How to Be a Pro at Sex Parties: Etiquette, Consent & Confidence (ft. Beth Sparksfire)

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Beth Sparksfire — the Queen of Hacienda , New York’s legendary sex-positive community and party scene. Together, we dive deep into how to be a thoughtful, respectful, and unforgettable sex party guest. Whether you’re a first-timer or looking to level up, Beth shares the real dos and don'ts from her years curating erotic experiences. We cover: What to know before attending your first sex party How to navigate consent, conversation, and energy Why curiosity is sexy, but entitlement isn't What not to do when you're naked in public The importance of aftercare — even at play parties Creating safer, queerer, more intentional spaces How Hacienda became the gold standard for sex-positive events ✨ As always, the unedited version of this episode — plus more about my personal dating life, spicy stories, and access to my Close Friends on IG — is on Patreon !