in today's episode with special guest, Chris McKenna of Protect Young Eyes . We dive into the research related to the educational benefit of screens and global test scores, in addition to the distractions and privacy issues associated with school-issued tech. Resources mentioned in the episode: 5 Questions to Ask Your Principal (about IT) LA Public Schools ran to AI and it failed Research to support low-tech schooling The Ed Tech Triangle About Chris McKenna Chris McKenna, founder of Protect Young Eyes and Executive Director of the PYE Foundation, is a leading advocate for digital safety. His efforts, including influential testimony before the US Senate and co-authoring the Child Device Protection Bill, have led to significant legislative movement. Chris also advises global tech companies, spoke at the World Economic Forum, and was featured in Childhood 2.0, while his organization educates parents and schools worldwide on digital safety. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Sep 9, 2024
If I've learned one thing about gaming, it's that kids are not safe without additional protections. One of the tools being released to families is called GameSafe , founded by technology expert David Everitt. In this conversation, David describes his own experience with his daughter being groomed in Minecraft, which led to his new mission in life: To offer families with a tool to truly keep their kids save while gaming. We go into detail on the various threats within gaming platforms like Minecraft, Roblox, Fortnite and others, including; predation, cyberbullying and addiction. GameSafe is available now in the App Store. Learn more about GameSafe at gamesafe.ai . About David Everitt: David is the Founder and CEO of gamesafe.ai, bringing gold-standard protection for children while they are gaming online. This mission started as a response to his own child being preyed upon while playing games online. His hope is to help foster healthy families by providing a much needed application that will give parents peace of mind while their children are gaming online.
Sep 7, 2024
Today I'm joined by U.S. Senator Ted Cruz of Texas to talk about keeping kids safe online. Senator Cruz is a father to two teenage girls. He is facing the same struggles as all parents related to social media and smartphones. In addition to offering advice for listeners, Senator Cruz introduces us to three important bills that can help keep our kids safe online. The Take it Down Act The Kids Off Social Media Act The Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) Please contact your Senators and Representatives in the House to ask them to pass KOSA, the Take it Down Act and the Kids Off Social Media Act. About Senator Ted Cruz: In 2013, Ted was sworn into the United States Senate, where he has been a passionate fighter for limited government, economic growth, and national security. He has authored dozens of legislative measures that have been signed into law, including expanding 529 college savings accounts to allow parents to save for K-12 public, private, and religious education, repealing Obamacare’s individual mandate, imposing sanctions on terrorists who use civilians as human shields, designating North Korea as a state sponsor of terrorism, targeting Putin’s Nord Stream 2 pipeline through multiple bills that halted construction and kept it stalled, reauthorizing and reforming NASA, holding dictatorships in South America accountable, and ensuring the availability of additional records to help solve civil rights cold cases. He is also leading the fight in the Senate to support Texas jobs, rein in Big Tech, secure the border, and fundamentally reassess the U.S.-China relationship and hold the Chinese Communist Party accountable for covering up the coronavirus pandemic, committing human rights atrocities, and engaging in censorship, propaganda, and espionage in the United States. Ted, his wife Heidi, their two daughters Caroline and Catherine, and his entire family have been blessed to live the American Dream—the idea that anyone, through hard work and determination, can achieve anything. Ted is committed to ensuring every family has that same opportunity.
Sep 6, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Why Phones Don't Belong in School ( podcast episode here ) Meta Advertising Nudify Apps on Facebook and Instagram ( update here ) Social Media's Role in Crimes Against Kids ( with John Pizzuro ) Harrison Haynes Was Groomed And Is Speaking out ( more here ) Evan Spiegel's Recent Announcements ( here ) Snapchat Sued by New Mexico for Facilitating Child Exploitation ( more here ) Snapchat Will Send Ads in Private Messages ( more here ) Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Parental Monitoring App for iPhones and Androids (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off)
Sep 5, 2024
Tens of thousands of schools are failing to reach the same primary goal...to produce happy and productive citizens. Phones at school is the roadblock, yet schools continue to struggle with implementing and enforcing phone restrictions. So, what's the answer? Kim Whitman (along with co-founders Mileva Repasky and Sabine Polak) created the Phone Free Schools Movement to provide youth the freedom to excel academically and develop socially without the pressures and harms of phones and social media during the school day. The Phone-Free Schools Movement (in partnership with Fairplay) recently released a one-of-a-kind resource - the Phone-Free Schools Administrator Toolkit . It is a roadmap on how to implement a successful phone-free school policy. In today's conversation with Kim, we talk through the reasons behind the need for a bell-to-bell phone policy, the pushback and even touch on school-issued device use. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Sep 2, 2024
Thank you to John Pizzuro for joining me to discuss crimes against kids. John is the CEO and co-founder of Raven , a 501(c)4 non-profit lobbying firm comprised of subject matter experts and retired law enforcement focused on legislative and policy solutions for child trafficking and child exploitation. He highlights the scale and challenge of online crimes, the issue of ineffective age-gating, and the dangers of children interacting with strangers online. As always, this discussion is parent-focused and includes actionable guidance to protect our children from online harms. One vital need is for the tech companies to take responsibility for child safety online and that is going to require legislation to hold them accountable. Legislative initiatives such as the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) and the Stop CSAM Act are introduced as important steps towards creating a safer online environment for children. To help get KOSA passed, please visit house.gov , enter your ZIP code, find your Rep and contact them. Ask them to co-sponsor KOSA. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Aug 31, 2024
When former-Facebook employee David Erb realized that Facebook's "People You May Know" feature was connecting millions of pedophiles with tens of millions of children, he told senior Facebook executives right away. The response gave David the shock of his life. Not only did Meta refuse to help these children, they announced end-to-end encryption so that the messages were hidden. This strategic update removed liability from Meta and has since encouraged even more exploitation of children. In today's episode of Scrolling 2 Death, David Erb shares his story. Please listen with caution. What you hear will upset you. About David Erb David Erb has had a nearly 40 year career working for some of the biggest tech companies in the world, including Microsoft, Google, YouTube and Facebook. David co-created Google Cloud, and led a team of 200 engineers at YouTube. He has been a champion of developing new ways to combat CSAM and has seen big tech at both its best and its worst. He resigned from his lead engineering role in Meta's London office in protest over their refusal to act on his team's recommendations to curb CSAM and grooming on the platform.
Aug 30, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Telegram CEO Arrested for Enabling Child Sexual Abuse ( among other charges ) TikTok Must Face Lawsuit Over 10-year-old Girl's Death ( court ruling ) New Study Shows TikTok Psychologically Manipulates Users in Favor of China ( study ) TikTok Child Privacy Class Action Lawsuit ( more here ) Snapchat Launches Their App on iPads ( more here ) Families Can Sue Yolo For Breaking Anti-Bullying Pledge ( more info ) The Dangerous World of Anonymous Apps (with Kristin Bride) Anonymous Apps: Exposed (with Kristin Bride) RESEARCH: The Case for Causality (social media & mental health) by Jonathan Haidt and Zach Rausch RESEARCH: How Screens Affect Infants & Toddlers by Children & Screens Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Aug 29, 2024
The conversation is all about the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) and its positive implications for our kids. After receiving many comments about KOSA being a "censorship bill" and finding similar articles with a quick Google search, I realized that we need to face this argument head on. I brought in legislative expert Alix Fraser to respond to the headlines and give us the real deal on KOSA. If you want protections for your kids online, please contact your Representative in the House and ask them to pass KOSA. If you don't know who your Rep is, go to house.gov, enter your ZIP code and find your Rep's contact info. This takes just a couple minutes and kids need our help.
Aug 26, 2024
Parents constantly ask, "Is [INSERT APP] safe for my kids?" I brought in Titania Jordan to give our honest reviews of 10 of the most popular apps for kids. Today we cover: Spotify, Snapchat, Capcut, Candy Crush, Discord, Roblox/Minecraft/Fortnite, Whatsapp, YouTube, Telegram and ChatGPT. Thank you to Titania and Bark Technologies for putting together exhaustive app reviews for parents. If we didn't cover an app that you are wondering about, please visit https://www.bark.us/learn/resources/ and enter the app name in the search bar. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Aug 24, 2024
Kids are getting harmed by social media. Social media companies put profits over people. Legislation to protect kids online has not passed since 1998. It is way passed time get force Big Tech to protect kids. The answer is the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). Big Tech is working hard to lobby against KOSA and convince us that it is a censorship bill (it is not). In this conversation with legislative expert, Patrick Lyden, we break down the elements of KOSA and negate the pushback. KOSA passed the Senate in July 91-3. KOSA now sits in the House and needs your support. What is KOSA? Link to House version of KOSA Link to Senate version of KOSA How can you support KOSA? KOSA is a federal bill that will save childrens' lives. **Contact your Representatives in the House; ask them to pass KOSA now before we lose more children to online harms! **Visit House.gov , enter your ZIP code then message or call your Rep.
Aug 23, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: What Snapchat Isn’t Telling You? The Dark Side of Snapchat ( article here ) New Research Reveals Communicating Online with Friends Brings Australians Happiness ( full report ) Stack of TikTok Lawsuits Grows Higher ( report here ) Schools All Over the Nation Roll Out Phone Bans Phone Free Schools Movement Releases Toolkit ( download here ) What Parents Need to Know About The Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) Ask your Representative to Pass KOSA! Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. These days, parents have access to a safer smartphone for kids called the Bark Phone. Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Parental Monitoring App for iPhones and Androids (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off)
Aug 22, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents are going to get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school, how tech is affecting students' learning and teachers' jobs. Today's episode features former middle and high school French teacher, Kathleen Barlow. Kathleen discusses the challenges of screens in schools and the impact on students' learning and behavior. She shares her experiences as a teacher and highlights the issues of smartphone and school-issued device use in the classroom. Kathleen emphasizes the importance of foundational knowledge and critical thinking, which she believes are hindered by excessive screen time. She suggests implementing policies such as a bell-to-bell phone ban and using phone lockers to address these challenges. Kathleen also shares her experience pulling back from screens within her own family, including switching her twin 17-year-olds from smartphones to the Pinwheel phone, stating "I could not keep supplying this drug to my children." Don't miss the literal earthquake that interrupted our discussion 12.5 minutes in! This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone . About Kathleen Barlow: Kathleen Barlow is a mother of 6 kids and grandmother of 3. She is a former middle school and high school French teacher, and she taught for about a decade in New Hampshire and Utah. During the 2023-2024 school year, Kathleen was teaching at a middle school in Utah and was struggling to motivate and connect with her students. In continuing to observe the negative impact of phones in school firsthand, she eventually felt compelled to leave her teaching career, in the hopes of finding a way to help schools develop better cell phone policies. Kathleen has since become a member of the Smartphone Free Childhood movement that began in the UK. She has also aligned herself with several other amazing organizations that all have the common goal of helping kids and families become more intentional about their screen time, as well as their time spent in real life connection. Kathleen is in the process of developing her own organization, SOS (Screens Out of Schools), that will be offering services to help in this endeavor. She believes that in order to back up this “digital boat,” we need to be focused “upstream.” Many have found themselves in an exhaustive loop of trying to put out the fires that inevitably arise from being immersed in a dangerous virtual world. By greatly reducing screen time, especially during the school day, many of the problems that are currently plaguing our kids will also be reduced and even eliminated. In her spare time, Kathleen is crazy about mountain biking with her family, and also loves hiking, Bikram yoga, journaling, and reading. She was thrilled to recently finish her second sprint triathlon. Kathleen tries daily (yet sometimes fails!) at practicing the art of being present in each moment.
Aug 19, 2024
Even smart kids make bad decisions; decisions that can take their life. This was the case for Judy's son, Erik, who died in 2010 from the choking game. Devastatingly, this trend has since exploded due to social media algorithms which prioritize harmful content into childrens' feeds. In this vulnerable and educational conversation, Judy tells Erik's story and guides parents on how to protect our children from dangerous challenges and other online harms. Get to know Judy and her work at Erik's Cause here: erikscause.org This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Aug 16, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: CCDH Releases Report Showing That Instagram is Failing Women ( full report ) What Happened When 8 Teenagers Went Without Smartphones for 1 Month ( full story ) New Study by JAMA Found That Tablet Use in Early Childhood Leads to Emotional Disregulation ( study here ) Research: Kids and Parents Suffering From Still Face Syndrome Due to Screen Use ( study here ) What is KOSA (and what is it not)? A Breakdown for Parents Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. These days, parents have access to a safer smartphone for kids called the Bark Phone. Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Parental Monitoring App for iPhones and Androids (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off)
Aug 15, 2024
If your child has a phone, they could be accessing a deadly anonymous app. Apps like NGL and others are built for secrecy and drama. Our kids should stay far away. Today you'll learn all about the danger that anonymous apps pose to our kids through the devastating story of Carson Bride, a teenager who fell victim to vicious cyberbullying through an anonymous app connected to Snapchat. Carson's mom, Kristin Bride, highlight the deceptive tactics used by these apps and lack of moderation. We also introduce listeners to a piece of federal legislation that will finally get kids protected online; the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). Please contact your representative in the house and ask them to co-sponsor KOSA. Visit house.gov and enter your ZIP code to find your rep. Here are the names of a few, currently active anonymous apps that you can look for on your child's phone: NGL, Tellonym YikYak Whisper Chaterpilar Or anything with "anonymous" in the name or description This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Aug 12, 2024
In this conversation, I interview author, mom and entrepreneur Jenna Lee Dillon to discuss children's screen time; the benefits, the dangers and the importance of a proactive approach to screens. Jenna Lee authored an incredible book called Look Up! A Wild & Screen Freed Roadmap to Enjoying Travel with Kids. This book dives into Jenna Lee's experiences and lessons embarking on 65 flights at 51 roadtrips with her daughter, all screen free! So much to learn in this super relatable conversation between two moms who are trying to give our children an empowered and balanced childhood. About Jenna Lee Jenna Lee Dillon is a solo mama, 4x entrepreneur, Spartan racer, speaker, and author of Look Up! A Wild & Screen Freed Roadmap to Enjoying Travel with Kids. She founded the Screen Freed Revolution to help parents cultivate an indomitable mindset, experience profound joy, and navigate technology boundaries with purpose and peace. Jenna Lee lives with her daughter and their bossy Aussie dog. Connect with Jenna Lee on her website and Instagram . This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Aug 9, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Snapchat's Harmful "Snapchat+" Feature Reaches 11 Million Subscribers TikTok To Remove Addictive Rewards Program from TikTok Lite in EU ( more here ) Frank McCourt and Project Liberty Creating "People's Bid" for TikTok ( interview with Frank ) TikTok Censors Content Served to Americans ( more here ) Google and Meta Run Secret Ad Campaign Targeting Kids ( more here ) Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. These days, parents have access to a safer smartphone for kids called the Bark Phone. Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Parental Monitoring App for iPhones and Androids (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off)
Aug 8, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school and how tech is affecting students' learning and teachers' jobs. Today's episode features a 4th - 6th grade teacher in Alaska named Jessica Moore. Jessica does an incredible job breaking down the latest research around kids and screens and gives so many takeaways for parents! This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Aug 5, 2024
Annie McGrath shares the story of her son Griffin, who tragically passed away at 13 years old after participating in an online challenge. The choking challenge is one of many deadly challenges that social media companies continue to prioritize within their addictive, harmful algorithms. In this conversation, parents learn how to protect their children from online harms. This includes pushing our elected officials to pass important online safety legislation like the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). KOSA has passed in the Senate and needs passage in the House of Representatives. Visit house.gov to ask your rep to support KOSA! Please stick around to hear a beautiful and impactful poem that Griffin wrote just weeks before his death, at the end of the episode. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Aug 2, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) Passes 91-3 in the Senate ( more here ) NYC Cellphone Ban Begins February 2025 ( more here ) Ask Your School for a Stricter Phone Policy ( template ) Ask Your School for Less Time on Their School-Issued Device ( template ) Meta to Pay $1.4B Settlement with Texas in Privacy Lawsuit ( more here ) TikTok Censors Content Served to Americans ( more here ) TikTok Amplifies Neo-Nazi Content ( more here ) Ask your rep to pass KOSA: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative. Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. These days, parents have access to a safer smartphone for kids called the Bark Phone. Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark Parental Monitoring App for iPhones and Androids (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off)
Aug 1, 2024
Today, Titania Jordan and I tackle the complicated topic of phone bans in school. We break down the pro(s?) and cons of allowing kids to have phones at school and why schools across the country are demanding phone bans. If you're a parent or work at a school, this episode is for you. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jul 29, 2024
Walker was a hardworking and well-loved teenager who fell victim to a sextortion scheme that led to his tragic suicide. I spoke with Walker's dad, Brian, to learn about sextortion, how it's happening, who is being victimized and how parents can protect our children from this social media harm. My heart goes out to the Montgomery family for their loss of Walker. After this tragedy, Walker's family have advocated for protecting kids from sextortion and gotten two bills passed; Walker's Bill (Mississippi House Bill 1196) and the Walker Montgomery Protecting Children Online Act (Mississippi House Bill 2531). If you or your child has been faced with a sextortion attempt, please report it to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children: https://report.cybertip.org This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone About Brian Montgomery Brian Montgomery is a Mississippi native and father of four who experienced the greatest heartache any parent could—the suicide of a child following a sextortion scam. Now he is using his pain as fuel to keep parents informed, to keep victims from losing hope, and to bring predators to justice. Montgomery is a Greenville native and now resides in Starkville. He attended Mississippi State University and has a Bachelor’s degree in Ag Pest Management and a Master’s degree in Forestry, emphasizing Remote Sensing. He is a co-founder of Alliance Ag Risk Management. Brian has been married to his wife Courtney for 25 years, and they have four children Caralyne,20; Walker,16; Bennett,14; and Sarah,13. His son Walker attended Starkville Academy, where he excelled in academics and football. Walker enjoyed running heavy machinery and working on the farm with his family. He had a tremendous work ethic. He had an innate and boundless appreciation and love for the outdoors, and he particularly loved bow-hunting with his father. Walker ended his own life in 2022 after falling victim to a sextortion scam. The event would turn the Montgomery’s life upside down and give Brian a new mission to use Walker’s life-and-death to shed light on the growing epidemic of sextortion.
Jul 26, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Links Between TikTok Use and Teen Suicide Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) Moves Forward in the Senate Meta Announces New Efforts to Fight Sextortion DEA Releases 2024 National Drug Threat Assessment Sinaloa Cartel Leader Arrested by U.S. Officials Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. These days, parents have access to a safer smartphone for kids called the Bark Phone. Check out the Bark Phone Check out the Bark App (10% off with promo code SCROLLING2DEATH)
Jul 25, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents are going to get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school, how tech is affecting students' learning and teachers' jobs. Today's episode features a high school educator in Canada that we're calling Mrs. C. This conversation goes way beyond screens in school as Mrs. C shares her experience providing a low-tech household for her three children and restricting social media until at least 16. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jul 19, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Donald Trump Assassination Attempt Triggers Social Media Conspiracies ( CNN Article ) Belief in Conspiracy Theories Higher Among Teens Than Adults ( CCDH Report ) Latest String of Nefarious Activity on Snapchat Concerns Parents (Google it) Meta Stock Plunges ( More Here ) Trump Points Finger at Meta for Teen Suicide Rates ( Bloomberg Article ) Billionaire Jeff Yass May Be The Donor Behind Trump’s TikTok FlipFlop ( Forbes Article ) **Senator Rand Paul Blocks Vital Kids Online Safety Bill: Call Senator Paul and ask him to stop blocking KOSA! (202) 224-4343 Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen
Jul 18, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents are going to get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school, how tech is affecting students' learning and teachers' jobs. Today's episode features educator and speaker Ronna Glickman. You can reach Ronna at socialmediasafety.education
Jul 15, 2024
In this episode I welcome Karl Stillner (co-founder and CEO of BrightCanary) for a discussion about device monitoring. These days, parents need to have an understanding of what's going on in their children's digital lives, but is there a point where we breach their privacy? This chat makes it clear that social media companies and the U.S. government do not have our kids backs online. It is up to us parents to keep them safe, and that requires a level of monitoring plus open conversations with our kids. Karl and I get into detail on the best approach for parents in this raw conversation. About Karl Stillner Karl is the father of two boys, aged 12 and 9. He co-founded BrightCanary , a service that helps parents engage and prepare kids for digital lives, in 2022. Prior to starting BrightCanary, was a VP at T-Mobile USA, where he led M&A and operations for T-Mobile Advertising. T-Mobile Advertising, currently over $500m in annual revenue, was formed when a company Karl co-founded, PushSpring, was acquired by T-Mobile in 2019. Karl has had numerous other technology-related roles, including a board seat with Decisive Farming, a leader in the AgTech space, that was sold in Telus in 2019 and driving the business strategy and sale of Mobiata, which created FlightTrack a mobile app for travel, to Expedia. Prior to working in technology, Karl was a management consultant with Deloitte Consulting. Karl has a BA in Economics from Northwestern University and an MBA from The Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania.
Jul 12, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. ❗️New Research Study Shows Effects of Handing Kids Devices ❗️ Dangerous App Called NGL Barred from Minor Usage ❗️ Middle School Students Attack Teachers on TikTok ❗️ Virginia Governor Orders School Phone Bans Starting 2025 ❗️ Senator Rand Paul Blocks Vital Kids Online Safety Bill: Call Senator Paul and ask him to stop blocking KOSA! (202) 224-4343 Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jul 11, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents are going to get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school, how tech is affecting students' learning and teachers' jobs. Today's episode features a high school educator named Matt Brady. Here is Matt's substack: Teacher Teacher Matt Miles and Joe Clement are two incredible teachers mentioned in today's episode. Here's a link to my interview with Matt and Joe . This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids **Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jul 8, 2024
DISCLAIMER: This episode includes details related to sexual assault of a minor. Please listen with caution. Deb Schmill shares the story of her daughter, Becca, who experienced a severe trauma at just 15 years old which led to addiction and her death by fentanyl poisoning in 2020. Smartphones and social media are facilitating access to drugs and harmful content that is deadly to many teens. My conversation with Deb emphasizes the need for parents to have open conversations with their children, be aware of their online activities and to create boundaries around device usage. We also discuss the need for passage of the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA), a federal bill that will save childrens' lives. Contact your Senators and Representatives in the House; ask them to pass KOSA now before we lose more children to online harms! Deb and her family founded the Becca Schmill Foundation and work to fund research, hosting community programs, and advocating for policies to protect children. https://beccaschmillfdn.org This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jul 6, 2024
Today I'm joined by attorney Laura Marquez-Garrett to review the latest series of events in the world of Snapchat. Snap rolled out new "safety features," but will these features really protect children from being contacted by strangers on Snapchat? The short answer is no, but there is much more harm lurking within Snapchat than meets the eye. Join Laura and I as we take parents through the app that has fooled us all; an addictive torture den that masquerades itself as a "whimsical candy castle" for kids. In summary, Snapchat will never, ever prioritize our child's safety over profits. They must be forced to through lawsuits and legislation. Here's how you can help... Contact your state Senators and member in the House of Representatives and ask them to pass the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). This single bill will save countless lives. Read the latest Rolling Stone article about how Snapchat is Fueling a Teen Opioid Crisis . Find out about the work at the Social Media Victims Law Center .
Jul 5, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: 32-year-old Man Targets Minors on Snapchat ( detail here ) Important Updates from Aspen Ideas Panel ( Teens and Screens Panel ) Senator Schumer Faces Heat as Landmark Bill to Protect Kids Online Stalls ( NY Post article ) Threads Reaches 175M Users; A Review of the Danger of Threads Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp
Jul 4, 2024
Therapist Andrea Brambila (of mega-popular @brambila_bits) joins me today for an honest conversation about kids and screens. As moms who both raised babies during COVID, we compare notes on the highs and lows of our efforts to maintain low-tech households. Andrea is an experienced mental health therapist who specializes in perinatal mental health and developmental psychology. She encourages parents to reduce the overwhelm and overstimulation through independent play and low-screen living. Personally, I walked away from this conversation feeling seen! Parents have it tough in this digital age and I find it so helpful to have an honest and relatable conversation with a fellow mom. Hopefully you can relate! Connect with Andrea here: https://www.instagram.com/brambila_bits/ This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp
Jul 1, 2024
If you have questions or concern about your childrens' screen time, this is the episode for you. I'm joined by pediatrician and clinical researcher Dr. John Hutton, and we dive into health concerns regarding digital media use in children, impacts on caregiver-child connection, brain development and alternatives to digital media. Dr. Hutton is an Associate Professor, Division of General & Community Pediatrics at University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center and Attending Physician, Children’s Health, Dallas. Dr. Hutton is also an author of over 40 children's books. I especially loved the Baby Unplugged series which you can browse here . Dr. Hutton's published research This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jun 28, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Snapchat Announces Safety Updates (in response to a barrage of bad press ) Warning! New App OmeTV is the New Omegle (not safe for kids) Surgeon General's ' Social Media Warning Label ' Recommendation Receives Pushback Meta Failed Children on Safety ( NY Times Reports ) TikTok Defends Against "Foreign Adversary" Label in Lawsuit Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids : *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jun 27, 2024
This is an honest conversation between two moms about screen time; the research, the struggles and a few tips. Screen time can be a complicated topic with the wide variety of devices that exist within our childrens' worlds. Joined by Titania Jordan of Bark Technologies, we weed through these intricacies and offer advice for parents looking to get a handle on their kids' screen time. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark (*Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF) Check out the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp
Jun 24, 2024
Today you'll learn all about the speed challenge, which has been making its way around social media for at least 12 years. This involves social media-fueled algorithms which are encouraging children to reach speeds of 130 mph and above. This conversation features Meg Stuhmer, whose daughter was a victim of the speed challenge in 2021. She bravely tells her story so that others can get ahead of this dangerous trend. There is currently a lack of regulation requiring social media to keep our children safe. Meg and others encourage you to support the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA), contact your representatives and ask them to vote it through the House and the Senate. Parents can join together to make this happen, before we lose another child. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jun 21, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Rolling Stone Implicates Snapchat in Teen Opioid Epidemic ( Rolling Stone piece and my interview with Paul Solotaroff ) U.S. Surgeon General Urges Congress to Require Warning Label for Social Media ( article here ) Los Angeles School District Approves Strict Phone Ban ( article here ) Governor Gavin Newsom Calls for State-wide Phone Ban in Schools ( article here ) FTC Investigates TikTok of Violating Childrens' Privacy (article here and my interview with Frank McCourt ) Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark **Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp
Jun 20, 2024
In this conversation, Susan Linn discusses the harmful effects of marketing to children and the overuse of technology in their lives. She emphasizes the importance of unstructured play and creativity; stressing that kids can amuse and soothe themselves without needing a device. We also dive into the current state of EdTech in schools, highlighting the lack of research supporting its effectiveness. Don't miss the story of Dr. Linn's career and as a ventriloquist at the end of the episode! I highly recommend Dr. Susan Linn's book 'Who's Raising the Kids' available here . This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone
Jun 18, 2024
Rolling Stone has implicated Snapchat in fueling a teen opioid crisis. Paul Solotaroff has been a Senior Writer at Rolling Stone for 25 years. He writes about the denial of justice, about people who have been horrifically abused, like NFL retirees with brain injuries, Iraqi veterans and unfortunately today, it’s KIDS ON SNAPCHAT. In this conversation, Paul discusses the investigation into how drug dealers are using Snapchat to sell fake pills containing fentanyl to children, leading to poisonings and deaths across the country. Paul highlights the challenges that law enforcement faces in combatting this issue, including the ephemeral nature of Snapchat and the difficulty tracking down evidence. There is an urgent need to address this national health crisis, both in parental awareness and federal legislation to require tech firms (like Snapchat) to protect our kids online. Thank you to Amy Neville, Laura Marquez-Garrett, William Bodner and others for speaking up to protect our kids. Paul Solotaroff has been a senior writer at Rolling Stone for twenty-five years (and at Men’s Journal for almost twenty). He covered the NFL concussion scandal, including the Aaron Hernandez story, was the first to report the horror-show conditions at Walter Reade Hospital, and has written a series of stories that helped free innocent men who were doing life without parole in state prisons. Winner of two Genesis Awards and more than a half-dozen selections to the Best American Sports Writing anthologies, Solotaroff is a Pulitzer Prize and National Magazine Award finalist. Six of his earlier stories were optioned for TV dramas or films, including “Original Gangster,” “The Fixer,” “Living the Vida Macho,” “Not Guilty,” and “The Gangster in the Huddle.” This year, four of his stories will be reborn as TV series or prestige documentaries on Netflix, Showtime, the USA network, and Facebook View.
Jun 17, 2024
This episode is dedicated to the life of Zach Didier, forever 17. "We're losing a classroom of students every week," shares Chris Didier. We're way past "not my kid." Fentanyl does not discriminate and parents need to get educated on this epidemic. There is a new category of victim where children are trying something they think is harmless, but it's lethal. As parents, need we to up our game and keep our kids away from this danger. In this discussion with Chris Didier, parents will learn about Chris' personal experience with fentanyl through the loss of his son in 2020. I asked Chris the tough questions all parents want to know, including: Where are kids getting fake pills containing fentanyl Why do drug dealers use Snapchat? How addictive and deadly are these pills? Why would they distribute something that is going to kill their customers? How do we protect our kids? What to do if your child has been exposed to fentanyl? (THESE TIPS COULD SAVE YOUR CHILD'S LIFE) This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone More About Chris Dider: Chris is a father of 3 incredible children and is originally from the Sacramento, CA area. He attended the Air Force Academy and is now a retired Air Force officer, current pilot for United Airlines, and former head coach for the Rocklin youth soccer club. In Dec. 2020, Chris discovered his youngest child, Zachary in the privacy of his room no longer alive after Zach consumed what was thought was a legitimate and harmless prescription pill. Instead, Zach had unknowingly ingested a fake pill made of illicit fentanyl and died at the age of 17 as a high school senior. Zach had no history of recreational drug use or struggled with depression or anxiety. Zach was a self-taught musician, straight-A student, multi-sport athlete, lead role in a HS Musical, and was active with Scouting and community service. His giving nature and infectious smile will always be missed. Since his passing, Zach was accepted into five U.C.s, including UCLA. Chris is working tirelessly in his advocacy to help bring needed awareness and education of the dangers of illicit synthetics in an effort to save lives. He serves as an executive board member for Victims of Illicit Drugs: https://stopthevoid.org
Jun 17, 2024
Paul Solotaroff has been a Senior Writer at Rolling Stone for 25 years. He writes about the denial of justice, about people who have been horrifically abused, like NFL retirees with brain injuries, Iraqi veterans and unfortunately today, it’s KIDS ON SNAPCHAT. Paul just released an expose on the Snapchat drug trade, and parents everywhere are going to need to read up. I have an in-depth interview with Paul dropping on June 17. For now, watch this overview of the Rolling Stone article that dropped today titled: Inside Snapchat's Teenage Opioid Crisis
Jun 15, 2024
A safer web is possible. One that prioritizes safety and human rights. One that gives us back control over our data and our personhood. In this in-depth conversation with American billionaire and entrepreneur, Frank McCourt, he paints a picture of a future that is bright. We start with a discussion about Frank's "people's bid" to purchase TikTok; but this is about more than TikTok. It's about building technology to connect us and bring us together, instead of tearing us apart. This is the work being done by Frank and his team at Project Liberty. It's a movement that will require all of us to come together in support of a better world. Join the Fight! Our Biggest Fight: Reclaiming Liberty, Humanity and Dignity in the Digital Age Project Liberty: A Better Web, A Better World About Frank McCourt: Frank H. McCourt, Jr. is a civic entrepreneur and the executive chairman of McCourt Global, a private family company committed to building a better future through its work across the real estate, sports, technology, media, and capital investment industries, as well as its significant philanthropic activities. More here: https://www.mccourt.com/about/about-frank-mccourt/
Jun 14, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Rep. Seth Moulton of Massachusetts co-sponsors Sammy's Law New York Governor Kathy Hochul pushes through major social media legislation Remote Amazon tribe connects to Musk's Starlink and immediately becomes hooked on social media and porn TikTok is testing Snapchat like Streaks - article here New Study finds that internet addiction alters brain chemistry in youth Snapchat's latest campaign "Less Likes. More Love." [gaslighting] Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Jun 13, 2024
Parents have it rough. There are no perfect options when it comes to our kids and tech. But there is hope! Today's conversation features Josh Golin of Fairplay, who is working to enhance children's wellbeing by eliminating the exploitative and harmful business practices of marketers and Big Tech. We discuss the reality of parenting in today's digital world, from tech in schools to social media concerns to kids online safety legislation. As with all conversations on Scrolling 2 Death, I hope you walk away feeling inspired to advocate for positive change in the digital world and with confidence in the power of your voice. Make your voice heard! Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen About Josh Golin Josh Golin is Executive Director of Fairplay , which works to enhance children's wellbeing by eliminating the exploitative and harmful business practices of marketers and big tech. Fairplay holds companies accountable for their harmful marketing and platform design choices, and advocates for policies that both protect children when they are online and help young people get the offline time they need to thrive. Under Josh's leadership, Fairplay filed the Federal Trade Commission complaint that led to the FTC's settlement with Google for COPPA violations on YouTube and led the international campaign that stopped Meta from releasing a version of Instagram for younger kids. Earlier this year, Fairplay, along with David's Legacy Foundation, launched ParentsSOS - an initiative of families who have lost their children to social media harms and advocate for the Kids Online Safety Act. Josh’s media appearances include Good Morning America, NPR, and Fox & Friends and he’s regularly quoted in major publications like The New York Times and The Washington Post. He has testified twice before Congress and regularly speaks to parents, professionals, and policymakers about how to create a healthier media environment for children and teens. He lives in Vermont with his wife Jennifer, their 15-year-old daughter and their hound, Jolene.
Jun 12, 2024
Parents have a voice in the fight for kids' online safety. In the words of Congresswoman Kat Cammack, "At the end of the day, the Big Tech companies don't vote for me; parents back home vote for me. I want to do everything I possibly can to protect them and their families." In this conversation, we uncover the risks that social media poses to our children and what parents can do about it. Specifically, we get deep into what's happening with TikTok. Representative Cammack explains TikTok's ties to the Chinese Communist Part and emphasizes the need to regain control over our personal data. Parents - Use your voices! Reach out to your Member of Congress: house.gov Reach out to your Senators: senate.gov Meet Representative Cammack: Congresswoman Kat Cammack proudly serves Florida’s Third Congressional District, which includes Alachua, Baker, Bradford, Columbia, Dixie, Gilchrist, Hamilton, Lafayette, Levy, Marion, Suwannee, and Union Counties in North Central Florida. During her first term in 2021-2022, she served as the youngest Republican woman in the 117th Congress. Kat is a third-generation commercial sandblaster who grew up on a cattle ranch outside Denver, Colorado, participating in local 4-H programs, the local rodeo, and sports. When she was younger, she had hopes of continuing the family business, but shortly before graduating from college at Metro State University Denver, an Obama-era housing program forced her family to lose their small cattle ranch and home. As a result, Kat was motivated to fight back against the failures of big government and has since dedicated her life’s work to fight big government and advance individual freedoms. Continued here .
Jun 10, 2024
Matt Capelouto lost his daughter Alexandra to a fentanyl poisoning from a fake pill she purchased on Snapchat. The dangers of fentanyl are real and they are in the hands of children like yours. Through this vulnerable story, parents will learn about the fentanyl epidemic and how you can protect your children through preparation and open conversations. Learn about Matt's organization called Drug Induced Homicide . If you're interested in supporting Alexandra's Law and live in California: Sign up for California ballot measure updates here . Help Matt hold legislators accountable here .
Jun 6, 2024
Jennie DeSerio lost her 16-year-old son Mason to suicide after he was served countless TikTok videos glorifying suicide. In this vulnerable discussion, Jennie warns parents against social media harms and describes several federal bills which would help protect our children online. To make your voice heard, contact your representative in the House and also your Senators: Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen
Jun 5, 2024
I was honored to welcome Senator Marsha Blackburn for an important conversation about the safety of our children online. Together, we address the dangers of social media for children and the fight against sextortion. Senator Blackburn emphasizes the need for online safety legislation, accountability for social media platforms, and the importance of parental support in passing much-needed bills like the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). Our legislators can't do it alone. They need to hear from parents like us. Parents' voices are what's going to make a difference in the fight for our childrens' safety online. Contact your representative (both the House and the Senate) and tell them to support KOSA! As a reminder, you have 2 Senators and a member of the House of Representatives of your district. Here are instructions on how to contact your specific representatives: Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen About Senator Marsha Blackburn U.S. Senator Marsha Blackburn was sworn in to the Senate in January 2019. Before her election to the Senate, Marsha represented Tennessee’s 7th Congressional District. Marsha’s public service is dedicated to promoting opportunities for women and making America a more prosperous place to live. Marsha’s leadership philosophy is based on her experiences in the private sector as a small business woman and author, as well as being a mother and grandmother. More about Senator Blackburn here .
Jun 3, 2024
In this interview, I welcomed Julie Scelfo, the Founder and Executive Director of Mothers Against Media Addiction (MAMA). Parents will relate to our candid conversation about the state of today's media-addicted world, and walk away with motivation and a plan of action to better protect your kids online. About Julie Scelfo: Julie Scelfo is Founder and Executive Director of Mothers Against Media Addiction (MAMA), a grassroots movement of parents fighting back against media addiction and creating a world in which real-life experiences and interactions remain at the heart of a healthy childhood. She is an award-winning journalist, a former New York Times staff writer, a media ecologist, and a parent. Scelfo was moved to start MAMA after reporting on the youth mental health crisis and seeing suicidality affect children at ever-younger ages, and recognizing how a multitude of factors—including screen addiction and absent regulations—has created an unhealthy, unsafe media environment. Scelfo’s stories on mental health have been leading the national conversation for decades, from her coverage of suicidality and social media on college campuses, to increasing suicidality among tweens. In addition to her MAMA advocacy, Scelfo is the author of The Women Who Made New York, (Seal Press/Hachette), an inclusive collection of biographies revealing how it was women—and not just men—who built one of the world’s greatest cities. She is a frequent public speaker who has made numerous appearances on television, radio and podcasts, and invites you to join her coalition at JoinMAMA.or
May 31, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Updates on the TikTok Divest-or-Ban legislation China to start censoring "wealth-flaunting" on TikTok Billionaire Frank McCourt's bid to buy TikTok More school boards sue Snapchat, TikTok and Meta Meta shareholders protest over child safety concerns Maryland passes Maryland Kids Code Latest mark-up of KOSA and APRA The rising sextortion epidemic (how you can protect your kids) Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen
May 30, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk , a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents are going to get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school, how tech is affecting students' learning and teachers' jobs. Today's episode features former Waldorf educator Brooke Natzke. Brooke answers common questions such as: What is the origin of the Waldorf education? How does the Waldorf approach compare/contrast to public schools? Montessori schools? What is the Waldorf approach to technology use in the classroom? Does restricting technology through schooling cause the child to be behind when they enter college or career life? How can we communicate with our public schools if we're not happy with tech use? Here's the link to Mothers Against Media Addiction (MAMA) which was mentioned in the episode.
May 27, 2024
Many parents ask the question; How does social media use really affect our kids? This is the question that is answered today with special guest Kris Perry of the Children and Screens Institute . Together, we explore many topics related to kids and media use, with an emphasis on the importance of unbiased research and desperate need for online safety legislation. About Kris Perry: Kris Perry currently serves as Executive Director for Children and Screens Institute, having previously served as Senior Advisor to Governor Gavin Newsom of California and Deputy Secretary of the California Health and Human Services Agency where she led the development of the California Master Plan for Early Learning and Care and the expansion of access to high-quality early childhood programs. She led systems change efforts at the local, state and national levels in her roles as executive director of First 5 San Mateo, First 5 California and of the First Five Years Fund. Through it all, Perry has fought to protect children, improve and expand early learning programs, and increase investments in low-income children. Perry was instrumental in returning marriage equality to California after the landmark 2013 U.S. Supreme Court ruling Hollingsworth v. Perry, which she wrote about in her book Love on Trial.
May 25, 2024
This is a conversation that parents should bring their teens into. Ava Smithing is a Gen Z adovcate for kid's online safety who is dedicated to making social media safer. Ava shares her vulnerable story of struggling with an eating disorder that was encouraged by social media, and gives parents invaluable insights into life as a Gen Z'er. "I learned through social media that I shouldn't be eating, how not to eat and how to hide it from my family." This episode is jam-packed with advice for parents on how to approach social media in their own homes, including: Federal child safety and privacy bills How social media affects body image Status of TikTok and its influence on our youth Snapchat's "less social media, more Snapchat" gaslighting campaign Dangers of AI chatbots Digital wellness revolution Loads of social media tips for parents Ava Smithing is the Director of Advocacy at the Young People's Alliance , her first role upon graduating with honors from Stevens Institute of Technology in May 2023, Majoring in Business Management and the History and Philosophy of Technology, with a Public Policy Minor. Since her graduation Ava has been committed to progressing legislation to making social media safer at the state and federal level, through advocacy, community organizing and public engagements. She is an affiliate in All Tech is Human's inaugural affiliate cohort and an advisor on behalf of YPA for the Student Action Network for Equity. Ava recently testified at the congressional subcommittee hearing Legislative Solutions to Protect Kids Online and Ensure Americans’ Data Privacy Rights.
May 24, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: FBI warns parents on sextortion; more teens are targeted Meta and Google spend $1M to fight New York child safety bills Two major hearings this week to discuss online safety bills An update on the TikTok divest-or-ban legislation Important update for parents related to our kids' access to fentanyl Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen Resources mentioned during this episode: Podcast interview --> Sextortion: Is your kid next? (with John DeMay) Podcast interview --> Sextortion and American Teenagers (with Titania Jordan ) Podcast interview --> Protecting our kids from sextortion (with Paul Raffile) Press release --> FBI Warns Parents About Sextortion Media Link --> ABC 7 News Coverage of Snapchat Rally Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
May 23, 2024
This episode is all about sextortion. What do parents need to know about the sextortion epidemic? If you think your kid is immune to this threat, unfortunately it's affecting hundreds of thousands of American teenagers. I'm joined by Titania Jordan of Bark Technologies to educate parents on what to look out for and how to protect your child from sextortion. If your child has been faced with sextortion, please report it to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) Cyber Tipline . Resources mentioned in the episode: Interview with Jordan DeMay's dad John Interview with Paul Raffile This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone !
May 21, 2024
Just two moms talking about childrens' online safety...except one mom is also a Congresswoman and Chair of the House Energy and Commerce Committee. Congresswoman Cathy McMorris Rodgers is the first female Chair of one of the most powerful committees in the House of Representatives. This committee is dedicated to providing parents with safeguards to get our children protected online. This is an all-out war against Big Tech and our childrens' lives are at stake. Use your voice and let's get our kids protected online. Parents : Our voices are what's going to make a difference in this fight for online privacy and childrens' safety. Contact your representative (both the House and the Senate) and tell them to support: American Privacy Rights Act (APRA) Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) Children's Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA 2.0) Section 230 Sunset Act As a reminder, you have 2 Senators and a member of the House of Representatives of your district. Contact your Representative in the House: Visit house.gov and enter ZIP code at the top right to find your representative Contact your Senators: Visit senate.gov and use the state drop down at the top of your screen Resources: WSJ: Sunset of Section 230 Would Force Big Tech's Hand Interview with Marc Berkman Cathy McMorris Rodgers is the Chair of the House Energy and Commerce Committee and represents Washington’s Fifth Congressional District. She was appointed to the House Energy and Commerce Committee in 2010. In addition to her policy leadership on the Committee, Cathy also served in House Republican Leadership for 10 years as Vice Chair and Chair of the House Republican Conference. More about Chair Rodgers here: https://mcmorris.house.gov/
May 20, 2024
The fentanyl epidemic has reached our kids with the distribution of fake pills on Snapchat. Today's guest is Jaime Puerta of V.O.I.D. Jaime is an incredible warrior and advocate who lost his son Daniel to a fentanyl-laced pill purchased on Snapchat. Jaime answers all the questions parents may have about the fentanyl epidemic; where it's coming from, what does it look like, how are kids getting it and how we can protect our own kids. This episode is dedicated to the life of Daniel Joseph Puerta Johnson. About Jaime Puerta Jaime Puerta is a United States Marine Corps Veteran, and the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of Puerta & Associates, Inc.; a small Interpreting business that specializes in furnishing Certified Interpreters to Attorneys, Doctors, and Courts working within the Workman’s Compensation field in the State of California. He resides in Santa Clarita, California, with his wife Claudia. Jaime is also the President of V.O.I.D., "Victims Of Illicit Drugs", a California 501C non-profit dedicated to educating parents and children about the dangers of illicit drug use, and also about the dangers that abound on social media platforms. Jaime also sits on the Advisory Board of A.C.C.O. "The Alliance To Counter Crime Online". Jaime became involved in the fight against Fentanyl when his only son Daniel passed away due to Fentanyl Poisoning on April 6, 2020.
May 17, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: 🇺🇸 Sextortion schemes spike in the U.S. and other western countries 👨⚖️ President Biden passed the REPORT Act to fight sextortion 💍 NY Times reveals Meta is serving children's photos to pedophiles in advertisements 📱 New Mexico exposes Meta through Operation MetaPhile ‼️ European Union announces formal investigation into Meta for child safety concerns 🧐 New research shows connection between children's social media use and mental health vulnerability Resources mentioned in the episode are available here: https://www.scrolling2death.com/big-tech-gut-check-week-of-may-13-2024
May 16, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents are going to get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school, how tech is affecting students' learning and teachers' jobs. Today's episode features a high school teacher in Chicago named Kara Waddell. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off)
May 15, 2024
Sextortion is a parent's worst nightmare. In this interview with cyberintelligence analyst Paul Raffile, parents will learn all about sextortion and how to protect our children. Paul answers important questions about sextortion including: Who is being targeted? Where are the scammers located? What platforms are at risk for sextortion? What should parents tell their children to protect them? If your child has been faced with sextortion, please report it to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children: https://report.cybertip.org Paul Raffile is an intelligence analyst focused on cyber threats and transnational organized crime. He has worked on government and private sector projects to detect and investigate terrorist networks, fraud, black markets, and human exploitation on social media platforms.
May 13, 2024
Ed Peisner is an accidental advocate. In 2017, his teenage son Jordan was viciously assaulted in West Hills, CA. The attack was filmed and uploaded to social media by an friend of the attacker. Jordan was left with serious and life-long injuries and will never be the same child. Ed has since dedicated his life to the goal of ensuring that no other family has to endure such a terrible ordeal at the hands of social media-induced violence. Together we break down the reality of how social media is affecting our kids, and how we can protect them from harm. Ed is the National Education Director and Founder of The Organization for Social Media Safety. OFSMS is the first consumer protection organization exclusively focused on social media. They work to make social media safe for everyone. Connect with Ed and his team at the Organization for Social Media Safety at this link . And be sure to check out their FREE online safety course for parents!
May 11, 2024
This episode is dedicated to the life of Jordan DeMay, cut short way too soon. Jordan was a victim of sextortion, an epidemic that we should all be ready to encounter. This interview is a raw conversation with John DeMay, Jordan's dad. John takes us through what happened to Jordan and what parents need to look out for. If you have encountered a sextortion scheme, please be sure to report it to NCMEC . This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids . (use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off)
May 10, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: TikTok sues the U.S. Government in response to new legislation A number of states pass laws to limit minor's use of social media President Biden passed the REPORT Act to fight sextortion Fentanyl-laced pills are sweeping the nation (and being sold on social media) New social media recommendations from Ofcom Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. Interviews mentioned during this episode: What Parents Need to Know About CSAM (with Cath Knibbs) Social Media: An Open Air Drug Market (with Bill Bodner) Drugs in a Snap (with Amy Neville) More Snapchat More Problems (with Sam Chapman) This week's Big Tech Gut Check is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone . Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids .
May 9, 2024
I thoroughly enjoyed this wide-spanning conversation with Jessica Elefante. We cover so many topics related to parenting in a digital world. This is one of my favorite conversations so far. Jessica Elefante is an artist, an author, a mother and co-chair for Mothers Against Media Addiction (MAMA). Every mother (and parent) will relate to this very raw conversation where we dig into screen use, social media and all things parenting in a digital world. About Jessica Elefante She is the author of Raising Hell, Living Well: Freedom from Influence in a World Where Everyone Wants Something from You (Ballantine, 2023) which she coined a How-Come (not a How-To). Jessica’s writing works to open people’s eyes on the topics of technology, capitalism, influence, and motherhood and has appeared in The Guardian, Literary Hub, Huffington Post, Bustle, Simplify Magazine, the Dispatch, Whalebone Magazine and more. As the founder of acclaimed Folk Rebellion and a critic of today's culture, Elefante’s award-winning works shine a light on the untenability of our times and have been featured by Vogue, The Atlantic, Inc., Los Angeles Times, The Observer, Writer’s Digest, Vice, Paper Mag, Wired, and elsewhere. Her short documentary “What Day Is It?” was awarded semi-finalist of Flickers RIIFF and an Official Selection of Beverly Hills Film Festival and New York Shorts Film Festival, for its portrayal of a mother's perspective on the ever-shifting emotional and mental states of lockdown. In her previous life as a brand strategist, she was recognized on Brand Innovators “40 under 40” list for winning her clients industry recognition including Webby, Edison, and AdAge awards. Jess has proudly been a guest lecturer at Columbia Business School and New York University sharing her expertise in entrepreneurship and branding. Currently she’s using her experience in tech and media as a co-chair for Mothers Against Media Addiction (MAMA). For her work as an artist and writer she’s honored to be a judge for the 2024 Scholastic Art & Writing Awards. She's influenced by the social, cultural, and technological circumstances of her life, but mostly, of her desire to lead a colorful one. Raised in upstate New York, she now lives in Brooklyn with her family. She is no longer bullshitting.
May 6, 2024
Today's episode is about our kid's access to pornography. Kids are getting access to porn earlier and earlier. I wondered, how is the early access to today's boundary-pushing pornography affecting them? So I brought in Kristen A. Jenson of Defend Young Minds. Kristen advises parents when and how to have the conversation about pornography with our kids. One thing I learned -- we cannot let the internet teach our kids about sex and porn. The risks are too great. Website/Books: www.defendyoungminds.com/books Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DefendYM/ Instagram: @defendyoungminds X (formerly Twitter): @defendYM Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/company/defend-young-minds About Kristen A. Jenson: Author of #1 best-selling Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today’s Young Kids, Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr: A Simple Plan to Protect Young Minds, and Good Pictures Bad Pictures Guidebook for Counseling Kids, executive producer of Brain Defense: Digital Safety curriculum, the founder of DefendYoungMinds.com, and owner and CEO of Glen Cove Press LLC.
May 3, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: 🧐 New research from Pew Research Center on social media influence 💰 Issue One releases amount of $$ Big Tech spent lobbying against online safety 📱 NY Times Opinion : Are smartphones driving our teens to depression? ⚖️ Is Big Tech funding biased research studies? 👩⚖️ Updates on the TikTok law...will it be overturned? 🔐 A new solution for smartphone problems at school. Washington post article here . Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
May 2, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school. Today's episode features the incredible Reagan Berry, a High School Principal in West Texas.
Apr 29, 2024
This episode is all about Snapchat. It's a breakdown of the features that are harmful for minors (there are quite a few). I brought in Titania Jordan for this conversation, who is the Chief Marketing Officer of Bark Technologies. This episode actually took a crazy turn when I find out that Snapchat seems to have lied about turning off their controversial Solar System feature by default. Parents: If your child is on Snapchat or asking for Snapchat, please listen to this episode to ensure you're preparing them for what they may encounter on this harmful platform. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. You can get 10% off the entire life of your Bark App subscription! Just use code: SCROLLING2DEATH Check out the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Check out the Bark App: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark
Apr 26, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: 👨⚖️ President Biden signs TikTok bill into law ‼️ TikTok found to be serving suicide content to minors 👻 Pedophiles are targeting our kids on Snapchat in droves 👨👨👧👦 Georgia passes a new social media law for minors under 16 💰 Instagram found to be profiting off of "nudify" apps Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Apr 25, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a series on Scrolling 2 Death featuring candid discussions with teachers. Parents get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school. Today's episode features 12-grade English teacher Dean Bavisotto.
Apr 24, 2024
Today (April 24, 2024) President Biden signed a bill into law that is forcing ByteDance - the Chinese-based company who owns TikTok- to sell TikTok to an American company within a year or face a national ban. In this episode, I inform parents on what this law actually means for the American people and what will come next.
Apr 22, 2024
Parents have been asking me about BeReal. Is it safe? Should we let our kids use it? I did a deep dive and outlined the pros and cons of BeReal, in today's mini-episode of Scrolling 2 Death.
Apr 22, 2024
This interview with former Congressional staffer Patrick Lyden gives parents an understanding of how our children are currently protected when they spend time online and what legislation is needed. The biggest takeaway for me is that parents need to speak up about what we want regarding kids online safety. We also break down what's happening with the TikTok "ban," social media age restrictions, the current state of tech in schools and much more in the digital safety space. NOTE : This conversation took place on April 8th. There have been legislative updates since then related to the safety bills discussed, in addition to the TikTok "divest-or-ban" bill. Visit my Instagram ( @scrolling2death ) to get real-time updates on all of these topics. Resources mentioned in the episode: Visit house.gov to find your member of Congress and voice your concerns about online safety for children. (form is on the top-right of the webpage) Children and Screens Institute BrightCanary monitoring platform More about Patrick: Patrick Lyden is founder of CurrentStrategic, a government relation, business development, and strategic initiatives firm based in Washington, DC. Patrick brings more than 20 years of experience in both the public and private sectors, including in Congress and political campaigns. Over his career, he has maintained strong bipartisan relationships in and out of government. From start-up to the largest private sector companies, Patrick has led clients to successfully engage with government stakeholders and develop partnerships with leading organizations and businesses. A skilled communicator, Patrick leverages his broad understanding of the legislative process and decades of relationships across the federal government, foreign governments, business, associations, and non-profits to assist clients in crafting and meeting their strategic and policy objectives. Patrick uses his extensive experience in building and engaging in coalitions to drive forward client priorities. Prior to founding CurrentStrategic, Patrick led strategic initiatives for a robotics startup and co-led Congressional advocacy efforts for Uber Technology with a focus on the new economy, the workforce of the future, and emerging technologies such as autonomous vehicles. Prior to that, Patrick worked for leading Members of Congress as a Chief of Staff and as senior staff for several committees of the House of Representatives. Patrick lives in Washington, DC, with his wife, Sarah Rittling, and their two daughters.
Apr 19, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: Updates on WhatsApp and the danger of encrypted messaging TikTok test accounts show that TikTok is suggesting suicidal content to teens Study shows link between social media use and gambling New research identifies most harmful aspects of social media for minors Update on this week's Congressional hearing What's happening with the TikTok "ban" (with special guest Patrick Lyden) Snapchat's effort to identify AI-generated content Instagram's disappointing announcement related to nude images Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Apr 18, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a brand new series here on Scrolling 2 Death. In these candid discussions with teachers, parents get the real deal on what's happening with screens in the classroom. Today's episode features High School teachers Matt Miles and Joe Clement. Matt and Joe are incredible advocates in this space and are authors of one of my favorite books, Screen Schooled: Two Veteran Teachers Expose How Technology Overuse Is Making Our Kids Dumber Be sure not to miss our version of "Mean Tweets" toward the end of the episode!
Apr 15, 2024
This episode is all about social media safety. I constantly wonder; will my children be safe on social media? The short answer is no. To advise on the topic, I brought in Marc Berkman, who is the CEO of the Organization for Social Media Safety. Together, we walk through evidence-based harms that exist on social media and proposed legislation to make social media a safer space for us to connect. We also discuss this week's congressional hearing where we will learn more about 9 proposed online safety bills including KOSA, Sammy's Law, COPPA 2.0, APRA and others. Fingers crossed for creating safer online spaces for us and our children to connect! Check out OFSMS: https://www.socialmediasafety.org/ Tell your representative if online safety for children is important to you. Visit this link and enter your ZIP code at the top-right: https://www.house.gov/
Apr 12, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: What's really going on with TikTok? The imitation game continues with TikTok Notes Snapchat fools us all! More lawsuits against Big Tech KOSA and COPPA 2.0 introduced into the House Don't forget about Discord Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Apr 11, 2024
Welcome to Teachers Talk, a brand new series here on Scrolling 2 Death. In these candid discussions with teachers, parents get the real deal on what's happening with screens in the classroom. Today's episode features 9th grade Language Arts teacher Tara Hodgson. After 17 years of teaching, Tara has a well-earned perspective on how technology in school is affecting our kids. Here's a link to grab a copy of Tara's book .
Apr 8, 2024
This conversation is all about our attention span. Where did it go? How do we regain control of attention? I was honored to be joined by data scientist and psychologist Dr. Gloria Mark. We dove into many of the issues that parents deal with on a daily basis; attention span, multitasking, digital habits and much more. I left this conversation with a much better understanding of what I can do in the home to regain control of my attention (and my kids' attentions) and lessen stress levels. Meet Dr. Gloria Mark Gloria Mark is Chancellor’s Professor of Informatics at the University of California, Irvine. She received her PhD from Columbia University in psychology and studies the impact of digital media on people’s lives. She takes a deep dive in examining multitasking, interruptions, and mood with the use of digital devices. She has published over 200 articles, and in 2017 was inducted into the ACM SIGCHI Academy which recognizes leaders in the field of human-computer interaction. She has presented her work at SXSW and the Aspen Ideas Festival, and her research has appeared in the popular media, e.g. New York Times, Wall Street Journal, NPR, The Atlantic, the BBC, and many others. Check out Dr. Mark's substack . Learn about Dr. Mark's work and her book Attention Span :
Apr 6, 2024
Over 3.3 billion humans play video games. It can be an activity that connects us and brings people together from all over the world. There has been quite an evolution in gaming over the past couple of decades. Before I handed my young kids a gaming console, I wanted to know...what is gaming today really like. So I got on the line with gamers to find out what's really happening in the games spaces of today. What was revealed to me about gaming, particularly gaming online , is that there's a lot going on...things that parents need to know and things we need to talk to our kids about. It's truly not all fun and games. Thank you to the gamers who were so open and honest with their gaming experiences. You guys are the best.
Apr 5, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: The book that will change the tide (The Anxious Generation) New CSAM research that parents need to be aware of Basically no parents use the parental controls on Snapchat and Discord Meta is sued for $7B by their own advertisers Snapchat's new ranking feature fuels teen anxiety Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Apr 4, 2024
Welcome to the first installment of Teachers Talk, a brand new series here on Scrolling 2 Death. In these candid discussions with teachers, parents get the real deal on what's happening with screens at school. Today's episode features college instructor Dr. Jason Robinson. We discussed the pitfalls, and even the benefits, of allowing devices in his college lecture hall. Meet Dr. Robinson Dr. Jason Robinson is a Senior Lecturer at the University of North Georgia. He currently is a Faculty member in the Chemistry and Biochemistry Department. Dr. Robinson primarily teaches students in a pre-nursing tract and other majors requiring critical thinking - but not Chemistry major level instruction. Additionally, he is a frequent presenter to parents and first-generation students at the University. Dr. Robinson holds Master's and Doctorate Degrees in Photonics from Oklahoma State University and a Bachelor's Degree in Chemistry from Xavier University of Louisiana.
Apr 1, 2024
In this conversation, I was joined by Chris McKenna of Protect Young Eyes to dive into all things digital safety. We talk about when and how to give your child a device, danger areas online, how to talk to your child about online risks and much, much more. Chris is a wealth of information, having spoken in countless schools and to parent groups around the country. About Chris McKenna: Former consultant, youth ministry director. Author of resources for families and churches on digital safety and pornography. His 2019 US Senate testimony catalyzed new online child protection laws and earned PYE the Dignity Defense Alert Award. Now an advisor to legislators and global tech companies on policies and feature improvements. The PYE team performs hundreds of presentations globally and was featured in the Childhood 2.0 movie. Chris is married to Andrea, enjoys family road trips, nature, running, and candy, and is father to four.
Mar 29, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: More on Florida's social media ban for minors New CSAM research that parents need to know UK research shows teen girls expect to be harassed online Creative ways predators are manipulating our kids Latest research on boys being fed misogynistic content Court documents reveal that Meta was snooping on Snapchat user data Meta restricts political content (even mine?) Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Mar 28, 2024
Disclaimer: This conversation discusses child sexual abuse material. Please listen or watch with caution. This is a conversation that no one wants to have, but everyone should be having. It's about Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM). Cyber trauma expert Cath Knibbs joins me today on Scrolling 2 Death to educate parents on what is happening with our childrens' photos online. You'll get a basic understanding of the risks and how to avoid them. I cannot stress the importance of understanding the landscape of CSAM in today's world. This topic is horrible. It’s icky. It’s extremely difficult to hear about. But the truth is that there are hundreds of millions of CSAM photos and videos being shared, traded and sold…content that is either self-generated by the children or stolen from parents’ social media posts. As a parent, I want to know what’s happening with CSAM in order to protect my children from CSAM. Hopefully you’ll join me in educating yourselves, as well. Cath is an Online Harms Consultant, Trainer, Speaker, Author and Psychotherapist. Learn more about her work at: https://www.childrenandtech.co.uk or on IG @catherine_knibbs and TikTok @cath_knibbs. ***If you think a child may be at immediate risk of abuse, call 911 or your local police. If you would like to report CSAM, review the following resources. United States: Organization to contact: National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. Website: report.cybertip.org/ Phone number: 1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678) Globally: https://report.iwf.org.uk/org/ Stat Clarification : NCMEC's CyberTipline received 32 million reports in 2022, resulting in 80 million pieces of content.
Mar 25, 2024
This episode is all about drug sales on social media. If you think this can't get your child, you're mistaken. Nicki interviews Bill Bodner, retired DEA Special Agent in Charge to expose the modern day drug market, which is social media. No longer do people have to go to a seedy area to purchase illegal drugs. They only have to open their phone and click on Snapchat. In this conversation, Special Agent Bodner details exactly how drug dealers are getting in front of our kids and what parents can do to guide our children away from these dangerous substances. There are important takeaways here related to counterfeit drugs made to look like prescription pills, though are laced with fentanyl. The information in this episode could realistically save your child's life. About Bill Bodner (DEA-Ret.) Meet Bill Bodner, recently retired after a near 32-year federal law enforcement career with the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration. At the time of his retirement, Bodner was the Special Agent in Charge of the DEA Los Angeles Field Division office, where he oversaw all criminal investigative matters and all controlled prescription drug administrative and civil matters in the states of Nevada and Hawaii, the US Territories of Guam and Saipan and the seven counties that make up the greater Los Angeles area. Since retiring from federal service, Bodner started a private consulting and investigation company and frequently works pro-bono for investigative journalists, helping them uncover and document criminal schemes. He also co-hosts a popular podcast called Truth Nation .
Mar 22, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: Massacre case in Buffalo, NY (why the victims are suing Big Tech) Pornhub is not happy with Texas 15 U.S. states are suing Apple Is cyber-flashing a crime? A new update from the U.S. Surgeon General A must-read book for parents New Meta whistleblower warns about self-harm content Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Mar 21, 2024
This is a relatable and candid conversation about the digital devices shaping our children's lives, as we tackle the challenges of parenting in the age of technology. In this episode, Nicki is joined by the incredible Nate Webb, an esteemed school speaker, professional counselor, devoted husband, and father. With his expertise spanning bullying prevention, screen time management, and digital safety, Nate brings invaluable insights to the table. Together, we navigate through the myriad concerns confronting modern parents, addressing pressing issues such as: Access to Porn: Exploring the dangers of unrestricted access and strategies for safeguarding children from explicit content. Predatory Threats: Shedding light on online predators and empowering parents with knowledge to protect their children from potential risks. Teen Depression: Examining the correlation between excessive screen time and adolescent mental health, and strategies for fostering emotional well-being. Screen Dependency: Discussing the addictive nature of screens and practical approaches to promoting healthy screen habits among children. Social Media Impact: Unpacking the influence of social media on young minds and navigating its complexities to ensure a positive digital experience for kids. Join us as we delve into these critical topics, offering practical advice, expert insights, and actionable strategies to empower parents in navigating the digital landscape and nurturing a safe and healthy environment for our children.
Mar 18, 2024
This is the story of Selena Rodriguez, who took her own life at 11 years old after suffering an extreme social media addiction. Selena's mom, Tammy, is a warrior who shares Selena's story to help other families avoid this tragedy. Disclaimer : This episode includes the story of an 11-year-old who died by suicide. If this will be too upsetting for you, please skip to the next episode. If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out immediately to the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255 or text HOME to the Crisis Text Line at 741741. These services are free and confidential.
Mar 15, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: Will TikTok be banned in the U.S.? Results of a 14-year-old female test account on Snapchat More predators target kids on Snapchat New warning about vapes sold on Snapchat Meta's stock plummets and lawsuit updates Discord to allow mini-games to be developed within chats New "social media terror" on Discord and Telegram Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Mar 14, 2024
This episode is all about how cyberbullying is affecting our kids. Trisha Prabhu, an anti-bullying advocate and founder of the ReThink app, shares her journey and insights on cyberbullying and social media. She emphasizes the importance of early conversations with children about technology and the internet, as well as creating transparency and collaboration in setting rules and expectations. In this conversation, we cover tons of topics including: Cyberbullying Social media Big Tech Safe-tech for kids Technology use in schools Learn about the ReThink app here: https://www.rethinkwords.com Conenct with Trisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trishprabhu
Mar 11, 2024
In this episode, I gain clarity into how we got here...to a place where young children are accessing technology that can harm them. Paul DelPonte of the National Crime Prevention Council breaks down the legislation (or lack thereof) that exists to protect kids online, potential new laws and current lawsuits against social media companies. We also go deep into the fentanyl epidemic and how these illegal drugs are finding their way to our children through Snapchat. Paul has intimate knowledge into social media harms through his personal relationships with the families that have been affected. You can get to know these families at a new website called ParentsSOS: https://www.parentssos.org You may recognize the official mascot of NCPC, McGruff the Crime Dog. For over 40 years, McGruff has been helping people "take a bite out of crime" through his awareness campaigns. Over the years, McGruff has been focusing more and more on online crimes, which was the focus of our discussion today. About Paul DelPonte: Paul DelPonte is an accomplished nonprofit executive, award-winning communicator and consumer advocate. As Executive Director of the National Crime Prevention Council, his work is focused on expanding NCPC’s impact and introducing McGruff the Crime Dog® to a new, digitally savvy generation of Americans. Over his decades-long career, DelPonte guided a range of nonprofit organizations, foundations and corporations to reach broader audiences through digital outreach and other communications. Other major accomplishments include leading a coalition to promote greater civic engagement, boosting public education on how forests help protect the environment, and coordinating campaigns on mental health parity, dietary supplements, child nutrition, and to increase NIH funding. In 2015, he had his own “McGruff® Moment,” when he came forward as a whistleblower to stop theft and fraud in a federal job training program for seniors and veterans.
Mar 8, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. The highlights for this week: Instagram and Facebook went down and we all freaked out. Another celebrity hit by a deep fake nude photo scandal Update on Florida's bill to ban social media for minors U.S. is trying to ban TikTok...again Snapchat adds another harmful feature More school districts ban smartphones Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Mar 7, 2024
It is all too common to simply hand your child your old iPhone. This episode breaks down why you should NOT do that very thing. Scrolling 2 Death Host Nicki Reisberg and CMO of Bark Technologies Titania Jordan talk through the functionality a parent would want their children to access with a phone, and compare what's available with the iPhone versus the Bark Phone. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. You can get 10% off the entire life of your Bark App subscription! Just use code: SCROLLING2DEATH Check out the Bark Phone . Check out the Bark App .
Mar 4, 2024
This episode is your guide to giving your kid a phone. In this conversation, Hannah Oertel lays out the ideal pathway for our children's phone journey. If you've been stressed about when to give a phone or which phone to give, this is the episode for you! You can make a difference in mental health outcomes for your child, with this one decision; When and how you give your kid a phone. Don't ignore the risks. Hannah also shares a few of the lesser-known ways that smartphones are affecting our kids physically. I was shocked at what I learned! We discuss phone use in schools, social media use and other screen-related topics. About Hannah: Hannah is a therapist and mother and launched the campaign, Delay Smartphones to help protect children from the dangers of smartphones. The first generation of children who were given smartphones before high school are now adults. We now know for every year younger they were given smartphones by their parents, the worse their mental health is today. That same generation is begging us not to make the same mistake. Hannah is passionate about supporting parents to make informed decisions on when to give their children their first smartphones. Her aim is to see children free from smartphones until at least the age of 14 and using child appropriate alternative devices until a smartphone is necessary. Hannah lives in Edinburgh, Scotland with her husband and two daughters.
Mar 1, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. This week’s Big Tech Gut Check highlights: Staffers alerted Meta that Facebook and Instagram subscription feature allowed for child exploitation Positive research on Meta found to be funded by a main investor...in Meta Deepfake nude scandals continue across schools in the U.S. Snapchat test account shows the platform actively connects minors to predatory adults Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Feb 29, 2024
It's time for a fresh discussion about sharing our kids online. AKA #Sharenting Parents everywhere continue to share, despite the growing risks. In this episode, I break down the current state of sharenting in today's digital era, including; the risks of CSAM and AI-generate deep fake nudes, the short-term and long-term effects on our children, an analysis of why we share and thoughts around how our sharing can effect other parents. A takeaway for today: *Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM) refers to any content that depicts sexually explicit activities involving a child. This was previously referred to as "child pornography." As pornography implies consent, this term is no longer appropriate to use in reference to children.
Feb 26, 2024
In this conversation, parent survivor Maurine Molak shares the story of her son David, who experienced relentless cyberbullying which led to his tragic suicide. The cyberbullying occurred mainly on Instagram and gaming chats, and went unreported by both David and hundreds of observers. Cyberbullying can have a devastating impact on kids and teens, leading to anxiety, depression and even suicide. Parents need to be educated on the signs and how to react when our own children are dealing with this issue. Maurine gives insight on all of the above. For parents who would like to learn more about the Kids Online Safety Act and online safety advocacy in general, you can visit https://www.parentssos.org . To learn more about Maurine's organization David's Legacy Foundation, visit: https://www.davidslegacy.org
Feb 23, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. This week’s Big Tech Gut Check highlights: Reports of students being sexually groomed on school-issued devices Most concerning websites for kids How tech companies are attempting to help suicidal teens The latest celebrity to get hit with deepfake porn (it's not Taylor Swift) Latest string of pedophiles targeting our children on Snapchat Florida's social media ban for kids under 16 years old Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Feb 22, 2024
This episode serves as a parent's guide to kids and tech. Titania Jordan of Bark Technologies has dedicated her life to educating parents and making the digital world safer for kids. In this conversation, Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Reisberg and Titania reveal the findings of Bark's Annual Report on Children and Technology. Parents will learn: What are the most common issues facing kids online? Which apps are most harmful? What is the ideal journey to introducing tech to our kids? When should we give our kids social media? How can parents stay up to date on online harms? All of the above is revealed in this eye-opening conversation. PROMO CODE : Use code SCROLLING2DEATH for 10% off the life of your Bark App subscription. Check out the Bark App . Check out the Bark Phone . Titania Jordan is the Chief Marketing Officer and Chief Parent Officer of Bark Technologies, an online safety company that helps keep kids safe online and in real life. You can access Bark's Annual Report on Children and Technology here . Here's a link to the Facebook Group: Parenting in a Tech World
Feb 19, 2024
If you have a teenager (or pre-teen), this episode is a MUST-LISTEN. The fentanyl epidemic is finding its way into our own front yard through our children's access to drug dealers on Snapchat and other social media platforms. In this episode, you'll hear the story of Sammy Chapman, who was 16 years old when he suffered from fentanyl poisoning from a free pill that a drug dealer dropped off at his house. The drug deal took place on Snapchat, which is quickly becoming known as an "open air drug market for kids." This conversation shines a light on the faulty nature of social media products and the harms that our kids are facing. Sammy's Dad, Sam, give us parents several takeaways that could literally save our child's life. Learn about Sammy's Law, which aims to make social media platforms safer by allowing third-party safety software integration: https://www.socialmediasafety.org/sammys-law/
Feb 16, 2024
There were some hopeful updates this week for the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). In this conversation, attorney Laura Marquez-Garrett breaks down the latest updates and what parents should know about their kid's online safety.
Feb 16, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things Big Tech. This week’s Big Tech Gut Check highlights: Snapchat's "More Snapchat" Super Bowl ad voted #1 Least Effective by Forbes TikTok is making it more difficult for parents to how much harmful content our kids are seeing Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) gains additional support NYC sues TikTok, Meta, Snap and YouTube for addicting young users Meta will no longer promote political content on Instagram and Threads New research on how often teenagers are "hanging out" is concerning Check back every Friday for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.
Feb 12, 2024
Some would say that the addictive pull of our phones and the attention economy is the biggest issue society faces today. Certainly, our children are feeling the effects, with rising rates of depression and suicide. Sara Robin is an award-winning filmmaker who has dove into exploring the impact that the attention economy is having on our lives. There is so much to learn from Sara, as she has studied and interviewed countless parents, teens, teachers, doctors and other experts in this space. Sara is now in development on a new documentary called Your Attention Please, which explores solutions to the problems caused by exploitative tech. In this conversation between Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Reisberg and Sara Robin, we dive deep into issues facing parents today, including: The harms that can arise from problematic social media use The presence of tech and smartphones in schools Tips for parents in raising their children with tech And much, much more You can find out more about the Your Attention Please documentary at: yourattentionplz.com
Feb 9, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things Big Tech. Check back every Friday for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This week’s Big Tech Gut Check highlights: Meta paying $$Billions$$ in dividends in the wake of child exploitation revealed on their platform. Meta's announcement to add labels to AI-generated content. Troubles in the world of Snapchat, and their last-ditch efforts to be relevant. Research updates on misinformation, misogynistic content (featuring Andrew Tate). Revealing the Top 3 most popular social media platforms for U.S. adults.
Feb 5, 2024
The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things Big Tech. Check back here every Friday for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This week’s Big Tech Gut Check focuses on : An update on the lawsuit Neville et al vs. Snap, Inc. Highlights from the Big Tech Senate Hearing in DC Big Tech’s latest publicity stunts NYC Major Eric Adams concerning update on social media A new report from Eko revealing harmful content on Instagram and TikTok
Feb 5, 2024
In this conversation, family physician Dr. Alison Young (IG: @thesmartphoneeffect) and Nicki Reisberg discuss the impact of screens and social media on mental health. They explore the age at which children are getting smartphones and accessing social media, and the effect that these decisions are having on mental health outcomes, brain development and dopamine levels. Topics include: Youth screen time and social media use A breakdown of how dopamine works related to screen time What phone options are available to parents these days The benefits of phone bans in academic settings The importance of primary prevention around screen activities
Jan 30, 2024
This episode is your introduction to dangerous online challenges. Parent survivor Joann Bogard shares the story of her son, Mason. Mason Bogard was an adventurous and outdoorsy 15-year-old. He loved fishing, hiking, camping and woodworking. He had great friends, went to a good school. Mason's parents talked to him regularly about online safety and used every parental feature available. They did everything right. And Mason still fell victim to a social media harm. Mason passed away in May 2019 after trying the viral choking challenge he viewed on YouTube. The conversation highlights the lack of regulation and responsibility of social media platforms in preventing harmful content from reaching children. Joann discusses her advocacy efforts, including a lawsuit against YouTube and TikTok, and support of the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA). The conversation includes candid tips for parents regarding phones and social media. You can connect with Joann through: https://www.facebook.com/masonsmessage To learn more about KOSA, click this link . Here's an easy link to contact your state Senators, to ask them to support KOSA.
Jan 29, 2024
Dr. Carl D. Marci is a physician, neuroscientist, author and entrepreneur with an incredible book for parents called 'Rewired: Protecting Your Brain in the Digital Age.' In this interview, Dr. Marci answers pressing questions from parents: How are screens affecting our childrens' brains? Should we be giving our children a learning tablet? When should our children be given a smartphone? Why are adolescents more depressed than ever before? The big takeaway from this conversation is how parents can best connect with their children and support their brain development. Here's a link to Dr. Marci's book 'Rewired: Protecting Your Brain in the Digital Age': https://rewiredthebook.com
Jan 22, 2024
This episode is all about social media and our kids. In this conversation, I welcome Imran Ahmed of the Center for Countering Digital Hate, who gets in depth about the risks that social media poses to our children, and gives a roadmap to solve this harmful hamster wheel. We cover a number of topics relevant to parenting in the digital world, including: Social media's addictive nature Harmful content on social media (and how to minimize it) How to navigate "fake news" The effect of AI on society Imran and his team have put together a Parent's Guide for social media use, available here . Imran Ahmed leads the Center for Countering Digital Hate in stopping the spread of hate and lies online through research, public campaigns and policy advocacy. Learn more about their work at counterhate.com . If you feel impassioned to write your State Representatives to inform them about your feelings on these issues, click here for a simple form.
Jan 19, 2024
Today I welcome Dr. Mark Woodall, a naturopathic doctor practicing in Washington state. In this conversation, we focus on the effects that technology is having on the mental and physical health of today's teenagers. Dr. Woodall gives parents specific recommendations related to teen mental health, screen time, sleep, physical activity and tech. Work with Dr. Woodall in Washington . Here are a few of the resources that Dr. Woodall mentions in this episode: Info on toxic chemicals: https://www.ewg.org Book recommendation: https://stolenfocusbook.com Research around social media and links to mental health outcomes: https://jonathanhaidt.com/social-media/
Jan 15, 2024
Amy Neville lost her son Alexander to an overdose after taking one fentanyl-laced oxycodone pill he purchased on Snapchat. She has joined together with over 60 other families who have been harmed in similar ways, and is suing Snap, Inc., alleging the social media platform enables drug dealers in reaching minors and young adults. In this revealing interview, Amy tells her story and warns parents about the dangers hiding on this concerning platform, tells us what to look for, and provides advice on how to guide our children in an increasingly-digital world. After losing her son, Amy founded the Alexander Neville Foundation, which works to educate youth and communities on teen mental health and the dangers of fentanyl and social media. https://anfhelp.org Learn more about Neville et. al. vs. Snap here: https://socialmediavictims.org/snapchat-lawsuit/fentanyl/
Jan 8, 2024
In this interview, I welcome Sarah from Mom Uncharted . This discussion is all about sharing children online; we dissect digital privacy, informed consent, kid influencers and shed light on the sobering realities of child safety in the digital landscape. I was especially shocked to learn about the ability for adults to subscribe to exclusive content from children. Parents everywhere must know about this. More about Sarah: For two years, Sarah has been exploring the state of sharenting, child exploitation and minor safety on social media. Since then, she’s grown a large and supportive community of like-minded individuals who feel that the way parents are sharing their children online is concerning and that the platforms, governments and brands need to step up to protect a whole generation of children from growing up with a digital footprint that compromised their right to privacy, informed consent and digital safety. Sarah’s goal has always been to pose questions, offer a different perspective and provide information as it relates to these topics in an attempt to encourage parents to reflect on their own sharing choices, the accounts they are consuming online and better support their children in becoming informed and responsible digital citizens. Her work has been featured in The Washington Post, Forbes, Bloomberg, CNN and more. Most recently in the French documentary "Enfants sous influence : surexposés au nom du like".
Jan 6, 2024
In what may be a multi-parter, Nicki breaks down the unthinkable responses to a recent video she posted on Instagram about a teen’s suicide. Thousands of comments from adolescent male gamers don’t lie. In the online gaming communities, there is a blatant lack of empathy and normalization of hate speech, suicide-baiting and oversaturation of cyber-bullying. In this mini-episode, Nicki discusses this viral Instagram video and the responses, in addition to sharing current research about gaming and the effects on our children.
Jan 4, 2024
Today’s mini episode features the witty and hilarious Jenny Mollen. Jenny is a writer, actor, Instagram personality and New York Times bestselling author. Jenny’s oversharing nature has come into check as she became a mother and faced the ever-concerning decision – to share our kids, or not to share our kids. Online, that is. As always, Jenny takes us on a swift and thrilling ride through her “latchkey vibes” upbringing and public-facing career which led her to decide that privacy is the way to go. Connect with Jenny on Instagram at @jennymollen .
Jan 2, 2024
Prepare for an eye-opening conversation that will change the way you think about kids and tech. Join Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death as she dives into an enlightening discussion with attorney Laura Marquez-Garrett (of the Social Media Victims Law Center), unearthing the harsh realities of the harm lurking behind the screens. We get into loads of hot tech topics, including: Social media harms vs. benefits Trends in social media harms Addictiveness of social media platforms Which are the most harmful platforms? Much, much more Laura pulls back the curtain on the profound impacts of social media on our children, sharing real stories of social media harm and offering tips for parents navigating the ever-evolving digital landscape. More about Laura : Laura Marquez-Garrett is a 2002 Harvard Law School graduate and spent the first twenty-years of her career in Big Law, where she oversaw complex litigation matters and specialized in electronic evidence and forensic investigation. In January of 2022, Laura met Social Media Victims Law Center (SMVLC) founder, Matthew Bergman, and watched the Netflix documentary, Social Dilemma. The following month, she left her predominantly defense-oriented practice to join SMVLC to contribute to the Center’s mission of change and holding social media companies accountable for the harms they are causing to children and families. Since then, Laura has participated in the filing of more than 100 complaints against social media companies in state and federal courts across the country. She filed an Amicus brief in Netchoice v. Bonta on behalf of Fairplay and several other civil society organizations, and in support of California’s Age-Appropriate Design Code (CADC); serves as a Discovery Steering Committee co-lead in the California Judicial Counsel Coordinated Proceedings (JCCP No. 5255); has appeared on podcasts, such as Your Undivided Attention, and other forms of media, such as the released documentary titled “Mark, What’s the Plan,” about social media harms and related issues; addressed the House Energy & Commerce Committee at a Roundtable on the Dangers of Big Tech and the Fentanyl Poisoning Crisis; authored an Op-Ed in the Los Angeles Blade in support of the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA); has spoken on panels, met with hundreds of children and families, and is otherwise actively involved in efforts across the globe to force change and hold social media companies accountable for the harms they cause as a matter of platform design.
Dec 26, 2023
DISCLAIMER: This episode discusses the suicide of 15-year-old Nate Bronstein. If this topic will be too upsetting for you, please skip to the next episode. In this episode, Rose Bronstein shares the story of her son Nate. Nate loved basketball. He loved playing the drums. He loved hanging out with his friends. He was a wonderful soul. At the age of 15, Nate died by suicide on January 13, 2022 after facing vicious attacks, harassment and threats of physical harm over text and Snapchat. This tragic story can happen to any kid. To any family. In this episode, Nate's mom Rose shares the full story and emphasizes a few important lessons for parents and teens. Learn more about Rose's work at https://bucketsoverbullying.org/
Dec 18, 2023
This interview is dedicated to Carson Bride. In this emotional conversation, Kristin Bride tells Nicki the personal story of losing her son to suicide after being cyberbullied on anonymous apps linked to Snapchat, and her subsequent advocacy work. Trigger warning: In this episode, we talk about suicide. If this will be too difficult for you, please skip to the next episode. Kristin also shares her work with the Fairplay Network and the Online Harms Prevention work group, which aims to educate parents on online harms and advocate for legislation. The conversation emphasizes the tragic consequences of online harms and the need for parents to be critical thinkers and protect their children online. Parents can learn about the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) by visiting passkosa.org and consider taking action to advocate for the legislation. Takeaways: Anonymous apps pose significant dangers to children, including cyberbullying and exposure to harmful content. Kristin advises parents to delay their children's access to social media and have ongoing conversations about the dangers of technology. Creating communities of like-minded parents can provide support and resources for navigating the challenges of parenting in the digital age. We discuss the need for legislation and parental awareness to protect children from the negative impacts of anonymous apps and social media.
Dec 11, 2023
In this episode I welcome digital advocate Alix Fraser of Issue One . We take a dive deep into the risks of social media and explore how (and why) social media has been created to be harmful by design. Alix and Nicki cover a ton of topics important to parents; social media, devices, cyberbullying, sharenting and much more! Alix introduces Nicki to two bills that would could steer us in the right direction with social media regulation and make the internet safer for children. The Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA, S.1409) directly addresses the harmful social media business model by placing the health and wellbeing of our children over advertising revenue. Learn more at passkosa.org. The Platform Accountability and Transparency Act (PATA) would create a program facilitated by the National Science Foundation (NSF) for researchers to request access to certain data from social media companies, and require the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to develop privacy and security protocols for the program. Learn more about PATA here: https://www.coons.senate.gov/news/press-releases/senator-coons-colleagues-introduce-legislation-to-increase-transparency-around-social-media-platforms Alix Fraser serves as the Director of the Council for Responsible Social Media at Issue One. In this role, Alix leads the cross-partisan Council of political, civic, public health, business, and national security leaders working to address the threats that social media platforms pose to American society. Learn more about this work at issueone.org.
Dec 4, 2023
Join Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Reisberg for an enlightening and educational dive into the world of kid-friendly smartphones in this eye-opening episode. Nicki sits down with Bill Brady, the Co-Founder and CEO of Troomi Wireless, a pioneering mobile phone platform committed to fostering children's mental well-being through a balanced and safe relationship with technology. As a father of five, Bill brings a wealth of experience and insight to the discussion, shedding light on essential topics vital for todays’ parents. Throughout the conversation, Bill and Nicki explore an array of critical issues that resonate with every parent. From the paramount importance of digital safety and the introduction of safe smartphones tailored for kids, to navigating the complexities of teens and social media, the discussion is rich with valuable insights. Delving into the risks and benefits of phone usage for younger children and the emergence of smartwatches designed with kids in mind, they address pressing concerns. The dialogue extends beyond mere usage to encompass the gamut of potential risks in the digital sphere, encompassing cyberbullying, sextortion, the surge of depression, and even the physical effects associated with excessive tech consumption. Moreover, the conversation delves into the role of phones in educational settings, uncovering the nuances of phone use in schools. It's important to note that Scrolling 2 Death is an independent platform and not affiliated with Troomi Wireless. However, as a gesture, Troomi is extending an exclusive $80 discount to Scrolling 2 Death listeners on a Troomi phone. Simply use the code TROOMI80 at checkout on www.troomi.com to claim this special offer. More about Bill Brady : In a career spanning 20 years as a marketing executive, Bill Brady has owned two marketing agencies serving Fortune 500 brands. Since 2018, he has focused on providing children with healthier solutions for using technology and is the co-founder and CEO of Troomi Wireless, a mobile phone platform designed to improve kids’ mental health through a safe and balanced relationship with technology. Bill holds a degree in Marketing/PR from Brigham Young University and an MBA from the University of Utah. He lives in Highland, UT, with his wife and five kids.
Dec 1, 2023
Illinois-based high school art teacher Bill Henricks takes you behind the curtain in this revealing interview. Get ready for an insider's perspective on the realities of phone restrictions in schools. Bill and Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki delve deep into the primary objections to phone bans, unpacking concerns ranging from security issues to navigating medical exceptions and potential legal ramifications. This candid conversation sheds light on the multifaceted challenges faced by educators and parents alike when it comes to balancing the benefits and drawbacks of smartphones in educational settings. By tuning in to this episode, parents and educators gain invaluable insights, fostering a bridge of understanding between these two critical stakeholders in a child's education. The priority is crystal clear: safeguarding our children's mental health amidst the pervasive influence of screens. Encouraging open and compassionate dialogue around these crucial topics is paramount. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Learn more about The Phone Locker at https://phonelocker.org (a simple solution to a big distraction) Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Nov 29, 2023
Prepare to get serious insight into the complexities of sharenting and digital privacy in this eye-opening episode featuring the esteemed Leah Plunkett, as she joins Nicki for a deep dive into the multifaceted world of sharenting and digital privacy. Leah Plunkett is author of the acclaimed book Sharenthood: Why We Should Think Before We Talk about Our Kids Online, a faculty member at Harvard Law School, and a faculty associate with the Berkman Klein Center for Internet & Society at Harvard University. To learn more about Leah's groundbreaking work and to grab a copy of her book, visit leahplunkett.com . Exploring the intricate dynamics surrounding the disclosure of digital data about children, Leah and Nicki shed light on the critical implications that often go unnoticed. From the potential invasion of privacy to the threats posed to children's current and future opportunities, and the hindrance of their ability to cultivate a genuine sense of self, we offer listeners a comprehensive understanding of the far-reaching consequences of this digital practice. The episode also delves into the increasing risks associated with generative AI and the alarming prevalence of child sexual abuse material, underscoring the urgent need for heightened vigilance and protective measures in the online sphere. Bringing a unique legal perspective to the table, Leah addresses crucial questions that every parent might have. We also delve into the fascinating world of "kidfluencers" and the pertinent issue of their limited rights to compensation for their online content, a topic that calls for widespread attention and advocacy. As an acclaimed author of the thought-provoking book, "Sharenthood: Why We Should Think Before We Talk about Our Kids Online," Leah Plunkett brings unparalleled expertise to the table, offering a wealth of knowledge and actionable insights. Join us as we unravel the legal intricacies, discuss the existing laws protecting children online, and delve into ways in which parents can actively advocate for greater digital protection within their local communities. Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Nov 27, 2023
Get ready to dive into the fascinating world of adolescent brain development in this jam-packed episode! Join Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Reisberg as she sits down with the incredible Nicola Morgan, aka "The Teenage Brain Woman," for an eye-opening chat that's perfect for parents navigating the maze of child-rearing. Nicola, a rockstar author with over 100 books under her belt, knows a thing or two about teenage wellbeing. From how stress and anxiety affect learning to the impact of screens and social media on young minds, she's got the inside scoop. Starting off as an English teacher and diving into supporting dyslexic students, Nicola's journey sparked her fascination with the learning brain. In this episode, she spills the beans on how technology is shaping the brains of today's teens, giving parents the lowdown on what's happening behind those screens. They dive into hot topics like helicopter parenting, screen addiction, staying focused in a world full of distractions, and the eternal quest for balance amidst the digital chaos. Plus, they tackle recent trends like phone bans in different countries, dissecting what it means for the younger generation. This conversation will arm parents with the knowledge they need to navigate the digital landscape while supporting their kids' mental and emotional well-being. Tune in for a peek into the ever-evolving teenage brain and grab some practical tips to guide your child through the digital age! Connect with Nicola Morgan on her website and on Substack ! Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Nov 13, 2023
Buckle up for a laughter-filled heart-to-heart in this fabulous interview featuring the one and only, Jennifer Kelman, LCSW – your soon-to-be new best friend! Trust us, her wit and relatability will have you feeling like you've known her for ages. In this vulnerable discussion, Nicki Reisberg and Ashley Hudson team up with the incredible Jennifer Kelman to dish out some seriously candid and valuable insights on all things parenting. From the eternal struggle of managing screen time to the nerve-wracking decision of when to hand over that first phone and navigate the wild world of social media, they leave no stone unturned. We go into detail on the Pinwheel phone and other teen-safe phone products. And that's just the beginning! Get ready to dive headfirst into the ever-relevant topic of 'sharenting' and why it's got everyone talking. Plus, you won't want to miss the scoop on the most common issues that Jen encounters on JustAnswer. But wait, there's more! Brace yourselves for some real talk about the ongoing debate of whether or not to allow phones at school, and pick up some invaluable tips on keeping a watchful eye on your child's device without being labeled the 'overbearing parent.' Oh, and let's not forget the crucial discussion on body image and the complex realities of navigating eating disorders in today's digital world. So, what are you waiting for? Join Nicki, Ashley, and the fabulous Jennifer Kelman in this unmissable episode that's packed to the brim with laughter, insight, and plenty of 'a-ha' moments. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! You can find Jennifer Kelman on JustAnswer here or by searching @TherapistJen. If you're interesting in learning more about the Pinwheel phone, here's their website: https://www.pinwheel.com/ A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Nov 6, 2023
Get ready for a real heart-to-heart in this super engaging episode where we speak with Liz, a badass mom of four. She shares why she kept social media away from her kids until they were all grown up. We're talking about the good, the bad, and the messy stuff that came with that decision! From bonding over family time to dodging the drama of cyberbullying and body image blues, we're diving deep into Liz's parenting playbook. We'll be tackling the hot topics too, like 'sharenting' (yeah, that's a thing), the dark side of misinformation, and how to keep an eye on your little ones without suffocating them. If you're a parent on the fence about when to hand over the social media reins, you absolutely can't miss this one. Liz brings the real talk, and we're here for it. So buckle up and get ready to take some notes, because this chat is packed with wisdom and some seriously honest storytelling. Big thanks to Liz for opening up and keeping it real with us! Don't forget to follow us on Instagram for short clips and bonus content from this episode! A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Oct 30, 2023
Get ready for an incredibly insightful and eye-opening episode as hosts Nicki and Ashley from Scrolling 2 Death speak with the brilliant human behavior technologist and cyber trauma expert, Cath Knibbs. Together, they venture into the intricate world of digital parenting, unpacking crucial issues that every caregiver needs to be aware of. This deep dive into the digital realm covers an array of pivotal topics, ensuring that no stone is left unturned when it comes to safeguarding our children in the digital age. From decoding the concept of cyber-trauma and providing invaluable insights on how to recognize its subtle signs in our children, to shedding light on the often-overlooked repercussions of 'sharenting' in the online sphere, this episode promises to be a game-changer in the way we approach our children's online presence. The conversation doesn't stop there. With a keen focus on the prevalence of violent online content and the sobering reality of child sex abuse material (CSAM), the hosts and their esteemed guest navigate the treacherous waters of digital exposure, equipping listeners with essential knowledge and practical strategies to protect their loved ones from potential harm. Drawing on their collective expertise, they also delve into the controversial debate surrounding the impact of violence in entertainment and gaming on real-life behavior, addressing the pressing concerns of screen time and the challenges it poses for today's parents. And that's just the tip of the iceberg! This episode is an absolute must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of parenting in the digital age. Tune in, soak up the wisdom, and don't forget to engage with the hosts and Cath Knibbs by sharing your thoughts and burning questions. Get ready to elevate your understanding and approach to digital parenting like never before! Please follow and comment with your thoughts and any questions you have for Cath Knibbs or the Scrolling 2 Death hosts. Learn more about Cath's work at www.childrenandtech.co.uk . Connect with Cath on LinkedIn . Connect with Cath on X . Listen to Cath's podcast called Cyber Synapse . Watch Cath's Tedx Talk . A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Oct 23, 2023
In this conversation on the Scrolling 2 Death podcast, three business owners come together to discuss the struggles around marketing themselves on social media, finding balance, dealing with bots and much more. Get ready to fall in love with the incredible Sydney Belina, a world-renowned fitness entrepreneur, FitOn Trainer and Founder of the movement called Flight Fitness. Syd takes us behind the curtain of a successful social media presence and what it takes to create an engaged community, while always prioritizing in-person connections. In this episode, we dive into: Marketing your business on social media The prevalence of social media bots Prioritizing offline connections Setting boundaries for time spent online The ever-changing Instagram algorithm Balancing out social media with other marketing initiatives You can find out more about Sydney Belina and try out a virtual class in her digital studio through www.sydneybelina.com. Also, you're going to want to connect with Sydney on Instagram at @sydneybelina.
Oct 16, 2023
What would you do if you found texts about murder on your 10-year-old's phone? In this interview on the Scrolling 2 Death podcast, hosts Nicki and Ashley welcome a mom of 4 named Jess. Jess was shocked to find disturbing content and cyber-bullying on her 10-year-old's phone. Listen to Jess' full story and what she has learned in this brand new episode. Topics include: Cyber-bullying Inappropriate online content Parent-child connection and trust Screen use and kids Sharenting (sharing your kids on social media) A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Oct 9, 2023
In our first interview-style episode, Scrolling 2 Death co-hosts Nicki and Ashley speak with accomplished pyschotherapist and keynote speaker Nicole Runyon. In this vulnerable interview, we discuss a number of topics related to parenting, screen time and mental health, specifically: - How screen time is negatively affecting our children's development - How to work through the generational differences which can cause a barrier between parent and child - Social media safety and sharenting - Parent-child conflict around screen time - Should parents be monitoring their teenagers online? More about Nicole Runyon: Nicole Runyon LMSW is a well-respected psychotherapist with 20+ years of experience specializing in child and adolescent mental health. She is a leading expert with this population and a sought-after speaker on topics such as technology’s effects on mental health, child development, and how generational differences in parenting affect the iGeneration whose mental health is deteriorating. Nicole is highly recognized as an expert in her field and speaks to large audiences. Nicole has been featured in the media to talk about her expertise on how technology affects child and adolescent mental health. She has a deep passion for children and has dedicated her life’s work to helping them develop properly and thrive as young adults. You can find out more about Nicole's work at nicolerunyon.com . A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Oct 5, 2023
Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Reisberg recently tested out a No Phone Day (NPD). In this episode, Nicki takes co-host Ashley through her day, sharing the struggles and observations. Support the show A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com
Oct 2, 2023
YouTube Kids is safe for kids, right? Wrong. Nothing online is completely safe. 27% of videos watched by kids 8 and under on YouTube Kids are actually intended for older audiences. And 6% of videos include mild or moderate sexual content. Pair this with the addictive features and manipulative advertisements, and you may re-consider letting your kid watch YouTube Kids without your oversight. In this episode, Scrolling 2 Death co-hosts Nicki and Ashley reveal the truth behind YouTube Kids. A few takeaways: A safer option is the children's area of Netflix or Disney Plus, where content is not user generated and self-flagged. Watch YouTube Kids with your kids. If you see something inappropriate or distrubing, be sure to report the video. Consider upgrading to YouTube Premium (currently $13.99/month) so your child doesn't see ads. Regularly review the parental controls and make adjustments as needed. Set strict screen time limits within the app. A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Sep 30, 2023
Are you spending thousands of dollars to go on vacation, just to be on your phone? We've all shared our vacations with our social media audience. But should we? What would happen if we didn't? We can all agree that we would be more present, connect more deeply with our travel companions and have more actual memories of the trip. From the island of Kauai, Ashley and Nicki have a personal and vulnerable discussion about their own experiences posting during vacations. We uncover some of the security risks that you may be exposing yourselves to if you post on vacation, and the benefits of not sharing every moment with the audience back home. Support the show A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com
Sep 25, 2023
What really happens when you post your kids on social media? Could you be putting them at risk? HINT: Yes, there are huge risks.If you have ever second-guessed posting your kids, this episode is for you. Co-hosts Nicki and Ashley discuss the motivations behind posting our kids (they did it for years), and what made them change their mind. This episode dives into: The risk of digital kidnapping What is sharenting and why is it bad? Creating digital identities for our kids Childhood embarrassment Online privacy and reputation Child pornography (it's happening to your kids) 5 questions to ask yourself before posting your child online: Why are you sharing it? Would you want someone else to share that about you? Could your child be embarrassed by it now, or in the future? Is there anyone in the world who shouldn’t see this about your child, now or in the future? Is this something you want to be a part of your child’s digital footprint forever? A quick note: This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk: This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. Book Recos: Sharenthood by Leah Plunkett Growing up Shared by Stacey Steinberg Growing up in Public by Devorah Heitner ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Sep 18, 2023
Are we giving our kids the iPad too much? This is the question that Nicki and Ashley dive into on today's episode of Scrolling 2 Death. We've all seen kids on their iPads at a restaurant, and maybe even handed one to our own kid. This episode will make you rethink doing this, as there are consequences for your kids, both developmentally and socially. We share the latest research around screen time in children that all parents need to know. A few takeaways: When kids spend more time in front of screens, they experience higher levels of clinically significant inattention problems. Increased screen time in kids is linked with poorer performance on developmental screening test. Prolonged screen time can result in a thinning of the cortex in some kids (which delays the processing of information). Research: When kids spend more time in front of screens, they experience higher levels of “clinically significant inattention problems” as well as other ADHD-type behavior issues. When the amount of daily screen time increased from 30 minutes to more than two hours a day, the problems multiplied by at least five times . Spending a lot of time staring at screens is linked with poorer performance on developmental screening tests later in childhood. Too much screen time may cause physical changes to your brain . Studies investigate the positive mental and physical benefits of frequent screenless family meals. They show that the amount of time kids spend together during family meals is strongly correlated with academic achievement, fewer behavioral problems , less obesity and reduced rates of teen smoking, drinking and drug use . A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com Subscribe to this channel for super-special bonus episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scrolling2death/subscribe
Sep 11, 2023
In this episode, Scrolling 2 Death co-hosts Nicki and Ashley ask themselves the question...is social media safe? Join us as we talk through the four biggest risks that we are exposing ourselves and our children to by using social media, and get into detail on what parents need to know about; online fraud & theft, cyberbullying, exposure to harmful content and social media addictiveness. Nicki also outlines the legislation that exists to protect us from social media risks. CORRECTION : Nicki mentions that Section 230 passed in 1995. The correct year is 1996. Whoops! SUPPORT KOSA: The "Kids Online Safety Act" is a bill that sets out requirements to protect minors from harm on social media platforms. Find out if your state Senator has co-sponsored these bills here . If he/she is not listed, visit their website and contact them. Ask them to co-sponsor KOSA. Resources & Research: U.S. Surgeon's General Report: Social Media & Youth Mental Health Daily Mail video about sharenting 13% of Americans have had social media taken over by another user. 1/2 of the young U.S. population has faced bullying online . 41% of U.S. adults faced cyberbullying. 56% of 11-16 year olds have seen explicit material online. 1/3 of girls 11–15 feel “addicted” to a social media platform. Over 1/2 of teens say it would be hard to give up social media. 75% of teens believe tech companies manipulate users to spend more time online. Children and adolescents Support the show A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com
Sep 11, 2023
In this episode, Scrolling 2 Death co-hosts Nicki and Ashley share the rise in suicide rates and the correlation with the increase in prolonged social media use. We share with you 5 real stories of teens and pre-teens who died by suicide as a result of social media use. RIP: Carson Bride, Jordan DeMay, CJ Dawley, Ian James Ezquerra, Selena Rodriguez and all others who have lost their lives too soon. It's National Suicide Prevention Week (hosted by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention). Their slogan is "Talk away the dark." Here at Scrolling 2 Death, we're dedicated to bringing these conversations to the forefront. Resources & Research: Several studies have indicated prolonged use of social networking sites may be related to depression . 44% of HS students experienced persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness . Almost 20% of HS students have seriously considered suicide. 9% have made an attempt to take their own lives w/in the previous year. Suicide rates are nearly 40% higher than 2000 . From 2000 through 2020, female suicide rates were consistently lowest among 10–14; however, the rate more than tripled from 2000 to 2020. For females 15–24, rates were stable between 2000 and 2007, then increased 87% through 2020. 90 % of teens age 13-17 have used social media. When a teen is cyber-bullied, only 1 in 10 tell their parents. Support the show A quick note : This podcast covers topics such as suicide, disordered eating and traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised. Let’s Talk : This may sound counterintuitive to our message, but go to Instagram and follow us at @scrolling2death. We’re there for you – to have real and honest conversations. Comment on any of our posts and tell us what you’re struggling with related to social media. What would you like us to cover in future episodes? You can also email us at hello@scrolling2death.com with any questions or comments. We'd also love to hear your stories and experiences with social media. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Please take a moment to give us a follow and a 5-star rating, wherever you are listening! Visit our website for more information about Scrolling 2 Death: www.scrolling2death.com
Jul 30, 2023
Scrolling 2 Death is a podcast for parents worried about social media.