Please Me! Podcast with Eve

10h ago

In this raw, honest, pre-recorded episode, Eve dives deep into the real risks that can happen in the bedroom—the uncomfortable truths most people avoid but absolutely need to understand. From modern dating culture to ethical non-monogamy (ENM), swinging, kink, and polyamory, Eve breaks down actual exposure risks, the tools that protect you, and how to stay empowered while enjoying pleasure. This episode delivers accurate, science-based guidance on: Doxy-PEP PrEP HPV & herpes management At-home STI testing Emergency contraception Oxytocin arousal products Eve also shares lived experiences from BDSM and femdom spaces—including DomCon—and explains why kink communities often lead the way in communication, consent, boundaries, and pre-negotiation. Whether you’re casually dating, exploring ENM, attending play parties, or simply want more control over your sexual wellness, this conversation expands your knowledge and strengthens your sexual health toolkit. Modern dating culture & increased STI exposure Differences between polyamory, swinging, kink, and ENM Communication lessons from BDSM communities STI prevention tools: At-home STI testing Doxy-PEP Daily PrEP Emergency contraception Herpes suppression The truth about herpes, HPV, and HIV Clarifying PrEP vs PEP Condom usage trends across sexual communities Oxytocin oral tabs, nasal spray & topical arousal cream Building a sexual health bug-out bag BDSM & kink events: DomCon, KinkFest, and more If you want to go deeper into topics discussed in this episode, check out these related conversations from the Please Me Podcast: Abortion Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/5lOJNjCl6K2cHFt3XB7i1D Pregnancy Options https://open.spotify.com/episode/6kP1BjJ3c6nbW3yOcJ0iSQ Shameless Care – Part 1 https://open.spotify.com/episode/3NMBe90jI6My1THUuz8yWE Shameless Care – Part 2 https://open.spotify.com/episode/3pqeN2QGkC03qUS2eLR8DX Erectile Dysfunction https://open.spotify.com/episode/7ujry6ovC5PMhn1s0csqgr Vaginal Sensitivity & Dryness https://open.spotify.com/episode/2mPDmNCun7jKJNIa9SgSxk Website: https://pleaseme.online (Coaching, discovery calls & resources) Social Media: https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Extended Episodes & Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Interested in being a guest on Please Me! with Eve Hall? Submit your request via PodMatch: https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Use code PLEASEME for $15 off https://shamelesscare.com Extended episodes & bonus content https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Support survivors of typhoons and earthquakes https://worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2d ago

In this powerful episode, host Gary Scott sits down with Eve Hall — sexual health expert, pelvic physical therapist, and the charismatic host of Please Me! , the #1 Sexuality Podcast in the USA and globally . Together, they explore Eve’s transformative journey from childhood sexual trauma to a life rooted in liberation, healing, and embodied empowerment. With over 20 years of experience as a Physical Therapist, now specializing in Sexual Health , Eve supports individuals navigating erectile dysfunction, decreased sensitivity, vaginal dryness, pelvic floor dysfunction, intimacy challenges, and the emotional barriers that prevent full sexual self-expression. She leads the global Orgasm Revolution , a movement dedicated to closing the orgasm gap, dismantling shame, and helping people reclaim pleasure as a birthright. Eve speaks directly to those who have felt unseen, unheard, or disconnected from their sexual identity, offering insight, compassion, and a path back to self-trust and pleasure. Her work is saving relationships. Her message is transforming sexual wellness. Her voice is igniting a revolution. This conversation offers raw and honest insights into healing shame, improving sexual connection, cultivating body confidence, and embracing pleasure as a human right. Eve’s journey from trauma to sexual liberation The truth about the orgasm gap — and how to close it Why shame harms sexual wellness How communication, curiosity, and kink helped shape Eve’s identity How to join the global Orgasm Revolution What it takes to reclaim pleasure as a human right Connect With the Host — Gary Scott YouTube Channel: What If You Could Podcast Watch this full episode: YouTube Link Connect With Eve Hall Website: pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact: pleaseme.online/contacts Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon — Extended Episodes & Bonus Content: https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a guest on Please Me! Podcast: Apply via PodMatch Commercial Mentions / Affiliate Links Parlor Games: https://www.parlor-games.com/shop/?AFFID=571343 LifeWave: https://lifewave.com/PleaseMe Bonnie’s Herbals: https://www.bonniesherbals.com/?AffId=3 Eve’s Toy Store: https://pleaseme.online/vibrators-and-toys/ Shameless Care — At-Home Sexual Health Testing: Use code PLEASME for $15 off: https://shamelesscare.com SDC.com — Free Trial Membership: Use code 37340 : https://www.sdc.com/ Mentioned Resources / Causes World Vision — Philippines Disaster Relief: https://worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 12

In this episode, we explore the foundations of BDSM—including bondage, impact play, electroplay, wax play, and sensation play—with Ben, a kink educator and experienced representative of The Kink Shop. With years of hands-on experience at nationwide kink events, Ben offers practical guidance on choosing the right BDSM tools, playing safely, and understanding the sensory differences between thud, sting, electricity, and temperature play. Listeners will discover the essentials of safe toy use, negotiation, consent, and hygiene—plus insights into The Kink Shop’s handcrafted designs, leather quality, beginner-friendly tools, and ergonomic impact toys. Whether you're new to BDSM or looking to deepen your skills, this episode delivers approachable, accurate, and sex-positive kink education. BDSM Foundations What BDSM stands for: Bondage, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism Psychological and emotional dynamics within power exchange Negotiation, communication, and informed consent Impact Play Essentials Thud vs sting: how sensations differ and who they suit How leather type changes feel: suede, chap, bison, moose, mule deer Beginner-friendly toys: bunny floggers, boa floggers Finger-loop floggers & why they reduce joint strain for tops Sensation Play Tools Leather & conductive claw gloves Scratch mitts Mop-in-a-Pocket toy Vegan impact tool options Electroplay & the Violet Wand How a violet wand works Sensation range: light tingles to intense stimulation Combining electroplay with other kink tools Essential violet-wand safety practices Wax Play Safety Skin-safe wax types vs dangerous household candles Heat management techniques Distance & layering for sensation control Toy Hygiene & Care Cleaning leather, rubber, and electroplay tools Avoiding cross-contamination in shared scenes Long-term storage tips for handcrafted toys Connect with Ben (The Kink Shop) Website: www.thekinkshop.com FetLife: @thekinkshop_Ben Mentioned Resources Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing → shamelesscare.com Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content → patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Connect With Eve Hall Website: pleaseme.online Social Media Links: pleaseme.online/contacts Substack: pleaseme.substack.com Patreon: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Want to be a guest on Please Me! Podcast with Eve? Send Eve Hall a message on PodMatch: → podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast World Vision Donate to Philippines Relief Support survivors of typhoons and earthquakes: → worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 10

In this special repurposed episode, I’m cross-promoting my recent guest appearance on the Ask a Sex Therapist Podcast , where host Heather Shannon interviews me about some of my favorite topics in sexual wellness. Heather and I dive into Big Clit Energy™ , sexual confidence, embodied awareness, pelvic health, and practical strategies for closing the orgasm gap. I also share parts of my own healing journey after sexual trauma, emphasizing the power of communication, consent, and shame-free exploration. We discuss approachable ways to explore fantasies, kink, desire, and pleasure with curiosity and confidence. This conversation is packed with insights for anyone looking to reconnect with their body, build sexual confidence, and deepen intimacy in their relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How to embody Big Clit Energy™ Practical ways to close the persistent orgasm gap Why foreplay is essential for female arousal Safe, accessible ways to explore kink and fantasies How communication strengthens intimacy How shame and conditioning impact pleasure Tools for reconnecting with your sensual body after trauma Connect With Heather Shannon Heather Shannon, LCPC Website: heathershannon.co Mentioned Resources Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing → shamelesscare.com Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes and bonus content → patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Connect With Eve Hall Website: pleaseme.online Social Media Links: pleaseme.online/contacts Substack: pleaseme.substack.com Patreon: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Want to be a guest on Please Me! Podcast with Eve Hall ? Send a message through PodMatch: → podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast World Vision Donate to Philippines Relief Support survivors of typhoons and earthquakes: worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 5

In this layered, vulnerable, and intellectually powerful episode of the Kink Series , we go far beyond basic BDSM concepts and drop directly into the psychology, ritual, and emotional architecture of kink with Mistress Audry Lu Black — a professional dominatrix, lifestyle FemDomme, educator, and respected kink community leader. Together we explore how bondage, ritual, humiliation, sexual sadism, and power exchange can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, trauma processing, and emotional liberation. What begins as a conversation about rope quickly expands into a rich discussion about worship, devotion, fear release, identity, surrender, and the transformative role of a Dominant who leads with intention and precision. This episode opens the door to understanding kink as both art and psychology, and how deep D/s can create safety, stillness, and meaning for those who crave structure, containment, or catharsis. • Why 20% of the body’s energy feeds the brain and how cognitive load, overthinking, and perfectionism show up in bondage scenes • Bondage as nervous system regulation — creating stillness, presence, and relief for anxious or neurodivergent minds who struggle with meditation • Somatic containment through rope and restraint for anxiety, trauma, and hypermobility conditions (including Ehlers-Danlos and other connective tissue differences) • The paradox of safety through restriction — how removing choice, movement, and anticipated pressure can reduce anxiety and soothe a dysregulated nervous system • Femme Domme philosophy and energetic leadership — what it means to embody dominance, hold power, and create psychological structures for surrender • Sexual sadism and humiliation — how intention, emotional tone, and negotiated meaning differentiate harm from healing, and cruelty from catharsis • The psychology of worship and groveling — why submission, devotion, and being at Her feet can be grounding, erotic, or spiritually significant • Ritual in kink — how structure, ceremony, and symbolic actions frame scenes, build trust, and regulate the body’s response to intensity • Lifestyle vs. professional domination — the differences in purpose, boundaries, emotional bandwidth, and the Dominant’s role in each dynamic • Deep-dive negotiation practices — understanding limits, desires, tone, chemistry, and psychological triggers before entering a scene • A full, realistic BDSM pre-scene negotiation role play so listeners can hear how safe, ethical, consent-based kink is structured before any play begins • The Dominant’s internal process — emotional labor, reading the submissive’s physiology, and creating a safe container for intensity • How humiliation can be affirming, transformative, or erotic depending on the submissive’s psychology and agreed roles • Bondage as an anchor for embodiment — helping the mind exit constant vigilance and enter stillness, surrender, or erotic presence Touch Me There: Vaginal Reflexology, Squirting Secrets & Orgasmic Magic — available here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0AsOZmGPvMiR3pQfVZKfxR?si=fFDg8SQqS7OCQQn5ptYGoA Connect with the Guest Mistress Audry Lu Black Podcast: Placemaker for Perversion Substack: https://audrylublack.substack.com/ Official Website: https://mistresslublack.com/ Mentioned Resources Hani Cheng – Talk to the Peach : Sensual healing, feminine pleasure, and reconnecting with your body (Listen here) Hani Cheng – Reflexology : Mapping female genitals with reflexology for pleasure and body awareness (Listen here) Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing: shamelesscare.com Eve’s Substack — Q&A, workshops, & exclusive content: https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership World Vision Support survivors of typhoon & earthquake: worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 3

Episode Summary In this episode of the Please Me! Podcast , we explore how to deepen intimacy, strengthen communication, and enhance sexual wellness through intentional relationship rituals and beautifully designed intimacy tools. This conversation blends practical sex education, emotional connection strategies, and insights into how your environment and bedroom aesthetics influence desire and pleasure. We break down the transformative Four Intimacies Framework —verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy—showing how each dimension supports long-term relationship success. From daily closeness-building rituals to the benefits of luxury silicone lubricants for comfort and long-lasting pleasure, this episode offers couples and individuals actionable tools for a more connected, fulfilling love life. Whether you're looking to build emotional safety, face relationship challenges with compassion, or elevate your intimacy routine, this episode provides a modern, sex-positive roadmap for creating lasting connection. Topics Covered The Four Intimacies: verbal, emotional, physical & spiritual Daily rituals that strengthen connection in relationships How bedroom aesthetics and environment impact desire Benefits of luxury silicone lubricants for comfort & confidence The Love Tank model for emotional availability How to communicate through relationship “icks” with compassion Connect With the Guests Dr. Amy Clark & Roy Clark Website: arialuxelife.com Additional Resources Mentioned Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing https://shamelesscare.com/ Eve’s Substack (Newsletter + Community) Q&A, workshops, articles & exclusive content Please Me Podcast Patreon Extended episodes & bonus content http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast World Vision — Support for survivors of the recent typhoon & earthquake https://www.worldvision.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 28

Episode Overview In this episode of Please Me! Podcast , Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series , inspired by DomCon New Orleans . Dive into BIPOC kink history , subspace and domspace neurochemistry , neurodiverse pleasure , somatic practices , pet play , foot play , anal play , and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education . Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way. Topics Covered 🌍 BIPOC History & Cultural Lineage African, Indigenous, and non-Western roots of kink Yoruba deity Oshun , rituals, trance, and altered states Why cultural acknowledgment matters in modern BDSM Understanding subspace and domspace The “BDSM chemical cocktail”: dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, adrenaline Aftercare to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop Parallels with meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy How autistic and ADHD individuals thrive in kink Sensory needs, structure, and nervous system regulation Identity exploration and self-expression Puppy, kitten, pony, cow play, and more Safety and confidence in animal headspace Masks, hoods, and ritual gear as identity tools Psychological and somatic benefits Safety, hygiene, and party/event etiquette Hygiene, prep, body-safe materials, and pleasure mapping Trauma-informed educational approach Clinical, non-sexual medical play explained Trauma-aware role-play and consent demos Perfect for anyone curious about: BDSM safety Neurodiverse kink practices Trauma-informed intimacy Somatic pleasure exploration Cultural history in kink This episode is concise, informative, and actionable — grounded in sex education, historical insight, and safety practices . 🧠 Subspace, Domspace & Neurochemistry🧩 Neurodiversity & BDSM🐾 Pet Play & Role-Play👣 Foot Play Basics🍑 Anal Play & Pegging🩺 Medical Play & Educational Role-Play Why ListenConnect with the Guests The Commandant — Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator & Kink Historian Website: hausofthecommandant.com Patreon Bonus Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations not included in the free version. Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month . Additional Resources Mentioned Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing : https://shamelesscare.com/ SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership World Vision — Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon & earthquake : https://www.worldvision.org/ Eve’s Substack & Patreon for Q&A, workshops, and exclusive content pleaseme.online : https://pleaseme.online/ patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast : http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 26

This episode of the Please Me! Podcast features a deep, intimate conversation with dark romance author Bria Rose , celebrated for her seductive, emotionally rich, and morally gray fairy-tale retellings. Together, we explore how trauma, healing, sexuality, empowerment, and feminine archetypes shape her storytelling and the dark, alluring worlds she creates. Bria opens up about the inspiration behind Her Dark Promise , her twisted Beauty and the Beast retelling, while offering exclusive insight into her upcoming dark Pinocchio retelling and a new morally gray romance currently in development. We also discuss her Disney upbringing, how innocence and darkness intertwine in adult fantasy, and why readers crave complex, flawed, emotionally intense characters. This episode includes a raw, vulnerable role-play segment delving into boundaries, relationships, communication, desire, self-worth, erotic identity, and reclaiming feminine power . Perfect for listeners who adore dark romance, romantasy, adult fairy-tale retellings, erotic storytelling, and trauma-informed character development . Additional Resources Mentioned Sexual Health & Testing • Shameless Care — At-home sexual health testing Use code PLEASME for $15 off https://shamelesscare.com/ • SDC.com — Free trial membership Use code 37340 https://www.sdc.com/ Disaster Relief Donations • Support survivors of the recent typhoon and earthquake in the Philippines https://www.worldvision.org/ Eve’s Communities & Exclusive Content • Patreon (ad-free episodes, bonus content, exclusive photos): https://pleaseme.online/ • Substack (articles, updates, erotic essays, Q&A): https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices