About this episode
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with world-renowned sex educator and author Kenneth Play to talk all things oral sex on vulvas —techniques, mindset, communication, and pleasure-maximizing strategies. Known for his viral videos, global workshops, and author of Beyond Satisfied , Kenneth breaks down how anyone can become a more confident and skillful oral lover—no magic tongue required. In this episode, we discuss: The most common mistakes people make when going down on someone How to build confidence if you feel awkward or unsure Kenneth’s signature “sex hacking” approach and why it works The anatomy of pleasure: why understanding the clitoris is essential Why going slow is underrated and how to read your partner’s body cues Communication tips that don’t kill the vibe Techniques for different sensations: flicking, sucking, pressure, and more How to involve your hands, body, and breath for maximum connection Tips for anyone struggling to orgasm from oral stimulation What Kenneth learned from working with thousands of vulva owners Busting myths about what “good oral” looks like How to prioritize pleasure over performance Kenneth’s top tips for becoming a more intuitive, generous lover Whether you’re new to oral or want to refine your technique, this episode is full of real, actionable tips that can immediately change your sex life. ✨ Unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes of my dating & sex life, and access to my close friends list on Instagram available on Patreon: https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/alexa-april