Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP217 – Inside Hedonism: Real Swingers Resort Stories, First-Timer Tips & Casual Swinger Week Takeover Interviews What really happens during a week at Hedonism II Resort? In this episode, Cate shares a full recap of 7 nights at Hedonism during Casual Swinger Week, featuring four real interviews with guests from across the lifestyle, couples, women, returning attendees, and second-time visitors navigating confidence, connection, play spaces, and first-timer nerves at one of the world’s most iconic swingers resorts. See BTS photos from the event on our Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder  From nude pool parties and playroom firsts to breakfast-table friendships and group-play breakthroughs, this episode explores what actually happens on a lifestyle resort takeover week and what guests wish they’d known before arriving. Whether you're curious about Hedonism, planning your first swingers resort trip, or wondering what takeover weeks feel like compared to regular resort stays, this episode gives you real stories from inside the experience.   New Blogs Mentioned The Ultimate Guide to STi Testing in the swingers lifestyle  When Intimacy in Long Term Relationships Declines, what you can do to get out of the RUT   Useful Links from this Episode Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Shivers – Intimacy Gummies Get 10% off using code Libertine https://shivers.store/?ref=libertine   Hedonism Resort review, Hedonism II Jamaica, swingers resort experience, Casual Swinger Week, swingers resort takeover, lifestyle resort first timer tips, clothing optional resort advice, nude resort confidence, swingers travel podcast, lifestyle resort interviews, ethical non monogamy travel, swinger vacation stories, Wanderlust Swingers podcast

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP216 – Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama After 11 years on Apple Podcasts, we’ve suddenly been removed from the US Apple directory and we’re still trying to figure out why We also share a real update on shooting our shot in the lifestyle after sending 13 messages to potential matches on SDC. We break down the results (including ghosting statistics), and debate whether people actually owe a “no thank you” response on dating sites Plus, a kink guessing game based on Cosmopolitan’s list of 55 kinks, and a fascinating story out of Nevada where workers at a legal brothel are attempting to unionize over controversial contract terms involving likeness and content rights Rate our dating profile photos on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder   Links Cosmo Kink List https://sex.cosmopolitan.com/pleasure/a24481923/kinks-fetish-list/ Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 The Ultimate Guide to STI Testing For Swingers https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/swingers-sti-testing/    Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Shivers - Intimacy Gummies  Get 10% off using code Libertine https://shivers.store/?ref=libertine      apple podcast removed, swinger podcast, lifestyle dating ghosting, SDC swingers, swinger dating etiquette, kink list explained, figging kink, mirror arousal, vore kink, Sheri’s Ranch brothel, Nevada sex workers union, adult content censorship, non monogamy podcast, swinger travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP215 – Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise In this episode, we dive into a lifestyle topic that sparks massive debate: playroom etiquette and the “grey areas” that aren’t written in the rules. We share a real experience from Fata Morgana (Netherlands) where another couple began having sex very close to us (around 20cm) in a small open playroom. No rules were broken, nobody touched anyone… but the vibe shifted fast, mainly due to proximity and intense watching. That led to the real question: When something is technically allowed, can it still be socially tone-deaf? We also share highlights from the Reddit discussion (yes, some people roasted us), unpack the difference between rules vs social awareness, and give practical advice for navigating open play spaces when everyone’s boundaries are different. Plus: Cate’s upcoming Bliss Cruise hotwife adventure, and our latest attempt at making new local lifestyle friends (with very Dutch planning timelines). In This Episode - Playroom etiquette vs “grey area” social awareness - Parallel play, proximity, and when it feels invasive - Why eye contact can change the dynamic fast - Reddit reactions: “technically allowed but socially tone-deaf” vs “open room means accept it” - Newbie advice: you can’t control others, only your response - Cate’s Bliss Cruise plans with Mallory (two hotwives on the loose) - Unicorn/hotwife dynamics + messages on the Bliss app - Seasickness tips wanted + the drink package debate - Finding new swinger friends: Cate sent 13 local messages and is tracking replies Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026 Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel. Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/ - $750 cashback for international guests - $300 cashback for North American guests Useful Links Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15%

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP214 – Swinger Cruises: Inside Bliss Cruise with CEO Russell Stephens In this episode, we’re joined by Russell Stephens, CEO and part owner of Bliss Cruise, the world’s largest and most influential lifestyle cruise brand, for an unfiltered conversation about the past, present, and future of Bliss Cruise. Russell shares how Bliss Cruise was acquired, why the ownership structure changed, and how decisions are actually made behind the scenes. We talk candidly about community concerns, guest privacy, pricing, drink packages, sponsorships, and the realities of working with major cruise lines while protecting a sex-positive lifestyle experience.   Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026 Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel. Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/ - $750 cashback for international guests - $300 cashback for North American guests   We also dive deep into what most guests never see, the logistics, planning, staffing, and production required to transform a “vanilla” cruise ship into a full-scale lifestyle event with thousands of guests. If you’ve ever wondered: - Who actually owns Bliss Cruise and how decisions are made - How a cruise ship is converted into a swinger cruise in under 24 hours - Why drink packages cost what they do - What happened with cameras, videography, and privacy concerns - How Bliss balances legacy guests with modernizing the experience - Whether West Coast Bliss cruises are ever coming - What goes into playrooms, music programming, and themed cruises   In This Episode - Why Bliss Cruise was acquired and what changed with new ownership - Russell’s personal history in the lifestyle and why that matters - How guest feedback and surveys directly shape future cruises - Privacy, consent, videography, and lessons learned - Drink packages, pricing realities, and why sneaking alcohol hurts the community - Sponsorship decisions and why some partnerships won’t happen again - Behind-the-scenes logistics: staffing, playrooms, AV, decor, and scheduling - How Royal Caribbean crews actually feel about Bliss sailings - What makes Bliss Cruise different from resorts, clubs, and land-based events     Useful Links  Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra conten

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP213 – Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO) Sex toys, delay sprays, arousal gels, performance anxiety, libido, orgasms, and why using sexual wellness products does not mean you’re “bad in bed.” In this episode, we’re joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, one of the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brands, to talk about the real science, real psychology, and real-world use of pleasure products — especially in the swinger and non-monogamous lifestyle.   Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   We dive deep into premature ejaculation, the arousal gap, performance pressure, female pleasure, and why the best lovers in the world use tools. We also explore the incredible backstory of Promescent, including clinical trials, urologists, turning down a $30M pharma buyout, and why Jeff was determined to keep these products available next to condoms, not behind a prescription counter. If you’ve ever wondered: - Is using a delay spray cheating? - Is performance anxiety mental or physical? - Do arousal gels actually work? - What should be in a swinger’s hoe-on-the-go bag? - How do you last longer with multiple partners?   In This Episode - The biggest myths about sexual wellness products and what they really mean - Why the best lovers in the world use performance and pleasure aids - The real science behind premature ejaculation (and why it’s mostly physiological) - The “arousal gap” and why most women need more time than most men - Performance anxiety vs physical dysfunction — which is more common? - The true story of turning down a $30M pharma acquisition - How Promescent went from one product to 20,000+ retail stores (Target, Walgreens, CVS, etc.) - Spray vs wipes: which works best and when to use each - How long delay spray lasts and how to reapply in multi-partner scenarios - What swingers should actually carry in their hoe-on-the-go bag - Female pleasure, arousal gels, blood flow, and why warming/buzzing gels work   Useful Links from This Episode: Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP212 – Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode) Hotwife is everywhere right now, searches are rising, events are multiplying, creators are rebranding, and porn studios are showing up in lifestyle spaces looking for “talent.” So is this a genuine shift in the lifestyle… or is porn culture and trend chasing bleeding into swinging? Our Hottakes bonus episode, we unpack what hotwifing actually is (and isn’t), why the label is suddenly trending, and whether separate play dynamics are becoming more normal at couples events, or if it’s mostly just branding and algorithms.   In this Episode: What hotwifing means (and how it’s different from cuckolding and “just separate play”) Why “hotwife” searches spiked in 2024–2025 (Google Trends nerd moment) The rise of hotwife-specific events, hall passes, and separate-play meetups Are we seeing more hotwifing in real life — or just more people using the label? Porn studios entering lifestyle spaces (including a couples-only cruise sponsor) Content ownership + why “signing talent releases” can follow you forever Our 10-year hotwife journey and whether we’re “missing opportunities” Why hunting hall-pass husbands at couples events makes zero sense (and feels messy) The big question: authentic evolution… or opportunistic trend   Useful Links from this Episode: Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   Hotwife Boom, Hotwifing, Hotwife Podcast, Hot Takes, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Trends, Separate Play, Hall Pass, Porn and Swinging, Lifestyle Events, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP211 – Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club What happens when you get rejected from a swingers club, have an MFM at home that doesn’t quite land, and then walk into one of the most chaotic club nights you’ve had in 10 years? In this episode, we kick off 2026 by unpacking getting denied entry to a Belgium club, lessons from a recent MFM, and a wild swingers club night that included a consent violation, staff intervention, and a serious conversation about safety and responsibility in lifestyle spaces. And wrap up with a quick 2025 recap, 2026 goals, and why “approaching the unapproachable” (and being the ugliest one in the orgy) might be the new vibe. In this Episode: Getting rejected from a swingers club (and what photos clubs actually want) MFM lessons & why home play can be harder than hotels Condom fit issues & why your hoe bag needs options Dressing down at clubs without killing the vibe A consent violation and how quickly things escalated What responsibility club owners have for creating safer spaces 2025 recap + 2026 goals and lifestyle plans   Useful Links from this Episode: Club Eroxx Review (Belgium): https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-club-review/club-eroxx-review/ Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/  Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine  Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26    Swingers Club Drama, Swingers Club Consent, Club Rejection, MFM Threesome, Hotwife Podcast, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Podcast, Swingers Club Safety, Lifestyle Boundaries, Swinger Travel, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Belgium Swingers Club, Libertine Events

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP210 – Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips What really happens inside a swingers hotel takeover? In this episode, Cate sits down with multiple attendees from our recent Libertine Events takeover to share raw, funny, and deeply honest stories from inside a lifestyle weekend. You’ll hear from brand-new swingers, long-term lifestyle couples, empty nesters, solo explorers, and couples still finding their dynamic — all discussing their playroom experiences, nerves, sexy wins, confidence breakthroughs, and what they wish they’d known before their first event. Expect heartfelt conversations, hilarious confessions (including an accidental cock-block and a 12-hand massage), and genuinely useful advice for navigating hotel takeovers with confidence, clarity, and connection. In this Episode: Real-life swinger stories from a full hotel takeover Relationship dynamics & long-term lifestyle journeys Playrooms vs private rooms Lingerie catwalk moments Introverts in the lifestyle Handling mismatched attraction & veto moments Host vibes, accidental interruptions & how to speak up Open-door hotel rooms   Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – swingers hotel takeovers & parties: https://libertineevents.com/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & lingerie content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Rob and Linz https://www.instagram.com/anything.but.vani11a/  Hot Couple Chronicles Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/0egGy8ukwpdUVfUAndCV2V  Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine  Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26    Swingers Hotel Takeover, Swinger Event Stories, Lifestyle Takeover Review, What Happens at a Swingers Hotel Takeover, Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Podcast, Non-Monogamy Tips, First Swingers Event Advice, Playroom Etiquette, Swinger Confidence Tips, Meeting Couples at Events, Swinger Lifestyle Interviews, How t

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP209 – Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London What really happens inside a Halloween swingers party in central London? In this episode we share our two-night Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club. From Friday’s single-male night to Saturday’s couples-heavy chaos, plus a very hot dungeon “wine cellar” soft swap. We talk club vibes, playroom etiquette, and the not-so-sexy realities (hello BV) that can kill the mood, along with practical tips for getting more out of your swinger club nights. In this episode: - Our Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, logistics, location, and first impressions. - Friday single-male night vs Saturday’s more couples-heavy energy. - Dungeon play: a sensual, soft-swap session in the catacombs and how we navigated boundaries. - Why dress down rules and playroom etiquette matter more than most people think. - Dealing with vibe-killers (like BV and fully clothed spectators) without shaming anyone. - Swinger success tips: dressing down, mingling beyond your friend group, and following up on missed connections.   Watch the Le Boudoir YouTube Club Tour   https://youtu.be/2aRB5d64lPg?si=mtw9QtXS8k4m02x7   Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – Lifestyle takeovers & events: https://libertineevents.com/ Patreon – See the Dress Down Lingerie Cate wore: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine  Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26    Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, Halloween Swingers Party, London Swingers Club, Soft Swap Story, Dungeon Play, Hotwife Podcast, Non-Monogamy Tips, Swinger Travel, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP208 – Are Dirty Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic? (Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties) Bonus Episode: HotTakes with Wanderlust Swingers Are “dirty vanillas” ruining swinger parties… or are we just old and grumpy? In this HotTakes bonus episode, we unpack the rise of sexy parties vs swinger parties — couples who love the lingerie, lights, drugs and dance floor, but have zero intention of swapping or playing. From empty playrooms at Dutch “takeovers” to US events that feel more MDMA than moaning, we ask: is this evolution, dilution, or just a different lane of fun? Dirty Vanilla 101: what the term actually means (monogamous couples who love the vibe, flirting, lingerie, but don’t play) and why it’s often used as a slur in the lifestyle. Marketing or Epidemic? Swinger events advertised as “dance parties” on TikTok/IG and “swinger parties” on dating sites – who’s actually to blame: the crowd, or the promoters? Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties: Dutch club takeovers, 1200-person Amsterdam “swinger” events with no licensed playrooms, and the fetish / dirty vanilla / swinger mash-up that pleases no one. Are we the problem? Cate & Darrell realise their expectations were stuck in “old school swinger” mode while the culture has shifted under their feet. Listener Q – Tim: “We’re exclusive. Can we go to a swingers club just for the vibe?” Cate’s nuanced yes, Darrell’s “please do!” and why intention + contribution matters more than labels. We wrap by asking the big question: are dirty vanillas a lifestyle epidemic… or is this just what evolution looks like in a more fluid, less-stigmatized, sex-positive world? Check out the matching blog post for this episode, answering all your questions about Dirty Vanillas https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/dirty-vanilla-swingers/    Coming Up Next EP209 - Halloween weekend in London, MFMs, costumes, and chaos: stories from the playroom and beyond.   Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France): https://libertineevents.com/ Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine  <l

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast 47% sometimes drift that way From Flirt to Close: specific lines that move things forward (“Are you free later?” vs. “Wanna go now?”) Listener Q: Tiffany’s husband holds court; Cate’s tactics to isolate, redirect, and actually get to a playroom Animal Fact Interlude: UV-glowing platypuses and cube-pooping wombats (you’re welcome, Charlotte). Coming Up Next EP208 – Sex Parties vs. Sexy Parties & the Dirty Vanilla Epidemic: how to read formats, avoid “no playroom” traps, and set expectations. Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France) https://libertineevents.com/  Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder  Wanderlust Swingers Website https://wanderlustswingers.com/  Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122  Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine  Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26    Swinger Podcast, Social Sexual, How to Flirt at Swingers Parties, Consent in the Lifestyle, Playroom Etiquette, Dress-Down Rules, Swinger Clubs Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Hotwife Podcast, Wingwoman Strategies, Talk Blocking, Lifestyle Event Planning

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP206 – Cap d’Agde & Recent Swingers Parties Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from Babylone poolside antics to a Le Glamour Beach foam party so packed you could crowd-surf — plus two very different European events: Flamigo Events in Belgium and the SDC 25th Anniversary World Party in the Netherlands. We talk wins, fails, costs, dress codes, and why playrooms (or the lack of them) can make or break your night. Cate also shares a real-life health check-in on managing recurring UTIs in the lifestyle and the impact on travel, play, and partnership. What You’ll Hear in This Episode Cap d’Agde, Round Two: language barriers, daytime soloing while your partner works, poolside flirtation, and making the most of peak-season crowds Babylone Pool Party: why it still tops our list for “sex-charged pool vibes” (and how to navigate it as a couple) Foam Party at Le Glamour Beach: shoulder-to-shoulder mayhem, VIP bed sticker shock, and strategies when you can’t secure a cabana Flamigo Events (Belgium): great DJs, pricey drinks, token systems, and why “sexy party” ≠ “swingers party” if there’s nowhere to play SDC World Party (Netherlands): last-minute municipal restrictions, and how to salvage a night out Costs & Value: what we actually spent vs. what we got (tickets, hotels, water, and those sneaky cup fees) Safety & Autonomy: why Cate feels safer at lifestyle events than at normal clubs — and how to set boundaries when attending with friends or a single guy Travel Planning for Lifestyle Events: don’t over-commit for unproven parties, read past reviews, and always have a Plan B (after-parties, club backups, pre-arranged connections) Quick Tips & Takeaways Verify the format (swingers club vs. sexy dance party) before you book suites and tailor outfits. Have a backup plan: pre-message on dating sites, line up an after-party, or keep a reputable club in your pocket  Mind the logistics: token drink systems, locker processes, heat/AC, and dress-down rules can heavily affect your night. Health in the lifestyle: proactive UTI management, pacing your play, and honest partner communication. Trip length matters: 4 days vs. 6 days at Cap d’Agde — what actually feels good for different personalities. Coming Up Next EP207 – How Not to Get Laid at Lifestyle Events (aka: are you “social swinging” your way out of play?). Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Eve

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast why HPV screening still matters even if vaccinated How to talk about risk appetite and recent play with new partners without killing the vibe The truth about at-home vs clinic testing (licensed lab methods are the same; cheaters can cheat anywhere) Practical cue: if an oral sore sticks around beyond a few days, get it checked Useful Links from this Episode STD Hero – 10% Off with code Libertine - https://mybls.com/Libertine Join our community & events – https://libertineevents.com/  Check out our podcast website

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP204 – Cap d’Agde Swingers Vacation 2025: Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies Is Cap d’Agde still the world’s most infamous swingers paradise — or is it just overpriced rosé, half-empty nightclubs, and sunburnt nudists with GoPros? We’re back from France with 69 sexy humans in tow, ready to spill the champagne (literally) on what really went down at Europe’s biggest lifestyle playground. From Paris club nights to poolside anal, missed connections, VIP beach beds, and a finale party involving German neighbors, cheese, and pop rocks blowjobs — this trip had it all. Stick around for the segments: Paris Stopover Shenanigans – Les Chandelles on a Sunday, Darrell’s multi-orgasmic play, and why our group rocked the dress code fit Babylone Nights – The champagne pussy, Cate’s open-crotch challenge, and poolside daisy chains Pool Parties & Orgies – Floating blowjobs, public anal, and our DIY beachside orgy Foam Party Madness – cancelled, then back on, then VIP bed debauchery with a Canadian twist Finale Night – cheese, wine, pop rocks, and bouncy ball dick riding What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why Cap isn’t luxury… but it is unforgettable Public sex etiquette at pool parties The difference between French and Canadian play styles Cate’s inevitable UTI (yes, again) Tips for booking VIP beds, blending in, and keeping the vibe fun Success tips for those thinking of going to Cap D'Agde as a Swinger Useful Links from this Episode: Cap d’Agde: The Ultimate Swingers Guide Le Glamour Swingers Club Cap d’Agde Review Patreon – Behind the Scenes Costumes & Photos Join Us at Cap d’Agde 2026 – Libertine Events Newsletter Tags: Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Cap d’Agde Nudist Travel, Lifestyle Travel Podcast, Non-Monogamy Podcast, European Swingers Resorts, Swingers France, Wanderlust Swingers, Swinger Vacations, Hotwife Podcast, Lifestyle Group Play, Foam Party Stories, Sex Club Adventures

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP203 – Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor? We’re diving into France’s infamous "Naked City" with first-timers Ben & Kate from the UK—sharing what it’s really like to strip down, party hard, and play freely in one of the world’s most iconic non-monogamous travel destinations. From body confidence wobbles to naked grocery runs, group foam party flings, and boundary-testing solo play, this episode is equal parts hilarious, sexy, and honest AF. Stick around for the segments: Hot Seat Quickies – foam or finesse? Nudity or nightlife? Sexy surprises and flirty regrets. Guess Who: Cap d’Agde Edition – is that a mesh thong and too much cologne, or are we imagining things? Prison Wallets & Pool Parties – yes, that’s a thing. Yes, we explain it. No, you won’t forget it. The Moose Party & Babylon Vibes – what to expect, what to pack, and why you might never want to leave. Tips for Cap First-Timers – boundaries, blunders, solo moments, sneaky threesomes, and finding your tribe (while naked). Whether you're Cap-curious, dreaming of your first naked beach walk, or just here for the stories of awkward sex club tunnels and golden body jewelry envy—this episode delivers everything you didn’t read on the Cap d’Agde travel forums. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: The surprising psychology of public nudity Body image vs. body liberation Sexy moments, awkward encounters, and one creepy Dutch guy Connection vs. compersion in foursomes and solo play Why Cap is not just for swingers—and who it’s definitely not for Top Cap tips: what to pack, what to book, and what to avoid Useful Links from this Episode: Cap d’Agde The Ultimate Swingers Guide – https://wanderlustswingers.com/cap-dagde-the-ultimate-swingers-guide/  Libertine Events 2025 / 2026 Takeovers – https://libertineevents.com/ Join the Conversation on Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder  Support the show + get exclusive bonus content: 👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunder  Tags: Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Cap d’Agde Nudist Travel, Lifestyle Travel Podcast, Non-Monogamy Podcast, European Swingers Resorts, Swingers France, Wanderlust Swingers, Swinger Vacations, Lifestyle Bounda

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP202 – Solo Hotwife Play Date: From Lingerie Nerves to a CU-soaked Finish Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled, unfiltered conversation, Cate takes us behind the scenes of her most recent solo hotwife play date—a sexy, nerve-wracking, pounding-filled night that left everyone hot, wet, and just a little bit awkward. From lingerie mishaps to ben wa balls, awkward flirting to explosive orgasms, this episode is a raw (sometimes hilariously chaotic) look at what it’s really like to go on a solo hotel date with a single guy. Darrell weighs in with his thoughts on compersion, the thrill of being included before and after, and what it's like when your partner comes home smelling like someone else’s cologne. Plus, a listener question dives into whether solo play still counts if it's only with people you've previously played with—and how to handle that tricky dynamic when it feels like freedom with limitations. In This Episode: 🔹 The real logistics of setting up a hotwife solo date 🔹 How it feels to include your partner without them being there 🔹 Play anxiety, body compliments, and sensual 69s 🔹 The five-hour play session, the pounding, and the cum-soaked ending 🔹 Why this listener’s question about “controlled solo play” hits close to home 🔹 Red vs Black lingerie: how to ruin a sexy setup in two sentences 🔹 Reclaiming sex or just raw excitement? Quick Links & Goodies: Get the behind-the-scenes pics + pre/post-play video on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunder Join our upcoming Swingers Events Libertine Events https://libertineevents.com/  Find out more about global events on our podcast website https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/  Coming Soon: August 6th: Our Paris & Cap d’Agde travel episode, recorded just before our return to the naked city! Whether you're hotwife curious, deep into the lifestyle, or just here for the chaos and chemistry—this episode is pure swinger gold. Tags: Hotwife Lifestyle, Hotwife Podcast, Solo Play in Swinging, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Compersion, Swinger Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers, Non-Monogamy Stories, Hotwife Playdate, Cuckquean, Open Relationship Podcast, Swinger Advice, Swinger Diary, Swinger Lifestyle Humor, Libertine Events

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP201 – Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host. We’re pulling back the velvet curtain to share our wildest stories from hosting major lifestyle takeovers like Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Jamaica and Libertine Events Miami. You'll hear about guests gone rogue, glow-stick overkill, questionable hotel staff, and the unexpected emotional weight of managing relationship drama at sex-positive parties. Stick around for the segments: Top 5 Unsexiest Things We’ve Done at a Sexy Event What’s in Our Swinger Event Survival Kits? True or Trope? — a rapid-fire myth-busting game about lifestyle stereotypes If One More Person Asks Me To… (You know who you are) Toast, No Roast — our heartfelt shoutouts to guests who made it all worth it Tipsy Takeaways — advice for nervous newbies, returning guests & aspiring event hosts Whether you're a seasoned swinger, an aspiring event planner, or just here for the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is a laugh-out-loud, learn-a-lot look at what it takes to run the sexiest events on earth—without losing your mind (or your vibrator). What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Condom carnage and playroom clean-ups Conflict resolution and crying girls in the hallway Lifestyle myths: fact or fiction? Our ultimate swinger event survival kits (snacks, lube, Narcan, and more) How to be a better guest at lifestyle takeovers Gold-star hosting advice from three lifestyle veterans Useful Links from this Episode: Casual Swinger Podcast – https://casualswinger.com/ Libertine Events Miami Swingers Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Libertine Events San Antonio Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/ Support the show + get exclusive bonus content: 👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers Tags: Swinger Podcast, Swingers Lifestyle Events, Hotwife Lifestyle, Casual Swinger Podcast, Libertine Events, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, Swingers Hotel Takeover, Lifestyle Hosting, Behind the Scenes, Hedonism Events, Swinger Myths, Playroom Stories, Open Relationshi

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed. We hit up three different swingers clubs in three weeks, including CitySwingers in Copenhagen (a real let down), Party Players in the Netherlands (a sexy swingers club but not a swingers event), and finally the X Club in Toronto — where a hotwife glory hole scene played out in real-time. You’ll also hear about: What makes a club feel sexy (or not) Swingers vs. sex clubs: what’s the difference? Party diversity, drug culture at events, and the illusion of no-phone policies Cate’s secret hotwife escapade: from business-bitch lingerie to anonymous cock sucking Plus, we tease what’s ahead for Cap d’Agde, share a major Libertine Events milestone, and celebrate hitting 200 episodes without a single piña colada spilled on the mic. Cheers, you filthy animals. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Swingers Clubs Reviewed – CitySwingers (Copenhagen), Party Players (NL), and The X Club (Toronto) Dress Down Disasters – From mismatched underwear to sensory shutdowns Hotwife Glory Hole Fantasy – Cate and a stranger's cock, one hole, zero hesitation Diversity Wins – Why inclusive swinger parties feel better Behind the Curtain – Real talk on party rules, event polish, and the drug-vibe spectrum Useful Links from this Episode: Support Us + Access Exclusive Content - https://patreon.com/swingingdownunder X Club Tour on YouTube - https://youtu.be/YFmlAlm42E0?si=-h1iBPwUTnIVoI63 X Club Toronto Website - https://www.thexclub.net/ Party Players Lelystad (Netherlands) - https://partyplayers.nl/ CitySwingers Copenhagen (Denmark) - https://www.swingeren.dk/ Libertine Events – Swingers Takeovers & Parties - https://libertineevents.com Contact Us - [email protected]   Tags: Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Lifestyle, Glory Hole Story, Swingers Club Reviews, Wanderlust Swingers, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, Lifestyle Events, Open Relationships, Party Players, X Club Toronto, CitySwingers, Sex Club vs Swingers Club, Hotw

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all means for swingers navigating clubs, hotel takeovers, and multi-day events. We also update you on the notorious dildo from the last episode — yes, Cate used it. Was it sexy? Science-y? Did it cause a UTI? (Spoiler: yes to all of the above). Plus, you’ll hear about Cate’s surprise visit to a Canadian club, her puffed-up chipmunk face courtesy of the Dutch healthcare system, and a viral Facebook video that got her slapped with a ‘bullying’ violation. You can’t make this stuff up. Finally, we tackle a fantastic listener question: Why are we pickier on dating sites than in real life? Is it about spontaneity, judgment, or just too many filters? What you’ll hear in this episode: The Dildo Debrief – Cate puts the giant toy to the test (with help) and shares the honest, messy aftermath Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire – What it means, how to spot it in yourself or your partner, and how it plays out at lifestyle events Desire Mismatches – What to do when one partner is ready to pounce and the other needs time to warm up Listener Q&A – Why are we all trolls online? Cate reflects on being pickier in apps than IRL, and what that says about connection Be A Better Swinger Tips – Learn your desire style and how to meet each other in the middle (without pressure)   Links: Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com YouTube: Wanderlust Swingers on YouTube Libertine Events – Texas Takeover: https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio Email: [email protected] Support us & see the uncensored dildo pics: patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Are you spontaneous or responsive? Tell us what turns you on, how you navigate mismatched desire with your partner, or what you’ve learned in your own lifestyle journey — we love hearing your stories and insights. Tags: Spontaneous Desire, Responsive Desire, Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Lifestyle, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Events, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotel Takeovers, Sex Toy Reviews, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Club Tips, Group Play, Swingers Communication, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Desire Mismatch, Cap d’Agde, Sexual Compatibility

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP198 – Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!) and while we only touch on that wild weekend, we’re diving deep into what’s really heating things up: our return to Cap d’Agde in 2025, a brand new sex toy, and Darrell’s spicy fantasy. In this episode, Darrell receives a mystery box that leaves Cate both suspicious and very curious. Spoiler alert: it’s a new toy — but it’s not one we’ve ever used before. Unboxing it live kicks off a conversation about impulse sexy buys, techy pleasure, and how this toy might play into fantasy fufillment. We’re also answering a great listener question from a hotwife couple in New Zealand: How do you make small talk in the lifestyle when talking about work and kids feels out of place? From flirting in loud clubs to deep connection at weekend events, we’ve got practical tips, sexy one-liners, and a few hilarious fails to share. And finally — we’re going back to the Naked City! Cap d’Agde 2025 is on the horizon and we’re already fantasizing about beachside play, group massages, and balcony sex in the hot Mediterranean sun. This isn’t just a trip — it’s a sexual state of mind.   What you’ll hear in this episode: Mystery Box Reveal: Darrell’s new toy arrives and Cate’s imagination runs wild Lifestyle Small Talk: Flirty questions, fun energy, and how to connect without asking about someone’s 9–5 Cap d’Agde Desires: Why we’re going back and what (or who) we want to do when we get there Darrell’s Fantasy: How we're fulfilling it without putting anyone at risk Be A Better Swinger Tips: Mindset matters — whether it’s packing for Cap or chatting up couples at a club   Links: Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers Libertine Events – Texas Takeover: https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio Email: [email protected]   Are you coming to Cap d’Agde in 2025? Do you have a fantasy you’re dying to try? Or want to see what was in the box? Drop us a line — we love hearing from you!   Tags: Cap d’Agde, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Lifestyle, Sex Toy Reviews, Fantasy Play, Open Relationships, Swingers Club Tips, Lifestyle Small Talk, Hotel Takeovers, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Libertine Events, Voyeurism, Group Play, New Sex Toys

How does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey? Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening. In this vulnerable and powerful episode, Cate is joined by trauma-informed coach Meshai from Expansive Connection to explore what happens when past trauma meets lifestyle play. Cate also shares her personal experience with sexual trauma — opening up publicly for the first time. Whether you’re navigating your own healing, supporting a partner, or just want to be a more compassionate and informed member of the lifestyle, this conversation is essential. What we cover: ✔ What sexual trauma looks like in lifestyle spaces ✔ Common triggers during play or events ✔ What partners and playmates need to understand ✔ Cate’s story ✔ How to create trauma-aware swinger environments ✔ Supporting survivors without needing every detail ✔ Why trauma must be part of the conversation ✔ Real tools for safer play and stronger connections   Resources & Support: 1800Respect – www.1800respect.org.au | 1800 737 732 RAINN – www.rainn.org | 800-656-HOPE Rape Crisis UK – www.rapecrisis.org.uk SurvivorsUK (for men) – www.survivorsuk.org Let’s talk about it. Share this episode with your partner, club community, or friends in the lifestyle. The more we talk, the safer we all become. Join us in Texas https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/  Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com Instagram https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder  Twitter https://twitter.com/swingdownunder  TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShamelessNonMonogamywithSDU  Tags: Sexual Trauma, Swinger Lifestyle, Trauma-Informed Play, Non-Monogamy, Consent Culture, PTSD and Sex, Ethical Swinging, Open Relationships, Trauma Support, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Cate and Darrell revisit soft swap play for the first time in seven years — and it happened at none other than Fun4Two, the iconic swingers club in the Netherlands. What started as a night out turned into a wildly sensual experience filled with connection, chemistry, a six-handed massage… and yes, some cum on the floor. We explore the dynamics of soft swap play, the assumptions people make about it, and whether full swap couples are missing out by skipping over these intimate encounters. Cate also makes a hilarious faux pas, and offers a boss-level club tour move, and together they reflect on how chemistry can totally eclipse categories. Here’s what you’ll hear: 🔹 The Night at Fun4Two: From flirting at the bar to hands-on tantra and one unforgettable group experience 🔹 Soft Swap Revisited: Why it felt complete, hot, and unexpectedly fulfilling — even without PIV 🔹 Redefining the Rules: Thoughts on how vague soft swap definitions can create confusion and missed connections 🔹 Club Tips: How to stand out in a room full of lingerie and boots  🔹 Red Flags, Green Flags & Play Pitfalls: Advice for newbies and seasoned swingers alike 🔹 Listener Reflections: Juicy comments from the community about the pros and cons of soft swap dynamics Plus, life updates! Cate’s heading to Miami, Darrell’s off to South Korea, and someone just turned 40… but we’re not talking about that, okay? Links: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us in Texas this October - Libertine Events : https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio   Is soft swap the underrated gem of the swinger world? Rediscover it with us in this sexy, playful, and thought-provoking episode.   Tags: Soft Swap, Swinger Club Play, Full Swap vs. Soft Swap, Fun4Two, Swinger Podcast, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Stories, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Tips, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Non-Monogamous Adventures

In this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth. Only five months into a three-year lease, the club is now in the midst of a legal and political battle that raises serious questions about privacy, zoning laws, and stigma against non-monogamous communities. Steve shares what really happened, how it’s affecting the club and its members, and what the community can do to support. This episode goes beyond local politics—it's a wake-up call for everyone in the lifestyle. “This story isn’t just about one club in one town—it’s about how adult freedom, privacy, and community values clash in the real world. Whether you're in Connecticut or California, we all have a stake in the lifestyle's right to exist safely and respectfully.” ~ Cate, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast In this episode, we cover: What Wicked Fun Club is and who it serves The zoning issue and cease and desist order Tensions between the club, the landlord, and the neighboring church The broader impact on lifestyle members and safe spaces The current appeal process What support is needed from the non-monogamous community How this story affects the lifestyle space nationwide Links and Resources: Wicked Fun Club Website: https://wickedfunclub.com News article on the shutdown: NBC Connecticut Reddit review thread: r/Swingers discussion Learn about club rights: https://ncsfreedom.org Stay Connected: Instagram: @swingingdownunder Twitter: @swingdownunder Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com Enjoying the show? Please subscribe, share, and leave us a review wherever you listen. Your support helps amplify important conversations like this one.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories In this thought-provoking episode of Wanderlust Swingers, Cate and Darrell dive deep into the Scarcity vs. Abundance mindset in the swinger lifestyle. Are your decisions driven by FOMO, settling, or a fear of limited options? From personal stories to juicy Reddit replies, we’re unpacking how scarcity might be shaping your lifestyle journey—and how to play smarter. Here’s what you’ll hear: Scarcity in Action: We explore real-life examples of scarcity driving decisions, like late-night hookups or compromises in smaller communities. Is it really scarcity, or just circumstance? Reddit’s Take: Hear insightful comments from the swinger community, from taking one for the team to how the internet changed the game. Cate & Darrell’s Journey: Personal stories about early scarcity-driven decisions and how they’ve embraced abundance over the years. Playing Smart: Practical tips for shifting your mindset, setting boundaries, and finding joy in the journey—whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger. Plus, life updates! Cate’s got new boobs, travel plans to the USA for Christmas, and some cheeky listener messages that’ll make you smile. Links: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers Wanderlust Swingers: www.wanderlustswingers.com Miami Libertine Event: libertineevents.com/miami Ready to overcome FOMO and embrace abundance in your lifestyle journey? Join us for another sexy, fun, and insightful episode! Tags: Scarcity Mindset, Swinger Couples, FOMO in Swinging, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Tips, Swinger Podcast, Open Relationships, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Swinger Events, Non-Monogamous Adventures.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Join us for a cheeky bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! Darrell has been up to mischief, creating a Feeld dating profile as Cate, and now he’s sharing all the juicy details. This hilarious and insightful episode uncovers the secrets to navigating Feeld for hotwives in the swinger lifestyle. Here's what you’ll hear: The Feeld Experiment: Darrell dives into his surprise project, managing Cate’s profile on Feeld and filtering through over 1,300 likes. Learn how he whittled down the matches and what got some users instantly unmatched. Top Tips for Men: Darrell shares the do’s and don’ts of crafting a Feeld profile that stands out, from avoiding boring bios to ditching the gym flex shots. The Hotwife Dynamic: With two dinner dates lined up for Cate, the couple reviews the remaining suitors to decide who’s worth chatting with, dating, or more. Did Darrell nail Cate’s taste? Tune in to find out! Links: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers  Wanderlust Swingers: www.wanderlustswingers.com Miami Libertine Event: libertineevents.com/miami Want more sexy stories and lifestyle tips? Check out our events and podcast for your next non-monogamous adventure! Tags: Hotwife Lifestyle, Feeld Dating Tips, Swinger Couples, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Adventures, Feeld Secrets, Open Relationship Stories, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Lifestyle Dating Apps, Non-Monogamy Profiles.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Join us for a jam-packed episode of Wanderlust Swingers as we dive into the highlights from the Libertine Events San Antonio Senses takeover! This episode features three incredible interviews with special guests who share their unique perspectives and experiences from the event. Jason and Sarah: Midwest-based hosts who joined Libertine for the first time as guest hosts. Hear about their role in hosting mingle games, how Sarah embraced a daring electric play demonstration with over 100 participants, and their tips for resetting energy at high-energy lifestyle events. Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University Podcast: Reflecting on Libertine's growth since Palm Springs in 2022, Ed and Phoebe share their impressions of the event's vibe, their favorite playrooms, and what sets Libertine Events apart in the lifestyle community. Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching: A specialist in coaching for non-monogamous individuals, Kel and her partner Meshai hosted an engaging edutainment session on crafting elevator pitches and handling rejection with grace. We discuss balancing work and play at lifestyle events and preview their upcoming jealousy workshop in January, focusing on dynamics with play partners. From electric play to meaningful connections, this episode offers a deep dive into the experiences that make Libertine Events so memorable. It’s a longer episode filled with insights, laughter, and a touch of sensual energy, thanks for hanging in there and listening to us! Jason and Sarah: [01:58] Mingle games and crowd energy Electric play demonstration highlights Tips for recharging your "power bar" Ed and Phoebe: [00:33:31] Libertine Events' evolution since 2022 Event atmosphere + the feel of the group Their favorite playrooms Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching: [1:00:35] Crafting elevator pitches and handling rejection Balancing hosting duties and personal enjoyment Sneak peek into the January jealousy workshop  Links Jealousy Workshop with Expansive Connection https://mailchi.mp/2116d78e5e3b/jealousyworkshop Swanky Unicorn Lifestyle Shirts https://swankyunicorn.com/  Swinger University website https://www.swingeruniversity.com/  Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Want to connect with like-minded couples? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: <a href='https:/

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories The DTF Spectrum: Are Down to F*ck Couples Just More Fun? In this solo episode, Cate dives into a hot debate among swingers today: the phenomenon of “DTF” couples. Inspired by a lively discussion on Reddit, Cate unpacks the various interpretations of being “down to fuck” and how it impacts connections in the lifestyle. From couples who prefer a straight-to-the-fun approach to those with a selective DTF style, Cate explores why some embrace the label while others feel it’s misunderstood. Episode Highlights: What Does It Mean to Be “DTF” in the Lifestyle? Cate explores what it truly means to be a DTF couple, sharing both her thoughts and feedback from the lifestyle community on why this term is more complex than it sounds. The Red & Green Flags of DTF Couples Cate breaks down red flags that DTF couples should watch for, along with green flags that suggest this style may be the perfect fit. She shares insights into keeping experiences positive and aligned with personal values. How to Avoid Common Pitfalls & Clarify What You Want Clear communication is key in the swinger lifestyle. Cate provides tips on avoiding common DTF pitfalls, explaining how to openly define what you’re looking for to save time and find the right connections. Lessons Learned: Whether you're new to the concept or an experienced DTF couple, Cate highlights how to find your sweet spot on the DTF spectrum. This episode offers a fresh, judgment-free look at spontaneity, selectiveness, and the power of clear intentions. Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Want to connect with like-minded couples? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/   Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, DTF Couples, Spontaneous Swingers, Lifestyle Pitfalls, Navigating Non-Monogamy, Red Flags in Swinging, Swingers Boundaries, Open Communication, Sex-Positive Lifestyle, Wanderlust Swingers

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Having Sex In A Maze, Swingers Café + Kama Sutra Beurs In this adventurous episode, Cate and Darrell finally attend the sex-positive Kama Sutra Beurs in their hometown of Utrecht, diving into an experience that’s both eye-opening and outrageous! After years of planning to attend, they explore every part of the convention, from a bustling Swingers Café to a surprise maze encounter that gets steamy. Cate and Darrell share each hilarious and unexpected moment as they navigate this European sex convention and its anything-goes vibe. Episode Highlights: The Swingers Café and Convention Scene Cate and Darrell give their impressions of the event, including shopping for unique finds (costumes made from used tires, anyone?) and an intriguing encounter at the café where anything goes. Exploring the Maze They step into a maze filled with dark corners, hidden rooms, and unexpected surprises. Things heat up as Cate and Darrell put the secluded spaces to good use, and D shares his thoughts on the curious onlookers. Sex Conventions in Different Countries They compare the Netherlands' open atmosphere to conventions in Australia and the USA, reflecting on the unique setup and freedom found at European sex-positive events. Lessons Learned: Whether it’s surprising moments in a sex maze or learning about different swinger cultures, this episode is packed with laughs, honest observations, and real-life stories from the world of sex-positive gatherings. Cate and Darrell share what it’s really like to explore a European sex convention and enjoy the freedom to be themselves. Conclusion: Tune in to join Cate and Darrell on their latest adventure, filled with humor, a little public play, and their favorite highlights from Kama Sutra Beurs. And stay tuned for the next episode for more lifestyle tips and stories from your Wanderlust Swingers team! Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Ready to join the action? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/ Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Sex Convention, Sex Maze Adventure, Swingers Café, European Sex Positive Events, Kama Sutra Beurs, Exploring Swinger Culture, Public Play, Netherlands Sex Convention, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Stories

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast Failed Pool Parties, Ghosting, and More   In this playful yet candid episode, Cate and Darrell tackle the less-than-glamorous side of the swinger lifestyle, where best-laid plans don’t always work out! From a last-minute pool party flop to a local single who ghosted us on a date, we’re digging into what happens when expectations don’t match reality. Join us as we explore how swinging can sometimes go sideways, and how to handle those “swinger fails” with humor and grace.   Episode Highlights: The Pool Party That Wasn’t: We recount our experience at the last Naked Pool Party of the season at Fata Morgana in the Netherlands. Spoiler alert: the vibes and crowd were a bit different from what we’re used to! Ghosted and Let Down: We were stood up by a local single Darrell arranged a date with, and we’ll share our take on handling lifestyle no-shows, plus a few laughs about Cate betting Darrell that he’d still try to message afterward. Finding Our Place in the Lifestyle: How meeting a new, young couple reminded us of our early days and the highs and lows of finding your footing in the scene.   Handling Swinger Fails: Not every event will be perfect, and that’s okay! We’re here to help you embrace the unpredictability of the lifestyle with some real-life lessons, stories, and tips for bouncing back. Whether you’ve been ghosted, found yourself at a dud event, or just need a reminder to laugh at the unexpected, this episode is all about learning to go with the flow and keep things fun.   Conclusion: Tune in for the good, the awkward, and the downright hilarious moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. And, as always, stay tuned for more stories, tips, and adventures from your Wanderlust Swingers team!   Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Ready to join the action? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/   Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Pool Party Fails, Ghosting in the Lifestyle, Swinger Date Etiquette, Finding Your Tribe, Swingers Community, Lifestyle Realities, Humor in Swinging, Handling Disappointment, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Events in the Lifestyle

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Guilty By Association In The Swingers Lifestyle In this eye-opening episode, Cate teams up with Mickey and Mallory from Casual Swinger to dive deep into the lesser-known pitfalls of the swinger lifestyle. Ever wondered how social media connections or your choice of friends could impact your reputation in the community? This episode covers it all. From unknowingly outing yourself on Facebook to navigating the fine line between finding your tribe and being guilty by association, we explore how your social circle can shape your swinger journey—both positively and negatively. Get ready for practical tips, wild stories, and some hard truths about protecting your privacy and reputation in the lifestyle! Episode Highlights: Outing Yourself on Social Media: Cate, Mickey, and Mallory discuss how social media algorithms can expose your swinger connections to your vanilla friends, and what you can do to protect yourself from accidentally outing your lifestyle choices online. Staying Safe Online: Tips on managing privacy settings, using separate profiles for the lifestyle, and avoiding the common mistakes that can get you “outed” on Facebook and other platforms. Your Tribe IS Your Vibe: Finding your tribe in the lifestyle can be empowering, but what happens when your tribe’s reputation is less than stellar? The trio dives into how being associated with the wrong group can tarnish your image and limit your opportunities at events. Event Etiquette & Rule-Breakers: If your friends break event rules, you might face the fallout, even if you did nothing wrong. Cate, Mickey, and Mallory discuss how to navigate tricky situations and distance yourself from bad behavior, ensuring your reputation stays intact. Guilty by Association – Lessons Learned: Whether it’s online privacy, social group dynamics, or event drama, this episode is packed with tips and insights on how to steer clear of being guilty by association in the swinger lifestyle. Cate and the Casual Swinger duo share their best advice for maintaining your individuality and protecting your standing in the community. Conclusion: Don’t let your connections define your reputation. Tune in to hear real-life stories and strategies for thriving in the swinger lifestyle while keeping your privacy and reputation intact. Be sure to check out upcoming episodes and events for more tips and sexy stories from the Wanderlust Swingers team! Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Ready to join the action? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swi

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Cocksucking Train, Electrical Play & More with Jason and Sarah Cate sits down with Jason and Sarah, a couple from the Upper Midwest, who share their bold journey into the swinging lifestyle after ten years of monogamy. From a surprising encounter with a stripper in Las Vegas to getting yanked into their first threesome, this episode covers all the bases of a wild and memorable adventure. Jason and Sarah get candid about how they embrace sensory play, including electrical stimulation, and why Jason calls himself an overthinker, but still manages to dive headfirst into all the excitement. Get ready for foam pits, sexy trains, and a few life lessons along the way! Episode Highlights: Their First Threesome: Hear the details of how Jason and Sarah were suddenly pulled into a threesome for their first lifestyle experience, and how it all went down. Foam Pit Fun: A line-up of men, a foam pit, and a cock-sucking train—Jason and Sarah spill the details on this unforgettable experience. Sensory Play Exploration: They open up about their love for sensory play, including using violet wands, flogging, and spanking, sharing how these experiences have deepened their connection. Lifestyle Events in the Upper Midwest: How do lifestyle events in their region differ from others across the country? Jason and Sarah talk about hotel takeovers and their favorite sexy travels. Sexy Stories & Sensory Play: From steamy playrooms to sensory explorations, Jason and Sarah give listeners a peek into their bold and daring experiences at lifestyle events, along with a few sexy mishaps that taught them valuable lessons. Lessons Learned: Overthinking in the lifestyle? Jason, the self-proclaimed A+ overthinker, talks about how to quiet those thoughts and dive into bold new experiences. Plus, the couple shares the importance of learning from your "oops" moments and how it has shaped their approach to the lifestyle. Conclusion: Would they recommend taking the plunge into swinging for other couples? Jason and Sarah offer advice for newcomers, and Cate wraps up with some great tips for those interested in sensory play. Join us for this wild ride and don’t forget to check out more upcoming episodes and events! See more of Sarah and Jason here on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder    Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Looking to experience a hotel takeover? Join Libertine Events for upcoming takeovers in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami 16-19th May, 2025 https://libertineevents.com/miami/  Join

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Unicorn Hall Pass Spicy Island In this episode, Cate takes us on a wild adventure as she heads to Spicy Island for a full island takeover in Croatia, embracing her role as a unicorn with a hall pass. From cheeky playroom encounters to naked swims under the stars, this episode is packed with fun stories, poolside masturbation, and flirty moments. But was Cate as slutty as she and Darrell had hoped? Let’s find out! Episode Event Highlights: Poolside Fun: Masturbation, cheeky playroom kisses, and a magical naked swim under the stars. Steamy Encounters: Kissing a guy in the playroom... Unicorn Vibes: Cate danced solo during Steampunk Night before friends joined in, and she enjoyed playing games like motorboating and card games. Two days of sun-soaked fun on VIP beds, with Cate kissing multiple partners and even using a communal vibrator poolside. Sensual touch games, including ice and kisses, plus the frustrations of people not participating in a fun conga line. Conclusion: Would Cate Go Back? Hear her thoughts on whether she’d return to Spicy Island and who she would recommend it to. Is It Worth the Money? Cate breaks down the value of the event and offers tips for future attendees. Exclusive Bonus Content - Hear what Darrell had to say to Cate before she left for Spicy Island, join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder  2025 European Events Spicy Island Week 1 https://www.spicymatch.com/events/50000/?edc=Libertine  Spicy Island Week 2 https://www.spicymatch.com/events/50001/?edc=libertine  Join Cate and Libertine as they takeover France and Cap D'Agde https://libertineevents.com/france/  New Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com     Tags: Unicorn Hall Pass, Spicy Island, Swingers Island Takeover, Swingers Lifestyle, Poolside Masturbation, Naked Swimming, Steampunk Party, Spicy Match, Swingers Tips, Hotwife Lifestyle, Island Takeover Review, Swingers Adventure, Swingers Event in Croatia, Hall Pass Experience.

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories UK Swingers Takeover Vanilla Alternative In this electrifying episode, Cate takes you inside the unforgettable UK Swingers Takeover at the Vanilla Alternative, a night bursting with neon vibes, sultry playrooms, and a dance floor that didn't quit until the early hours. Cate recounts every detail of the weekend, sharing the highs, the laughs, and the tips to make the most out of such a thrilling event. Event Highlights: Neon Dreams: From a packed dance floor to playful antics in the UV-lit playrooms, the night was a non-stop party. Mingle Games: Ice-breaking moments with games like the Sock Game and Table Hockey kept the energy high and guests engaged. Photographic Memories: Cate, alongside Kitten and Wolf from Spicy Match, hosted a photography session capturing the vibrant energy of the event. Before the Club: Pre-Event Setup: Cate’s behind-the-scenes look at setting up the event, from organizing a breakfast mingle to coordinating a dance lesson with Keri Gold. Mingle Sessions: A mix of games and social interactions on Friday set the tone for a weekend of fun and connection. The Takeover at Vanilla Alternative: The Journey: A fun-filled bus ride to VA set the stage for a night of adventure. Lux Lounge & Fire Pit: Cate shares her experiences at these popular hangout spots, plus the challenges of catching Keri Gold’s performance. Glow Fashion: Cate’s thoughts on the 80s-inspired Neon UV outfits, Mrs. H's take on the glow outfits, and a special mention of the infamous "Neon Dick" that became a party highlight. Playroom Adventures: With the playrooms heaving with excitement, Cate describes the steamy encounters that unfolded. Mentioned: Vanilla Alternative UK Swingers Club: https://va2.co.uk  Spicy Match: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=WanderlustSwingers  Our New Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com Support Us: Love the show? Consider supporting us on Patreon for exclusive content and live podcasts, starting at just $1 a month. Join us on Patreon and become part of the Wanderlust Swingers community. https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder    UK Swingers, Vanilla Alternative, Swingers Event Recap, Swingers Lifestyle, Neon UV Party, Glow Party, Swingers Tips, Hotwife Lifestyle, Playroom Etiquette, Swingers Event Planning, Lux Lounge Experience.

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast In this episode, we dive deep into the experience of attending the exclusive Killing Kittens Mansion Party in April 2024, a highly anticipated event known for its luxury, sophistication, and sensual ambiance. Did it live up to the hype? We're spilling all the tea, from the venue's opulence to the social dynamics, costs, and whether we think it was worth the money. Plus, we'll share Darrell's solo play experience and offer tips for those considering attending such events in the future. Venue & Atmosphere + Attendees & Social Dynamics: Explore the diverse crowd, the black-tie dress code, and how the theme created a classy and sexy environment. We break down the demographics, including the prevalence of newbies and those with experience in the lifestyle. Planned Events: Overview of the meet-and-mingle activities, ice-breaking events, and the overall flow of the evening. Bar & Food Services: Insights into the bar offerings, including drink prices and the unfortunate long wait times, plus a note on the absence of food options. Playrooms: A look at the well-maintained, sensual play spaces Personal Experiences / Memorable Interactions: Highlights of our interactions with other attendees, sharing some of the most interesting and engaging moments of the night. Costs & Value for Money: We break down the costs involved, from tickets to accommodation, and assess whether the event offers good value for money. Spoiler: It’s not cheap! Tips for Future Attendees: Practical advice for those considering attending a Killing Kittens event or similar parties. We cover everything from pre-event preparation and setting boundaries to navigating the night with respect and consent. Pros & Cons: Pros: The luxurious setting, sexy ambiance, and high-quality interactions. Cons: Issues with mask comfort, a DJ playlist that missed the mark Would We Go Back? Our honest take on whether we would return to another Killing Kittens event and who we think would benefit most from attending. Mentioned Killing Kittens https://www.killingkittens.com/  Killing Kittens Mansion Party Review BLOG https://wanderlustswingers.com/killing-kittens-review-mansion-party/  New Website https://wanderlustswingers.com/  Support Us Wanna help us out and support the show? We’d love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month for exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us on Patreon. Love, Peace, and Respect, C&D   Killing Kittens Mansion Party Review, UK Swingers Party, Luxury Lifestyle Eve

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Behind the Scenes with Mallory from Casual Swinger: Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover Get ready for a fun, sexy, and behind-the-scenes look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover with special guest host Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast! We spent a few wild days in an Airbnb before the event, filled with swimming, drinking, dancing, and karaoke. In this episode, we dive into: Pre-Event Adventures: Our crazy time together in the Airbnb. During the Event: Highlights including the playroom, dancing, blaze the male dancer and Mallory licking Cate's face Post-Event Wrap-Up: Packing up and funny stories from the process. Collaboration and Support: How we support and promote each other’s events around the world. Upcoming Events: A sneak peek into the Miami 2025 event and the Casual Swinger Week in March/April 2025 where I’ll be a guest host. Join us for an entertaining and informative episode filled with personal stories, laughter, and exciting event details! Mentioned Upcoming Events https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/  Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover 2025 https://libertineevents.com/miami/  Jamaica Casual Swinger Week 2025: https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2  Support Us Wanna help us out and support the show? We’d love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month for exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us on Patreon. Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters, and swinging lifestyle resources: Swinging Down Under. Love, Peace, and Respect, C&D

Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover: Behind the Scenes and Beyond Get ready for an inside look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover! Join us as we share the excitement, fun, and unique experiences from this unforgettable event. We start with an overview of what made the Miami takeover special, followed by a break to tell a sexy story from the event, and wrap up with our top tips for newcomers and future events. In this episode, we dive into the planning and logistics, the vibrant atmosphere, and the standout fashion and activities. Plus, hear personal stories and memorable moments that will give you a true taste of the event. Mentioned Libertine Events Swingers Hotel Takeovers https://libertineevents.com/  Global Swingers Events 2024 + 2025 https://www.wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/  bed hoppers Podcast https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/  Support Us Wanna help us out and support the show? We’d love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month for exclusive content and live podcasts https://www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder    Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters, and swinging lifestyle resources  https://wanderlustswingers.com/    Love, Peace, and Respect,   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast DoxyPEP STI Prevention - Swingers Health Vol 7 In this episode of Swingers Health, we delve into the world of sexual health and explore a groundbreaking method for preventing sexually transmitted infections (STIs) within the non-monogamous community: DoxyPEP. Join us as we unravel the science behind DoxyPEP, its application as a post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP), and its implications for modern sexual health practices. What is DoxyPEP? DoxyPEP, short for doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis, is a revolutionary approach to STI prevention. Our discussion begins with a comprehensive overview of DoxyPEP's mechanism of action and its role as a PEP for STIs. We explore the scenarios where DoxyPEP becomes a valuable tool in preventing STIs, considering both risks and benefits. Is bareback penetration play the only form of exposure? Our guest expert Robert sheds light on this critical question. Treatment Swingers Lifestyle Medical Support STi Testing + ED medication https://shamelesscare.com/   Use code Libertine to get $30 USD off  DoxyPEP at Shameless Care https://shamelesscare.com/preventative-treatments/  Dr Stoehr https://www.nurturewomenshealth.com/provider/angela-r-stoehr-md-facog  Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/ Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hote

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Let's Get Spicy Welcome to a Bonus Episode of the Wanderlust Swingers Podcast featuring our friends Mr and Mrs H from the bed hoppers Podcast in the UK. Spicy Island Takeover by Spicy Match We're heading to the Spicy Match Swingers Island takeover in July called Spicy Island for week 2 of their takeover. We have been before but this is Mr and Mrs H first time in Croatia, first time at a swingers event this size and first time at a Spicy Match takeover. We run through some questions with them, some advice, talk about preparation and what to expect.  How many people they'll play with in a day... Darrell wants all the tea on the number of people that they want to play with in a day, Cate gives some advice on making sure you mingle (in it to win it style) and we discuss what they most fear and what they're most excited about.  Join us on Spicy Island, Swingers Island takeover for week 2 Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Use our code above for a 10% discount and join our tribe! Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover    Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swinger Friends In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of "Pants On / Off Swinger Friends," a dynamic that blurs the lines between friendship and sexual exploration within the swinging lifestyle. Pants On / Off Friendships The Pros Explore the freedom and excitement of maintaining close friendships while also enjoying the benefits of sexual intimacy. Foster a deeper level of trust and understanding between partners and friends. Experience heightened sexual pleasure through the comfort and familiarity of established relationships. Pants On / Off Friendships The Cons Navigate potential emotional complexities and jealousy within friendships and romantic relationships. Struggle with blurred boundaries and the risk of misunderstanding or miscommunication. Manage the delicate balance between maintaining friendships and managing expectations in a swinging context. Is the Swingers Lifestyle Approach for you? Consider your own desires, boundaries, and comfort levels when contemplating this unique approach. Discover whether you thrive in an environment of openness, trust, and shared exploration. Evaluate whether you and your partner(s) are equipped to navigate the challenges and rewards of Pants On / Off Swinger Friendships. Join us as we dissect the nuances of this intriguing relationship dynamic and offer insights into who might find it fulfilling and who might prefer to steer clear.   Mentioned Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover    Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Date Ideas Get ready to spice up your dating game with swingers date ideas. Firstly, we share what we think a date in the swingers lifeestyle is, then we take a break and tell a sexy story before sharing our top 5 tips to creating sexy swingers dates. In this episode, we're dishing out hot tips for picking the perfect date spots, from quirky outings to steamy soirées, join us as we reveal the secrets to sizzling swingers' adventures.  Swingers Foursome Play  In the middle of our date episode and the date that sparked this entire conversation is our Swingers Foursome Date in Amsterdam that ended in a fun, flirty play session in their fancy hotel. Cate talks about how comfortable she was with her body and why her jaw is now sore. We talk about being the perfect sexual wing person and why you really need to up your game when it comes to physical play barriers.  Curious about swingers foursomes and couple swaps? Let's chat.   Mentioned Bar Rouge Amsterdam https://www.barrouge.nl/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover    Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Health Vol 6 - Mental Health The Swingers Lifestyle is exciting, there are all these fun parties, costumes and new emotions to play with. But there is also the reality that with these new emotions and new experiences we need to consider what impact this might have on us, our primary relationship and the other people. In today's epsiode we're diving into the fascinating world of nonmonogamy,we’re going to dig into communication, boundaries, conflict resolution and more. She wants something, he doesn’t… how the f**k do we move forward?! Swingers Communication You know what the cliché is .. communicate, communicate, communicate Yeah ok but… really? Let’s get into it. What are the intricacies of effective communication, setting boundaries, and maintaining open and honest conversations. Resentment in the Swingers Lifestyle Let’s shift our focus to addressing the inevitable challenges in the swingers lifestyle. How do we deal with resentment and misunderstandings. We’re going to explore common sources of tension, strategies for conflict resolution, and tips for fostering a positive relationship environment Links Expansive Connection website https://expansiveconnection.com/enm  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/expansive.connection.coaching  Twitter https://twitter.com/expanconnect Pursue and Withdraw cycle https://drkimblackham.com/understanding-the-pursue-withdraw-cycle    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today we’re interviewing Jem and Daz, UK Swingers that seem like any other couple. They have kids, they go to the gym together, they lead normal lives. But that relationship was broken according to Jem and Daz and Swinging Saved Their Relationship. Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers We’ve all heard creators, bloggers, podcasters… random swingers on the sidewalk give the advice not to enter the lifestyle if your relationship or relationship is suffering ‘’don’t swing unless you have a good foundation’’, ‘’don’t swing to save your relationship." Let's break down the taboo   The Ups and Downs of the Swingers Lifestyle Let's talk about the realities of swinging. It's not always smooth sailing. How do you navigate the highs and lows?   Links for this episode Jem and Daz Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jemanddaz   Jem and Daz Twitter https://twitter.com/jemanddaz  Jem and Daz TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jem.daz  Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine  Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Get ready for an intimate and revealing episode as Darrell, your host, turns the tables and interviews Cate about hosting a Swingers Hotel Takeover in the sizzling city of Miami. Tune in now for a conversation that goes beyond the surface and into the heart of the Swingers Hotel Takeover experience. Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami In this candid conversation, delve into the ins and outs of organizing the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover in 2023. From the initial inspiration to the unexpected challenges faced, join us for an unfiltered exploration of the behind-the-scenes world of the lifestyle community. The ins, outs and inner workings of running a Swingers Hotel Takeover Step into the shoes of Darrell as he bombards Cate with a series of unexpected and intriguing questions. From the whimsical to the downright curious, Darrell covers everything from the best moments to what went wrong during the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover. Brace yourself for an entertaining rollercoaster ride as we unravel the mysteries of what makes Cate want to masturbate at these events and discover the thrilling highs and inevitable lows of orchestrating an unforgettable experience in the world of Miami's libertine lifestyle.   Links for this episode - Libertine Events Swingers Hotel Takeovers https://libertineevents.com/  - Win a Prize Package to Libertine Events Miami https://swingershelp.com/libertine-giveaway/   - Meet and Greet in Brisbane https://www.opendoorqld.com.au/event-details-registration/logan-meet-n-greet  - Walkthrough the Casual Toys Penthouse Playroom https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0127OpuboT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==  - Get some custom made Lifestyle Costumes and Outfits https://www.instagram.com/thetherapeuticdandy/   - Hashtag Open Dating App for NonMonogamous People https://hashtagopen.onelink.me/iDmG/libertine  - Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine  - Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend.

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today I'm interviewing Ash and Russ aka That Hot Couple In GA on all social media platforms. We're going to be talking about their jouney and how they met at 22, started in a DOM / SUB relationship and eventually found the swingers lifestyle and now live out and proud with their faces on social media.    BDSM and The Swinging Lifestyle What do you know about the Dom/Sub relationship? Have you heard couples discuss their contracts and boundaries? Today we dig deep into Ash and Russ start in the kink lifestyle before moving into swinging. We talk about how their communication from BDSM assisted them in their initial journey. Spoiler Alert - they were DOXXED and we discuss how they lost friends and loved ones in the process   Health Journey and Body Positivity Having both lost over 100 pounds each (45kg for my metric friends) Ash and Russ know what it's like to be lacking in confidence to join the swingers lifestyle. We discuss how this health journey helped shape their lifestyle experience and what it truly means to be comfortable in your skin. I put them on the hot seat and I ask if they are portraying a healthly lifestyle for those looking in on social media.... let's see what they have to say!     Links for this episode - Find Ash and Russ on Social Media here https://linktr.ee/Thathotcoupleinga   - Choking 101 Mens Health https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26471117/choking-during-sex/  - Choking 101 Sex With Emily https://sexwithemily.com/choking-etiquette-101/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today I'm interviewing Mr Dutchie, one half of an amazing couple that live in the Netherlands that we met through reddit of all places.  We're talking about the different approaches to nonmonogamy in Europe and how Mr and Mrs Dutchie have navigated their lifestyle journey.   Swinging In The Netherlands  Mr Dutchie walks us through their experience visiting one of the biggest clubs in Europe (Fun4Two), how culturally diverse this club is and what to expect.  We share a story or two about their adventures at Fun4Two over New Years and how consent can be gained through body language....    Mentioned in this episode  - Fun4Two Swingers Club Netherlands https://www.fun4two.nl/  - Fata Morgana Swingers Club Netherlands https://www.fata-morgana.nl/  - SDC Dating Site https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122  - Big Little Secrets BLS - https://biglittle-secrets.nl/en/  - Caviar De La Nuit https://www.caviardelanuit.com/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast We share all the details about our recent event in the UK for the first ever Swingers Hotel Takeover, Floor Crawl and Swingers Club Takeover of Penthouse Playrooms   UK Swingers Hotel Takeover We took over an entire 87 room hotel and share the details from the event in a mash up podcast called the Wanderhoppers Podcast (a PennyYoko Production) Find part 2 on the bed hoppers podcast https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/  Parties, buses, a floor crawl... what could go wrong  Come and meet the lord and lady of fucktown   Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast We share all the details about our recent event in Sicily with the team at Spicy Match. We shares the ins and outs of the event, some useful tips on how to make an event a success, what types of people attended this event and all the juicy details. We also share a story about Darrell playing solo in an orgy.... check it out. Cap En Sicile Cap En Sicile is inspired by the famous Cap D'Agde in Southern France. Spicy Match are literally bringing the Cap D'Agde scene to Sicily. The people, the music, the party! Including Pool parties by day, every day, and Themed Parties by night, every night....... bringing together the best DJ's and Erotic Acts from the Village Naturist in Cap d'Agde. Who Are Spicy Match? We make it simple for you to meet local swingers and track down a variety of swingers party options. Become a member so you can learn even more about the swing lifestyle. Join Spicy Match and find other like minded European Swingers https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=WanderlustSwingers and events Spicy Match Event Links Cap D'Agde July 2024 Season Spicy Match https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40577/?edc=Wanderlust Cap D'Agde August 2024 High Season Spicy Match https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40571/?edc=Wanderlust Spicy Island Swingers Island Takeover Spicy Match June https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40000/?edc=Wanderlust  Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Health Vol 5 - Vaginal Health and BV Keeping your Vaginal health at optimum levels is one of the most difficult things about the swingers lifestyle. Vulva owners need to deal with potential risks that extend outside of Sti’s and into general wellness and health which include Yeast Infections, Uti’s, BV, Thrush & more Vaginal Health You might not think these are sexy topics to talk about AND that is part of the problem, we’re too shamed to discuss this taboo topic and this leads to us thinking we’re the only one suffering and you're not! We talk about everything from pre and post swingers play vaginal health, maintaining a healthy vagina, pH balance and more. Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) in the Swingers Lifestyle Bacterial vaginosis (BV) is a condition that happens when there is too much of certain bacteria in the vagina. This changes the normal balance of bacteria in the vagina… Any woman can get bacterial vaginosis. Having bacterial vaginosis can increase your chance of getting an STD. Bacterial vaginosis is the most common vaginal problem for women and people assigned female at birth (AFAB) ages 15 to 44. In fact, about 30% of people with a vagina will get BV. The rate is higher if you’re Black. 21.2 million women in the USA are estimated to have BV right now. Links Wende practice in Arizona https://arizonaspecializedgynecology.com/ About Wende https://arizonaspecializedgynecology.com/wende-holt/ Beckee practice https://perspectivehealthllc.com/ Beckee email address [email protected] Probiotic Strain Recommendations:  L. Rhamnosus, L. Reuteri, Acdiophilus Clairvee by Bonafide highly recommended probiotic clear HERE to check it out on Amazon https://amzn.to/3Zb17Qu  Want to read more? Our good friends over at Swingers Help have a fantastic blog article about this very topic, you can check it out on their website including hundreds of other insightful and helpful posts. Check out the Swingers Help blog here https://swingershelp.com/bacterial-vaginosis-swinging-lifestyle/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Eve

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Health Vol 4 - Being Swinger Fit Let’s talk about being Swinger Fit, Insufficient activity kills 1.6 million people around the world each year, according to the World Health Organization. Cardiovascular and respiratory disease, cancer and diabetes is responsible for 81 per cent of all noncommunicable diseases globally, which accounts for 70 per cent of the world's deaths. Swinger Fit  What is Swinger Fit, we break it down through the episode and you'll be surprised to hear it's NOT about your physical appearance.  Be Your Best Self Being someone’s best self or being confident can mean different things to different people. With so many body shapes and types out there it’s hard to define what one person’s trash and another’s treasure is. Being confident at a swinger’s event or clothing optional resort is not something that many people have to consider. Links Naughty Gym Website https://www.naughtygym.com Use code SWINGERFIT to get your 1st month free, trial their community and health support for 30 days with no cost. You can cancel anytime. Naughty Gym Twitter https://twitter.com/NaughtyGym Naughty Gym Instagram https://www.instagram.com/naughty_gym Naughty Gym YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@TheNAUGHTYGYMShow Join Naughty Gym at Hedonism Resort January 6th-13th, 2024 at their Full Resort Takeover for Be Better At Being Bad Week https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad  Want to read more? Our good friends over at Swingers Help have a fantastic blog article about this very topic, you can check it out on their website including hundreds of other insightful and helpful posts. Check out the Swingers Help blog here https://swingershelp.com/staying-in-sexy-shape-at-home/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and s

We went to a Full Swingers Island Takeover with Spicy Match Swingers Island Yep, it's a brand new thing! Spicy Match took over an entire island in Croatia and filled it with 600 swingers for an event like no other. We break down how to survive the island, what we experienced, who went and who we think the event would suit. Who are Spicy Match? Spicy Match are a Swingers Dating site based out of Europe and they also host global events (mostly in Europe), they are synonymous with Cap D'Agde and the only people we recommend to party with if you're coming to many European destinations.  The First Of It's Kind This event and full swingers island takeover is the first of it's kind, we join in for the inaugural trip and we're in love with the vide and creation of this event. Yes, there was definately swingers wife swapping happening!  Links Spicy Match Swingers Dating Website & Swingers Events https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=WanderlustSwingers  Get Erectile Dysfunction Medication and STi Testing through Shameless Care (USA Only) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine ** use code Libertine to get a discount & freebies with Shameless Care **   Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D