How to Promote Good Behavior in Kids

In this premiere episode, Dr. Dave Anderson and Dr. Caroline Mendel dive into one of the most common questions parents ask: How can I get my child to behave better? From toddlers to teens, they explore what really works when it comes to promoting positive behavior — and why quick fixes and harsh discipline aren’t the answer. Instead, they break down a proven, evidence-based approach that starts with the foundation of a strong parent-child relationship. Guest: Dr. Caroline Mendel, Former Senior Director of Clinical Services at the Child Mind Institute You’ll learn: Why quality time matters more than you think How to “catch them being good” — and why that phrase is more than a cliché What the behavior pyramid is (and how to use it) Why consistency beats intensity every time What actually makes time-outs effective And how to handle common behavior challenges like sibling conflict and screen time battles This episode is packed with realistic strategies, expert insight, and personal stories that remind us: there’s no magic solution — but there is a better way. Resources Mentioned From the Child Mind Institute: Positive Parenting, Thriving Kids Guide to Good Behavior Complete Guide to Managing Behavior Problems Behavior Problems Resource Center Books We Recommend: Raising Human Beings by Dr. Ross Greene The Everyday Parenting Toolkit by Dr. Alan Kazdin Evidence-Based Parenting Books – Behavioral Collective Parenting Programs & Online Tools: PAXIS Institute School-Based Programs Incredible Years Parenting Course FAST Resources for Parents – Seattle Children’s Hospital Caregiver Handout on Supporting Teenagers – Seattle Children’s Encouraging Positive Behavior: Tips – Raising Children Network Encouraging Positive Behavior – Children’s Hospital of Orange County Mental Health Minute Series – American Academy of Pediatrics ⸻ Download our College Readiness Toolkit: https://childmind.org/topics/college/#toolkit ⸻ 🔗 Subscribe to the podcast and the companion newsletter at childmind.org/podcast 💬 Got a question or feedback? Email us at podcast@childmind.org or DM us on Instagram @ thrivingkidspod