Ep 38 - Making Kink Music That Matters: Deore on Community, Consent, and Crowdfunding Tantrums

My favorite kink singer-songwriter needs our help. Deore, the incredible artist behind the Brat EP, is back and this time, she’s gearing up to release a full-length concept album called Tantrums . But in true brat fashion, she’s doing it her way: no label, no safety net, and fully trusting her kinky, ride-or-die community to bring it to life. In this episode of The Kink Consultant , we talk about what it means to quit your job, follow your creative calling, and make music that actually reflects the reality of kink. Deore opens up about writing Tantrums from scratch, navigating service sub dynamics while in creative mode, and the very bratty legal battle over a coffee ban that had all of Instagram in stitches. We also get into how kink shows up in her relationship, how her Dom evolved alongside her, and why the idea of “ready-made” Doms is a myth. If you’e also craving for more kinky music or just want to support someone making wildly accurate, emotionally raw bangers about submission, dominance, and desire, this is the episode (and the crowdfund) to show up for. Head to Indiegogo and search Tantrums to support the album before time runs out. Support The Album Here: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/tantrums-a-kinky-concept-album#/ Connect with Deore: https://www.instagram.com/deorebby/ Episode Highlights: 01:44 The Journey of Creating the Brat Album 09:20 The Kink Council and Coffee Ban Saga 21:11 Challenges in Music Production 21:42 Overcoming Vulnerability and Trust Issues 24:18 Crowdfunding and Community Support 26:31 Kink and Relationship Dynamics 28:52 The Role of Media in Kink Exploration 34:39 Upcoming Album and Crowdfunding Details Connect with Me: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ I’m Co-Authoring a Book! Get updated here: https://www.complicatedpleasures.ca Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure. https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1 Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! ⁠ Book your consultation here ⁠ .