About this episode
Episode Overview In this episode of Please Me! Podcast , Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series , inspired by DomCon New Orleans . Dive into BIPOC kink history , subspace and domspace neurochemistry , neurodiverse pleasure , somatic practices , pet play , foot play , anal play , and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education . Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way. Topics Covered š BIPOC History & Cultural Lineage African, Indigenous, and non-Western roots of kink Yoruba deity Oshun , rituals, trance, and altered states Why cultural acknowledgment matters in modern BDSM Understanding subspace and domspace The āBDSM chemical cocktailā: dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, adrenaline Aftercare to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop Parallels with meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy How autistic and ADHD individuals thrive in kink Sensory needs, structure, and nervous system regulation Identity exploration and self-expression Puppy, kitten, pony, cow play, and more Safety and confidence in animal headspace Masks, hoods, and ritual gear as identity tools Psychological and somatic benefits Safety, hygiene, and party/event etiquette Hygiene, prep, body-safe materials, and pleasure mapping Trauma-informed educational approach Clinical, non-sexual medical play explained Trauma-aware role-play and consent demos Perfect for anyone curious about: BDSM safety Neurodiverse kink practices Trauma-informed intimacy Somatic pleasure exploration Cultural history in kink This episode is concise, informative, and actionable ā grounded in sex education, historical insight, and safety practices . š§ Subspace, Domspace & Neurochemistryš§© Neurodiversity & BDSMš¾ Pet Play & Role-Playš£ Foot Play Basicsš Anal Play & Pegging𩺠Medical Play & Educational Role-Play Why ListenConnect with the Guests The Commandant ā Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator & Kink Historian Website: hausofthecommandant.com Patreon Bonus Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations not included in the free version. Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month . Additional Resources Mentioned Shameless Care ā Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing : https://shamelesscare.com/ SDC.com ā Use code 37340 for a free trial membership World Vision ā Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon & earthquake : https://www.worldvision.org/ Eveās Substack & Patreon for Q&A, workshops, and exclusive content pleaseme.online : https://pleaseme.online/ patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast : http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices