How to Deal With a Negative Partner

Maintaining our relationship with Divine Love, all of our human relationships will either evolve or dissolve. From a 2017 @Curlynikki IG post: When She notices Bae’s bad mood: She remembers, that at a higher level, she asked for this. She remembers that he is her spiritual practice, and therefore, she sees him as this moody-ass angel that’s forcing her into inner Peace, permanently. He’s a beacon to call her Home to the only place where there is genuine, unconditional Love-- within. She knows that he can’t provide her with Love — That is what she is, but she used to forget that and when she did, she felt cut off, separate and like a victim. Just as he can’t make her happy, he can’t make her sad. She now takes radical responsibility for her moods. In reality there are no ‘others’— just more of her Self. She knows that just as she is God appearing as _____ (your name here), he is God appearing as moody Bae. She sees him in his Perfection (in Love) even when he’s acting out, and maybe he’ll begin expressing that Perfection... or maybe he won’t be in her life anymore. Either way, her only goal is to stay woke in the dream of life at all times. She doesn’t match his low mood in hopes that she’ll guilt him into acting nice. She knows better. It’s never worked before and it won’t start working now. Instead, she finds her inner Beauty, the Presence, the real Self, and gives it her attention. In the midst of the turbulent energy of anger or resentment, Love is there, waiting to be remembered. Even if she can only feel a tiny bit of It, she’s won. #BeHerNow Bonus Quotes: "Shine the warm light of awareness on your thoughts and feelings." -Thich Nhat Hanh "In the sunlight of awareness Everything becomes sacred."- Thich Nhat Hanh Today's Practice: When your partner is actively dark clouding, become aware of the dark cloud you experience inside, in response to theirs. Notice that even though the cloud seems to be present within you, so is the Sun. Give your attention to the Sun, to Love. Be that Love. Abide as this Love. Their 'dark cloud' is only a call for you to go further into the practice. Deeper into your Self. It's a blessing in disguise. And the more you abide in Love, refusing to step off your throne for anything and anyone, the more you begin to see It reflected outwardly as healthy and fulfilling relationships. Everything is changing. I love you and I'm with you, Nik nikki@curlynikki.com Support the show Beginning Aug 7, 2023 - 'GoOD Mornings with CurlyNikki' will host pre and post roll ads within the back catalogue.