About this episode
It’s not your skills, your stats, or your schedule. It’s the thought you keep believing. In this episode, Susan reveals the real reason athletes stay stuck, spiral into self-doubt, and lose momentum during the recruiting process, and it has nothing to do with talent. She breaks down the mindset model that changed her life and now helps her clients build lasting confidence, recover from rejection, and show up like the next-level version of themselves. You’ll hear how one single thought can impact how you feel, how you act, and ultimately what kind of results you create, both in recruiting and in life. Chapters: 00:00 – Why mindset—not motivation—is the real key to success 02:00 – The problem with toxic positivity and fake confidence 04:15 – Why "just be positive" doesn't actually work 06:30 – The mindset model: how your thoughts shape your emotions and actions 08:00 – The power of awareness: recognizing what you’re actually thinking 10:00 – Two athletes. One rejection. Two totally different outcomes 13:00 – How to create belief that feels real (not fake or forced) 15:30 – Emotional responsibility: owning your reaction without shame 18:00 – The difference between “delusional” belief and aligned belief 20:00 – Why most athletes sabotage themselves after things get hard 23:00 – Final thoughts + how to shift your story starting today Click here for a discount on our go-to, and the hands-down best and most affordable Recruiting Tool + Software we recommend every baller has to increase her efficiency in all that she does 👉🏼 PRODUCTIVE RECRUIT Want to support your baller in getting her process started and have an experienced volleyball recruiting advisor walk her through it? Enroll in RECRUIT READY: LAUNCH 🚀 Need help getting unstuck in the recruiting process? Apply for a RECRUITING INTENSIVE. Are you the DIY type? Purchase the GETTING STARTED ACTION PLAN (*note this does not come with Recruiting Software OR 1:1 support) Connect with Susan: Check out the website: www.nxtvb.com Follow on Instagram: @hey.susank P.S. If you’re an athlete with big goals, a parent who wants to support the journey, or a coach who cares deeply about your players, this podcast was made for you. Hit subscribe and come grow with us.