The Truth About Mismatched Sex Drives and How to Fix It (ft. Natassia Miller)

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with certified sexologist and Wonderlust founder Natassia Miller for a deep dive into one of the most common struggles in relationships: mismatched desire. We break down why sex can get boring in long-term relationships, why the honeymoon phase always fades, and how to actually reignite passion with your partner. From exploring fantasies to reducing the mental load, this episode is a roadmap for couples who feel like they’re not having enough sex — or not the kind of sex they really want. We talk about: Why desire always shifts after the honeymoon phase The role of new relationship energy and why it fades How mismatched desire shows up in nearly every couple Why foreplay is more than just sex — it’s in the daily details The importance of “I statements” vs. blaming your partner How mental load kills desire, especially for women The power of non-sexual touch and small moments of intimacy Why women get bored faster in monogamy — and what to do about it How to bring up bad or boring sex without crushing your partner’s ego The role of masturbation in keeping connection alive Introducing novelty, fantasy and kink safely with your partner Tools like intimacy card decks to make sexual communication easier When to see a professional and how one session can change everything 👉 If you loved this episode and want to support the show, join my Patreon for bonus content, behind-the-scenes chats, and extra Q&As: patreon.com/sexwithalexa .