September 12, 2023
Ep. 150: Why You Can Know What to Do and Still Not Do It?!
The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}About this episode
You’ve probably wondered how you can know the neuroscience of behavior and have a toolbox full of tools…and still struggle to actually USE those tools. Most parents have the thought “If I know what to do, why aren’t I actually doing it???” It’s not because you’re a bad parent. It’s because you’re dysregulated, have a sensitized stress response system, and probably have some implicit memories that leave you vulnerable to being triggered. In this episode you’ll learn: How very little of our behavior comes from conscious thought Why your sensitized stress response system leaves you vulnerable Why regulated, connected parents who feel safe parent the way they want to Resources mentioned in this podcast: Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to choose from a variety of pre-order bonuses, including a signed copy or 20% off. When Parenting is Traumatic {EP 95} Beginning of the memory series: Trauma, Memory, & Behavior Part 1 {EP 90} Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/knowwhattodo I would love to have you join me this March in Durango, CO for a 3-day, retreat style workshop: Presence in Practice: An experiential workshop into the neurobiology of how change happens. All details and registration ------> https://RobynGobbel.com/Durango Register by December 19 for $75 off! Get access to over 25+ free resources in our brand, new Free Resource Hub! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResourceHub ::: Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)