About this episode
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined once again by photographer, ethical slut, and emotionally available king Matthew Kayman for a raw and wildly entertaining deep dive into threesomes, pegging, vasectomies , and how men can do better in sex and relationships. We go deep about what it means to unlearn toxic masculinity and embrace a more present, consensual, and pleasure-focused approach to sex. Matt opens up about getting pegged for the first time, navigating group sex with intention, and why he chose to get a vasectomy—and how it’s impacted his confidence and partnerships. We also unpack: Why pegging changed how he shows up as a top and partner Tips for navigating MFM threesomes with care and curiosity How to explore dominant and submissive roles without ego The mental and physical realities of getting a vasectomy (and why you should get one!) How to communicate during casual sex without killing the vibe Managing a sex-positive roster (with check-ins!) The difference between protective and possessive behavior Friendship with exes, emotional responsibility, and being a grown-ass slut 🎁 BONUS SCENE : Stick around for a surprise scene with Mario Cruz , recorded onboard the spicy Desire Cruise , where we talk about spooning, swinging, and everything in between. 💌 Want more? Join my Patreon for unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes stories from my dating and sex life, and access to my Close Friends list on Instagram.