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Predictable sex is killing the excitement in your relationship and you don't even realize it. Whether you've never tried roleplay or think it's too cringe, this episode gives you practical scenarios, a step-by-step process to prepare and how to enroll your partner into your fantasy. Stop taking sex so seriously and start having fun with it! š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Connect with Kirsten T for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 16
Rushing foreplay is killing her arousal and you don't even realize it. If you want to guarantee her pleasure and deepen intimacy, in this episode you'll learn the 3-Stage Intentional Foreplay Blueprint, how to ground her nervous system before building arousal, and why mapping her body with curiosity creates better orgasms than any technique. Whether you're struggling to make her orgasm or just want to level up your skills, this episode shows you exactly how to turn foreplay from a chore into the most powerful part of sex. Stop performing and start connecting. š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Connect with Kirsten for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 9
If you are a man struggling with focus, intimacy issues, or feeling empty after quick hits of pleasure, in this episode, you'll learn how porn addiction rewires your brain, how to spot the subtle signs porn might be affecting your relationships, and why community is essential for breaking free. Learn how neural pathways become deeply grooved habits and what actually lives on the other side of recovery. Whether you are battling compulsive behaviors alone or ready to build deeper connection with your partner, this episode has insight for you. The isolation stops when you understand what's actually happening in your brain. Connect with Jeremy Lipkowtiz https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/?hl=en https://www.unhookedacademy.com/ š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 2
If you are struggling with inconsistent results in the bedroom, in this episode, you will learn different types of female orgasm, how to create emotional intimacy during sex. Tune in to learn the three distinct orgasmic experiences women can have and how emotional connection unlocks each type. Whether you are single and learning or in a long-term relationship wanting deeper intimacy, this episode will transform how you approach female pleasure. Stop focusing on technique and start mastering connection. š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Nov 25
What you take for granted right now is probably what you'll miss most when it's gone. If you are a man who wants deeper intimacy and presence in your relationships, tune in to learn how taking things for granted destroys connection, how to practice gratitude that actually shifts your sex life. Learn why presence is the foundation of sexual mastery and how 30 seconds of appreciation changes everything in bed. Whether you are single and feeling like you're missing out or in a relationship that's lost its spark, this episode has insight for you. Your capacity for pleasure, your partner's willingness to be vulnerable, even your freedomāthese aren't guaranteed. Stop waiting until it's too late to appreciate what's right in front of you. š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Connect with Kirsten for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Nov 18
The question every man asks himself: "Does my size matter?" is creating a psychological barrier that's destroying your sexual confidence. If you are struggling with performance anxiety and size insecurity, you will learn how to get over performance anxiety, why size doesn't matter. Learn the Insecurity Gap concept and the three-tool confidence framework that builds unshakeable sexual confidence. Whether you are single and nervous or in a relationship battling insecurity, this episode will transform your understanding of what actually drives female pleasure. Stop measuring yourself and start mastering connection. š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Nov 11
If you're a driven man who wants real connection but keeps hitting invisible walls in the bedroom, you will learn the four deeply embedded patterns sabotaging your intimacy, how to transform rejection into opportunity, and how to move from transactional sex to true surrender. Learn why your brain's self-preservation instincts are killing her desire and the exact techniques to co-regulate her nervous system so she can fully open to you. Whether you're single and building confidence or partnered and craving deeper passion, this episode has game-changing insights. Stop doing everything "right" and start doing what actually works. Susan Bratton's Resources: Sexual Soulmate Pact SexualSoulmatePact.com Small Offers Guide moresexmoreoften.com Soulmate Embrace soulmateembrace.com Sex Life Bucket List https://betterlover.com/sex-life-list/ š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Nov 4
The conversation you're avoiding about sex is slowly destroying your relationship. In this episode, you will learn how to talk about sex with your partner, and how to initiate difficult sex talks without defensiveness. Tune in to learn the 3-Part Communication Framework that creates safety and the collaborative approach that strengthens relationships instead of damaging them. Stop letting silence kill your connection. š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 28
_*]:min-w-0"> If you are struggling with real intimacy, tired of not being with the "perfect" woman or wondering why dating feels impossible, you will learn how men are turning to AI companions and AI girlfriends. In this episode, we cover how these virtual girlfriends are rewiring your brain for loneliness how to recognize the seven signs you're replacing connection with code and the exact steps to reclaim real sexual intimacy before it's too late. _*]:min-w-0"> Whether you are single and struggling with rejection or in a relationship that feels disconnected, this episode has insight for you. Real women will always be messyābut that's exactly where intimacy lives. š„ Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/quiz š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 21
Your pleasure matters just as much as hers, but nobody talks about the tools that can transform your sexual experience. If you are a man curious about sexual enhancement you will learn male sex toy benefits, how to introduce toys with your partner. Learn why 90% of sex toy education ignores men and how the right tools can solve performance issues while building confidence. Whether you are single exploring solo pleasure or in a relationship wanting to spice things up, this episode has insight for you. Stop letting outdated masculinity myths limit your sexual potential. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 14
Ever wondered what it feels like to experience pleasure that transcends the physical and touches something deeper within your soul? If you are a man seeking deeper intimacy and connection, you will learn tantric practices, how to experience full-body pleasure beyond traditional orgasm. Learn how sexual energy can create profound emotional healing and discover why receiving without performing is revolutionary for masculine energy. Whether you are an entrepreneur drowning in stress or a man ready to explore sacred sexuality, this episode has transformative insights for you. Your relationship with pleasure will never be the same. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 7
Are you tired of feeling like you're doing all the work in bed while your girlfriend just lies there during sex? Maybe she's making some sounds, but you're the one driving the entire sexual experience. If this sounds familiar, you might just be with a pillow princess. Trust me- You're not alone in dealing with a sexually passive partner, and you're not crazy for wanting more sexual participation from your girl. Stay put because we're going to unpack how this dynamic forms, the right way to change it, and I'll probably roast myself a bit while we're at it. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show?Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Sep 30
Your dating struggles aren't about the apps, the economy, or women "these days" - they're about what's happening inside you. If you are a man frustrated with dating you will learn self-awareness techniques, how to identify your toxic patterns. Learn why your energy repels quality women and how your childhood wounds sabotage your love life. Whether you are single and struggling or in a relationship hitting the same walls, this episode has insight for you. Stop being the victim of your dating life and start being the architect of your love story. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Sep 23
Want to explore threesomes without destroying your relationship? Master the psychology behind successful group sex experiences for couples. If you are a man in a committed relationship considering exploring threesomes, you will learn essential sexual communication strategies, how to build unshakeable relationship foundations before inviting others in. Learn why most couples fail at group sex experiences and the specific steps to ensure everyone feels safe, valued, and connected throughout the threesome process. Whether you are single and planning for future sexual relationships or currently partnered and curious about expanding your sexual experiences with threesomes, this episode has insight for you. Stop gambling with your most important relationship and start approaching sexual exploration like the strategic, thoughtful man you are. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Sep 16
She's faking it and you don't even know it. Here's how to tellāand what to do about it. If you are a man who wants to master sex and create unforgettable experiences, you'll learn how to spot the difference between authentic pleasure and performance, how to build the kind of trust that makes honesty irresistible, and what it really takes to become the man she can't fake it with. Learn the five signs that reveal when she's pretending, and the exact strategies that transform fake responses into real, raw pleasure. Whether you're single and dating or in a long-term relationship, this episode gives you the tools to stop guessing and start leading with confidence. Don't be the guy she has to fake it with. Be the one she brags about. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Sep 9
Stop letting porn and bad sex ed sabotage your sex life If you are a man who struggles with performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, or low confidence in bed, this episode will change the way you think about sex. You'll learn why most men's sexual education set you up for failure, how porn-induced erectile dysfunction hijacks your arousal, and what to do to reclaim your power. Learn how to slow down, understand women's bodies at a deeper level, and practice the discipline that creates real mastery. Discover the role of polarity in relationships, how to revive a dead bedroom, and why sexual energy is the most powerful force you can harness for every part of your life. Whether you're single and frustrated or in a long-term relationship that feels flat, this episode has the insight you need. Stop settling for mediocrity in the bedroomāstart building the sex life you've always wanted. Conenct with Jackson Hightower https://app.naturaljackson.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Sep 2
Your sexual shame is stealing your power and you don't even know it's happening If you are a man struggling with sexual confidence you will learn shame healing, how to reclaim authentic sexual expression. Learn why shame blocks arousal and how childhood interpretations create limiting beliefs that follow you into the bedroom. Whether you are single and dating or in a committed relationship this episode has insight for you. Stop performing and start experiencing the sexual freedom you deserve. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Aug 26
If you're a man who feels stuck in the bedroom, struggles to connect with women, or doubts yourself when it comes to sex, you'll learn the truth about sexual confidence, how to create deeper connection, and how to let go of the pressure that kills intimacy. Learn why performance isn't the measure of masculinity and why authenticity always wins. Whether you're single and frustrated or in a relationship and wanting more, this episode will open your eyes to the hidden beliefs holding you back. The men who drop these lies don't just become better loversāthey become better men. It's time to see the truth, reclaim your confidence, and master your sexuality. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Aug 19
Is being a man now a mental health diagnosis? If you've ever been called emotionally unavailable, a narcissist, or even a sex addict just for wanting connection, you're not alone. If you're a man trying to build real intimacy and lead with integrity, you'll learn how therapy language is being misused, how to spot emotional manipulation, and what to do when you're constantly being labeled. Learn how to reclaim your sexual confidence and how to navigate emotional intimacyāwithout abandoning your masculinity. Whether you've been accused of being "too much" or have felt confused by the emotional chaos in modern dating, this episode will help you find clarity. This is not about blamingāit's about breaking free. Connect with Dr. Isabelle Mortley Get her book: They're Not Gaslighting You HERE: https://amzn.to/4mpB8PP š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Aug 12
You link Kink, she like BDSM. She likes romance and candles, you want to skill foreplay all together....so now what?? If you're a man who's ever felt confused by your partner's sexual needs, this episode will help you decode mismatched desire, sexual blueprints, and how to reconnect ā without giving up what you love in bed. Learn how to communicate, recalibrate, and re-ignite connection even if your sex styles seem completely different. Whether you're a sensual lover or someone craving more sexual fire, this episode has powerful insight into turning conflict into deeper chemistry. You're not incompatible ā you're uncoordinated. Let's change that. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Aug 5
Are you craving sex⦠or using it to numb out? If you're a man who wants to have deeper sex, real love, and live with integrity, this episode breaks down the hard truth about sexual behaviors, addiction, and compulsion. Learn how to recognize when your habits are hurting your goals, what healthy sexuality really looks like in the age of AI girlfriends and OnlyFans, and how to begin reclaiming your power. Whether you're a high-performing man trying to better understand your sexual habits or someone already questioning your relationship with porn and intimacy, this conversation has insight for you. It's time to redefine what it means to be a powerful, connected man. Dr. Rob Weiss: https://seekingintegrity.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jul 29
The fear of picking wrong is keeping men stuck in indecision If you're a high-performing man who's debating between staying single or settling down, you'll learn how to navigate decision-making with clarity, how to avoid analysis paralysis, and what it really means to commit in today's dating landscape. Learn why modern masculinity is wrestling with choice overloadāand how to finally stop wasting time in the gray zone. Whether you're newly single and exploring, or a man who's starting to think seriously about building something deeper, this episode offers powerful perspective. There's no right answerābut staying stuck isn't it. 03:25 Navigating the Single vs. Committed Life 06:08 The Impact of Age on Relationship Decisions 07:59 The Fantasy vs. Reality of Staying Single 11:31 Making the Right Choice for You 20:34 The Importance of Decision-Making 30:00 Advice for Divorced Men 35:15 Finding the Right Partner: The Three Non-Negotiables Connect with Tripp Kramer https://trippadvice.com/ https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice/?hl=en Get The Skin Ultra⢠Advanced Kit for 15% OFF with code NAKED15 at https://manscaped.com! š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jul 22
Most men are sabotaging their sex livesāand it starts with how they masturbate. Your solo sessions are literally training you to fail in bed - but most men have no idea they're sabotaging themselves. In this episode, I'll show you 7 powerful solo techniques to transform your sexual performance. If you are a driven man who wants to last longer and perform better, you will learn advanced masturbation techniques, how to build sexual stamina, and control your arousal. Learn why your current solo routine is destroying your performance and how simple changes create incredible bedroom confidence. Whether you are single and dating or in a committed relationship, this episode has game-changing insights for you. Master your solo practice, master your sex life. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question Your voice, your curiosityāit's what fuels this community. ⨠GET GROOMED Get The Skin Ultra⢠Advanced Kit for 15% OFF with code NAKED15 at https://manscaped.com #ManscapedPartner š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 02:23 Training for Better Sexual Performance 05:37 Technique 1: Take Your Time 07:20 Technique 2: Use Your Whole Body 08:29 Technique 3: Practice Edging 10:31 Technique 4: Change Positions 12:40 Technique 5: Use Lube 14:31 Technique 6: Switch Hands and Vary Touch 15:52 Technique 7: Skip the Porn 18:48 Bonus Technique: Stay Present After Climax 21:25 Mastering Your Sexual Energy
Jul 15
When did you last talk to your doctor about your penis? This conversation will change everything. If you are a man avoiding sexual health issues you will learn erectile dysfunction treatments, how to fix premature ejaculation naturally. Learn why 80% of ED isn't caused by low testosterone and how heart-healthy habits restore natural erections. Whether you are struggling with performance anxiety or concerned about aging and sexual function this episode has insight for you. Stop suffering in silenceāyour sexual health is your overall health. ⨠Get The Skin Ultra⢠Advanced Kit for 15% OFF with code NAKED15 at https://manscaped.com ! š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 01:46 Common Sexual Health Issues in Men 03:35 Erectile Difficulties: Causes and Solutions 13:01 Premature Ejaculation: Understanding and Managing 16:21 Delayed Ejaculation: Causes and Treatments 20:59 Patient Stories: Unusual Sexual Preferences 22:04 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility 23:14 Common Causes of Erectile Dysfunction 24:16 Understanding Testosterone Replacement Therapy 26:13 Symptoms and Diagnosis of Low Testosterone 28:20 Long-term Effects of Testosterone Therapy 33:09 Impact of Ozempic on Sexual Health 35:57 Prostate Health and Screening 39:40 Investing in Long-term Sexual Health
Jul 8
Why foot fetishes are more common (and fascinating) than you think - and what science reveals about sexual attraction. If you are curious about expanding your sexual experiences, you will learn foot fetish psychology, how to explore new forms of intimacy safely. Learn why feet are neurologically connected to sexual pleasure and how evolutionary biology drives this attraction. Whether you are someone with an existing foot fetish or completely new to this world, this episode has insight for you. Discover the science that will change how you think about desire forever. Get GROOMED Get The Skin Ultra⢠Advanced Kit for 15% OFF with code NAKED15 at https://Manscaped.com ! š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 03:00 The Science Behind Foot Fetishes 04:43 Historical and Cultural Perspectives 06:16 Psychological and Physiological Insights 09:44 Practical Tips for Foot Play 11:53 Safe and Consensual Foot Play 14:10 Conclusion and Community Engagement
Jul 1
Why does a woman who loves you have zero interest in sex? The answer will change how you approach intimacy forever. If you are a man struggling with your partner's low desire, you will learn female arousal secrets, how to build anticipation that starts hours before the bedroom. Learn why wetness doesn't mean she's ready for penetration and how using your voice during sex can transform your intimate connection. Whether you are single and dating or in a long-term relationship, this episode has game-changing insights for you. Pamela Madsen, who has worked with thousands of women to rebuild their sexuality, reveals the real reasons women shut down sexually and exactly what you can do about it. Stop guessing what she wants - start giving her what she actually needs to come alive sexually. Connect with Pamela Madsen https://www.instagram.com/thepamelamadsen/?hl=en https://backtothebody.org/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 01:52 Understanding Women's Sexual Desires 02:41 The Importance of Time and Reassurance 04:43 The Role of Men's Voices in Arousal 05:47 The Art of Seduction and Teasing 10:36 Practical Tips for Better Sexual Connection 18:11 The Power of Presence and Communication 21:56 Expressing Appreciation and Arousal 23:23 Exploring the Female Body: Arousal and Pleasure 25:28 Reviving Desire: Breaking the Routine 26:52 A Fun Game to Spice Up Your Love Life 31:30 The Importance of Self-Pleasure and Communication 38:27 Effective Communication and Feedback in Relationships
Jun 24
Discover why she's not interested in sex anymoreāand the science-backed solutions that actually work to reignite her desire. If you are a man wondering why your woman has lost interest in sex, you will learn female arousal science, how to prioritize her pleasure effectively, and create emotional safety that unlocks desire. Learn why stress kills her libido faster than anything else and how becoming complacent destroys attractionāeven in long-term relationships. Whether you are single and dating or married for years, this episode has game-changing insights for you. Stop guessing what women want and start understanding the biology behind female desireāyour sex life will never be the same. Visit Manscaped.com and use code NAKED15 for 15% off your entire purchase. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§ Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 00:17 Understanding Female Sexuality 03:08 Reason 1: Prioritizing Her Pleasure 07:35 Reason 2: Emotional Safety 13:06 Reason 3: Stress and Mental Overload 19:22 Reason 4: Protecting What She Values 23:13 Reason 5: Becoming the Man She Fell in Love With
Jun 17
Why 'good enough' sex is killing your masculine power and what sacred sexuality can teach you about surrender. If you are a man who thinks your sex life is "fine" but craves something deeper, you will learn sacred sexuality principles, how to move beyond surface-level performance into true masculine power. Learn why surrender actually increases your strength and how doing inner work on your wounded parts creates the safety women crave for wild sexual expression. Whether you are single and want to attract devoted feminine energy or married and seeking to reignite passion, this episode has transformational insights for you. Discover why control isn't true power, how becoming multiorgasmic unlocks your partner's deepest pleasure, and the difference between being "nice" versus being truly safe. Layla Martin shares the advanced practices that separate good lovers from legendary onesāand why most women are secretly craving the authentic masculine that most men have lost. Your woman doesn't want you to be perfectāshe wants you to be present, powerful, and unafraid to meet your own edge. Connect with Layla Martin https://laylamartin.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 02:50 Understanding Men's Sexual Blocks 05:11 The Feminine Approach to Sexuality 05:57 Men's Historical and Spiritual Trauma 09:40 The Power of Surrender in Masculinity 16:37 Creating Safety and Presence in Relationships 24:37 Emotional Work and Inner Healing for Men 34:42 Navigating Resistance and Building Trust 39:54 The Importance of Play and Primal Connection 45:33 The Gift of Masculinity and True Feminine Desire
Jun 10
Why does your girl treat you like a roommate instead of her lover? If you are a married man or in a long-term relationship, you will learn how to reclaim your masculine edge, how to create attraction through boundaries and leadership. Learn the 4 specific actions to shift from roommate to lover and how to express your sexual desire without apology. Whether you are feeling like roommates with your wife or struggling to maintain passion in your relationship, this episode has insight for you. Stop being her perfect partner and start being her passionate lover again. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 00:00 Are You in the Friend Zone? 00:50 Understanding the Friend Zone in Relationships 01:16 Listener's Question: John's Dilemma 03:40 Why the Friend Zone Happens 06:54 Action Steps to Reignite Attraction 16:03 Preventing the Friend Zone 18:29 Changing Patterns and Rekindling Desire
Jun 3
What happens when you master the art of grounded masculine leadership that makes women feel deeply safe and sexually attracted to you? If you are a driven man struggling with relationship dynamics, you will learn the masculine blueprint, how to create emotional safety that transforms your woman's desire for you. Learn why women become "difficult" when they don't feel emotionally safe and how your grounded presence can instantly shift her from reactive to receptive. Whether you are single and wanting to attract your ideal woman or married and wondering why intimacy has declined, this episode has insight for you. GS Youngblood breaks down his proven three-part framework that any man can embody regardless of height, wealth, or looks. Discover why nice guys struggle with boundaries, how to receive your woman's emotions without going defensive, and the secret to sexual leadership that creates polarity in the bedroom. You'll understand why emotional connection is the foundation of sexual desire, how to attune to her needs while staying in your masculine core, and practical ways to ground your nervous system so you can hold space for whatever she brings. Whether you're the CEO who leads all day but struggles to lead at home or the nice guy who avoids conflict to keep the peace, this episode has game-changing insights for you. Stop trying to fix her behavior and start evoking the woman you fell in love with through your own powerful presence. Connect with GS Youngblood https://www.gsyoungblood.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 02:27 Breaking Down the Masculine Blueprint 08:31 The Power of Grounding and Emotional Safety 15:18 Overcoming the Nice Guy Syndrome 22:07 Building Emotional Safety in Relationships 23:55 Understanding Feminine Emotional Expression 26:14 Shifting Dynamics in Relationships 30:39 Impact of Emotional Connection on Sexuality 31:31 Grounding and Leadership in the Bedroom 35:52 Attunement and Awareness During Intimacy
May 27
Boost your sexual performance naturally with science-backed foods and exercises. The Dick Diet delivers real solutions for better erections and enhanced pleasure without pills. If you are concerned about erectile function or want to optimize your sexual health, you will learn nutritional strategies, targeted exercises, and lifestyle changes that improve blood flow where it matters most. Learn which specific foods contain nitric oxide-boosting compounds and how simple daily habits can dramatically enhance your erection quality. Whether you're experiencing occasional performance issues or simply want to elevate your sexual experience to new heights, this episode provides actionable advice for immediate results. Remember: what's good for your heart is good for your manhood ā start investing in your sexual vitality today. Manscaped Grab The Handyman⢠Rocketman for 15% OFF with code NAKED15 at https://www.manscaped.com š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction: Bootcamp for Your Penis 01:38 Understanding Erectile Function 04:14 The Power of Nitric Oxide 06:53 Foods for Better Erections 12:39 Exercises for Sexual Health 16:31 Conclusion: Small Changes, Big Improvements
May 20
If you struggle with dating anxiety and fear of rejection, you'll learn powerful mindset shifts, authentic approach strategies, and confidence-building techniques. Learn why "sober is the new sexy" and how being genuine creates deeper connections than any pickup line. Whether you're a single man navigating modern dating or someone looking to build genuine connections, this episode has insight for you. Break free from rejection spirals and become the authentic, confident man women truly desire. Connell shares personal stories from his own dating journey, including overcoming panic attacks before approaching women, and offers practical advice for men to show up as their genuine selves. You'll discover why authenticity is like a valuable original rather than a worthless copy, and how to showcase your unique personality in a way that attracts the right people. MANSCAPED: Grab The Chairman⢠Pro for 15% OFF with code NAKED15 at https://www.manscaped.com/ Connect with Connell Barrett Get the book: Dating Sucks, You Don't Have To https://datingtransformation.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 01:54 Understanding Rejection in Dating 05:46 Personal Story: Overcoming Rejection 06:47 Reinterpreting Rejection 10:14 The Power of Authenticity 13:29 Balancing Vulnerability and Authenticity 20:22 Gamifying the Dating Experience 27:06 The Art of Improvisation in Social Interactions 27:52 Real-Life Coaching Stories 29:15 Overcoming the Fear of Rejection 31:27 Approaching Women with Confidence 35:17 Navigating Conversations About Sex 41:15 The Benefits of Sober Dating 47:09 Breaking Out of Social Spirals
May 13
Discover powerful psychological strategies that make women think about you constantly, even when you're not around. In this episode, you'll learn how to create genuine attraction that keeps you on her mind for days, weeks, or even months after you've met. If you're a man who wants to create a lasting impression with women, you'll learn how to leverage psychological principles, create emotional anchoring, and build a genuine connection that makes you unforgettable. Whether you're newly dating someone special or want to reignite passion in your relationship, these four proven techniques will transform how she thinks about you. Build a connection so compelling she can't help but wonder what you're doing when you're apart. Stop being forgettable and start being the man she can't stop thinking about - without manipulation or mind games. MANSCAPED: Get 15% OFF with code NAKED15 at https://www.manscaped.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction: Does She Like Me? 00:16 Psychological Triggers for Attraction 03:56 The Power of Presence 06:38 Emotional Rollercoaster 08:44 The Masculine Mystery 10:59 Automatic Activation 14:59 Bonus Technique: Future Projection
May 6
If you're curious about non-monogamous relationships or simply want to strengthen your current partnership, you will learn about jealousy management, how to build stronger communication skills regardless of relationship structure. Learn why relationship skills from non-monogamy transfer beautifully to monogamous relationships and discover the importance of clear boundaries and consent in any intimate connection. Whether you are considering opening your relationship or are committed to monogamy, this episode has insight for you. Transform jealousy from a relationship destroyer into a pathway for deeper intimacy and understanding. Dr. Hamilton emphasizes that non-monogamous relationship skills can enhance monogamous partnerships by focusing on clear communication, personal boundaries, and honest discussions about desires. Whether you're considering opening your relationship or simply want to strengthen your monogamous bond, this episode offers valuable insights into creating relationships designed for the specific people involved. Listen now and discover how to move beyond societal expectations to create relationships that truly honor your authentic needs and desires. Connect with Dr. Joli Hamilton https://www.jolihamilton.com/quiz Join a FREE salon to open your relationship: https://www.jolihamilton.com/salon š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 02:55 Understanding and Embracing Jealousy 06:45 Defining Relationship Boundaries 12:41 Starting Conversations About Non-Monogamy 20:28 Navigating the Transition to Non-Monogamy 25:15 Navigating Non-Monogamy: Initial Thoughts and Challenges 26:10 The Learning Curve: Transitioning from Monogamy 26:48 Creating New Norms: Exploring Relationship Structures 27:26 The Importance of Education and Check-Ins 29:47 Flexibility and Repair Skills in Non-Monogamy 36:14 Burnout and Emotional Management 43:05 Imaginal Realm: Exploring Fantasies Safely
Apr 29
If you're a driven man seeking to expand your sexual repertoire with exciting new techniques, you'll discover breast play mastery, how to create mutual pleasure beyond traditional positions. Tune in to learn why breast stimulation activates the same brain regions as other erogenous zones and how this uniquely human activity promotes deeper bonding through oxytocin release, turning what's often reduced to a porn clichĆ© into a genuinely intimate experience with proper lubrication, optimal positioning, mutual pleasure focus, clear communication, and thoughtful approaches to climax, along with advanced options like temperature play and power dynamics. Whether you're in a long-term partnership looking to add variety or newly dating and wanting to expand your intimate skills, this episode has insight for you. Transform your connection through intentional physical intimacy that builds both pleasure and trust. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover š CHAPTERS 01:06 Introduction to Boob Sex 01:34 Addressing Common Concerns 02:47 The Psychology Behind Boob Sex 04:55 Why Boob Sex is Worth Trying 07:12 Practical Tips for Boob Sex 14:05 Advanced Techniques and Enhancements 16:16 Handling Partner Hesitations
Apr 22
Are you afraid to share your fantasies? In this episode, you'll discover how to bring your deepest sexual desires to life. Learn why understanding the core themes beneath your fantasies is the key to better sex and how to safely communicate desires even when they feel risky. Whether you're in a long-term partnership facing bedroom boredom or single and wanting to explore your authentic desires, this episode offers practical strategies to create the intimate experiences you crave. Get ready to venture deep into the world of sexual fantasy, exploring what your desires reveal about your core needs and how to safely transform fantasies into reality. We discuss the psychology behind taboo desires and why they're often the most powerful, while providing practical communication techniques to share vulnerable desires with a partner. Connect with Court Vox Vist: thebodyvox.com š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 02:19 Understanding Sexual Fantasies 03:58 Exploring Core Erotic Themes 09:20 Communicating Fantasies in Relationships 12:25 Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Fantasies 24:14 Practical Steps to Explore Kink and BDSM 27:30 Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Authenticity 34:44 The Importance of Aftercare and Praise
Apr 15
In this episode, you will learn powerful tantric sex techniques and how to channel sexual energy throughout your entire body. Discover conscious breathing methods that can help you last longer in bed and experience the heightened sensations of full-body orgasms without rushing to climax. Whether you're experiencing sexual challenges or simply seeking a deeper intimate connection with your partner, this exploration of sacred sexuality offers practical wisdom. Break free from performance-focused sex and discover the transformative power of conscious presence. This episode explores the 1,500-year-old spiritual tradition of tantra and its modern evolution, three immediately applicable practices (conscious breathing, extended arousal, and full-body awareness), techniques for resolving common sexual issues, exercises for building complementary energies in relationships, and ways to incorporate these principles regardless of your beliefs or circumstances. Ready to move beyond conventional orgasms to experience the kind of pleasure that awakens every cell in your body? These ancient tantric techniques are your gateway to unprecedented sexual mastery. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction: Rediscovering True Intimacy 01:46 Understanding Tantra: A Journey Through History 06:01 Modern Tantra: Neo Tantra and Its Relevance 10:14 Core Tantric Practices for Enhanced Intimacy 17:43 Transforming Relationships with Tantra 23:09 Common Questions and Misconceptions About Tantra 26:18 Embracing Tantra in Your Life
Apr 8
If you want to become her unforgettable lover, you'll learn proven oral sex techniques, how to build female arousal strategically, and create mind-blowing orgasms. Learn the three-step method that transforms ordinary foreplay into explosive sensations and discover why intimate connection is the foundation of extraordinary sexual experiences. Whether you're new to giving oral pleasure or looking to enhance your existing skills, this episode has insight for you. Master these techniques and become the lover she can't stop thinking about. In this passionate and detailed episode, host Kirsten shares her expert knowledge on transforming your oral sex skills with the "Peak Pleasure Method" - a three-step approach designed to create mind-blowing experiences that will leave your partner breathless and craving more. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 01:39 Understanding the Peak Pleasure Method 04:27 Step 1: Creating the Perfect Environment 06:31 Step 2: Building Arousal Gradually 09:18 Step 3: The Pleasure Plateau Method 12:22 Maintaining Connection During Oral Sex 15:46 Bonus Technique: Enhancing Oral with Additional Stimulation 18:14 Reading Her Responses: The Key to Success 20:57 Transforming Oral Sex into an Art Form
Apr 1
Discover how religious upbringing shapes sexual desires and relationships, and find pathways to healing without abandoning faith. If you've grown up with religious teachings about sex, you will learn about religious, sexual shame, how to identify harmful beliefs from purity culture and create a healthier relationship with your sexuality. Learn why the "Madonna-Whore Complex" might be sabotaging your relationships and how breaking free from restrictive patterns doesn't mean abandoning your faith. Whether you are struggling with intimacy in your relationship or recovering from religious trauma around sexuality, this episode has insight for you. Reclaim your erotic intelligence while honoring your spiritual values. Connect with Lauren Elise Rogers https://sexedforyou.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 01:43 Impact of Religious Teachings on Sexuality 05:28 Exercises to Identify Sexual Beliefs 07:22 Levels of Sex Negative Beliefs 12:30 Balancing Faith and Sexual Exploration 20:01 Understanding Erotic Cornerstones 24:57 Injecting Fantasy into Healthy Relationships 26:38 Understanding the Madonna-Whore Complex 28:33 Breaking Down Sexual Obstacles 30:37 Embracing Erotic Adventures in Relationships 36:27 The Pedestal Paradigm and Sexuality 42:39 Integrating Sexuality and Religious Beliefs 44:10 Taking Action Towards Sexual Wellbeing
Mar 25
Why your business mindset is sabotaging your love life (and what to do about it) If you're a driven entrepreneur struggling to create the same success in relationships as in business, you'll learn relationship optimization strategies, how to transition between work mode and partner mode. Learn why the same skills that make you excel in business often undermine your intimate connections and how to identify your relationship KPIs for sustainable connection. Whether you're balancing a growing business with an existing relationship or looking to find love while pursuing ambitious goals, this episode has insights for you. Turn your scattered dating energy from a disco ball into a focused relationship laser beam. Connect with Jordan Gray https://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/ š Groom Yourself Visit https://www.manscaped.com/ and use code NAKED20 for 20% off + Free International Shipping š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 02:04 The Conflict Between Business Success and Romantic Relationships 05:41 Identifying Relationship Struggles and Ego Drivers 10:25 Balancing Business Goals and Relationship Needs 12:18 The Importance of Communication and KPIs in Relationships 18:51 Navigating Sexual Intimacy During Busy Seasons 26:53 Supporting Your Partner Through Busy Seasons 35:57 The Impact of Settling in Relationships
Mar 18
Are you self-sabotaging your chances with younger women? Stop making these 5 critical mistakes now! If you are an older man interested in dating younger women, you will learn age-gap relationship dynamics, how to lead with authenticity instead of insecurity. Learn why your uncomfortable response to the age question creates problems where none existed and why financial peacocking undermines genuine connection. Whether you are recently divorced and navigating today's dating scene or a confident man naturally attracting younger women, this episode has insight for you. Your experience and confidence are your greatest assetsāstop abandoning the very qualities that make you attractive. š Groom Yourself Visit https://www.manscaped.com/ and use code NAKED20 for 20% off + Free International Shipping š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS: 00:22 Understanding Age Gap Relationships 01:06 Five Critical Mistakes Older Men Make 03:22 Mishandling the Age Question 06:24 The Mentor Mirage 08:46 Leading with Your Wallet 11:23 The Goddess Syndrome 14:24 Creating an Age Bubble 18:20 The Importance of Authenticity
Mar 14
Explore the psychology behind taboo intimacy acts that create deeper connections and trust between partners. If you are curious about expanding your sexual horizons beyond conventional experiences, you will learn about snowballing, how to communicate about taboo desires, and the surprising psychological benefits. Learn why breaking sexual norms in a safe, consensual way can create profound intimacy and why many couples who explore edgier practices often report more satisfying relationships. Whether you are someone who's always been adventurous in the bedroom or someone who's just beginning to explore beyond vanilla sex, this episode has insight for you. Remember - knowing your boundaries is just as important as discovering your desires. š Groom Yourself Visit https://www.manscaped.com/ and use code NAKED20 for 20% off + Free International Shipping š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 00:17 Introducing Freaky Friday 00:55 Understanding Fetishes 02:25 Exploring Snowballing 06:02 Why People Enjoy Snowballing 08:29 How to Experiment Safely 12:47 Psychological Arousal and Communication 14:55 Conclusion and Next Steps
Mar 11
Struggling with a sexless relationship? Discover the hidden truths of female desire and how to reignite passion with expert insights. If you are in a relationship with mismatched sexual desire, you will learn about arousal archetypes, how to create better sexual communication, and understand the deeper roots of sexlessness. Learn why the type of intimacy you're having may be causing disconnection and discover practical techniques to reignite desire. Whether you are the partner wanting more sex or the one feeling pressured for intimacy, this episode has insight for you. Transform your bedroom experience by understanding what's really happening beneath the surface. š Groom Yourself Visit https://www.manscaped.com/ and use code NAKED20 for 20% off + Free International Shipping Connect with Susan Morgan Taylor https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS š 02:01 Understanding Sexual Desire Differences 04:05 The Importance of Knowing Your Own Body 06:15 Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Exploration 08:59 Identifying Arousal Maps and Blueprints 14:43 Clarifying Sexual Desires and Boundaries 22:17 Understanding the Dynamics of Sexual Pleasure 22:37 Clarifying Roles in Sexual Relationships 24:29 Exploring Direct and Indirect Pleasure 28:17 The Importance of Self-Exploration 31:40 Embracing All Emotions in Sexual Experiences 35:43 Building a Framework for Sexual Connection 37:09 Practical Steps to Enhance Sexual Pleasure
Mar 4
Discover the hidden pleasure zone that will revolutionize your intimate experiences and take her satisfaction to new heights! If you are a man who wants to elevate your sexual knowledge and skills, you will learn about vestibular bulbs, how to properly stimulate this overlooked erogenous zone. Learn why most women have never experienced the full potential of this erectile tissue and discover three game-changing techniques to incorporate this knowledge into your intimate encounters. Whether you are in a committed relationship or dating someone new, this episode has insight for you. The difference between good sex and mind-blowing sex isn't technique ā it's understanding the full landscape of her pleasure anatomy. š Groom Yourself Visit https://www.manscaped.com/ and use code NAKED20 for 20% off + Free International Shipping š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction to a Hidden Pleasure Zone 02:51 Revealing the Vestibular Bulbs 03:16 Understanding the Anatomy and Function 05:43 Why the Vestibular Bulbs Matter 07:29 Techniques for Stimulating the Vestibular Bulbs 07:57 The Triangle Technique 09:50 Using Fingers for Direct Stimulation 11:45 The Thigh Technique 13:26 Communication and Exploration 15:08 Integrating Techniques for Maximum Pleasure 16:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Feb 25
Tired of being the 'nice guy' but afraid of becoming a jerk? Discover how authentic masculinity transforms your relationships and ignites genuine desire. If you're a man who finds yourself constantly seeking approval or walking on eggshells in relationships, you'll learn about Nice Guy Syndrome, how to break free from people-pleasing patterns, and why authenticity is the key to better relationships. Learn why being "nice" can actually damage your intimate connections and how to develop genuine confidence without becoming a jerk. Whether you're single and struggling to connect or in a relationship feeling sexually unfulfilled, this episode has transformative insights for you. Stop sacrificing yourself for approval - start living authentically and watch your relationships transform. Connect with Dr. Robert Glover https://www.drglover.com/ Get His book No More Mr. Nice Guy: https://amzn.to/4hT5rw6 š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS š 02:22 Defining the Nice Guy 03:40 The Inauthentic Life of a Nice Guy 06:37 Personal Journey and Therapy 13:43 The Power of Boundaries 18:29 Embracing Dark Impulses 22:21 Common Sexual Struggles in Men 22:45 The Concept of Being Monogamous to Mom 27:12 The Impact of Early Sexual Experiences 30:07 The Nice Guy vs. The Jerk: A False Dichotomy 34:20 The Importance of Male Bonding 42:55 Becoming Your Authentic Self
Feb 18
Discover the hidden link between your bank balance and bedroom confidence - here's why financial intimacy might be the key to a deeper connection. Whether you're a high-earning professional feeling disconnected in relationships or someone working to build financial confidence while dating, this episode offers insights to help you build authentic connections and have better sex. If you are struggling with relationship intimacy or dating confidence, you will learn about money trauma, how to identify your money personality and transform your relationship with finances. Learn why financial shame creates barriers to open communication and intimacy, and discover practical exercises to heal your relationship with money. Ready to transform your relationship with money and unlock deeper intimacy? This episode gives you the tools to start that process today. Connect with Shannah Game: etmpod.link/starthere Everyones Talkin Money Podcast: https://everyonestalkinmoney.com/ Get her new book Unraveling Your Relationship With Money by Shannah Game š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS š 00:00 Introduction: Money and Your Sex Life 01:00 Meet Shawna Game: Money Specialist 02:10 Financial Shame and Intimacy 07:33 Exploring Money Stories 14:55 Money Personalities and Relationships 24:10 Practical Exercises for Financial Healing 27:51 Impact of Money on Dating Choices 32:37 Common Lies About Money and Self-Worth 35:51 Conclusion: Owning Your Money Story
Feb 12
Master authentic dating, transform single life, and create real connections beyond dating apps this Valentine's season. Ready to turn Valentine's Day from an obligation into an opportunity? If you're a single man wanting to transform your dating life, you'll learn why traditional dating strategies fail, how to build an authentic social ecosystem, and create meaningful connections that go beyond quick swipes. Whether you're newly single or have been navigating the dating scene for years, this episode provides actionable strategies to elevate your dating life- and life overall. From optimizing your dating profile to building real-world connections, discover 3 proven techniques that attract epic romantic connections Stop letting Valentine's Day make you feel less than. Start using it as a catalyst to become the man who naturally attracts the right partner. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS š 00:14 Navigating Valentine's Day as a Single Man 01:42 Building Your Social Ecosystem 04:51 Understanding the High Value Paradox 06:57 Redefining the First Date 09:51 Mastering Dating Apps 18:59 Valentine's Day Action Plan 21:19 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Feb 11
Discover why trying to create the "perfect" Valentine's Day might be sabotaging your chances of mind-blowing sex tonight. Whether you're newly committed or in a long-term relationship, this episode shows you how to break free from performance pressure and create genuine passion this Valentines Day. From adventure-based dates to building sexual tension throughout the evening, you'll discover proven techniques to make this Valentine's Day memorable. Tune in to Learn the science behind why your fancy dinner plans might be blocking arousal and discover how creating "desire gaps" can build explosive sexual tension. Stop following the Hallmark playbook and start creating the kind of raw, authentic connection that leads to explosive sex. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS š 00:00 The Truth About Valentine's Day and Your Sex Life 01:26 Understanding the Pressure Problem 01:59 How Traditional Valentine's Day Expectations Fail 03:41 Creating a Passionate Valentine's Day 05:07 Transforming Pressure into Sexual Tension 06:25 Exploring New Ways to Connect 10:05 Final Thoughts and Creative Ideas
Feb 4
If you are tired of foreplay that doesnt build sexual connection and feels more like a "thing you have to do" to get to the good stuff- this episode is for you. If you're arelooking to spice up your sexual experiences or are tired of not knowing what to do to help your girl actually get aroused, here is where you'll learn foreplay techniques to build anticipation, create more pleasure and experience more intense orgasms. Discover why foreplay isn't just "preparation" but a crucial element for both partners' pleasure and learn specific techniques to engage your partner's entire body and mind. Whether you're struggling with rushing through foreplay or wanting to level up your intimate game, these evidence-based techniques will transform your approach to sexual connection. Stop treating foreplay as a checkbox and start creating experiences that keep her thinking about you all day long. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:10 The Power of Foreplay 01:31 Understanding Female Arousal 02:03 The Anticipation Game 05:52 Graduated Presence 09:06 The Full Body Experience 13:07 The Energy Dance 14:08 The Mental Connection 15:08 Overcoming Barriers to Foreplay 16:49 Your Foreplay Challenge
Jan 28
Struggling to keep the passion alive? Discover why deep intimacy and mind-blowing connection require more than just being in love (hint: it's simpler than you think). If you're a man who wants to create mind-blowing intimacy that goes beyond routine sex or fleeting attraction, you'll learn practical tantric techniques, how to build deeper connection, and why having a shared purpose matters more than just being in love. Learn why identifying your mission as a couple is crucial for long-term success and discover two simple but powerful tantric practices you can try tonight. Whether you're in a long-term relationship looking to deepen your connection or single and wanting to build something meaningful, this episode offers practical wisdom to elevate your intimate life. Learn how to move beyond basic physical attraction into profound connection that keeps getting better with time. Ready to transform your relationship? Your next level of intimacy awaits. Connect With Angela Ivy Leong https://www.instagram.com/angelaivyleong/ https://anelegantmind.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics 01:54 Exploring the KISS Method 02:43 The Importance of Purpose in Relationships 13:06 Tantric Practices for Deeper Connection 15:04 Practical Tantric Exercises 22:51 Overcoming Sexual Shyness 26:20 The Power of Semen Retention
Jan 21
Seeking authentic connection while keeping things casual? Here's your complete guide. If you're recently single or intentionally taking time before your next serious relationship, you'll learn how to create meaningful connections while maintaining clear boundaries, how to communicate your intentions with confidence, and navigate dating with both freedom and integrity. Learn the five essential questions that ensure alignment between your words and actions, and discover practical strategies for building genuine connections at your own pace. Whether you're healing from a past relationship, focused on personal growth, or simply exploring what you want, this episode provides a thoughtful framework for dating on your own terms while respecting everyone involved. Connection and clarity can coexist. Your journey is your own. Learn how to honor it authentically while creating experiences that enrich everyone involved. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Episode Key Topics: 00:17 Navigating Casual Relationships 01:39 Reflecting on Emotional Readiness 04:18 Understanding Women's Perspectives 06:53 Practical Steps for Casual Dating 12:55 Self-Reflection and Integrity 19:12 Balancing Connection and Commitment Men - We have been featured on the Top 100 Dating Podcasts! https://podcast.feedspot.com/dating_podcasts/
Jan 14
Is your fertility sending warning signals about your overall health? If you're a man wanting to start a family now or in the future, you'll learn, how to protect your reproductive health years before trying to conceive and why your fertility status could be an early warning system for other health conditions. Learn how everyday exposures - from your workout routine to your work environment - could impact your fertility without you knowing it. Whether you're actively trying to conceive or simply want to preserve your reproductive health for the future, this episode has vital insights for you. Featuring renowned fertility specialist Gabriela Rosa, who breaks down the science of male fertility and shares actionable steps you can take today. Plus, discover why treating conception as a "team sport" could transform both your fertility journey and your relationship. This episode is a must-listen for men aiming to enhance their reproductive health and overall vitality. Connect with Gabriela Rosa Fertility Breakthrough by Gabriela Rosa Free Program: Ferility Challenge at fertilitybreakthrough.com š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jan 7
How does your nightcap impact your sexual performance? Is your girl always drinking or popping a gummy before you get intimate? In this episode, Kirsten brings you Dr. Jennifer Kansan, a sex therapist and chemical dependency counselor, to explore the significant impacts of substance use on relationships and sexuality. Whether you are in a relationship with someone suffering from substance use or you are wondering how your casual drinking influences your sex life, this episode has something for you. If you are wondering what impact your drinking or drug use has on your sexual performance, ability to maintain a romantic relationship, or connect more closely- this is for you! Connect with Dr. Jennifer Konzen The Art Of Intimate Marriage ransomjourney.com Reach out Directly: jenniferkonzen@yahoo.com š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 31, 2024
Are you having problems when it comes to being intimate with women? 2025 is where that changes. For good. Relationship goals and New Year's resolutions for 2025 can be fun to set- but hard to keep. In this episode, Kirsten offers 3 Focal points to make for your sex life and relationships in the year ahead. Whether you are single, looking for ways to meet more women, or are in a relationship ready to dive deeper together, this episode has something specific for you. Tune in to gain tools and insights to transform your sexual and relational life in the year ahead. 2025 Here we comeā¦lets get some! š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:14 Setting Your 2025 Goals 01:42 Building Your Social Ecosystem 02:44 Creating a Life of Connection 05:30 Engaging with the World 07:08 Focus for Men in Relationships 09:33 Expanding Your Sexual Intimacy 11:45 Commit to Your Focus 12:14 Thank You and Happy New Year
Dec 24, 2024
Want to know why your seduction attempts aren't working? If you are a man struggling to create genuine connections with women, you will learn authentic seduction techniques, how to move beyond superficial strategies, and why "nice guy" behavior might be sabotaging your love life. Learn why women can sense when you're "working for sex" and how to create real desire instead of trying to earn it. Whether you are single and dating or in a long-term relationship, this episode reveals game-changing insights about what women actually want. Discover the power of "desire gaps," why direct communication trumps manipulation, and how to maintain your center while creating space for genuine attraction to grow. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 02:00 The Strategic Player: A Common Pitfall 02:56 The Nice Guy Mask: Hidden Desires 03:55 The Bargainer: Transactional Intimacy 06:14 Creating a Desire Gap 07:53 Seduction with Integrity: Key Principles 16:22 Practical Examples of Seduction with Integrity 18:11 What Women Really Want in Seduction 22:11 The Power of Possibilities in Relationships
Dec 17, 2024
If you are dating women wondering why attraction isn't building, or simply curious about the science of love, in this episode, you will learn about the biological foundations of physical attraction, how our hormones influence who we find attractive, and the fascinating chemistry behind relationships once children come into the picture. Whether you are a single man trying to understand what drives attraction in the dating scene or a man in a committed relationship wanting to deepen your love and intimacy, this episode has insight for you. Love isn't just poetry and mystery - it's also biology in action, orchestrating a cocktail of hormones and chemicals that bring humans together in the most remarkable ways. Get Dr. Liat Yakir's Book: A Brief History of Love: What Attracts Us, How We Fall in Love and Why Biology Screws it All Up š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 01:44 The Biology of Love and Attachment 05:42 Modern Dating Challenges 10:52 The Nature of Monogamy and Cheating 20:42 Parenthood and Relationship Dynamics 28:04 Rebuilding Intimacy and Connection 33:30 Prescription for Love and Wellbeing
Dec 10, 2024
For any man struggling to seduce a woman, you will learn 4 keys to seduction, how to easily get a girl to like you, and beat the game of seduction. Learn the mistakes men make and ensure you don't do it yourselfā¦after all building arousal is about more than manipulation tactics and tricks. Whether you're looking to improve your sex life or get her to stop pulling away, this episode provides practical guidance for you. Don't miss this essential guide to mastering the art of genuine seduction! Key Topics: 01:08 Understanding Arousal 01:45 The Five States of Arousal 02:57 Four Keys to Effective Seduction 03:05 The Power of Small Yeses 06:21 Erotic Intelligence: Being on the Lookout 10:43 Emotional Safety and Openness 16:18 Practical Application of Seduction Techniques š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 3, 2024
In this episode, you will dive into sexual mastery and masculine confidence as we explore intimacy healing and relationship dynamics. Dr. Ray Doktor reveals powerful personal growth strategies that will revolutionize how men understand themselves, break through hidden blocks, and create more authentic, meaningful connections. You will learn how to build confidence, channel sexual energy, and show up as the man you want to be. Whether you are looking to explore tantric experiences or amplify your emotional awareness, this episode has something for you. Connect With D. Ray Doktor All It Takes Is One by Dr. Ray Doktor https://www.youtube.com/user/raydoktor š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 01:05 Defining Sexual Mastery 02:04 Emotional and Energetic Dynamics 05:35 Inner Work and Self-Love 20:22 Generational Influences and Trauma 28:37 Practical Steps to Sexual Mastery
Nov 26, 2024
Does your partner have a low libido? Here is the truth about what to do with sexual desire differences in a relationship. In this episode, you will learn the common issue of desire discrepancy in relationships, what the dual control model is why it matters in your dynamic, and three key strategies to shift into a relationship filled with desire. Kirsten emphasizes the importance of removing obstacles to desire and offers practical, actionable advice for both you and your girl to create a flourishing sexual and intimate relationship. Whether you are crave connection in your relationship or are ready to understand the science of sexuality better, this episode has something for you. Don't miss it! š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Sexual Desire Discrepancy 00:57 Understanding the Dual Control Model 02:06 The Role of Brakes in Sexual Desire 04:52 Accelerators and Sensitivity Levels 10:10 Practical Tips to Enhance Desire 11:02 The Importance of Emotional Connection 12:07 Addressing Body Image and Energy Cycles 15:29 Shared Responsibility in Building Desire
Nov 19, 2024
In this episode, psychotherapist Lisa Breitman joins us to discuss the pitfalls you face during arguments and how to transform conflict into productive conversation. Kirsten and Lisa cover common reasons for fights, such as money and family dynamics, and provide advice on how to address these issues without becoming defensive and destructive. Whether you are sick of having the same fight with your partner, or you are single and want to ensure your next relationship is filled with productive conversations, this episode is for you. Get ready to explore strategies for effective communication, set boundaries, and resolve conflicts related to sex and intimacy. Connect with Lisa Brateman https://www.lisabrateman.com/ Get her book: What Are We Really Fighting About by Lisa Brateman š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 01:24 Common Pitfalls in Arguments 03:09 Underlying Issues in Fights 08:40 Effective Communication Strategies 14:56 Ground Rules for Healthy Arguments 20:00 Managing Anger and Frustration 22:51 Hurtful Accusations and Defensiveness 23:54 The Desire to Win vs. Relationship Harmony 27:57 The Impact of Avoiding Conflict 33:09 Reconnecting in the Age of Distractions 38:54 Navigating Sexual Intimacy Conflicts 45:47 The Importance of Effort in Relationships
Nov 12, 2024
Sex only gets better with age! Tune in to learn how to have better sex with older women, particularly women in their midlife (40-50s) and beyond. In this episode, Kirsten and sexologist Eva Clay discuss the intricacies of sex, dating, and relationships with women in their midlife. As women transition through perimenopause and menopause, they experience significant hormonal changes that affect their libido, identity, and view of society. Kirsten and Eva explore how couples can navigate these changes successfully and highlight the importance of empathy, understanding, and redefining intimacy. Eva offers insights into the evolutionary role of estrogen, how its decline impacts women's behavior, and provides advice for men to support their partners through this transition. They also discuss how aging enhances sexual experiences and deepens emotional connections. Whether you are currently in this stage of life, or preparing for it, this episode sheds light on embracing these changes and living a fulfilling, intimate life. Connect with Eva Clayāā https://www.evaclay.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Midlife Relationships 01:56 Understanding Menopause and Perimenopause 04:09 Impact of Hormonal Changes on Relationships 05:39 Navigating Intimacy During Menopause 06:18 Supporting Your Partner Through Menopause 09:49 Redefining Sex and Intimacy 13:42 The Benefits of Aging in Relationships 34:48 Dating in Midlife: Embrace the Adventure
Nov 5, 2024
Are you tired of dates and relationships that go nowhere? Here are 3 habits that will change your dynamic with women. These habits are crucial not just for dating but also for sustaining a healthy relationship over time. Tune in for practical advice and thoughtful insights to enhance your love lifeā¦I dare you. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:00 Attracting Your Ideal Woman 01:00 Habit 1: Shifting Your Focus 03:51 Habit 2: Building the Capacity to Walk Away 09:49 Habit 3: Relinquishing Sex as the Main Focus 14:51 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Oct 29, 2024
Have you been struggling to initiate sex with your partner or feel like your connection is fading? Tune in to connect with Kirsten and men's coach Karen Brody to understand the intricacies of sexual dynamics, the deeper motivations behind intimacy, and the challenges couples face when sex becomes routine. Learn the significance of open and honest communication, playful experimentation, and addressing power dynamics early on. With actionable advice and insights, discover how you can take proactive steps to lead with confidence, elevate your sexual experiences, and rekindle passion and connection in your intimate relationships. Connect with Karen Brody https://karenbrodycoaching.com/best-selling-books/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics 02:04 Understanding the Dynamics of Sex in Long-Term Relationships 03:12 The Role of Communication in Maintaining Intimacy 04:10 Redefining Sex and Overcoming Barriers 06:01 The Impact of Shame and Resistance 07:05 Navigating Sexual Resistance and Leadership 11:09 The Deeper Meaning of Sex 13:14 Revitalizing Sexual Purpose 20:58 The Importance of Mutual Desire 23:58 Opening Up About Relationship Challenges 24:40 The Importance of Honest Communication 25:15 Creating a New Kind of Attraction 26:05 Navigating Sexual Honesty 28:57 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy 30:13 Exploring the 'Sex Lab' Concept 32:11 Impact of Sexual Disconnect on Relationships 35:41 Rebuilding Confidence and Leadership
Oct 22, 2024
Is your woman getting fully turned on during foreplay or sex? In this episode, Kirsten addresses a listeners question about how his partner is not experiencing pleasure during foreplay. Whether you are with someone who struggles to reach orgasm or you want to try out new ways to stroke and touch your woman, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn 5 techniques to enhance female pleasure, reduce discomfort, and activate deeper enjoyment and connection. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 02:30 Understanding the Clitoris 04:13 Technique 1: The Pocket 05:45 Technique 2: Indirect Touch 07:27 Technique 3: The V-Shape 08:49 Exploring the Power of the Thumb 09:46 Understanding the Vestibular Bulbs 10:55 Stimulating the Pleasure Triangle 12:30 General Tips for Effective Stimulation
Oct 15, 2024
Curious about using psychedelics to enhance your sex and love life? Tune in to talk with Dr. Steven Radowitz, a psychotherapist who specializes in using psychedelics to foster better intimate connections and address issues like performance anxiety, ED, and intimacy challenges. Whether you are curious about psychedelics in general or are looking for new ways to connect and experience your relationships, this episode has insight for you. And while psychedelics may be a more controversial topic, Dr. Steven and Kirsten discuss nonsubstance alternatives and various ways to enhance your overall intimate life. Key Topics: 00:51 Exploring Psychedelics and Sex 04:56 Understanding Ketamine and Other Psychedelics 07:46 The Impact of Psychedelics on Relationships 10:23 Psychedelics and Personal Growth 13:48 Integration and Aftercare 17:50 Practical Advice for Using Psychedelics Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc Connect With Dr. Steven Radowitz Visit his NY Clinic: https://nushama.com/ Learn about his PTSD & Ketamine Research: https://osf.io/preprints/psyarxiv/78m96 https://www.instagram.com/nushamawellness/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 8, 2024
What do women really want? In this episode, you will learn 4 key drivers that attract a woman to men. Kirsten answers a listener's question about what women are drawn to in men. Whether you are single searching for insight on how to attract your dream woman or are in a relationship and wanting to boost your girl's desire to be with you, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn natural ways to boost your attractiveness with women while enhancing your overall well-being. Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc Key Topics: 01:32 Understanding Female Cravings 02:48 The Importance of Height and Physical Attributes 07:42 Boosting Testosterone: Natural Ways to Enhance Attraction 09:26 The Power of Music and Artistic Expression 14:11 The Science of Smell and Attraction 18:32 Status and Financial Stability 22:17 Leveraging Biology for Success in Love š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 1, 2024
Are you tired of being in the same painful relationship cycleā¦yet again? This week, Kirsten talks with Licensed Therapist Jessica DaSilva all about attachment theory and how your attachment style may perpetuate the slump you find yourself in. Whether you are single and want to learn more about who you are in relationships, or you are in a relationship and want to understand better the unconscious dynamic that may be holding you back, this episode is for you! Tune in to learn how to create self-awareness, effectively communicate with your partner, and build attraction towards secure and healthy dynamics. Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc Connect with Jessica Da Silva https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thejessicadasilva/?hl=en š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Episode Topics: 01:27 Understanding Attachment Theory and the 4 Attachment Styles 05:23 How To Navigate Anxious and Avoidant Dynamics 09:47 Cultural Influences on Attachment 10:49 Navigating Relationship Needs 14:26 Tools to Communicate Your Attachment Needs 15:43 How to Shift Towards Being Attracted to Healthy Relationships 20:05 Navigating Attraction and Healthy Behavior 23:05 Understanding Secure Self Blueprint 25:05 Dating World Confusions and Insights 28:59 Attachment Styles and Sex Life 34:33 Moving Towards Secure Attachment
Sep 24, 2024
We all have secret fantasies. What do you do when your girl has a dirty fantasy she wants to play out? In this episode, we walk through the steps to exploring a kinky fantasy with your girl with how to navigate the conversation, successfully execute the fantasy with success and explore the underlying desire the kink is actually fullfilling. If you are feeling uncomfortable with your desires, tune in to learn some of the deeper reasons that drive fantasies and kinks. Let's get some! Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Fantasies 00:24 Why Fantasies Are Hard to Share 00:46 Welcome to The Naked Connection 01:06 Personal Journey and Podcast Anniversary 02:45 Common Fantasies and Their Challenges 04:44 Exploring a Rape Fantasy 07:34 Understanding the Psychology Behind Fantasies 16:04 Setting Boundaries and Safe Words 21:28 Communicating and Respecting Limits 26:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Sep 17, 2024
Want to turn your sex life from good to great? Join Kirsten as she sits down with Kevin Anthony, a certified sexologist and tantra counselor, to explore ways to take your sex life to the next level. Whether you are currently single and want to learn skills for your next lover or are in a relationship wishing to deepen your sexual experiences, this episode is packed with value for you. Key topics include initiating sex, improving foreplay, maintaining arousal, and enhancing sexual energy during periods of abstinence. Kevin and Kirsten address body image issues that men carry, the importance of a mindful masturbation practice, and how to build polarity and desire in your dynamics with women. Tune in for a deep dive into upgrading your intimacy and sexual prowess. Let's get some! Key Topics: 06:27 Communication and Co-Creation in Sex 12:15 Initiation and Arousal Techniques 17:14 Foreplay: Tips and Techniques 20:19 Understanding Erection Anxiety 21:22 The Importance of Relaxation 22:30 Exploring a Woman's Body 23:37 Body Image Issues in Men 25:35 Taking Action on Body Image 29:11 Keeping Sex Fun and Exciting 35:07 Maintaining Sexual Energy When Single Connect with Kevin Anthony https://www.kevinandceline.com/ https://powerandmastery.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Sep 10, 2024
Am I masturbating too much? Is masturbation getting in the way of having more sex? In this episode, we will explore the impact of masturbation on relationships, and common concerns about masturbation, such as secrecy, dependency, and the potential to reduce intimacy. Tune in to learn 3 actionable steps to improve both self-pleasure practices and relationship dynamics. Here is a place to explore more ways to connect, how to leverage masturbation for deeper connection, and amplify your sexual energy - whether you are single or in a committed relationship. Don't miss this! Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Masturbation on Relationships 01:05 Statistics and Commonality of Masturbation 01:51 Masturbation as a Coping Mechanism 04:35 Challenges of Masturbation in Relationships 09:15 Effective Communication About Masturbation 14:11 Exploring Mutual Masturbation 18:12 Experimenting with Masturbation Frequency 22:18 Conclusion and Call to Action š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Sep 3, 2024
Do you wish your penis was larger? No matter how big or small, many men want safe and effective tools to increase penis size and functioning. This episode is packed with insight into girth and length enhancement strategies that are both natural and long-lasting. Whether you want to increase the size of your penis or value tools to improve your sexual health and functioning, this episode is a must-listen. To have this conversation, join Dr. Judson Brandeis, an award-winning urologist, sexual medicine expert and surgeon who has committed his practice and career to sexual medicine innovations for men. Breaking down the snake oil claims of other providers, If you want to feel great, look good and have better physical intimacy, dont miss this episode. Key Topics: 00:11 Misconceptions About Penis Enlargement 02:14 Penis Enlargement Methods and Their Issues 06:42 The P Long Procedure Explained 10:18 Penis Pumps and Their Effectiveness 13:35 Understanding Peyronie's Disease 16:40 Factors Influencing Penis Size 17:43 Testosterone Levels and Modern Lifestyle 19:59 Improving Testosterone Naturally 23:58 Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT) Connect with Dr.Judson Brandeis https://p-long.com/ Check out Dr. Judson's e-Books: https://brandeismd.com/ebooks/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Aug 27, 2024
Here is a simple practice that will make your woman desire you (and respect you) more than ever. This week, tune in to explore the power of setting boundaries, saying "no" and maintaining personal integrity within a romantic relationship. Whether you are consistently giving in to your woman's requests and demands or feeling pressured to make your woman happy no matter what this episode is for you. This isn't about withholding love, tune in to hear guidance on how to discern when to establish a boundary and when to provide. Its time to let resentment become an experience of the past and step into standing firm on who you are and what you value most. This episode is sure to inspire not only you but that special someone you're with too! Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: Facing Disappointment 00:52 The Nice Guy Syndrome 01:45 Setting Boundaries and Avoiding Resentment 02:58 The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships 03:46 Women Want Men with Boundaries 06:16 The Cement Pillar Analogy 06:44 Expressing Emotions and Needs 07:02 Understanding Women's Testing 08:05 Control and Respect in Relationships š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Aug 20, 2024
Sex and Money are two hard topics to address. In this episode we will explore why money and finances are ruining your romantic relationships and what to do about it. Join Kirsten as she sits down with money expert and financial planner Shannah Game to discuss the significant role money plays in romantic relationships. Whether you are single and trying to navigate who should pay on the first date or you're in a committed relationship preparing to spend your life with someone who has different spending patterns this episode is for you. Shannah breaks down practical exercises for couples to build a healthy financial dynamic. The episode also touches on the historical expectations of men as providers and the interconnection between financial and sexual health in relationships. Don't miss this episode. Your heart, your cock, and your wallet will thank you. Key Topics: 01:28 Understanding Money in Relationships 04:30 Starting the Money Conversation 06:36 Building a Financial Partnership 10:14 Men, Money, and Societal Expectations 19:08 Exercises for Financial Harmony 24:27 Dating and Financial Dynamics 31:18 Money and Sex: The Connection 33:08 Final Thoughts and Resources Connect with Shannah Game: etmpod.link/starthere Everyones Talkin Money Podcast: https://everyonestalkinmoney.com/ https://www.instagram.com/shannahgame/?hl=en š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Aug 13, 2024
When your partner rejects your sexual advancesā¦what do you do? In this episode, Kirsten and special guest Dr. Viviana Coles discuss exactly what you can do in these situations and so much more. Dr. Viviana Coles is an intimacy expert and sex therapist and she provides valuable insights into how couples can better understand each other's needs and work towards a balanced intimacy dynamic. This is where you will learn actionable steps to address common challenges couples face, such as feeling unsupported or disconnected. Whether you are fresh in a new relationship wanting it to succeed, or you are at the point in your dynamic where you feel like you are about to give upā¦this episode is for you. Sneak Peek: There are 4 primary intimacy styles related to sexā¦and when you are able to understand your (and your partner's) styles a new level of sex will become possible. Key Topics: 00:33 Understanding Men's Intimacy Needs 02:03 The Four Intimacy Styles Explained 04:25 Addressing Intimacy Issues in Long-Term Relationships 06:17 Practical Steps to Reconnect Intimately 14:33 The Importance of Pillow Talk 27:31 Balancing Parenthood and Partnership Connect with Dr. Viviana Coles Take the 4 Intimacy Styles Quiz: https://doctorviviana.com/the-4-intimacy-styles/ https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana/?hl=en š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Aug 6, 2024
Why is it SO hard for us to talk about sex? Here is how to prepare for a conversation about your sex life. In this episode, you'll learn 8 specific strategies to prepare for and conduct these conversations effectively. Whether you are fresh into a new relationship wanting to explore something kinky and new or you have been in a relationship for years struggling to keep your sex life aliveā¦this episode is for you! Key Topics: 00:14 The Benefits of Discussing Sexual Desires 00:31 Common Concerns and How to Approach Them 01:01 Seven Tips for a Successful Sex Conversation 02:13 Understanding Your Desires 05:04 Setting the Stage for the Conversation 08:46 Navigating the Conversation 11:21 Framing the Conversation Positively 13:10 Starting Broad and Checking In 16:19 Keeping Requests Positive 19:09 Less is More: Focusing on One Thing at a Time š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jul 30, 2024
Ready to enhance your erection? Here is the science and psychology behind your erection and how to overcome erectile dysfunction issues. Renowned Sex Therapist Mark Goldberg is on the show to break down every question you could have about erectile dysfunction (ED): What it actually is, how to overcome erectile issues, what your partner can do to be supportive, and so much more. Whether you are currently suffering from Erectile dysfunction or want to reduce your chances of experiencing erection issues in the future, this episode is a must-listen. Mark and Kirsten discuss the causes and impact of ED, the emotions men experience, and what is causing ED prevalence to be on the rise, especially among younger men. This episode is stacked with clear information and actionable practices to improve erectile performance. ANDā¦Mark and Kirsten answer some of your questions about ED! Key Topics: 02:39 Emotional Impact of Erectile Dysfunction 03:44 Causes of Erectile Dysfunction 04:39 The Rise of Erectile Dysfunction in Younger Men 07:43 Impact of Modern Dating on Erectile Dysfunction 11:14 Situational Erectile Dysfunction and Communication Challenges 14:06 When to Seek Help for Erectile Dysfunction 17:52 Supporting a Partner with Erectile Dysfunction 27:35 Practical Steps to Address Erectile Dysfunction 42:13 Dealing with Trauma and Psychological Factors Related to Erectile Dysfunction Connect with Mark Goldberg https://erectioniq.com/ Erectile Dysfunction Radio: https://erectioniq.com/podcast/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jul 23, 2024
Are you the man every woman wants? In this episode, tune in to learn the 4 main archetypes of a man and how each archetype influences sexual dynamics, relationships, and personal growth. Whether you are ready to expand your sexual repertoire or you want to connect with a new part of yourself and your personalityā¦this episode is for you. Tune in to explore these archetypes, understand their impacts, and learn how to integrate them into your life for a richer, more dynamic existence. Let's get some! Key Topics: 00:00 Who Are You in the Bedroom? 00:15 Exploring the Four Archetypes 03:36 The King Archetype: Leadership and Stability 07:22 The Warrior Archetype: Courage and Discipline 13:13 The Magician Archetype: Wisdom and Transformation 17:37 The Lover Archetype: Passion and Sensuality 21:40 Integrating the Archetypes: A Balanced Approach 27:30 Expanding Your Range of Expression Resources King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine by Robert Moore š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jul 16, 2024
How do we have better sex? By building more intimacy into ALL of your life. This week, its time to connect with Magda Kay, an intimacy expert and Tantra teacher and learn the specific steps to build deeper intimacy and make your sex life more satisfying. In this episode, you will learn specific foreplay strategies and tantric perspectives to build intimacy and open the doorway to deeply fulfilling sexual experiences. Whether you want to experience the next-level connection you know is possible with your woman, or you want to find tools to enhance your sexual experiencesā¦this episode is for you! Let's get some! Key Topics: 01:10 Understanding Women: Breaking the Mystery 08:19 The Importance of Intimacy in Relationships 12:25 Building Intimacy: Practical Tips and Insights 16:02 Exploring Intimacy Beyond Romantic Relationships 22:40 Bringing Intimacy into Your Sex Life 24:24 Balancing Intimacy: Fast vs. Slow 25:06 The Power of Relaxation in Sex 27:31 Understanding Foreplay and Sexual Education 33:46 Scheduling Intimacy: A New Approach 40:38 Exploring Male Sexuality Beyond the Norm Connect with Magda Kay https://magdakay.com/ https://www.instagram.com/magdakayofficial/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Boost your next naked moment! Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner's arousal and pleasure.
Jul 9, 2024
Do you want to get your woman turned on quickly? In this episode, you will learn the key insight into turning a woman on sexually at any moment. Whether you are looking for tips on how to bring more sexual experiences into your life or want to understand Tantric approaches to intimacy, this episode is for you! From tantric insights about magnetism to practical techniques for stimulating a woman's heart and breasts, this episode offers a new approach to enhancing intimacy and sexual connection. Tune in to understand a tantric perspective on how you can turn your women on through foreplay. Key topics include the concepts of positive and negative charges in the body, specific breast massage techniques, and the importance of awareness and intention during foreplay. Key Topics: 01:04 Understanding Tantric Poles 03:12 The Key to Female Arousal 06:26 Techniques for Breast Stimulation 10:03 Advanced Tips and Final Thoughts š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jul 2, 2024
Are you tired of being considered the "nice guy"? Do you want to find a way to be BOTH assertive and compassionate? This week, Kirsten is joined by Nate Ewert, an expert in men's work and leadership, to explore exactly how to stop playing the 'nice guy' and step into your masculine strengths. Kirsten and Nate discuss the dynamics of masculine and feminine expressions, the balance needed in relationships, and how to cultivate safe, intimate spaces. The conversation covers the importance of assertiveness and emotional intelligence and the profound impact these insights can have on one's sex life and relationships. Let's get some! Key Topics: 02:40 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies 06:15 Balancing Masculine and Feminine in Relationships 16:41 Stepping Up in Relationships 19:30 Shifting from Nice Guy to Assertive Man 26:56 Understanding the roots of anger & unpacking emotions beneath anger 28:26 The Impact of Societal Expectations on Men's Emotions 30:14 Exploring Shadow Work 33:31 Rites of Passage and Initiation 38:33 Living on the Edge of Comfort 40:53 The Role of Choice in Emotional Expression 42:26 Impact on Intimate Relationships 44:18 Connecting Masculine and Feminine Dynamics Connect with Nate Ewert: www.ignitermensgroup.com Attend his upcoming retreat, Ascending Masculinity ! š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jun 25, 2024
50% of marriages end in divorce. Which side of this statistic do you want to be on? In this episode, you will learn the real reasons couples get divorced adn how you can prevent them from happening to you. Your host, Kirsten dives into this topic with a seasoned New York City-based divorce attorney, Dennis Vetrano. Dennis and Kirsten explore how to avoid divorce, what to do if you find yourself in the divorce process, and how to approach ending relationships from a new perspective. Dennis shares insights from his 25 years of experience, discussing the most common causes of divorce and the tools you ultimately need to avoid losing the quality of your relationship. Dennis also speaks to the role of sex in relationships, the importance of prenuptial agreements, and the emotional and legal complexities of divorce. Get ready for some very actionable and practical advice for both preventing divorce and navigating the process if it becomes inevitable. Key Topics: 03:34 Common Causes of Divorce 06:08 The Role of Intimacy in Relationships 09:13 Legal Aspects of Divorce 13:33 Ways to make sure you choose the right partner 20:13 Whether or not you should get a prenuptial agreement 24:54 Postnuptial Agreements Explained 27:30 Heartbreaking Realities of Divorce 32:35 Gender Dynamics in Divorce Filings 40:21 Advice for Men Going Through Divorce 41:55 Remarriage After Divorce Connect with Dennis Vetrano https://www.drvetranolaw.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drvlaw/ https://www.tiktok.com/@drvlaw š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jun 18, 2024
There is SUCH value in making a woman feel safe with you. In this episode, you will learn the three main ways to build safety so that a girl is attracted to you and wants to move forward with your relationship dynamic. Tune in to learn actionable tips to generate more safety so that you can build deeper connections, increase sexual intimacy and have more success with women. Whether you are frustrated by failed attempts in dating or you're in a relationship and want to show up better for your partner, this episode is for you. Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: The Key to Successful Interactions with Women 00:31 The Importance of Safety in Relationships 02:53 Building Physical Safety 07:32 Creating Emotional Safety 11:08 Establishing Mental Safety 13:21 The Power of Safety in Deepening Connections š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jun 11, 2024
Do you want to last longer during sex? This week, Kirsten shares two effective techniques to help men last longer during sex. Because lasting longer is not just for your personal satisfaction, but for enhancing your intimacy as a couple. Whether you are tired of coming earlier than you want or are ready to step up your sex game..this episode is for you. Tune in for detailed steps and helpful insights to improve both solo and partnered sexual experiences. Lets get some! Key Topics: 00:00 Lasting Longer in Bed 02:40 Understanding Premature Ejaculation 04:51 Technique 1: Timing Your Masturbation 13:16 Technique 2: Testicle and Penis Massage 19:19 Addressing Performance Anxiety š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jun 4, 2024
Have you ever felt confused or ashamed by your sexual desires and turn-ons? Well, get ready to embrace the wonderful diversity of human sexuality without shame or judgment. In this episode, Kirsten goes deep inside the sexual brain with the help of Dr. Ogi Ogas, a Harvard researcher and mathematical neurscientist who analyzes massive data sets from online searches, porn sites, erotic stories and more. His findings shed scientific light on everything from the stark differences between male and female sexual cues to the paradoxical fetishes and fantasies we all share across cultures. You'll learn why men are so visually inclined, craving videos and images, while women tend to be turned on more by personalities and emotional context. We'll explore men's fascination with large penises, women's rape fantasies, and how our ancient primate hardwiring still influences modern desires around dominance, submission, and more. Whether it's the reasons behind cuckolding or the erotic appeal of paranormal romance novels, Dr. Ogas maps out the neural circuitry driving our sexual thoughts and behaviors. Above all, you'll come away with a greater self-understanding and compassion for the full spectrum of sexual diversity. It's an eye-opening, judgment-free exploration of our deepest sexual desires. Connect with Dr. Ogi Ogas https://www.ogiogas.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
May 28, 2024
How often does a women want you to be more open with her, but when you areā¦she shuts you down? In this episode, Kirsten explores the topic of male vulnerability and its impact on relational dynamics with no other than Connor Beaton. Connor is a renowned expert in men's work and he's here to share a deeper understanding of the challenges men face today and the societal narratives that shape their experiences. Connor breaks down what a woman actually wants when she says, "be more vulnerable", the importance of self-regulation and impulse control in fostering authentic connections and so much more. Whether you're a man seeking to cultivate meaningful relationships or a partner looking to understand the intricacies of men more clearly, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies for navigating the intricate world of relationships. Don't miss it! Key Topics: 00:53 Exploring the Landscape of Men in Relationships 02:07 The Evolution of Male Friendships and Challenges in Modern Society 12:30 Addressing the Crisis in Male Mental Health and Therapy 18:58 Navigating Vulnerability and Masculinity in Today's World 25:14 Understanding Vulnerability in Relationships 25:52 Navigating a Partner's Response to Vulnerability 27:11 Pre-Relationship Checks on Emotional Compatibility 30:21 Setting Boundaries as a Form of Vulnerability 33:06 Addressing Hypersexualization and Its Impact 33:37 Strategies for Desexualizing the Brain 38:17 Impulse Control and Nervous System Regulation 42:47 Practical Steps to Combat Oversexualization Connect with Connor Beaton https://connorbeaton.com/ https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
May 21, 2024
Are you having less sex in your relationship than you want? In this episode, Kirsten talks with Kate Shelor, a renowned hypnotherapist, about sexless relationships: why this happens and how to start having more sex again! Tune in to learn the underlying issues that lead to a decrease in sexual intimacy within couples, the impact of responsive desire, and practical strategies to rebuild passion with your girl. Whether you're in a relationship facing these challenges or are interested in preventive measures, this episode is packed with insights and advice on maintaining a fulfilling sexual relationship. Connect with Kate Shelor https://www.kateshelor.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/kateshelor/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kateshelor3?lang=en š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
May 14, 2024
It's time to become a more confident man in bed. In this episode, you will learn 5 simple actions to enhance confidence in your sex life and feel amazing in bedā¦and in life. Kirsten shares five actionable and psychologically grounded methods to improve the perception and reality of confidence in intimate settings. Kirsten emphasizes the importance of connection, communication, and self-assurance beyond just the physical aspects, encouraging you to build confidence from within as well as in your interactions with partners. Whether you feel self conscious about yourself when it comes to hooking up or you are looking for a few easy actions you can implement today to be more confident and sexy, this episode is for you! Key Topics: 01:55 Eye Contact: The First Step to Sexual Confidence 07:03 Embracing Compliments: Boost Your Sexual Confidence 11:30 Voice Power: Elevating Confidence Through Sound 14:32 Choosing the Right Partner: A Key to Sexual Confidence 17:54 Abundance Mindset: The Ultimate Confidence Booster š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
May 7, 2024
Are you tired of dating? Dreading planning another date, or getting back onto the dating app merry go round downloading and deleting the apps? This week, Kirsten talks with Talia Koren about how to have FUN with dating again. Whether you are single and sick of the dating apps or are searching for some hope in your dating options, this episode is for you. And if you are in a committed relationship, I'm sure you have some single friends who need to hear this, or need your support while they are out there datingā¦listen for them. Talia and Kirsten cover all the potential scenarios of datingā¦think catfishing, girls who don't want to contribute anything in dating or what to do when you hate her friends. This episode is fun, and a chance to hop into the mind of two young women in the dating world. Key Topics: 00:08 The Landscape of Dating in 2024 01:15 The Cycle of Deleting and Re-downloading Dating Apps 02:14 Expanding Your Dating Pool: Beyond the Top 10% 03:40 The Slow Burn of Attraction: Giving It Time 06:31 Intentional Dating: Focusing on What You Want 15:47 Effective Communication and Misconceptions in Dating 18:56 Asking Deep Questions: A Strategy for Meaningful Connections 21:42 Embrace Your Passions: Why It's Attractive 22:15 Making Dating Fun Again: Strategies and Insights 38:29 Vulnerability and Openness in Dating Talia Koren https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/?hl=en š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Apr 30, 2024
Are you turned on or curious about seeing your partner have sex with someone else? Cuckolding is a sexual kink that many people have..but why? In this week's episode, Kirsten breaks down sexual desires like cuckolding and group sex- from the psychological and physiological reasons that drive these desires to the steps to accept, embrace, and invite these fantasies into your sex life. Whether you are curious about cuckolding or feel shame around a secret desire you have, this episode has something for you. Let's get some! Key Topics 00:00 A Shocking Introduction to Cuckolding 00:28 Exploring the Taboo: Cuckolding and Group Sex 01:07 The Psychology Behind Taboo Desires 02:48 The Science of Arousal and Danger 05:51 Understanding Cuckolding: A Deep Dive 08:15 The Role of Dominance and Competition in Sexual Fantasies 12:00 Embracing and Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies 13:25 Creative Ways to Channel Your Desires 16:40 Conclusion: Embrace Your Desires and Get Creative š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Apr 23, 2024
What can you create with your sexual power? This episode is ALL about sex magic: what it is, what the steps are to move through sex magic, and what happens when you engage in this practice. Whether you are curious about trying something new in your sex life or masturbation practice or you are ready to manifest something amazing into your life..this practice and this episode is for you. Tune in to explore the scientific underpinnings of sex magic, noting how orgasmic states enhance brain function, increase pain tolerance, and potentially make it easier to take action toward realizing your desires. Key Topics: 00:00 Unlocking the Power of Sexual Energy for Manifestation 01:46 Introducing Sex Magic: A Guide to Harnessing Your Sexual Power 05:51 The Steps to Practicing Sex Magic: From Desire to Manifestation 16:42 The Science Behind Sex Magic: How It Works and Why 22:08 Exploring Cold Sex Magic: A Personal Experience 24:33 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to Experiment with Sex Magic š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Apr 16, 2024
Tired of everyone assuming that ALL you want is sex? This week, tune in for world-renowned sexologist Cam Fraser joins the show to share the myths that are destroying your sex life and what you can do to change it all. Cam and Kirsten discuss the role of testosterone on your sex drive, testosterone replacement therapy, adjusting how you view sexual experiences, arousal versus consent, what to do when you aren't in the mood for sex and so much more! Key Topics: 00:10 Decoding Masculinity and Sexuality 00:46 Busting Myths Around Male Sexuality 03:29 The Complex Relationship Between Testosterone and Libido 16:16 Understanding Arousal and Consent 25:13 Addressing Male Sexual Dysfunction Beyond Medication 31:12 Unpacking the Complexities of Male Sexual Health 32:28 Navigating Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation 34:04 The Psychological Underpinnings of Sexual Performance 40:24 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Performance 45:01 Practical Advice for Enhancing Sexual Experiences Resources: Not Always in the Mood by Sarah Murray Connect with Cam Fraser https://cam-fraser.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thecamfraser/?hl=en š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Apr 9, 2024
Are you tired of going on one date after another that falls flat, or ends in disappointment? In this episode, Kirsten shares the top 10 dating mistakes you are making and what to do instead. Be prepared because if you apply these ten actions on your next dateā¦she will be coming back for more. It is time to impress your date and foster a deeper, more meaningful connection. These strategies are designed to make a lasting impression, increasing your chances for more or even spice up your long-standing relationship. Whether you are going about to give up on dating or are stagnant in your relationship, this episode has something for you. Let's get some! š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover Key Topics: 00:00 Spring Awakening: Time to Dive Back into Dating! 00:32 Unlocking the Secrets to a Successful Date 02:11 Personal Dating Experiences: Lessons Learned 04:46 Actionable Dating Tips: From Planning to Execution 10:43 The Importance of Being an Active Conversation Partner 13:43 Confidence and Manners: The Ultimate Dating Duo 15:32 The Power of Simple Manners in Dating 17:06 Building Physical Touch Gradually 20:37 Communicating Your Interest Clearly 22:15 The Follow-Up: Texting and Beyond 24:04 Making the Next Move 25:02 The Ultimate Gesture: Picking Up the Phone 27:29 The Importance of Small Actions
Apr 2, 2024
What is closure going to bring you as you move forward? This week, connect with Billy Procida, a man who sat down with all of his exes to understand why things didn't work out, what he should do now, and whether there is still something there between them. If you still want closure from an ex or are wondering how not to repeat the same mistakes in your next relationships, this episode is for you. Billy is a stand-up comedian, writer, and podcaster based in New York City. He takes a unique approach to understanding relationships, exploring sex, and dating today. He brings a hilarious, curious, and sex-positive lens to all things love and sex. Let's laugh, let's love, and let's get some! Key Topics: Exploring past relationships and dating challenges. Reconnecting with exes and seeking closure from a past relationship. How to explore new sexual experiences. Use Reddit, Craigslist, and online platforms to explore your sexual desires. The art of approaching women in dating. Connect with Billy Proceda https://www.instagram.com/billyisprocida/?hl=en https://www.manwhorepod.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Mar 26, 2024
How much does your attachment style impact your sex life? In this episode, Kirsten breaks down the 4 different attachment styles and what they look like in a sexual space. Whether you are curious to learn more about your sexual desires and drivers or you are ready to become more secure and expand your sex lifeā¦this episode is for you. Kirsten shares relatable stories and research findings to explore attachment styles from a sexual context. We are getting playful, we are getting steamy, and we are getting educated. Let's get some! Key Topics: Exploring the 4 attachment styles How your attachment style impacts your sexual desires. Using your attachment style to improve your sex life. Building strong, intimate connections. Becoming securely attached and having epic sex. What attachment style is more open to BDSM. Learn Your Attachment Style: Attached by Amir Levine Wired for Love by Stan Takin š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Mar 19, 2024
How often do you wonder why some guys never struggle to attract a woman? In this episode, we explore how to confidently attract women while staying true to who you are. Whether you are in a relationship struggling to understand your partner or you are ready to attract more women into your lifeā¦this episode is for you. Kirsten is joined by Mark Sing, an NLP men's dating coach, who gives actionable advice on how to build a connection, attract quality women and interactions, and build a foundational sense of confidence in yourself. Mark shares how to reframe negative self-perceptions like "I'm not tall enough" or "I'm not successful enough," how to overcome the fear of rejection and tools for reading women and understanding what they want. Key Topics: Understanding the psychology of a woman Overcoming limiting beliefs to be an attractive man. Practical steps to strengthen your frame control. What to do when a woman asks you for a favor. How to be kind without becoming a doormat. The power of frame control in relationships. How to lead women to where they want to be led. Connect with Mark Sing https://coachmarksing.com/ Check out The Unapologetic Man Podcast: https://link.chtbl.com/sHqkyWpW š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Mar 12, 2024
Kink and BDSM are often misunderstood spaces of intimacy. You probably think of leather, whips, and chains. But the truth is, we are ALL a little kinky. In this episode, Kirsten shares the true definition of kink and BDSM, and practices that can enhance intimacy, pleasure, and self-understanding. It's time to challenge the negative perceptions around 'vanilla' sex while embracing your hidden desires and fantasies. Its time to identify your core desires, where you fall within the realm of power and pain and how to begin exploring what it is you really want in the bedroom. Key Topics: Understanding your sexual desires The psycholgoy of arousal The 3 P's in BDSM: Pain, Power and Play The benefits of incorporating BDSM into your sex life. How to use your fantasies to better understand your true desires. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Mar 5, 2024
What do you think of your cock? This is where you will uncover ways to boost your sexual health, step into sexual sovereignty and love your cock. In this episode, Kirsten connects with Tyson Adams, an IFS-trained Therapist, all about the psychological aspects of porn addiction, how to practice sexual sovereignty, and how to build a mindful and intentional approach to sexuality. Whether you are struggling with your porn consumption or are curious about the power of semen retention, Tyson shares actionable advice on how you can step into a healthy and powerful relationship with your sexuality. Key Topics: The Taoist perspective on semen and energy. The impact of circumcision on male sexuality. The future of AI and VR in Pornography and the impact it has on self-perception. Sexual shadows and personal growth. Masturbation as a death practice. Learning to love your cock. Connect with Tyson Adams https://www.instagram.com/tysonadams__/ Join the Life Force Men's Group: https://c20hf9npbqf.typeform.com/to/GbSdzMxq š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Feb 27, 2024
Sleeping with someone who struggles to orgasm? In this episode, Kirsten discusses the common issue of women struggling to orgasm and provides practical advice for men to sexually satisfy their partners- with or without a climax. Whether you are tired of not fully pleasing your girl and want guidance or are looking for ways to make sex better no matter whatā¦this episode is for you. Kirsten shares exact scripts for how you can communicate about orgasming, reasons why climax might be hard for her, and how you can adjust your sex goals and feel amazing. Key Topics: The pressure to orgasm. Moving away from the goal of orgasm to have epic sex. Spontaneous versus responsive arousal. How to communicate about struggling to orgasm without it being uncomfortable. Releasing the responsibility to make a woman climax. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Feb 20, 2024
Here is your moment to connect with former NFL football player (turned relationship and love coach) Bret Lockett. Bret candidly discusses the heartbreak of his first loveā¦football, and his transition to becoming a relationship and love coach. Bret and Kirsten explore the importance of self-discovery, understanding one's connection to the universe, and letting go of ego. Brett also brings attention to societal expectations, dating dynamics, and the power of vulnerability being a key to successful relationships. Whether you are in a relationship wanting things to be better, or you are single and looking for ways to prepare yourself for love, this episode is for you. Let's get some! Resources: The Power of the Subconscious Mind Key Topics: The impact of identity and ego on relationship with self. How to allow trust and surrender into your life. The process of embracing love as a masculine man. The misconceptions men have about women, and vice-versa. Steps to become more vulnerable in relationships and your life. The key to a woman's heart Connect with Bret Lockett: https://www.instagram.com/bret_lockett/?hl=en Apply to work with Bret: HERE š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Feb 13, 2024
Let's biohack your way to epic sex. This week, Kirsten talks with Susan Bratton, an advocate for every person who desires more passion, all about tools and tactical actions to build pleasure and have a prolonged, healthier sex life. Susan and Kirsten explore the use of techniques and therapies to stimulate new penile tissue generation, increase blood flow, and how keep sexual atrophy at bay. Whether you want to increase your penis size or are ready to enhance your orgasms, you will be sure to leave this episode with something powerful. The discussion is filled to the brim with nuggets of information on the physiological aspects of sexual pleasure and how to maintain sexual health your entire life. We are talking penis pumps, sex toys, lube, and regenerative medicine, my menā¦and it's epic. Key Topics: Actionable tips to increase the size of your penis. A reframe of what lovemaking looks and feels like. How to improve and maintain your sexual health. The power of lube for enhancing intimacy š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Feb 6, 2024
In this episode, Kirsten shared 6 ways for you to build sexual confidence so that you can enjoy your sexual experiences and your life even more! Whether you are tired of feeling self-conscious about your performance during sex or you are looking for ways to enjoy sex even moreā¦this episode has something for you. Be ready to explore your sexual expression and body image, mindset on sexuality and so much more. It's time to be confident and get some! Key Topics: Identifying your sexual confidence blocks How to adapt a mindset of curiosity in sexual experiences. The struggle of men with body image and the need for body positivity. 6 ways to boost your sexual confidence and have epic sex. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jan 30, 2024
Do you want to orgasm when you want, how you wantā¦without having to ejaculate? In this episode, Taylor Johnson, a sexologist and men's sex coach, unpacks the misconceptions about ejaculation, the importance of breaking away from conditioned beliefs about sexual pleasure, and how you can break through the blocks holding you back from full-body orgasms. Taylor and Kirsten explore different sexual techniques and practices to achieve more satisfaction and pleasure. This conversation is about what you are doing during sex and, equally, everything you are doing outside of sex. Whether you want to experience more pleasure during sex, or are looking for ways to conenct with your partner better during sex, this episode is for you. Key Topics: The issues with NFAP and what you should consider instead. Identifying your ideal ejaculatory frequency for overall well-being and health. Using a self-pleasure practice to amplify your entire life. 5 Common blocks that are holding men back from experiencing pleasure in sex. Addressing the myth of blue balls when you don't ejaculate. Connect with Taylor Johnson https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson/?hl=en https://www.taylorjohnson.life/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jan 23, 2024
Let's talk about porn. This week, we are joined by J.K. Emezi, a psychosexual counseling expert, to explore pornography consumption, overcoming addiction and how to build a healthy relationship with pornography. JK reveals what is happening to your brain on porn and how understanding this unique physiology can lead to addiction and building new habits. Tune in to learn helpful practices if you are struggling with compulsive behavior related to porn, how to answer the question, "Do I have a problem with porn?" and how to build a healthy relationship with your sexuality free from shame, fear, or addiction. If your porn usage has led you down a path of sexual exploration you aren't comfortable or proud of, JK has the insight to help you navigate out of this into a state of freedom and peace. Key Topics: The process of pornography and its physiological effects. Navigating the shame associated with porn consumption. How to identify if you have a problem with porn. Navigating relapse in the recovery process. How to support a loved one who is struggling with compulsive porn usage. Defining a healthy relationship with pornography and sex Resources: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ Connect with JK Emezi: https://elevatedrecovery.org/ Porn Reboot Podcast š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jan 16, 2024
In this episode, Kirsten shares how any man can make a woman squirt during sex. This is a skill you CAN learn. Tune in to learn what squirting actually is, techniques to enhance the capacity for squirting, and sexual positions you can explore to achieve a squirting orgasm. Kirsten also shares how women can enhance their ability to squirt and the emotional release associated with it. We don't stop there; one of the most important parts of squirting is preparing for the clean-up and the come-downā¦tune in to learn how to do this successfully so that your woman wants to do it again and again. Key Topics: The science behind squirting. The role of the G-spot in squirting Optimal positions to enable squirting orgasms. Tips for women to achieve squirting orgasms. How to prepare your space for a g-spot orgasm. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jan 9, 2024
Are you ready to release the pressure to perform and step into your sexual power? This week, Kirsten brings to you sexuality expert Fabienne Annick to share how you can build your sexual confidence, support your own healing process, and expand your sexual experience beyond a performance. Fabienne walks you through a balanced approach to building sexual confidence, combining inner psychological work and physical training. Get ready for some actional exercises and practices you can do every day to build your sexual stamina and sensations! Kirsten and Fabienne discuss edging practices to enhance sexual energy, shifting the goal of sex to have more pleasure, and overcoming shame in men's sexuality. This is an episode packed with wisdomā¦don't miss it. Key Topics: The Pressure to Perform and How to Overcome It. How to build awareness and sensation in sex. Tools to build sexual confidence Understanding and practicing semen retention. Edging: how to practice edging and what the benefits are. Connect with Fabienne Annick https://www.fabienneannick.com/ https://www.instagram.com/fabienneannick š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Jan 2, 2024
This week, Kirsten brings to you Stefano Sifandos. Stefanos discusses the complex issues men face in today's world, including loneliness, intimacy fears, how notions of masculinity are under scrutiny, and the confusion it brings and compromised confidence. Whether you are wondering how to build stronger connections with the men in your life or are ready to step up to the fullness of who you know you CAN beā¦this episode is here for you. This is a moment for you to cultivate inner courage, embrace vulnerability, and make conscious choices in your relationships. Key Topics: Exploring the challenges of modern masculinity and expectations on men today. How to take action to build courage and confidence. Understanding the role of desire in personal growth. Exploring the concept of "nice guys" and why women aren't interested in them. The impact of fatherhood on personal growth and being a man. Connect with Stefanos Sifandos https://www.instagram.com/stefanossifandos/ https://stefanossifandos.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 26, 2023
Do you want sex more often than your partner? This week, Kirsten shares three specific ways to improve your sex drive compatability, to help your partner crave more sex with you and for both of you to turn towards one another in a way that is connecting and passionate. Tune in to learn strategies to handle sex drive differences for both lower-desire and higher-desire partners, emphasizing the understanding of each partner's sexual desires and feelings. Whether you are tired of initiating sex with your partner all the time, or you want to more intimately connect with your partnerā¦this episode is for you. It is time to shift your sex life from resistance to desire and from pressure into pleasure. Key Topics: The cycle of desire differences- and how to get onto the same page with your partner. How to use your love languages to have better sex and love. The human sexual response cycle. How to understand your partners sex drive. Resources: 5 Love Languages š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 19, 2023
It is peak dating seasonā¦and this episode will help you land that perfect date. In this revealing episode, Bella Gandhi, the founder of Smart Dating Academy, shares her insightful advice on online dating. Bella brings all the wisdom from being mindful of creating an authentic and attractive profile, understanding dating patterns, and maintaining intentionality. Kirsten and Bella walk through a comprehensive guide to navigating the online dating world successfully. She points out common misunderstandings, such as rushing into relationships, ghosting, and not optimally using dating apps as a tool in the dating process. If you are feeling exhausted from dating, Bella provides the mindset you need, how to ditch harmful notions like drama and conflict and focus on advice that promotes self-awareness, grace, and respect. Key Topics: Understanding your dating patterns How to improve your dating app profile Identifying red flags in dating How to navigate the dating world when you are not ready for a long-term relationship Connect with Bela Gahndi https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/ Check out her Podcast: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/podcast š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 12, 2023
It's time to spice things up. Whether you are ready to try something new in bed or are struggling to connect with your partner and looking for help, this episode is for you. Kirsten shares a 10-minute tantric practice to mix things up, prevent boredom in bed, and take your intimacy to a whole new level. And don't worry, if you are single Kirsten shares how you can do this practice yourself. Key Topics: Consequences of boredom in bed. Understanding the phases of a relationship. A tantric practice to use before you have sex. One tool to never feel bored in bed again. Positive and negative charges for women and men. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 5, 2023
Tired of conflict and fighting getting in the way of your relationship feeling good? In this episode, Jayson Gaddis is here to share how to navigate conflict in a relationship and return to peace with your partner. Say goodbye to avoiding conflict, dreading your next fight and say hello to using conflict as a tool to become closer to your partner and have a more peaceful love. Join Kirsten and Jayson for a conversation on moving out of resentment and conflict, stepping into the truth of who you are, and amplifying your connection with your emotions to live a truly free life. A lot of this work starts with the conflict you have within yourself. Whether you are tired of getting into the same fight over and over with your partner or staying single so that you don't have to deal with conflictā¦this episode is here for you. If you don't tune in to this episodeā¦we are definitely getting into a fight. Key Topics: The four main ways we show up in conflict: learn which one you are and how to move through conflict successfully. How your attachment style impact the way you fight. The impact of holding grudges, keeping score, and how to step out of this cycle. Standing for 3: what this concept is and how to apply it to your relationship. Connect with Jayson Gaddis https://www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis/ Visit https://relationshipschool.com/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Dec 1, 2023
What is a sexual desire you are afraid to ask for? This episode dives into how to communicate about your desires (and disinterest) in a way that is easy and feels good. If you are tired of not getting what you want in sex or are looking for tips on how to more effectively communicate with your partner this episode is for you. Kirsten walks through exact scripts on what to say when someone asks for a desire you aren't interested in and on what to say when giving constructive feedback. This episode is all about communication, but its well worth it because the reward of talking about sex means increased trust, deeper connections and hotter sex. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Nov 28, 2023
Annie Lalla is a relationship coach with over a decade of experience. She has become a true beacon of wisdom and inspiration for couples and singles seeking deep connections and profound intimacy. Join Kirsten and Annie for a conversation on how to navigate dating so that you find and create lasting love. This is a great episode to listen to if you are dating to find your life partner. Whether you are skeptical about love or feel desperate to finally have the relationship you dream about, Annie has insight and actionable tools for you to do right now. Key Topics: How to navigate conflict in the early stages of dating and a relationship. Two ways people show up in conflict and how to move beyond the struggle and into connection. Tools to build understanding, communication, and clarity within a relationship. The difference between love and true love. How to know if someone is "the one" Having versus hoping tool. Connect with Annie Lalla Visit her website: https://annielalla.com/ Join her on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lallabird/ Want to know if you have true love? Take Annie's test: https://annielalla.com/lovetest/ š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Nov 21, 2023
Want to have sex that lasts as long as you desire? This episode reveals how to gain control over your climax, relax into the experience of sex and create a pathway to enjoying the pleasure of every single moment. Discover how to become more sensitive and attuned to your body's arousal patterns through tantric breathwork and mindfulness practices. Plus, tips to avoid over-stimulation so you can regulate energy flow. Say goodbye to brief encounters and hello to prolonged pleasure on your terms. Key Topics: Develop higher body awareness and sensation Leverage breathing exercises for enhanced stamina Keep intensity at lower levels to delay ejaculation Relax into sex without controlling each moment š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Nov 14, 2023
Ready to explore your masculine side? Jamie Rea is here to share the process of amplifying your polarity, facing your anger, and becoming the man you've always wanted to be. Join Kirsten and Jamie for a conversation on how to move energy so that you can become a better lover. This is a great episode to listen to if you are feeling stuck in your emotions or are looking for ways to connect more with your masculinity. Whether you are curious about polarity in relationships or are in need of guidance on having deeper orgasms, Jamie has insight and actionable tools for you to do right now. Key Topics: Polarity in relationships and within yourself. Accessing anger to amplify your intimacy. The #1 way to open yourself up for full-body orgasms. Connect with Jamie Rea https://www.instagram.com/jamie.n.rea/ Visit his website: jamie.n.rea.com š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Nov 7, 2023
Are you hung up on an ex? This week, Kirsten shares 4 perspectives that are actually helpful in moving forward. The truth might sting, but it's exactly what you need to hear. In this episode, you'll learn a very specific piece of advice for coming out of a toxic relationship, how to navigate when your ex is handling the breakup differently than you, and actionable tools for moving forward in the tough moments when you want to reach back out to your ex. Whether you are fresh out of a relationship or single and afraid of getting hurt again, this episode is here for you. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 31, 2023
This week, Kirsten sits down with special guest Alicia Davon to explore how we can communicate about sex and pleasure more effectively. Alicia Davon holds a Master's degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women's romantic and sensual expression, and she has taught over 15,000 students with her husband through the Davon Method. Alicia and Kirsten talk all about what women really want, how to relate to women sexually and romantically, and what to do on your first date to show up as the best version of yourself. If you feel stuck with how to talk about sex during or after intimacy⦠don't miss this episode as Alicia offers a clear outline of asking for what you want without hurting your partner's feelings. Whether you are looking for insight on how to sexually please a woman or guidance on communicating about sex clearly, this episode has something for you. Connect with Alicia Davon https://davonmethod.com/consult/ Or text 415 308 9580 www.davonmethod.com š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 25, 2023
In this episode, Kisten shares four practices and approaches to transform your sex life. If you want to incorporate Tantra into your intimacy or become a better lover, this episode is an amazing place to start. You will learn actionable techniques to control your climax, amplify your pleasure throughout your entire sexual experience, and tap into your power. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 25, 2023
The first date. It might be awkward, it might be nerve-racking, or you might fall in love, and this is the beginning of something great. There is only one way to find outā¦tune in and connect with Kirsten. In this episode, Kirsten shares why we should start connecting, what happens when we don't, and how important you are to her. This show is for YOUā¦the epic human wanting to reach sexual mastery and build deep connections. Instead of only connecting with women, Kirsten shares her passion for connecting with men and bringing everyone together. Whether you are tired of feeling the pressure to perform in the bedroom, are confused about how to please and connect with your partner, or are seeking an epic relationship while maintaining a sense of independence in your lifeā¦this show is here for you. Together, you and Kirsten WILL find the answers and have better relationships and more amazing intimacy. Imagine a world where everyone is having incredible sex and experiencing deep connectionsā¦it would be a pretty happy place. It's time to make that happen⦠let's get after it! š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
Oct 24, 2023
Welcome to The Naked Connection, the show for motivated guys focused on personal development who want to build deeper connections and have better communication and sex with women. Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you build meaningful romantic connections so that you can live with purpose and freedom. If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate, and build a lasting relationshipā¦this podcast is a must-listen! It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get after it. š„ Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you'll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasureāsolo or partnered. š§” Connect with Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ āHave a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question š Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover