About this episode
The holidays are supposed to be joyful—but for many, they magnify grief, loneliness, financial stress, and unspoken family wounds. In this timely and deeply compassionate episode, we’ve invited Dr. Shanté Holley back to unpack why the most “wonderful time of the year” can feel anything but. Together, we explore how loss, life transitions, strained relationships, and unmet expectations can make the season especially heavy, and why it’s okay to acknowledge that reality without guilt or shame. Dr. Holley offers practical tools for protecting your mental health, setting boundaries, managing emotional triggers, and extending grace to yourself during a season that often demands too much. Most importantly, this conversation reframes the holidays as an opportunity—not for perfection, but for presence. A reminder that joy can coexist with sadness, healing can happen in small moments, and choosing yourself is not selfish—it’s necessary. No matter what you’re carrying into this season, you’re not broken, you’re not behind, and you’re not alone. And that, in itself, is something worth holding onto Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices