Gay Hookup Culture, Pretty Dicks & Settling Down (ft. Jeff Perla)

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with Jeff Perla , host of Oh Dear I’m Queer , for a candid, funny, and unfiltered conversation about queer sex, dating, and intimacy. We discuss: Morning hookups, blowjob confessions, and the idea of “nut clarity” Seeing Jeff's nudes & live reactions Snapchat vs. Instagram, hookup apps, and why Jeff made hoe cards while Alexa makes hoe friendship bracelets Bold ways of flirting IRL Fire Island and Hamptons stories, including Jeff’s secret hookup with “Chad,” a DL late-blooming bi guy Sex toys, magic wands, vibrating cock rings, and why toys aren’t just for women Gay hookup culture, Grindr chats, and whether there’s really a “top shortage” Therapy insights: Jeff wants to settle down and went to therapy to see if he's the problem Bi men in gay spaces, biphobia, and the fear of being “left for a woman” Girls’ gays vs. gays’ gays, and the tension over women in gay bars Eating disorders, body image, intermittent fasting, and gay pool party pressures Open relationships, monogamy fears, and rules like “our bed is our bed” Family dynamics, supportive siblings, grandma’s vibrator advice, and parents learning about OnlyFans What makes a “pretty dick,” hygiene, cut vs. uncut, and why enthusiasm matters most in oral sex Grindr bios, faceless profiles, and navigating hookup app etiquette Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2536-alexa 🔥 Want more? Join my ⁠ Patreon⁠ for unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes tea on my personal dating & sex life, and access to my Close Friends on Instagram! www.patreon.com/sexwithalexa