Just Julie and "Him."

Julie and Wilson talk about this concept of performance for all the wrong reasons. Many people spend their lives making sure the people outside of them are happy with the expectations whether it is work or church or family.

Julie and Wilson bring together their interpretation of an article called Therapy Nation by Jonathan Alpert. Seeing it as an excellent review of our current therapy culture, they also admonish those who use articles like this as a tool to propagate their own agendas and narratives.

Join Julie Adams as she interviews her brother-in-law Martin Adams about his Appalachian Trail hike, trail life, wildlife encounters, and the meaningful lessons learned along the way. Discover insights into hiking, safety, trail community, and the spiritual reflections that come from long-distance outdoor adventures. Also included is the for whom he was hiking; his sister-in-law Julia, who is battling Multiple Sclerosis. Below is a link where you can donate to this society in honor of warriors like Julia.https://www.nationalmssociety.org/how-you-can-help/ways-to-give/tough-like-her/?utm_source=sc&utm_medium=semg&utm_campaign=drefy26_aab_brand_tough&referrer=sc-drefy26-aab-brand-tough-semg&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21521416492&gbraid=0AAAAA95NLvCYuw9d2k4B1uTT_OSVJT47Y&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI97yanuLFlAMV7kd_AB2F0TZWEAAYASAAEgIMXfD_BwE

Julie and Wilson discuss an important, and sometimes a controversial and misunderstood topic. Respect. In some marriages, it can become a "command and demand" husband/wife relationship. If the respect is done out of fear, than it's not respect, it's compliance

Julie interviews 11 year old Alaina who lives life to the fullest! From her busy school life, to band, to loving History class, Alaina sees the world through the mind of seeing the world for the past eleven years. Who knew being President would mean free candy for everyone?!

Julie and Wilson decided to have a day of CRAZY! Listen and find out!  :-)

Julie discusses the impact of this intensive workshop. Even though there are some critics, she and her husband Wilson have hosted 10 of these workshops serving over 120 women. It is available twice a year and is filled immediately after one ad.

Julie and Wilson discuss their first jobs and subsequent ones, plus how they instilled into their children, the need for a work ethic.

Most conversations about suffering in faith miss a crucial point—sometimes enduring is not the answer. Julie challenges the traditional narrative that suffering automatically matures us spiritually, revealing instead when suffering is a harmful expectation rather than a divine necessity. If you’ve ever wondered whether Christians are called to endure harmful situations or stay silent in the face of injustice, this episode will redefine your understanding of love, accountability, and true spiritual growth.Julie shares personal reflections and biblical insights that question the widespread idea that suffering equals righteousness. She examines how Scripture actually advocates for love, justice, and action over silent endurance—especially in cases of abuse and injustice. You’ll discover how misguided teachings can enable sin rather than serve God's true call for compassion and righteousness.

In this episode, Julie and Wilson discuss a  significant local controversy in Rutherford County, Tennessee, regarding the relocation of certain books in the library to an adult section, which led to the firing of the library director. Julie and her co-host discuss the broader implications of this event, touching on themes of censorship, parental rights, and the developmental impact of exposing children to mature content. They also explore how to engage with people who have different beliefs and lifestyles, emphasizing kindness and understanding, drawing inspiration from biblical stories like Jesus' interaction with the woman at the well. The episode concludes with a reminder of the constant love of Christ amidst a rapidly changing world.

In this episode, Julie discusses the passing of Leonid Radvinsky, the majority owner of Only Fans; the paid internet subscription for pornographer creators and users.

Beware- some may find this episode triggeringIn this conversation, Julie Adams and Joe discuss the sensitive and often overlooked topic of sex trafficking, focusing on Joe's personal experiences with grooming and abuse. Joe shares his journey from being groomed by a trusted church musician to facing manipulation and blackmail, ultimately leading to a struggle with addiction and a path to recovery. The discussion highlights the importance of addressing these issues within communities and the impact of trauma on mental health. In this conversation, Joe shares his profound journey through estrangement, addiction, recovery, and transformation. He discusses the impact of his family relationships, the hope he found in outpatient treatment, and the pivotal moments that led him to change his faith. Joe also addresses the challenges he faced within his spiritual community, particularly regarding toxic leadership and the importance of standing up against abuse. His story emphasizes the need for compassion, accountability, and the courage to speak out against injustice.

Julie and her husband Wilson (him), explore the dangers of patriarchal philosophies promoted by figures like Doug Wilson and his wife, and emphasizes biblical principles of respect, partnership, and biblical roles within marriage. This episode highlights the importance of critical thinking and maintaining a Christ-centered approach in relationships.

Julie and Wilson share candid insights from their own experiences—from the post-9/11 world to today’s geopolitical tensions—and uncover timeless truths about trust, peace, and faith. You’ll discover how perspective shapes resilience and why trusting God's plan is more vital now than ever.

Julie talks about what's on her heart, and that is the gossip about her that she learned recently. She asks for this to stop.

Julie and Wilson discuss the difficult topic of the release of Epstein files which reveal the wickedness in our country and across the globe. Should our prayers life change? How do we rise above this, or do we?

Julie and Wilson each bring three things to talk about that include, the Good, the Bad and the Ugly. Each share things that are funny, but also troubling with current culture and that which anyone can do...and that's pray.

Julie and Wilson talk about the recent ice storm and share memories of those past snow and ice storms as kids and how we survived it!

In this episode, Julie discusses the concept of embracing imperfection, particularly in the context of religious trauma and self-acceptance. She reflects on her experiences with snow and the unpredictability of life, drawing parallels to the unrealistic expectations of perfection that many people face. Julie emphasizes that perfection is unattainable and that the pressure to be perfect can lead to feelings of shame and inadequacy. She shares insights from David Rubelid's work, highlighting how religious trauma often intertwines with perfectionism, creating a cycle of fear and shame that can hinder personal growth and self-acceptance.Throughout the conversation, Julie encourages listeners to recognize their inherent worth and the unconditional love of God, regardless of their imperfections. She discusses the importance of owning one's mistakes and moving forward, rather than being paralyzed by the fear of judgment. By letting go of the need for perfection, individuals can experience true freedom and embrace their unique identities. Julie concludes with a powerful reminder that love and acceptance are not contingent on behavior, but rather on the intrinsic value of each person.

In this episode, Julie discusses the current cultural climate marked by chaos and disorder, reflecting on the value of life and authority. She emphasizes the importance of integrity in society and explores God's promises, both conditional and unconditional, as a source of hope amidst turmoil. The conversation concludes with a reminder to find strength in faith and to practice kindness.

In this engaging conversation, Julie and her co-host reflect on the new year, the challenges and joys of aging, and share valuable insights on personal growth. They discuss the importance of music, exploration, reading, physical activity, choosing happiness, gratitude, and the power of prayer. Each topic is explored with humor and warmth, providing listeners with practical reminders to enhance their lives as they age.

In this engaging conversation, Julie and Matthew Allen discuss the transition into 2026, the growth of Spirit Building Publishing, and the importance of community and connection in faith. They explore the challenges of addressing societal hatred, creating safe spaces for all individuals, and the need for churches to be welcoming and supportive, especially towards marginalized communities. Matthew shares insights on innovative publishing strategies and the significance of building genuine relationships to foster healing and growth within the church.https://spiritbuilding.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorDlYl0nZ1SBQqbrdS2u4SgdE6cxErnO4q8ymxulonVmnzbMbidhttps://cornerstone-coc.com/media/series/7w4y4h5/your-pathway-homehttps://www.fromfearto.faith/

In this heartfelt conversation, Julie and her co-host reflect on the multifaceted nature of Christmas, exploring both joyful memories and the complexities of loss during the holiday season. They share personal anecdotes and listener stories that highlight the nostalgia associated with Christmas traditions, the importance of family, and the emotional challenges some face during this time. The discussion emphasizes the need for kindness and connection, especially for those who may feel lonely or grieving during the holidays.

In this episode, Julie discusses the pervasive issue of distraction in modern society, reflecting on its impact on personal lives, family dynamics, and spiritual communities. She emphasizes the need for empathy and kindness in the face of tragedy and the importance of maintaining focus on one's purpose amidst the chaos of daily distractions, especially during the holiday season.

In this episode, Julie discusses the serious implications of covering up sin, particularly within religious institutions. She emphasizes the importance of accountability and transparency, citing biblical examples and recent cases of abuse among religious leaders. Julie calls for truth-telling and integrity, urging listeners to protect children and expose wrongdoing.

In this conversation, Julie explores the theme of contentment, discussing its importance in a world filled with comparison and dissatisfaction. She emphasizes the difference between happiness and contentment, offering practical tips for achieving a content mindset, such as stopping comparisons, holding plans lightly, and focusing on gratitude. Julie also highlights the significance of reflection and journaling in fostering self-awareness and personal growth. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to find contentment in their current circumstances while striving for self-improvement.

Julie and Wilson share the 15 RED FLAGS of relationships that every person needs to memorize! Julie shares a three letter word for some of these...RUN!

Julie explores the complexities surrounding teenage relationships, particularly focusing on the legal implications (Romeo & Juliet Laws),of age differences and consent. It discusses the potential emotional impacts and societal perceptions of such relationships, especially when one person is involved in pornography. The dialogue raises questions about the adequacy of current laws and the consequences faced by individuals in these situations.

In this conversation, Julie and Wilson discuss the Thrive workshop, an empowering event for women who have experienced abuse. She emphasizes the importance of shared experiences in healing, the complexities of domestic violence, and the role of faith in recovery. Julie and Wilson  also highlight the need for church leaders to be educated about abuse and to create safe spaces for healing within faith communities.https://www.bluespringschurchofchrist.org/media2/2025/07/06/my-introduction-to-domestic-abuse

n this conversation, Julie and Wilson discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, emphasizing the transition from a directive role to one of support and mentorship. The discussion covers the challenges parents face in adjusting their communication styles, the importance of respecting their children's independence, and the need for parents to navigate unsolicited advice carefully. Through real-life examples and insights, the conversation highlights the significance of maintaining healthy relationships with adult children while fostering open communication and understanding.

In this engaging conversation, Julie Adams interviews young author Hanna Robertson, who shares her journey into poetry, the emotional depth of her work, and her aspirations for future writing. Hanna discusses how her experiences and inspirations shape her poetry, emphasizing the importance of self-expression and emotional honesty. The dialogue explores the creative process, the influence of other poets, and the significance of connecting with readers through relatable themes.

In this light-hearted conversation, Julie Adams and "him"explore the world of dogs, sharing personal anecdotes and humorous observations about various dog breeds. They touch on themes of nostalgia, immigration, and the joy that dogs bring to our lives, while also reflecting on their own experiences with pets. The discussion flows from childhood memories to the unique personalities of different dog breeds, creating a warm and engaging atmosphere.

Julie and Wilson tackle the subject of cover up among various institutions in which we engage regularly. The need of truth and transparency reveal the secrecy many are attuned to in order to disguise reality.Those revealing truth are often scared or intimidated and may be quiet for many years. However, once you see injustice, you cannot unsee it.

Julie and Wilson discuss the current Cancel Culture and how it is affecting the relationships between the adult child and the parents. Julie shares information from the book "Rules of Estrangement" by Dr. Joshua Coleman, which shows a significant trend in American culture as opposed to other cultures and countries.

Julie discusses behaviors and traits of narcissism. It's a word that has been overly used and incorrectly diagnosed. Nonetheless, it is not easy to live with someone who has these behviors.

Julie and Wilson talk about the speech made by Erica Kirk who spoke of her marriage to Charlie who died September 10th, 2025. It's that one sentence that makes all the difference.

Julie and Wilson share their views about the recent tragedy of Charlie Kirk. With his death, the world has seen how evil has consumed humanity. And the world has responded! Some however, have taken the outcry from the people and have criticized the man through their religious lens.

Julie and Wilson give a description what it was like to check off one of those Bucket List items...ALASKA! But there is also Seattle...which brought some "not so fun" adventures, but also brought some new friends into their lives!Additionally, self-care is the goal. Whatever you can do in order to relax your mind...do it!

Julie introduces her new co-host with the Just Julie and Him podcast!Wilson, Julie's husband, joins her as they embark on a new podcast together. Today's episode finds them getting ready for a cruise to ALASKA! And neither one has been there! It's all about the CRUISE!

Julie shares some information written by psychiatrist Dr. Marcia Sirota, regarding the problem with assumptions. The truth is that when we make assumptions, we fill in gaps with false narratives which are many times done because of our own failures of self-reflection.

In this podcast, Julie shares an incident where a church leader said that the woman in their particular congregation would just have to suffer in order to be like Christ. Julie shows how this is a gross misrepresentation of scripture that is enabling abusive behaviors in the home.

Julie discusses articles with research which show significant changes of how teens weaken spiritually with the use of pornography. Additionally, she shares how porn affects the brain and the entire mind and body of a person.

There is nothing quite like the friend who sees you through all the stuff, the good and the bad. They don't walk away and dump you on the side of the road like an old chair. Today, Julie reads a beautiful piece about how to truly love a friend.

In this episode, Julie is discussing the truths about predators and how they practice Grooming. She also shares The 7P's of recognize grooming which comes from the Child Rescue Coalition.THIS is important for you to know because the reality of predators in every space...is closer than you think.

Today, Julie discusses the recent couple who were caught on the Jumbotron at a concert. They were "caught" because they were betraying their spouses. It was a "Global Affair" and one which wrecked at least two families. This podcast encourages people to think, think, think before they set out to do something "stupid."

On this episode, Julie decided to lighten up the podcast with hopes of something to bring a smile. Feeling that our world and our country has lost some human kindness, perhaps some British slang will make things more "Tickety-boo." :-)

Julie and her guest Wilson Adams, discuss the recent tragedy on the Guadalope River in central Texas. Both Julie and her husband Wilson, speak to audiences across the United States about Grief and Loss.

Julie and her guest Keith Hagewood, discuss work in prison ministry. Some might see it as a waste of time. Keith shares that prisoners have time...and that's why it's not a waste.

In today's episode, Julie shares the beautiful story of Hannah, a woman after God's own heart in a way which said- she believed HE could, and so, she did...and so did HE!

Julie came across a post about a "nagging wife" and found it to be shared as if it was something to consider. Listen as she reads the post and then the response women would give to the accusations.