The Kink Spectrum: Exploring BDSM, Fetishism, and Consent with Todd "Max" Carey| Sexuality Education

Send Eve a text, question, or suggestion! In this eye-opening episode of Please Me! , Eve dives deep into the world of kink, BDSM, and fetishism with special guest Todd Max Carey, producer and director of the documentary Touch Kink . Together, they break down the differences between BDSM, which often centers on power dynamics, roles, and discipline, and fetishism, which typically involves a sexual component. Todd explains how only a fraction of BDSM relationships are primarily about sex, and shares his experiences from interviewing hundreds of people for his film, including dominatrixes, submissives, and curious newcomers to the kink world. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the role of consent, negotiation, and aftercare in the BDSM community, helping to demystify and destigmatize these practices. Todd and Eve explore how open communication and respect for boundaries are essential, whether you're in a kink relationship or navigating modern intimacy in a more traditional setting. They also touch on the idea of "feminine energy" and "masculine energy" and how these concepts transcend gender in the world of kink. If you're curious about kink, BDSM, or fetishism—or just want to learn more about how consent and communication can improve any relationship—this episode is for you! Connect: Todd "Max' Corey: https://touchkink.com Please Me Online - Reach Eve and stay connected. SDC.com: Join the premiere "modern lifestyle" ENM website with a free trial membership using code 37340. Sign up on SDC.com listen to Taylor's episode Support the show Support the Show: $3, $5, $8, $10 and get a shoutout for being a Super Fan! Explore these affiliates and support Please Me Podcast: Website: Please Me Online - Reach Eve and stay connected. OWWLL App: Call Eve on OWWLL app using code EH576472 for a $10 free trial. Download OWWLL SDC.com: Join the premiere "modern lifestyle" ENM website with a free trial membership using code 37340. Sign up on SDC.com Streamyard: Get $10 towards your streaming products and stream live with Eve! Visit Streamyard Organic Loven: Treat yourself to new bedroom toys at this incredible website. Explore Organic Loven Parlor Games: Hormone replacement for women, eliminating issues like incontinence. Shop at Parlor Games Buzzsprout: Save $20 on the best podcast hosting site. Get Buzzsprout LifeWave: Experience stem cell technology that enhances libido and changes lives. Visit LifeWave Juice Plus+: Enjoy plant-based n... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices