About this episode
In this episode of Unhooked, I am joined by Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, a couple with extensive experience in helping couples heal from sexual addiction and betrayal. The Raabsmiths share their personal journey, practical advice for both individuals and couples, and how trauma manifests in relationships. We discuss the importance of honesty, the long-term commitment to recovery, and the roles of personal and relational healing. They'll also discuss their framework for rebuilding intimacy and trust, and provide actionable steps for overcoming compulsive behaviors and deepening relationships. πΉ Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro Connect with Jeremy: π Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com π· Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/ π₯ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz π© Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com Jeremyβs Online Course: Unhooked β Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles 00:56 Meet the Hosts and Guests 02:36 Deep Dive into Relational Healing 04:27 Starting the Conversation on Addiction 07:38 Personal Stories of Addiction and Recovery 19:48 The Importance of Honesty in Recovery 29:31 Understanding the Addict's Perspective 30:00 Healing from Betrayal Trauma 30:40 The Impact of Trauma Triggers 31:35 Relearning to Trust Your Gut 33:33 The Role of Community and Support 35:27 Navigating Different Upbringings and Expectations 41:46 The Importance of Empathy and Understanding 47:08 Final Thoughts and Resources Connect with The Raabsmiths π· Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theraabsmithteam/ π Website: https://raabsmithteam.com/ https://raabsmithteam.com/free π If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with someone who needs to hear this!