The Mary Marantz Show

In this episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary sits down with author and overwhelm advocate Nichole Suvar to explore how to cultivate peace amid exhausting seasons by understanding Eden's 7 original characteristics. They discuss anxiety, control, perfectionism, and spiritual truths that help us find calm in a chaotic world as they dig into Nichole's BRAND NEW book, I Don't Have to Hold It All Together: Cultivating the Peace of Eden When Feeling Overwhelmed    Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/4fRp8GH   In this episode, you'll hear:   * Why the drive to control stems from a desire to restore Eden's perfection * The fascinating way our bodies are wired to reward the original design of Eden * The myth of the superhuman Christian calm and how to show up vulnerably * Why community is a spiritual necessity that combats loneliness and anxiety * The 7 characteristics of Eden that combat overwhelm * The 🤯 moment when Mary brings up that Eve was the original Eldest Daughter * and SO much more!

In this episode, Mary Marantz interviews Taneshia Yerby about overcoming fears, trusting God's plan, and walking confidently in your purpose, as they dig into her brand new book From Dreams to Drive. They discuss how to recognize your divine assignment, the importance of self-awareness, and practical, actionable steps to move from just dreaming about your goal to actually DOING the work…. all while cultivating a CEO mindset rooted in faith.   In this episode, you'll hear: Taneshia discusses the significance of trusting God's timing Breadcrumbs: She shares personal stories of self-publishing as a kid and how that seeded her purpose Identifying when you're truly on an assignment from God versus external influences Advice for those discovering their purpose later in life or through ongoing growth How to embrace your unique gifts, regardless of your personality traits like shyness or introversion Recognizing and trusting God's gentle nudges and orchestrations in your life Practical steps to develop a "CEO mindset" based on scripture, self-reflection, and prayer

In this episode, Mary sits down for a SECOND time with her long-time friend and fellow author + Mic Drop founder, Jess Ekstrom, to talk ALL about how external validation and proving people wrong will NEVER be the jet fuel that sustains us for the long haul as they dig into her BRAND NEW book Making It Without Losing It: How to Stay Motivated In a World Where We are Never Done. The two explore the true sources of motivation, how achievement can sometimes distance us from ourselves, and practical ways to stay inspired without losing our core identity. This episode offers insights for relentless achievers seeking balance and a sense of peace along the way. If you are someone who feels like you are NEVER done and every achievement you reach just opens your eyes to TEN more you aren't even close to yet… then THIS episode is for you! In this episode: The myth of external validation and why it's so fleeting How success can make you feel further from your authentic self The importance of intrinsic motivation and "the purpose test" Reframing achievement: The GAP is just the GAME I love to play The dangers of the Wanting Mind and relentless dopamine chasing Letting go of the "golden ticket" mentality: other people do not hold the keys to your future Lessons from high achievers like Lindsey Vonn and Olympic athletes on love for the game (and also "Win Depression") Practical steps to stay motivated and grounded in your purpose for the long haul And SO much more!

In this episode, Mary sits down for a second time with her friend and fellow author, Jason VanRuler, to explore how our past shapes our communication styles and Jason's brand new book Discovering Your Communication Type. They discuss the 5 communication types based on the PATHS model, how to recognize and adapt to different styles, and practical tools for building stronger, more authentic relationships. It is one thing to finally get the courage to SHOW UP and share your voice. But it is a whole other level to show up and speak to people in a way that meets them right where they are! In this episode, you'll hear: An introduction to the five communication types: Peacemaker, Advocate, Thinker, Harbor, Spark How childhood experiences influence these communication styles The strengths AND weaknesses of each type The importance of both self-awareness and empathy in communication The impact of stress on the 5 Types Strategies for speaking to different types effectively (what to say, what NOT to say!) The role of attachment theory in what people say How to meet others where they are without watering yourself down Practical questions to improve understanding during conversations … and SO much more!

In this episode Mary sits down for a second time with one of HER all-time favorite authors, Jon Acuff, as the two dive into practical strategies from his new book, Procrastination Proof: Never Get Stuck Again. Together they unpack how understanding the true roots of procrastination can set you free to live an impactful life. Whether you're a creator, entrepreneur, or someone tired of feeling stuck, this episode is packed with actionable insights & proven strategies to help you break free from procrastination once and for all! Grab your copy of Procrastination Proof and get STARTED today—your remarkable life awaits: https://amzn.to/4vg2kWk     In this episode, you'll hear:   Why Fear doesn't shout "NEVER," it simply whispers "Not yet" The importance of fighting fire with fire when it comes to procrastination's dopamine hits How urgency and deadlines can accelerate productivity and breakthrough moments The concept of the 'habit loop'—trigger, behavior, reward—and building systems to rewire them The four key permissions: Dream, Plan, Do, Review … and why they are total game-changers Overcoming society's narrative that personal responsibility is a dirty word How to leverage public failure and perceived judgment as fuel for motivation (without it becoming unhealthy) The difference between shortsighted fuels (like anger or shame) and sustainable fuels (like deep joy) The ultimate definition of a remarkable life: actions aligning with intentions and SO much more!

Show Notes: In a world that often celebrates perfection, many of us grapple with feelings of inadequacy, rejection, and the longing for belonging. On the way to BIG dreams there are often tables we are never invited to, doors that close right in our faces, and we already know we will have to endure "no" after "no" before we finally get the YES that will change our lives. In this episode of the Mary Marantz Show, I had the honor of sitting down with Tabitha Panariso, author of "Loyal in His Love: An Invitation to be Held by Jesus When Others Let You Go." Together, we delve into the complexities of chasing approval, confronting perfectionism as an armor of protection, and embracing the beauty of our imperfect journeys that are always right on time.    In this episode you'll discover:   *How our unseen rejection wounds shape everything we believe *That we are operating under a currency of confirmation bias: What we look for, we find *What it looks like to grieve the story you WISH you had *Why "resistance" is a truth teller *All the ways we abandon ourselves *Why belonging is wired right into us as humans for survival *Why the solution to rejection might in fact be MORE rejection *What we get so very WRONG about "Rejection is Redirection" *The importance of secure attachment and reparenting *and SO much more!

This week on The SHOW UP Season of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary sits down with Shannan Martin, author of Counterweights: An Essential Practice for Holding Hope in a Heavy World, to dive into showing up in the BOTH/AND of life… holding on to both the beauty and the horror of the world with both hands. The two talk about the power of community and practical ways to carry hope amid chaos. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the heaviness of the world, this episode if for YOU!     In this Episode, you'll hear: Why poet Rainer Maria Rilke once said, ""Life is very singularly made to surprise us...where it does not utterly appall us." What it means to "carry the cosmos" without slipping into carrying the weight of the world The counterintuitive Theory of Balance that tells us to carry something hard… carry something equally heavy in the other hand. Why Shannan doesn't believe in chasing traditional "life balance" but instead embraces a push/pull approach inspired by Chef David Chang's interplay of complex flavors How strange it can be to buy flowers in a world on FIRE The MANDATE for Joy Shannan prescribes us as necessary to continue fighting for the cause of humanity Why the parable of the scattered seeds in the Gospel of Mark went from a "me" story to an "US" story for Shannan The reminder from Shannan's son that Jesus is the "God on the Ground" and what we have to learn from that. ...and seriously SO much more!

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary explains an A-ha moment that changed everything for her… this realization that nonchalance is really just a SNEAKY sub-genre of procrastination. Drawing from her time in law school, Mary talks about those times when she wanted to turn around and go back rather than face down the Socratic method. We do that, don't we?  We get so afraid of failing, that we would rather not show up to our own lives at all present and accounted for... than risk showing up and getting it wrong. Than risk putting ourselves out there not knowing all the answers. So we swing to the OPPOSITE extreme. We still show up, but we pretend like we don't really care that much. Yea, yea… we're chasing that dream but if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. We begin to believe that if we reject the dream before it has a chance to reject us… then we'll never get our hearts broken. But all that ultimately leaves us with is… regret. Instead, we have to show up and have ZERO chill about the dreams we are building. That we GET to live a life like that. Even if that means we occasionally risk getting it wrong.

In this powerful episode of The Show Up Season of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary sits down with her dear friend, bestselling author and international speaker Antonio Neves, to talk about his latest book "The 1-Day Method: The Surprising Power of Winning One Day At a Time" and how it was born out of Antonio and his family losing their home and everything in it in the 2025 California wildfires. The two talk about how to stop living on autopilot, how to stop waiting on perfect to get started, and how to move forward one day at a time when life has put you in what feels like an impossible place.   In this episode, you'll hear all about:   * The Mathematics of Now: How most people get stuck in yesterday or tomorrow * What the Law of the Harvest has to do with how Chess Masters approach each tournament * Why your character KNOWS when you cut corners * How to WIN each day (which becomes your week, month and year) * The Power of doing LESS than we're capable of * Defining what will make this day MATTER * How we have to be counter-cultural to the complexity of these so-called "modern conveniences" *The PHYSICS of focus: your mind carries infinite possibilty but finite energy * The transformative power of closing loops * Why analog is the NEW luxury * … and SO much more!

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary tells us to SHOW UP and DO the WORK. Drawing on a recent Peloton ride where instructor Robin Arzon said "Your character knows when you cut corners," Mary does a deep dive into the cost of orginality, dealing with copycats & plagiarism, and what we get so very WRONG about "there is nothing new under the sun." From there she builds into the TWO RULES she learned in academia (law school in particular) to create original work: 1) You have to survey the landscape to see what has already been said and then 2) You have to move the conversation forward in meaninful way. Mary points to Harrison Ford's recent acceptance speech at his Lifetime Achievement Award at The SAG Actors and how he tells us how lucky he feels to STILL be doing the work over fifty years later. MOST people cut corners because they think it will get them to the goal faster. But it turns out the work IS the goal. The work is how we become someone WORTHY of celebrating.

To Join Launch Camp: https://tonicsiteshop.com/camp/?ref=marymarantz   In this episode of the Mary Marantz Show, Mary sits down with Tonic's Jeffrey Shipley to discuss the theme of 'showing up' during challenging times.   The two explore the complexities of navigating burnout, the pressure of perfectionism, and the journey of self-discovery that comes with acknowledging our own limitations. Jeff shares his personal experiences with anxiety and the importance of receiving help from others, emphasizing the need for collaboration and support in both personal and professional realms.   The conversation highlights the ongoing struggle of balancing high expectations with the necessity of self-care and vulnerability. In this conversation, Mary and Jeff explore the importance of embracing help, setting boundaries, and navigating business challenges with transparency. They discuss the significance of learning from failures and the iterative process of entrepreneurship.   The conversation culminates in the introduction of Launch Camp, a community-driven initiative aimed at helping creative entrepreneurs launch their personal brand projects effectively.   Also, be sure to check out Jen's episode here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-do-less-better-a-marketing-masterclass-with/id1478272407?i=1000610532111   In this episode:   Burnout often leads to a cycle of overcommitment and anxiety. Identity crises can arise when we feel we must always perform. Learning to receive help is a crucial part of personal growth. We must repeat lessons until they are fully learned.  Setting boundaries often means disappointing people. Transparency in business fosters community and connection. Learning from failures is a vital part of growth. <span class= "Mui

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary talks about what it looks like to SHOW UP and co-create with your audience. Most of us are so busy worrying about "What might go wrong?" that we forget to say, "Yea, but who might it help?" So to help us do that, Mary pulls back the curtain on one of her very first videos in her signature Writing Course and allows us to listen in as she uses Stan Lee's Spiderman, Glossier, and Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson to illustrate the delicate balance between being TRUE to yourself… and SERVING your people (yes, even if you don't quite know who those people are yet!) Join the Mary Marantz Writing Course: https://jmthestore.com/collections/for-writers/products/mm-writing-course-2024

In this episode of The Mary Marantz Show, host Mary Marantz sits down with Nathan Clarkson- an accomplished actor, author, and filmmaker- to discuss his new book "I'm the Worst." Nathan shares his experiences growing up in a prominent Christian family, the pressures of public perception, and the journey of embracing his true self amidst personal struggles. The conversation delves into themes of vulnerability, the dichotomy between public and private personas, the difference between living a "speck" life vs. a "plank" life, and the importance of facing one's darkness to find healing and true connection.In this episode, you'll discover: Why Freedom can be found by first admitting our Faults A story about G.K. Chesterton that will CHANGE what you think is wrong with the world The productivity that can be unleashed by leaning in to your "plank in my own eye" Era! The Superiority Bias that tells us "it's not me, it's YOU" What Dale Carnegie gets RIGHT about human nature, but WRONG about iron sharpening iron What the command to "go and sin no more" might really mean in a fallen world Impostor Syndrome already tells us we're the WORST… here's how to show up ANYWAY and SO much more! Also be sure to check out Mary's episode on Nathan's podcast The Overthinkers: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-136-underestimated-overthinking-and-showing/id1687839937?i=1000750303414

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary talks about why one of Fear's favorite scripts is "What if ALL of this is just a WASTE of time?"  She explains that one of the most BRUTAL things about being an adult is that we start to develop this muscle memory for disappointment. We've been here before. We've tried that before. And it didn't work out. And how that instant sting of "let down" can turn into a chronic case of "give up" if we're not careful. Connecting the dots between a viral post of hers that said "None of this will be wasted" and the new Rachel McAdams movie "Send Help," Mary sets out to show us how some of our greatest disappointments can immediately precede some of our biggest breakthroughs. And that us continuing to SHOW UP, even here in the wilderness, may very well become someone else's survival guide.

In this episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary sits down with Tanner Olson (of WrittentoSpeak fame!) to discuss his brand new book, Getting Through What You're Going Through! The two explore themes of hope, grief, and the creative process. The conversation delves into the importance of radical acceptance, the challenges of writing, and the balance between excellence and consistency in creative endeavors. Tanner shares personal experiences of navigating life's difficulties and emphasizes the beauty found in the messiness of life and art. The episode concludes with insights on trusting the process and savoring every moment of our journey. Register for Mary's Get Published Bootcamp Feb. 24th 12pm EST https://bit.ly/4azKSCD Tanner's new book - Getting Through What You're Going Through: https://amzn.to/4rpGcGX In this Episode, you'll discover: Why "radical acceptance" is the first step to change. Why Tanner says his stress (and ulcer!) was a symptom of PRIDE The Dunning Kruger Effect and why it's always the ones with the most talent who doubt themselves the most The difference between GOING through tough times vs. just GETTING through them The beauty found at the intersection of grief and joy REAL TALK about how the creative process often involves struggle and self-doubt. Consistency in sharing our work (not just creating it) is crucial for growth. Art reflects the messiness of life. Trusting the process is essential in creative endeavors. Why God is slow… until He ISN'T <span class= "MuiTypograp

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary talks about what it looks like to PRACTICE failing (or more to the point… FALLING!) Drawing an unexpected parallel (the way only Mary can!) between the Olympics and the new season of the show Shrinking, Mary digs into building the muscle memory of falling down seven times but getting back up eight. Most people never get around to actually SHOWING UP and getting started on the dream because they are SO terrified of falling on their faces even once. Mary is going to show you why this is not only the price of admission to becoming one of the GREATS… it actually makes for a far more interesting plot line! In the words of Denzel Washington, "EASE is a far greater threat to your progress than HARDSHIP could ever be." New here? I'm Mary 👋 I'm a bestselling author of three books and host of The Mary Marantz Show Podcast. Please subscribe to help the podcast grow!

In this episode of The SHOW UP Season, Mary sits down with author and influencer Kendall Mariah to talk about her brand new book This Little Fire of Mine: How Flickers of Doubt Can Spark a Bolder, Brighter Faith. The two talk about Kendall's journey from a childhood steeped in photography to navigating the complexities of neurodivergence, creativity, and authenticity in the creative industry. She discusses her experiences with Impostor Syndrome, the power of vulnerability in storytelling, and the importance of BOTH faith and doubt in her life… arguing that some of the most important work we'll do- both in our faith and in the world- will be to show up and ask the really hard questions. To that end, Kendall opens up about her adoption journey, the challenges of parenting, and her growing awareness of social justice issues in light of her newfound motherhood.   In this Episode, we'll dig into:   *How neurodivergence influences the way Kendall navigates creativity and "breaking the rules" *Why vulberability, not virality, has BUILT Kendall's platform *The ways in which Impostor Syndrome can resurface even (especially?) after getting everything you wanted *Why "deconstruction" can really mean just taking things apart to understand how they work *All the ways the world tells women to shrink, to "lead the boat, but don't ROCK the boat" *How small moments of hope can help us sit in the refining fire longer (and come out transformed on the other side) … and SO much more!

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary dissects what some of the all-time BEST Super Bowl commercials have in common… and what this can actually TEACH us about playing small. Tying in a favorite episode of Mad Men, Mary dives deep into the temptation to push only whatever is shiny & new vs. leaning in to true storytelling (and nostalgia!) She ties these two parallel conversations together to show that the world is going to try to tempt you into believing that the loudest, most expensive, and most disruptive is what gets remembered… when actually, it's something far more SIMPLE than that.

Do you know that you should show up more online, but every time you think of talking to the camera you just freeze up? Do you overthink every B-roll reel, what to share (and NOT share), and what visuals should go with it?  In this episode, Mary sits down with professional brand photographer and coach, Quianna Marie, to talk about the courage to SHOW up, SUCCESS, pivoting, and how to turn content into true TRUST and CONNECTION. In this episode, you'll discover: What a "personal brand" has to do with the show Yellowstone Posing, Lighting & Photography tips to get your best images ever  A B-roll checklist that will make creating content a breeze Why the real FEAR here is the Fear of Being Seen (and how to stop making it about you) How to create content that both shows the journey right now… AND the person you are becoming and seriously SO much more! After listening, you'll walk away on FIRE to really SHOW UP online as your real, quirky self. Because what we know is this: We don't need your perfect. We just need YOU.   Follow Quianna here: https://www.instagram.com/quiannamarie Get her FREE B-roll guide here: https://www.quiannamarie.com/broll

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary digs into why it is true that, for most of us, IMPATIENCE kicks in long before CONSISTENCY has a chance to. She does this by breaking down 4 critical rules from The Law of the Harvest (including "you cannot reap what you did not sow")… and what this has to do with celebrating even our SMALLEST wins as a radical act of rebellion against SHAME. Mary encourages listeners to SHOW UP with PATIENCE and keep planting even when nothing is happening, trusting that what is being built in the hidden seasons is necessary to one day hold the harvest. NEW for writers:  The Writing Prompts   In this episode:   The law of the harvest teaches us that we reap what we sow. Patience is essential; we often want immediate results. Shame can prevent us from celebrating our small wins. We should not compare our beginnings to others' successes. The act of showing up is a victory in itself. Growth happens in the unseen moments of our journey. Celebrating small wins can help maintain motivation. The foundation of success is built during the waiting period. Every effort we make contributes to our eventual success. New here? I'm Mary 👋 I'm a bestselling author of three books and host of The Mary Marantz Show Podcast. Please subscribe to help the Podcast grow!   Get more stuff from me: My Books Take the Achiever Quiz My Youtube Channel</p

In this episode of the Mary Marantz Show, we talk ALL about the importance of showing up over and over in life, planting small seeds of faith, and the significance of love in our actions. Joined by author Cynthia Yanof, the two explore the transition from law to authorship, the lessons learned from law school (including a stress dream come to life on a Contracts exam!), and the impact of waiting and watching for growth. The conversation emphasizes redefining success beyond measurable goals and the role of struggles and setbacks that inevitably come anytime you do work that matters, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their journey however long it takes.   Cynthia's New Book: How'd I Miss That?   Mary's Latest Book: Underestimated   In this episode: We never asked you to be perfect, just to show up. Small seeds planted consistently lead to significant growth. Our outlook on life can change our actions and impact others. Love is the foundation of meaningful actions. Waiting can be a time of valuable growth and preparation. Success should be redefined beyond measurable goals. Struggles can lead to personal growth and empathy. Every small act of kindness can have a lasting impact. Perspective matters in understanding our journey. Faith and love should guide our daily decisions.

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary sits down to tackle the effects of "streaming" on storytelling in an ever-increasingly DISTRACTED world. Referencing a recent interview where Matt Damon said Netflix asks its creators to recap the plot four or FIVE TIMES throughout a movie because they know audiences are also scrolling on their phones, Mary argues that we have, quite literally, LOST the plot. And that ACCOMODATING distraction is the wrong direction to go. Instead, we as creators (especially writers), need to keep our audience glued to the edge of their seat. And we DO that by making the Reader an ACTIVE Participant. Something Mary goes into in great detail about in her BRAND NEW guide… The MM Writing Prompts!    Brought to you by  The Writing Prompts from the desk of Mary Marantz: https://jmthestore.com/products/the-writing-prompts     In this Episode: *The age of streaming is CHANGING how we tell stories *What we LOSE when we accomodate DISTRACTION *Spoonfeeding your audience diminishes the transfomative work of stortyelling *Why we NEED stories for SURVIVAL and are WIRED to crave them *What "Compression Culture" is robbing us of *True change ONLY happens when we actively ENGAGE with the material *How to QUICKLY make your reader an ACTIVE participant *Distracted work will never be your legacy, DEEP work will *… and SO much more!     Other Links: Lisa Cron - Wired for Story   Compression Culture is Making You Stupid and Uninteresting by Maalvika

In this episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary is joined by Chris Weinberg, founder and CEO of Well Coached, to discuss the SHOW UP season inspired by Mary's book. They delve into the four silos of success, the DISC assessment, and the importance of self-awareness and self-regulation in leadership. Chris shares his personal journey from growing up in a trailer to becoming a successful business coach, emphasizing the value of grit, resilience, and embracing fear as a motivator. The conversation also touches on the challenges of creative entrepreneurship, the fear of success, and the significance of maintaining a healthy balance between personal and professional life. In this episode:  Success is a slippery slope that requires constant self-awareness and adaptation. Everyone talks about The Enneagram, but The DISC assessment is also a valuable tool for understanding your true strengths Fear can be a powerful motivator if harnessed correctly. Creative entrepreneurs often struggle with financial discipline but thrive in innovation. Self-awareness and self-regulation are key components of effective leadership. Balancing personal and professional life is crucial for sustained success. The fear of success can be as paralyzing as the fear of failure. Leadership is a learned skill, not an innate trait.

In this solo episode of The Mary Marantz Show, Mary shares her insights from her first day at Yale law school, emphasizing the lesson that good lawyers don't ask questions they don't already know the answers to. This principle, while crucial in a legal context, serves as a metaphor for life, where many people hesitate to take action until they have everything figured out. Mary encourages listeners to embrace the discomfort of not knowing, suggesting that true growth and resilience come from tolerating uncertainty rather than rushing to find answers. She highlights the importance of the journey and the experiences that shape us, urging listeners to appreciate the process of becoming rather than focusing solely on the end results. In this episode: Good lawyers don't ask questions they don't already know the answers to. You have to get started in order to figure things out. The tolerance for not having all the answers is 99% of the work of showing up. Success isn't about getting to a place of knowing all the answers the fastest. This not knowing is a gift.

Do you ever feel like you keep getting distracted by things that ultimately don't really matter? That you're STUCK playing a bad game of kindergarten basketball where you just keep chasing the ball whichever way it rolls, and never making progress where it really counts?  In this episode, Mary sits down with the former head of Nike's Global Marketing Division for Kobe Bryant, John Olinger, who is now an author, speaker, and executive coach to talk about consistency, success, failing FAST, and eliminating everything that doesn't truly matter, so we can SHOW UP this year and pursue what does. This is what John calls "Worthy Wins," which just so happens to be the title of his brand new book! In this episode, you'll discover: The Mamba Mentality: Kobe famously said that his confidence came from knowing he had done all he could to prepare Why reach and success are really just a SIDE EFFECT of focusing on the craft Why PATIENCE will take you places that PERFECT never will Why "clarity" is a prerequisite for "consistency" How to get EXTREMELY clear about what it means to WIN and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away on FIRE to really SHOW UP with focus and intention this year for the Worthy Wins in your life. Because what we know is this: Distracted work will never be your legacy. Deep work will. Follow John here: https://www.instagram.com/johnolinger Get his new book here: https://amzn.to/49Pfelw

Do you ever feel like your setbacks define you? Or that you have already messed up too much to ever do the work you were truly put here to do? That you are somehow disqualified before you even begin? In this episode, Mary sits down with author and founder Eryn Eddy to talk about impostor syndrome, self-sabotage, the lies we believe, and the self-abandonment we allow… as they dig deep into Eryn's book So Worth Loving: How Discovering Your True Value Changes Everything In this episode, you'll discover: Why you may have spent most of your life feeling like the underdog, outcast, or uninvited one Why there is BEAUTY in the breakdown How to identify the lies you've been agreeing with Why becoming deeply rooted often starts with a season of UPROOTING How to deal with other people's criticism so it doesn't define you and seriously SO much more! After listening, you'll walk away with a new commitment to be gentle with yourself, and the permission to walk in grace. As Eryn says, "You had purpose before any hard season hit, and God will repurpose the pain from what was meant to break you down to gift someone else the reminder that they, too, are so worth loving." Follow Eryn here: https://www.instagram.com/eryneddy Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4iVcDJW

Do you ever let your PERFECTIONISM keep you from inviting people in? Or are you the one who ALWAYS hosts and your perpetual PEOPLE-PLEASING means you never quite know how to say no? In this episode, Mary sits down with bestselling author Abby Kuykendall to talk about how chasing PERFECT can keep us from doing the real work of SHOWING UP (both in the world and for your people!) as they dig into Abby's brand new book Let the Biscuits Burn: Cultivating Real Life Hospitality in a World Craving Connection In this episode, you'll discover: Why earlier generations had it "easier" when it comes to the lost art of hospitality What Martha Stewart (and the Martha of the bible!) can teach us about the pressure to be perfect.. and at what cost The crucial difference between true hospitality and entertaining The moment when Abby stepped on my toes in the BEST way… and the #1 thing I'm changing about my hosting moving forward! Some important BOUNDARIES to put in place now for the upcoming holidays and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away with a renewed sense of how much the TABLE matters… and what we can do to both get back to it AND make room for more people!   Follow Abby here: https://www.instagram.com/abby.kuykendall Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4461OOO

Do you ever feel like you woke up one day in your mid-30s or 40s and it was like everything suddenly stopped working all at once? Brain fog, weight gain, waking up every night at 3am… not to mention the RAGE of a thousand burning suns? In this episode, Mary sits down with bestselling author and medical doctor, Dr. Mikala Albertson (who is the author of Everything I Wish I Could Tell You About Midlife) as the two talk perfectionism, releasing control, brain fog, fear, anxiety… and navigating how to quit playing small in mid life! In this episode, you'll discover: Why it is so hard for women to even get to a doctor in the first place (let alone be HEARD once they are there) The danger of the "the illusory truth effect" and getting all your medical advice from TikTok Why Radical Acceptance does not equal Apathy How chronic stress must be moved THROUGH the body in order to complete the "stress response cycle" What causes anxiety and OCD to spike during perimenopause and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away on a renewed mission to love the body you have right NOW and to make the changes to best support it. What you do now, TODAY… your 80-something self will thank you for it!   Follow Mikala here: https://www.instagram.com/mikalaalbertsonmd Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/3JQr44F

Do you ever feel like you are doomed to fail at marriage because that's all you saw growing up? Even if you are nowhere near getting married, do you feel like there are people in your life who just always have a way of bringing out the WORST in you? In this episode, Mary sits down with bestselling author and podcast host of The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, Christa Hardin to talk about understanding both our strengths AND our weaknesses so we can show up and shine brighter (GLOW, if you will) in the world! In this episode, you'll discover: Why there are no perfect pairings within the Enneagram system. There are no pairs that are more or less compatible. Why Carl Jung said, "The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is ANY reaction at all, both are transformed." The 6 Stages of The Enneagram Glow (including the throwing shade stage) How the Availability Bias tells us we have reasons we act certain ways, so we are deserving of grace… while others are NOT. The tension of "generational layering"- that makes most of us feel like we are doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past- and the free will to forge a new path. and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away with a renewed mission to love the people right in front of you for ALL the different parts of them, the light and the shadow… and to love YOURSELF like that too! Follow Christa here: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandmarriage/ Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4ojZyLP

Do you ever feel like there are tables that you will NEVER be invited to? Have you been burned by a "cool girl" circle that left you feeling like it would be better to go it alone than EVER deal with that kind of drama again? In this episode, Mary sits down with USA Today Bestselling Author Natalie Runion to talk comparison, competitiveness, and SHRINKING ourselves down so that others don't feel INTIMIDATED as they dig into her BRAND NEW book I Don't Even Like Women (And Other Lies That Get In the Way of Sacred Sisterhood) In this episode, you'll discover: The different scripts the world tells us to believe about other women The scarcity that is born out of the lie that women "age out" of positions of leadership and relevancy Why the knee-jerk reaction of "she's probably just jealous" isn't actually helping you The well-intentioned advice to be less intimidating that is actually fueling our loneliness epidemic The tension between "doing everything right" and still being rejected that keeps most of us hiding and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away with a renewed mission to surround yourself with the kind of women who CLAP for you when you win… AND to BE that kind of woman for others. Follow Natalie here: https://www.instagram.com/raisedtostay Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/48QC38q

Do you ever find yourself believing the lie that says if you're not hustling you must be LAZY? What about the ones that tell you "I missed my shot" or "I messed it all up" or "I'll be happy when ____"? Or maybe the worst one of all, "It's happening for everyone BUT me." In this episode, Mary sits down with fellow author and her good friend Erica Ligenza Gwynn to talk FEAR, hustling, hiding, shrinking, and the LIES that keep us stuck year after year as they dig into Erica's BRAND NEW book That's Just Not True: How to Replace the Lies You Didn't Know You Believed with God's Unchanging Truth (which Mary had the HUGE honor of endorsing!) In this episode, you'll discover: The Lie BENEATH the Lie… what's really driving our Fears Two Truths and a Lie: how Erica uses the literary technique of "breaking trust" with the reader right off the bat to illustrate one very important point The difference between contentment and becoming addicted to the "small ponds" we feel safe in The well-intentioned advice that is one of the biggest LIES about God The tension between purpose and free will that resides in the fear that we might mess up God's plan for us and seriously SO much more! After listening, you'll walk away on FIRE to call FEAR out mid-syllable and get moving on the GOOD WORK that was prepared for you in advance! Follow Erica here: https://www.instagram.com/ericaligenza Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4hqIHVk

Do you find yourself in the midst of a never-ending overwhelming season? Have you bought into the lie that all the conditions to begin (not to mention yourself!) must be PERFECT before you can even start? In this episode, Mary sits down with fellow author and good friend Jillian Benfield to talk disappointment, resilience, living in awe, the BOTH/AND life we need to embrace if we are ever going to stop waiting on perfect.… and her brand new book Overwhelmed and Grateful: The Key to Finding God's Goodness in All Life's Ups and Downs.  In this episode, you'll discover: Why one of Fear's favorite whispers is "until life is perfect, you can't even begin" Why we are WIRED to focus on the negative and how "noticing" is a radical act of rebellion The difference between the BOTH/AND life and toxic positivity The SCIENCE behind why gratitude might save your life The biblical rhythms of order, disorder, and re-order we can EXPECT to see in our lives and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away with a whole new appreciation for the hard AND the holy, the joy AND the grief, the messy AND the miraculous… and a fire in your belly to start NOTICING this perfectly imperfect life all around you! Remember: We never asked you to be perfect… we just asked you to SHOW UP! Follow Jillian here: https://www.instagram.com/jillianbenfieldblog Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4mPsR7y

Do you ever find yourself lashing out at even the smallest slight, and you're not even sure why it had you so upset? Do you ever feel like you're walking around in the world like one raw, exposed nerve-ending… one minute you're fine and the next you're spiraling out? In this episode, Mary sits down with pastor, podcaster and leadership coach Tony Miltenberger (who is focused on creating leaders worth following!) to discuss how some of our deepest wounds in fact give rise to our greatest gifts… and his brand new book Wisdom in the Wound: How God Uses Your Past to Shape Who You're Becoming In this episode, you'll discover: The difference between Big-T and little-t trauma Why the "wounds" Tony is talking about rarely come with a villain The 5 most common wounds we are all walking around with What the emotional intensity scale can tell us about our triggers The Paradox of how our wounds can give rise to our gifts and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away with a whole new appreciation of how the hard things you've walked through have prepared you for such a time as this… and a fire in your belly to finally STOP playing small on your gifts so you can become a leader worth following! Follow Tony here: https://www.instagram.com/twmilt Get his new book here: https://amzn.to/4gGnJRZ

Do you find yourself constantly shrinking back just to make others comfortable? Do you refuse to raise your hand because it means you might have to give up the "safety" of your hidden corners? In this episode, Mary sits down with POWERHOUSE author Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith to discuss all the ways we twist ourselves up in knots just to have a seat at the table, as explored in her new book Being Fully Known: The Joyful Satisfaction of Beholding, Becoming, and Belonging In this episode, you'll discover: How to to stop holding back and instead reveal who you really are—known, talented, and NEEDED The difference between Being vs. Doing and why we need BOTH Why STRIVING is such soul-sickening territory How our authenticity can IRRITATE the masks other people wear Why we can only rest at the level of our trust in God and seriously SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away with a whole new sense of what it means to be FULLY known… and a fire in you to finally STOP holding back and shrinking yourself once and for all! Follow Dr. Saundra here: https://www.instagram.com/drdaltonsmith Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4pfVDk7

I wrote recently that one of the most brutal things about being a grown up is that we develop this muscle memory for disappointment… we've been here before, we tried that before, we got our hopes up and it didn't work out. And that instant sting of "let down" and can turn into a chronic case of "give up" if we're not careful. This week I sat down with one of my DEAREST friends— author and host of the In Joy Life Podcast, Mattie Jackson— to dig into grief, disappointment, and the radical act of courage it takes to get our HOPES up again after heartbreak, as explored in Mattie's new book Through the Valley of Grief: A 365 Day Devotional of Spiritual Practices for Hope in Suffering In this episode, you'll discover: The 4 Essential Practices Mattie outlines for navigating grief Why Wail > Denial, Connect > Isolation, Worship > Bitterness & Doubt, and Hope > Despair The spiritual practice of LAMENT and why "Everything happens for a reason" is not always the best advice. How to WORSHIP even in the midst of your greatest heartbreaks Why suffering takes us places that comfort never will Why Hope feels like such a DANGEROUS thing …and SO much more!   After listening, you'll walk away with a whole new outlook on the hardest seasons you've walked through (maybe you're walking through them right now)…and a renewed courage to get your HOPES up again, once you know where your true hope comes from! Follow Mattie here: https://www.instagram.com/mattiejackson/?hl=en Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/45KfWib

Are you in a place where you feel like you are STARTING OVER and you aren't sure you have the strength to begin again? In this episode, Mary sits down with entrepreneurial unicorn and legendary dress designer, Miss Hayley Paige to dig in to how we face down the disappointment of losing everything we've built so far… only to build back better. After a very public legal battle to win back her name (quite literally!) Hayley knows a thing or two about picking herself up and showing the world why it would be wise to NEVER underestimate her! In this episode, you'll discover: What it looks like to find your own "sui generis" voice as a creative… a voice that is like no other Why "what if this is all a waste of time" is one of Fear's most effective lies… and starting over is blistering to slow growth. Why "It's all been done" can actually be the lie that pushes you to find the gaps in your market and innovate like never before How to become a person who doesn't have to always follow the "safe, set, supposed to" life Using your setbacks to BECOME the guide who fights for others so they don't make the same mistakes you did   After listening, you'll walk away with a whole new determination to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and once again begin the long slow climb. As Hayley says, "Let your protagonist be tested." It's time to channel all our main character energy and face starting over HEAD ON! Follow Hayley here: https://www.instagram.com/misshayleypaige/?hl=en Check out her BRAND NEW "Twice Upon a Time" Collection here: https://hayleypaige.com/

Feeling Overbooked and Overwhelmed? In this episode, Mary sits down with author and host of the Truth Talks with Tara podcast, Tara Sun to dig in to how we became this busy, bustling, burned out generation, as explored in Tara's new book Overbooked and Overwhelmed: How to Keep Up with God When You're Just Trying to Keep Up with Life In this episode, you'll discover: What it looks like to begin to unpack (and delegate!) the mental load Why we have swapped the abundant life for the overcommitted life, and the two definitions of "full" you NEED to know What we REALLY fear about not being busy All the ways distractions bring us a level of comfort (that is actually stealing our purpose) What we're really CRAVING when we pack our calendars full   After listening, you'll walk away with a whole new determination to make your days and your calendar reflect what really matters most… and to finally make NO a complete sentence! Follow Tara here: https://www.instagram.com/misstarasun Get her new book HERE   Also be sure to get your copy of Underestimated: The Surprisingly Simple Shift to Quit Playing Small, Name the Fear, and Move Forward Anyway for this Underestimated season of the podcast!

What if JOY is actually not a joke and loving your life (even when you don't like it) an act of resistance? In this episode, Mary sits down with author and host of the Real Talk podcast, Rachel Awtrey to unpack the myths and truths around the messy, mundane, and magnificent parts of a BOTH/AND life, as explored in Rachel's new book Love Your Life (Even When You Don't Like It All the Time). In this episode, you'll discover: What to do with the shame around not liking what seems to be a very "likable" life to the rest of the world What it looks like to "overwater" our own lives, and why abundance sometimes means LESS The tension between radical acceptance of what IS and not letting that turn into APATHY toward what could be How being uncomfortable reminds us of our need for a COMFORTER… but also not believing that you have to forever stay in struggle in order to be close to God. Letting go of the belief that just because it's HARD it must also mean you aren't meant to do it.   After listening, you'll walk away with a whole new perspective on holding both grief and joy in the same hand, naming what's hard in order to change it, and celebrating the life you have (not the one you WISH you had). Follow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/rachel.awtrey/?hl=en Get Rachel's new book  Love Your Life (Even When You Don't Like it All The Time): A Realistic Guide to Unlocking Joy in Life's Messy, Mundane, and Magnificent Moments

What if your procrastination and inner critic were actually trying to help you, not sabotage you? In this episode, Mary sits down with psychotherapist and author Britt Frank to unpack the myths and truths behind fear, procrastination, and the complex cast of "parts" within our minds, as explored in Britt's new book, Align Your Mind.  In this episode, you'll discover: Why procrastination isn't a moral failing, but a physiological fear response—and how to respond without shame The difference between "brake pedal" and "gas pedal" procrastination, and quick, science-backed ways to break free from each How parts work helps you make peace with your inner critic and shadow sides, turning them into powerful allies The surprising truth about "golden shadows" and how owning your hidden strengths can propel you further Practical, offbeat tools like biting into a lemon or jumping in place to reset your brain and overcome being stuck After listening, you'll walk away with a whole new perspective on your struggles, feeling empowered to work with every part of yourself (even the ones you usually try to silence), and equipped with practical tools to move forward with greater self-compassion and clarity. Follow Britt here: https://www.instagram.com/brittfrank/?hl=en Get her new book here: https://woobox.com/qjnkrk

What if the thing holding you back the most isn't the fear of failure, but the fear of actually being seen and succeeding? In this special launch day episode, Mary Marantz is the guest on her own show as she is interviewed by her producer, Elizabeth Evans, on the release of her third book, "Underestimated."  The duo explore how embracing your pivots, facing your fears, and redefining your identity can propel you past self-sabotage and closer to your biggest dreams. Tune in to be inspired to move forward from the current season you're in, owning your story, and stepping into your calling with newfound urgency and integrity. The pair chat about: The secret costs of delaying your dreams and how to keep your promises to yourself Embracing vulnerability, reparenting your inner child, and the freedom of showing up authentically The paradox of feeling both inadequate and called to greatness (and why this is common in many successful people) Real talk on procrastination, urgency, and why your best work may happen under pressure Navigating career pivots and rewriting your identity, even when others don't see your vision If you're ready to break through self-doubt and claim the bigger life you've always sensed was waiting for you, this episode will be the catalyst to help you take that next bold step. Purchase Mary's book here + snag your free AUDIO version of the book! https://marymarantz.com/underestimated Follow Mary here: https://www.instagram.com/marymarantz/ Follow Elizabeth here: https://www.instagram.com/elizabethevans.co/

What if the most persistent lie fear tells you—the "you're already too late" lie —is actually the dullest, most common trick holding you back from your calling?  In this episode, Mary welcomes author and podcaster, Rebecca George, to dive deep into the themes of waiting, longing, and naming your fears, all inspired by Rebecca's new book, "You're Not Too Late," and Mary's own journey explored in "Underestimated."  After tuning in, you'll feel empowered to rethink seasons of waiting, find purpose in your longings, and trade self-doubt for proactive hope, learning to see setbacks and delays as essential steps in your growth and spiritual journey. Get ready to recognize your own underdog story and step forward in faith, knowing you're right on time for the life you're meant to live. In this episode, the duo is chatting: Why the fear of "being too late" is a boring liar and how to name the scripts keeping you stuck The role of waiting and longing in shaping who you become—including the "ugly" side of not waiting well How faith, neuroscience, and intentional prayer can rewire disappointment and defeat Balancing hustle and prayer without falling for prosperity gospel clichés Tools for celebrating others' wins while navigating your own seasons of delay and discouragement Let this conversation ignite new hope in you that your dreams are still within reach and your story is far from over. Follow Rebecca Here: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccageorgeauthor Grab her book, You're Not Too Late, here: https://www.radicalradiance.live/books

Have you ever felt like time is slipping through your fingers, leaving you anxious and overwhelmed? In this episode of the Mary Marantz Show, New York Times best-selling author Chris Guillebeau joins Mary to discuss his latest book, Time Anxiety, and how it addresses the ubiquitous feeling of time scarcity in our lives.  By diving into Chris's insights about balancing existential fears with daily routines, you will discover practical solutions to transform time anxiety into a more productive and fulfilling life. They are chatting: The universal nature of time anxiety and how it affects people of all ages. The concept of demand avoidance and how it contributes to procrastination in daily tasks. Strategies for identifying and letting go of non-urgent tasks to make room for meaningful pursuits. How understanding and overcoming cognitive distortions can create positive change. The importance of not striving for perfection in every aspect of life. Embrace the newfound freedom of prioritizing what truly matters, and watch as your days become richer and more purposeful. Check out Chris's new book, Time Anxiety and follow him on Instagram at @chrisguillebeau.

Have you ever considered that the very act of chasing your passion might equally be the pathway to  your greatest fulfillment AND profound suffering? In this episode of the Mary Marantz Show, guest Heather Thompson Day, author of "What If I'm Wrong? Navigating the Waves of Fear and Failure," joins Mary to explore the fine line between faith and delusion.  By embracing the tension between hope and setback, you'll learn to discover how to live more authentically, finding peace and purpose in every step of their journey, regardless of external circumstances. Prepare for a transformative exploration of how to live fully despite the fear of failure, as Heather encourages us to open our hands and let go of what doesn't serve us. Tune in to hear: Embracing passion as a path to profound growth and personal fulfillment. The difference between faith and delusion in pursuing one's dreams. Transforming fear of failure into an opportunity for genuine life experiences. The impact of growing up with financial instability and how it shapes our definition of success. Letting go of perfectionism and learning to live by faith rather than by worldly measures of achievement. After listening to this episode, you'll be inspired to take bold steps towards your dreams and hold the courage to embrace your authentic self along the way. Follow Heather here: https://www.instagram.com/heatherthompsonday/?hl=en Purchase her book here: https://www.heatherthompsonday.com/books

What would it take for you to rise from disappointment and rebuild a life you love? In this episode of the Mary Marantz Show, author and content creator, Jessica Turner shares her journey of starting over after a public divorce and finding beauty in unexpected places. As you listen, you'll find inspiration to view setbacks not as endings but as opportunities for transformation and renewed empowerment. Enticing topics from this episode include: The concept of regaining control and the power of agency in your life. How the vulnerability of sharing personal stories sparks empathy and connection. Practical tools for navigating grief and transforming it into growth. The significance of making the best, imperfect choices and embracing life's uncertainties. Jessica's personal journey through divorce, healing, and newfound love. Follow Jessica here: https://www.instagram.com/jessicanturner Purchase her latest book, I Thought It Would Be Better Than This, here: https://jessicanturner.com/i-thought-it-would-be-better-than-this

Are doubts about faith a pathway to intimacy with God rather than a sign of weakness? In this inspiring episode, Mary is joined by Niki Hardy, author, speaker, podcaster and coach, to explore the nuanced journey of faith filled with curiosity and imperfections.  Tune in to: Discover why doubts can be a superpower that strengthens, rather than diminishes, your faith. Learn about the concept of living with "lighter and freer" faith amidst mystery and uncertainty. Hear personal stories illustrating the journey from struggling with faith to finding intimate connection with God. Delve into practical steps for engaging in honest conversations with God about doubts and struggles. Explore the CHAT framework: Consider the facts, Honor the story, Ask for help, and Team up with God for deeper spiritual growth. Expect to walk away encouraged to embrace your questions, turning them into a powerful tool to deepen your relationship with God.  Pick up Niki's latest book: https://www.nikihardy.com/books Follow Niki here: https://www.instagram.com/niki.hardy/

Do you feel trapped by your need to please others? Join Mary as she welcomes Jinger Duggar, the sixth child from the Duggar family, to discuss her new book and her journey to overcome the deeply ingrained habit of seeking approval. Through Jinger's experiences, you'll gain a renewed perspective on how to live authentically and foster genuine connections. Jinger Duggar's journey from a strict religious upbringing to finding freedom The hidden selfishness in people-pleasing and how it affects relationships Practical steps to identify and overcome people-pleasing habits The impact of isolating oneself versus embracing vulnerability How to build authentic connections in a community despite public scrutiny Next time someone asks you, "Is something wrong?" resist the urge to say, "Nothing." Instead, be honest, open, and real. It might just be the start of something beautifully authentic. Follow Jinger here: https://www.instagram.com/jingervuolo/?hl=en Snag her book here: https://www.jingerandjeremy.com/

What if the drive to constantly achieve and perform is actually a method of survival from past traumas? In this episode, Mary Marantz is joined by Aundi Kolber, a therapist and author specializing in trauma and resilience, to discuss her approach encapsulated in her books "Try Softer" and her newest release, "Take What You Need."  After listening, you'll discover how to shift from a life of anxiety and stress to one of connection and joy through compassionate self-attention and healing. Your perspectives on survival mode, self-compassion, and internalized secure attachment will profoundly change, helping you to name your fears and move forward more gently yet powerfully. Tune in to hear: The science behind survival mode and its effects on our lives. The science behind "trying softer" and how it differs from simply trying harder. Detailed explanations of attachment styles and their effects on adult behavior. The role of our nervous system in processing trauma and achieving genuine safety. Practical exercises for self-compassion and grounding to expand our capacity for goodness. In this fast-paced world, sometimes trying softer is the bravest thing you can do.   Be sure to snag Aundi's book here: https://aundikolber.com/take-what-you-need/ Follow Aundi on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aundikolber

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Cassandra Speer, author and theologian, to explore the complex interplay between fear, purpose, and significance. We delve into the challenges of feeling underestimated and how our past stories can sometimes make us doubt our ability to make a difference. Cassandra shares her journey from a challenging childhood to becoming an influential voice in Christian circles. We discuss: The tension between feeling called to something greater and doubting our qualifications How to balance the desire for impact with the need for authenticity in the age of social media The importance of focusing on "the one" rather than chasing large numbers Overcoming criticism and self-doubt when pursuing our calling The value of "micro-purposes" in our daily lives, even when we can't see the bigger picture This conversation challenges conventional wisdom about success and significance, offering a fresh perspective on living out our purpose. Whether you're feeling stuck, afraid to step out, or questioning your ability to make an impact, this episode provides encouragement and practical insights for moving forward in faith. Join us as we explore what it truly means to be "ready as you are" and embrace the calling God has placed on your life. Follow Cass here: https://www.instagram.com/cassandralspeer/?hl=en Order her book, Ready As You Are, here:  https://readyasyouare.com/

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Ian Morgan Cron, host of the extremely popular podcast, Typology, and author of the new book "The Fix." We explore the universal struggle with addiction, but not in the typical way you may be thinking. As we dive into Ian's personal journey of recovery, we uncover how the 12-step principles can benefit not just those battling substance abuse, but also those with patterns of people-pleasing, perfectionism, and approval-seeking behaviors. Ian shares his experiences with addiction, from childhood struggles to an adult relapse, revealing how the 12 steps offered a roadmap to spiritual awakening and personal transformation. We discuss: The concept of "hungry ghosts" and how we attempt to fill our inner emptiness Why external solutions to internal problems often lead to addiction The surprising benefits of admitting powerlessness Join us for this conversation that challenges conventional wisdom and offers a fresh perspective on healing, growth, and spiritual transformation. Follow Ian here: https://www.instagram.com/ianmorgancron/?hl=en Listen to his podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/typology/id1254061093 Purchase his new book, The Fix, here: https://ianmorgancron.com/books

We are often told the Bible is God's love letter to us, but how are we supposed to live from that truth in the midst of our mundane task list? How do you think fully understanding God's love for you would change the way you love yourself? Or even others? In today's episode, Mary sits down with author of A Little Goes a Long Way and Everyday Prayers for Love, Rachael Adams. Rachael hopes to help women realize God's love and purpose for their lives. Her work has been featured on Good Morning America, Crosswalk, Proverbs 31, Today Parenting, and YouVersion.  The pair chat about: How Rachael went from lonely and feeling isolated, to a flourishing community of women very quickly The prompting she received from God when she was doubting her contributions to the world What to do when we feel envious about the giftings another person has received (specifically when it comes to Instagram!) How do we *actually* get together with people and make a difference (especially after 2020!) Why viewing things through God's Economy changes everything   This episode is here to show you what you focus on is what you will find. And if you're looking for God's love, it's closer than you think. Connect with her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachaeladamsauthor Listen her to her podcast here: https://open.spotify.com/show/0LEICaLbf7Xmckby5yXStV?si=GzofhkguRTS5qo2ayUrsdw&nd=1&dlsi=3cff8d4bd02b4ba9<