Healing After Porn Betrayal: A Therapist’s Roadmap to Recovery, w/ Geoff Steurer

In this episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I interview Geoff Steurer, a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 25 years of experience in dealing with sexual betrayal, compulsive sexual behavior, and addiction. Geoff is the creator of the Courageous Together program and the co-author of 'Love You, Hate the Porn.' We delve into the intricacies of overcoming betrayal trauma induced by pornography, the importance of full disclosure, and why traditional marriage counseling often fails in these scenarios. Geoff also explains the stages of healing and how couples can rebuild trust and intimacy. This conversation is filled with hope, accountability, and practical steps for everyone struggling with or supporting someone in recovery from compulsive behavior. 🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro Connect with Jeremy: 🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/ 🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz 📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:14 Meet Geoff Steurer: Expert in Betrayal Trauma 01:46 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships 03:36 Geoff's Journey into Betrayal Trauma Therapy 04:05 The Evolution of Internet and Sexual Betrayal 09:33 Understanding the Dynamics of Betrayal 19:05 The Role of Shame and Secrecy in Betrayal 27:49 Healing and Rebuilding Trust in Relationships 31:55 The Importance of Professional Guidance in Disclosures 32:33 Early Tasks for the Betrayed Partner 33:53 The Timeline for Rebuilding Trust 35:32 The Role of Truth and Empathy 38:23 Learning to Sit with Discomfort 42:03 Understanding the Betrayed Partner's Perspective 45:13 The Potential for Growth and Healing 47:39 Common Misconceptions About Recovery 53:53 Introducing the Courageous Together Program 57:49 Final Thoughts and Resources Connect with Geoff Steurer 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geoffsteurer/ 🌍 Website: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie Linktree: https://linktr.ee/geoffsteurer 🎙️ Podcast: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/podcasts/from-crisis-to-connection-with-geoff-jody-steurer/episodes/2149040329 🚀 If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with someone who needs to hear this!