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Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine·Hosted by Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine·466 episodes

SocietyCultureRelationshipsTvFilmCo-hostedRelationship adviceReality TV recapsListener Q&ABachelor-adjacent50-90 min

Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership.As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to delive...

Why listen

Dear Shandy blends practical dating advice with reality TV recaps from a married couple who are both funny, blunt, and unusually thoughtful about modern romance. Sharleen Joynt brings Bachelor-world insider experience, while Andy Levine adds skeptical, comic pushback, so episodes feel like sitting in on a smart living-room debate about relationships, red flags, and televised chaos. It is a strong fit for listeners who want relationship advice that is candid but not cruel, and for reality dating show fans who like recaps with emotional analysis.

Episodes

41 min
Jun 4, 2026Episode 468
Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468

Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatchThanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Dave:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dth_9- TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@davethomas9Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand!3:20 - What Happened With Sophie9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood?15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show?21:09 - Life After TV24:46 - What Is The Thought Process That Goes Into Getting A Neck Tattoo?29:37 - Ranking Cast Members30:04 - Is His Favorite Movie Really ‘The Notebook’?31:16 - Rapid Fire38:00 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

54 min
May 27, 2026Episode 467
Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Finale Kick Off25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony44:19 - Surprise Couple47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions49:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 8 min
May 21, 2026Episode 466
Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shsandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help!16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This?26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help!34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help!44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 16 min
May 20, 2026Episode 465
Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:06 - Episode 633:53 - Episode 71:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions1:14:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 22 min
May 14, 2026Episode 464
Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:16 - Episode 126:10 - Episode 235:32 - Episode 356:14 - Episode 41:07:53 - Episode 51:19:11 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

52 min
May 7, 2026Episode 463
U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463

Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance.Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!More Jordana & Jared:- The U Up? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/u.up.podcast- Jordana: https://www.instagram.com/jordanaabraham- Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreidTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast!0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs?9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More?11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous25:22 - Leaving The House31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow39:06 - Would You RatherIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#d

1 hr 8 min
Apr 30, 2026Episode 462
Q&A! Your Boyfriend Steals Your Jokes & The Setup From Hell - Ep 462

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your best friend puts zero thought into setting you up with her husband's friend, is that a slight or are you just sensitive? If your boyfriend's new hobby involves regularly "borrowing" your ideas, is it weird to be annoyed or is just a case of "sharing is caring"? At what age is OK to stop sending your nieces and nephews money? And if a family member is addicted to making AI-generated photos of your family, is it worth the awkwardness of saying something? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your Welcome Kit today!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:54 - Q1: At What Age Can I Stop Sending My Nephews Money?17:08 - Q2: My Friend Put No Thought Into Setting Me Up—Am I Being Too Sensitive?33:00 - Q3: My Boyfriend Loves Doing Standup But Keeps Stealing My Jokes—Help!50:30 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Is Addicted To Making AI-Generated Photos Of Our Family—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 1 min
Apr 23, 2026Episode 461
Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461

*Special Announcement*Dear Shandy will be moderating Amy's Book Launch Event in NYC on May 5th, 2026! For more info visit: https://luma.com/unsingleIt's not every day we bring back a Hot Topic guest, but when Amy Chan writes a new book, YOU BRING HER BACK. Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, Amy is a relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and Dating Bootcamp, retreats that apply a scientific, psychological approach to healing heartbreak and rewiring dating patterns. It has been 4.5 years since we first had Amy on, and now with her new book, "Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts" (April 28, 2026), she shares the science of rewiring your brain to actually find success in your love life. Today Amy chats your unconscious patterns, how being otherwise "high-achieving" is working against you, and at what leg in the "Dating Funnel" you're getting stuck. We promise you'll never see dating the same way again after hearing Amy's insights. Watch on to get "Unsingle"!Our first episode with Amy: https://youtu.be/FRXrV7AXHwY?si=NRMBdTNNAKy1PwEgThanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!More Amy:The Book, 'Unsingle': ⁠https://missamychan.com/unsingleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/missamychanTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome (Back) Amy Chan!3:30 - Unconscious Patterns6:44 - Does Being Otherwise “High-Achieving” Work Against You In Dating?11:00 - The Dating Funnel16:16 - Expanding Horizons25:34 - The Experiment27:37 - Age Gaps29:13 - Over-Icking33:15 - Chemistry49:14 - Situationships51:29 - People Pleasing54:18 - The Grass Is Always Greener56:39 - What You Can Do Now To Rewire Your Brain58:52 - Final TakeawaysIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https:

1 hr 8 min
Apr 16, 2026Episode 460
Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:17 - Q1: I’m Bored To Tears When My Husband Talks About His Job—AITA?21:16 - Q2: Can I Be Best Friends With My Best Friend’s Wife?30:27 - Q3: I’m Still Hung Up On A Girl Who Brought Out The Worst In Me—Help!43:42 - Q4: My New Flame Is Great But His Taste Is Not—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 27 min
Apr 13, 2026Episode 459
Temptation Island S2: Episodes 6-9 Recap & Review - Ep 459

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the second half of the season, episodes 6-9! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflixThank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:02 - Episode 635:28 - Episode 748:33 - Episode 81:01:15 - Episode 91:23:46 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 32 min
Apr 10, 2026Episode 458
Temptation Island S2: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 458

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the first half of the season, episodes 1-5! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflixThank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for the latest offer!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:22 - Episode 120:29 - Episode 232:09 - Episode 346:55 - Episode 41:13:56 - Episode 51:29:41 - Predictions1:30:46 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

48 min
Apr 3, 2026Episode 457
Age Of Attraction: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 457

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the REUNION!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:49 - Libby & Andrew8:27 - Vanelle & Jorge14:59 - Pfeifer & Derrick17:02 - Theresa & John34:09 - Leah & Chris42:06 - Vanessa & Logan46:15 - Best Dressed46:36 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 26 min
Mar 30, 2026Episode 456
Age Of Attraction: Episodes 6, 7 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 456

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the second batch, episodes 6 & 7, as well as the FINALE! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:07 - Theresa & John35:14 - Pfeifer & Derrick47:54 - Leah & Chris51:17 - Libby & Andrew1:04:15 - Vanessa & Logan1:22:10 - Overall ThoughtsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 19 min
Mar 26, 2026Episode 455
Age Of Attraction: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 455

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the first batch, episodes 1-5! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to buy any two cans of Olipop in-store and get paid back for one!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of Goodwipes at Walmart!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping & Introduction7:22 - Theresa & John20:49 - Libby & Andrew34:39 - Vanelle & Jorge & Justin59:00 - Pfeifer & Derrik1:02:23 - Joleen & West1:02:36 - Leah & Chris1:06:06 - Vanessa & Logan1:18:24 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 18 min
Mar 23, 2026Episode 454
'The Bachelorette' With Taylor Frankie Paul Is CANCELLED—Shandy Weighs In - Ep 454

Just 3 days before its scheduled premiere, The Bachelorette Season 22 starring Taylor Frankie Paul was abruptly cancelled. Many of you wanted to hear Shandy's take on the news and the shocking reason why. So today, in lieu of the Bachelorette Premiere recap that was meant to drop today, they're answering your burning questions Q&A style.Thanks to our sponsors!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your first box today!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:23 - Shandy’s Honest Thoughts When Taylor Was Announced As Bachelorette12:15 - How Did ABC Rationalize Casting Taylor?19:10 - Did You See This Coming?19:38 - Were You Looking Forward To Recapping Taylor’s Season?20:07 - Thoughts On Whether Or Not Dakota “Instigated” And Strategized The Video Release21:16 - Could Taylor’s Behavior Be “Reactive Abuse”?24:32 - Do You Think Dakota Got Paid For The Video?27:26 - How Much Do You Hold Jesse Palmer Responsible For His Complicity?29:58 - How Do You Think This Situation Would Be Treated Differently If Taylor Were A Man?31:27 - Do You Think The Show Owes The Men An Apology?34:46 - Do You Think The Season Will Air At A Later Date?38:40 - Did Shandy See The Premiere Screener And If So, Thoughts?51:40 - How Do You Think The Men Feel?55:07 - Who *Should* The Show Have Chosen?56:51 - “How Bad Of A Person Does It Make Me That I Still Want To Watch The Season?”57:21 - Do You Think All Of This Was A Ploy?59:43 - Can The Franchise Recover From This? 1:05:09 - Has Modern Dating Culture Outgrown ‘The Bachelor’?1:05:47 - How Does A Sudden Pivot Like This Affect Dear Shandy/Podcasts?1:07:46 - “Do You Feel This Is Good, To Not Give Trash Humans A Platform?”1:11:34 - Overall Thoughts On Taylor Frankie Paul1:14:50 - Deep Down Is

56 min
Mar 19, 2026Episode 453
Q&A! Your Boyfriend Isn't "Obsessed" With You & Your Dad Has 2 Girlfriends - Ep 453

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your elderly dad is juggling two girlfriends, is it acceptable to refuse to meet them? When your stepmom "forgets" your rule around holiday travel, is it better to hold firm or just keep the peace? Your boyfriend tells you you're perfect but also says he isn't "obsessed"—what's your next move? Finally, if you did a sizable favor for a friend and she never even bought you a meal as thanks, does confronting her make *you* the A-hole?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Text SHANDY to 64000 to get a Pocket Hose's FREE pocket pivot and 10-pattern sprayer with the purchase of ANY size Copper Head hose!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your night guard!- Buy any two cans of Olipop in store and we’ll pay you back for one. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY !- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:45 - Q1: My Elderly Dad Is Juggling Two “Girlfriends”—Help!9:47 - Q2: My Stepmom Is Ignoring My Holiday Travel Boundaries—Help!18:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend Tells Me I’m Perfect But Also Says He Isn’t “Obsessed” With Me34:34 - Q4: My Longtime Friend Did Nothing To Acknowledge The Favor Gave Her—AITA For Confronting Her?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 22 min
Mar 13, 2026Episode 452
Love Is Blind S10: Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 452

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Reunion for Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY for their latest offer!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:43 - Reunion Kick Off5:02 - Christine & Vic8:12 - Amber & Jordan15:29 - Bri & Connor19:47 - S8’s Sara & Joey20:43 - Jessica & Chris33:59 - Emma & Mike42:54 - Ashley & Alex59:14 - Brittany & Devonta1:12:33 - S4’s Bliss & Zach1:17:29 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed1:18:53 - Overall Thoughts1:19:46 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

55 min
Mar 5, 2026Episode 451
Love Is Blind S10: Finale Recap & Review - Ep 451

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Season 10 Finale of Netflix's Love Is Blind!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 10% off for life!- Go to https://oneskin.co/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard!Time Stamps:Coming soonIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

53 min
Mar 1, 2026Episode 450
The Traitors S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 450

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today is a 2-for-1 as Shandy breaks down both the Finale and Reunion! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:41 - Finale16:50 - Fire Of Truth27:45 - Reunion49:59 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 47 min
Feb 25, 2026Episode 449
Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 10-11 Recap & Review - Ep 449

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 10-11, aka Batch 3 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:33 - The Bowling Party, Cont’d24:54 - Christine & Vic30:58 - Amber & Jordan37:54 - Brittany & Devonta54:54 - Ashley & Alex1:20:34 - Bri & Connor1:33:53 - Emma & Mike1:46:07 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

43 min
Feb 23, 2026Episode 448
The Traitors S4: Episode 10 Recap & Review - Ep 448

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 10. Thank you to our sponsors...- Buy two cans of Olipop in store and get paid back for one at https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!0:00 - Housekeeping1:46 - Episode 1027:36 - Round Table 39:10 - Best DressedIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 44 min
Feb 18, 2026Episode 447
Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 7-9 Recap & Review - Ep 447

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 7-9, aka Batch 2 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY for 15% off 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:03 - Christine & Vic9:34 - Amber & Jordan12:57 - Ashley & Alex43:30 - Brittany & Devonta52:05 - Emma & Mike1:03:47 - Jessica & Chris1:19:21 - Bri & Connor1:24:07 - Bowling Group Party1:40:53 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

41 min
Feb 16, 2026Episode 446
The Traitors S4: Episode 9 Recap & Review - Ep 446

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's recaps are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 9. Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your first box!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:57 - Episode 937:45 - Best DressedIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 55 min
Feb 11, 2026Episode 445
Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 1-6 Recap & Review - Ep 445

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 1-6, aka Batch 1 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your first box!- Go to https://oneskin.co/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping4:02 - Christine & Vic13:09 - Amber & Jordan17:20 - Ashely & Alex35:27 - Bri & Conner (& Chris)53:57 - Chris & Jessica1:02:31 - Emma & Mike (& Conner & Steven)1:26:56- Kevan & Keya & Tyler1:44:33 - Brittany & Devonta1:51:37 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

38 min
Feb 9, 2026Episode 444
The Traitors S4: Episode 8 Recap & Review - Ep 444

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's recaps are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 8. Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:25 - Episode 814:23 - Round Table31:39 - Best DressedIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 20 min
Feb 5, 2026Episode 443
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 7! - Ep 443

IT'S TIME, SHANDIES!!! Today's the day for volume 7 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our Q&As and caller episodes, do you find yourself wondering "where are they now?" Well, today is all about filling in those blanks!We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://monos.com and use code DEARSHANDY for an extra 10% off their Monos' Valentine's Day Sale, while it lasts!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:26 - Ep 313, Q5 From K: “Have I Been Using My Hardships As An Excuse To Not Be ’30 And Flirty’?” 10:16 - Ep 354, Q1 From K: “My Maid Of Honor Thinks I Should Have A Dry Wedding To Accommodate Our Mutual Friend—Help!” 24:15 - Ep 387, Q5 From Anonymous: “My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help!” 38:52 - Ep 388, Caller Emily: “He Can’t Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?”56:25 - Ep 429, Q4, From Anonymous: “My Husband Gifted Himself A Solo Sex Toy For Our Anniversary—Am I Overreacting?” 1:02:23 - Ep 435, Q3, From Elle: “My Sister-In-Law Has Accused Me Of Emotionally Cheating With Her Husband—Did I Overstep?”1:13:19 - Ep 439, Caller Catherine: “Should I Invite My Sister On A Vacation I Know She Can’t Afford?”If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices</

43 min
Feb 2, 2026Episode 442
The Traitors S4: Episode 7 Recap & Review - Ep 442

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 7! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to buy any two cans of Olipop in store and get paid back for one!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDYBOGO for buy-one-get-one PJs only available through February 8th!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:08 - Episode 721:16 - Round Table38:34 - Best DressedIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr
Jan 29, 2026Episode 441
Q&A! How To Tell Your Friends They're Filthy & Finding Your Own "Andy" - Ep 441

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why aren't there more single "Andy"s out there, and is finding one just a matter of luck? What does it mean if your parents tell you your husband is controlling, yet this is news to you? What to do when your two besties becomes enemies with each other, and you're caught in the middle? Finally, if you love your friends but not their pigsty of a house, should you still visit and stay as a gesture of love? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first mani system!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code "SHANDY" for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order!- Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and instantly find more affordable alternatives!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:50 - Q1: Is Finding My “Andy” Just A Matter Of Luck?18:33 - Q2: Is My Husband Controlling Or Are My Parents Gaslighting Me?29:47 - Q3: My Friends Have Become Enemies & I’m Stuck In The Middle—Help!46:45 - Q4: Are Our Friends Too Filthy Or Are We Too Judgmental? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

37 min
Jan 26, 2026Episode 440
The Traitors S4: Episode 6 Recap & Review - Ep 440

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 6! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:53 - Episode 632:48 - Best & Worst DressedIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 2 min
Jan 22, 2026Episode 439
Caller 📞 Sessions! "Should I Invite My Sister On A Vacation I Know She Can't Afford?" - Ep 439

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Catherine is the youngest of 4, and she wishes to celebrate her big sister's big birthday with a big trip. But should she invite their middle sister, who is unlikely to be able to afford it, but who won't handle the FOMO well? Or should she keep the trip under wraps? Our second caller, Renee, deeply regrets welcoming her friend's annoying husband into her friend group. Is it possible to hit "backspace" on introducing friends to friends? Listen on for the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions!Thanks to our sponsors....- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Catherine!31:41 - Shandy Debrief37:47 - Welcome To Caller Renee!58:22 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

38 min
Jan 20, 2026Episode 438
Love Is Blind Germany S2: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 438

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering the REUNION of Love Is Blind Germany, Season 2! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! #loveisblind #netflix #loveisblindgermany #libgermanyRecap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4Recap for episodes 5-8: https://youtu.be/QtYEYfcKTGQRecap for Finale: https://youtu.be/LUzkFx4KHDoThanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping4:58 - Gunnar & Josy12:41 - Andi & Yasmin20:35 - Jan & Loan25:07 - Jubriel & Wandi29:08 - Konstantin & Jessi34:12 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

37 min
Jan 19, 2026Episode 437
The Traitors S4: Episodes 4-5 Recap & Review - Ep 437

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 4-5! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:58 - Episode 414:18 - Episode 535:01 - Best DressedIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

26 min
Jan 16, 2026Episode 436
Love Is Blind Germany S2: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 436

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering the FINALE of Love Is Blind Germany, Season 2! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! #loveisblind #netflix #loveisblindgermany #libgermanyRecap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4Recap for episodes 5-8: https://youtu.be/QtYEYfcKTGQTime Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:43 - Andi & Yasmin10:01 - Gunnar & Josy16:14 - Konstantin & Jessi22:32 - Overall Thoughts22:57 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 11 min
Jan 15, 2026Episode 435
Q&A! Blocked Over An Emoji & My Friend's Affair With My Married Sister - Ep 435

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and we have a bunch of FAMILY questions today! What should you do if your friend of 15 years suddenly blocks you—seemingly over a DM with the "wrong" emoji?? If your husband's bestie-turned-family-friend commits an unforgivable sin and betrays the whole family, is it better to forgive or to cut ties? If you regularly complain about your in-laws with your sister-in-law's husband, is that overstepping and boundary? Finally, what to do about the Chatty Cathy in your life that just WILL NOT STOP TALKING?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order!- Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your Welcome Kit when you subscribe today!- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans in store!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:17 - Q1: My Friend Of 15 Years Blocked Me (Over An Emoji??)—Help!19:57 - Q2: My Husband’s Best Friend Betrayed My Whole Family—Should I Forgive Or Cut Ties?37:05 - Q3: My Sister-In-Law Has Accused Me Of “Emotionally Cheating” With Her Husband—Did I Overstep?1:02:00 - Q4: I’m Introverted & Cannot Deal With The Chatty Cathy In My Life—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 1 min
Jan 12, 2026Episode 434
Love Is Blind Germany S2: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 434

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering episodes 5-8 of Season 2 of Love Is Blind GERMANY! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out!Recap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:15 - Konstantin & Jessi15:29 - Jubriel & Wandi23:04- Gunnar & Josy34:15 - Jan & Loan41:04 - Andi & Yasmin58:21 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

48 min
Jan 9, 2026Episode 433
The Traitors S4: Episodes 1-3 Recap & Review - Ep 433

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1-3! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:04 - Andy Guesses Who’s Most “Famous”5:53 - The Prize Money7:07 - Traitors10:19 - Alan Cummings16:53 - Episode 230:30 - Episode 342:54 - Shandy’s Predictions44:04 - Players To WatchIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 16 min
Jan 8, 2026Episode 432
Love Is Blind Germany S2: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 432

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering episodes 1-4 of Season 2 of Love Is Blind GERMANY! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out!Thank you to our sponsors...- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free Shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:04 - Konstantin & Jessi19:57 - Jubriel & Wandi (& Josy)35:41 - Gunnar & Josy49:54 - Jan & Loan58:35 - Andi & Yasmin (& Dustin, Celia, Nadia)1:14:10 - Who Would We Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 39 min
Dec 18, 2025Episode 431
2025 In Review + BONUS Q&A! The Year's Ups And Downs & Your Juicy Qs Answered - Ep 431

Today's a special day, Shandies! We polled you over on Instagram about what YOU wanted your last episode of 2025 to be: A 2025 Year In Review or a classic Q&A? It was an even split, so as many of you requested, today we're doing BOTH! Join us as we go down memory lane and recap 2025 together, AND as we answer some juicy Q&A questions along the way!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 55% off your custom night guard plus a FREE foam gift!- GO to https://www.factormeals.com and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:43 - Best NYC Date Night of 20254:55 - Best Escape Room of 20255:39 - Cutest Ruby Moment of 20257:00 - Favorite TV Show Of 20258:25 - Biggest Lesson Learned in 202513:08 - Q1: When Dating Multiple People, Should I Tell My Dates?27:01 - Best Meal of 202528:25 - Best Dessert of 202530:03 - Favorite Person You Met In 202530:57 - Q2: I Have A Crush On My Close Friend’s Wife—Help!48:40 - If You Could Relive One Day in 2025 What Day Would It Be?52:32 - Favorite Movie Of 202555:10 - Favorite Book Of 20251:02:16 - One Situation In 2025 Which You’re Proud Of How You Handled1:05:00 - Favorite Socks Of 20251:06:17 - Q3: I Want Kids But He’s On The Fence—How Do I Make Sure He Doesn’t Waste My Time?1:18:28 - Dream Guest Of 20261:23:08 - Which Q&A Question Of 2025 Are You Most Curious About The Outcome Of?1:25:59 - Proudest Moment Of 2025?1:32:38 - 2026 ResolutionIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 11 min
Dec 11, 2025Episode 430
LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430

It's Love Fest time again, Shandies!!! 🎉 We couldn't be more delighted to welcome The Season 2 Golden Bachelor himself—International man of mystery Mel Owens—and his lovely, multi-talented winner, Peg Munson! This is a particularly unique Love Fest, because unbeknownst to Shandy, Mel and Peg watched ALL the Dear Shandy recaps of their season! And trust us, they came with NOTES. 😱Today Mel and Peg pull back the curtain on their relationship and truth BOMBS are dropped at every turn. We get Mel's unfiltered thoughts on his infamous pre-filming podcast appearance and the very unexpected backstory of Peg's unicycle! We learn how these two complement each other, what hurdles they've overcome, and learn their incredible love and life advice. Best of all, since they watched Dear Shandy along the way, Mel and Peg aren't afraid to tell Shandy what they got right (and very, very wrong)! Finally, a hilariously disastrous Newlyweds Game that defies all the rules! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite pajamas at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and BOOM – it instantly finds you more affordable alternatives!- Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box!Referenced clip from the Eddie Murphy movie where Mel plays Bo Chandler: https://www.instagram.com/p/DR1K6aVkTdE/?hl=enMore Peg:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/peg__munsonTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@munsonpropertieslvYoutube - https://www.youtube.com/@munsonpropertiesMore Mel:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melowens58TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@melowens58Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Mel & Peg!3:07 - First Impressions9:00 - The Unicycle21:16 - Mel’s Infamous Podcast Appearance 25:47 - How They Complement Each Other29:24 - Early Hurdle30:41 - How They Fight32:00 - Common Misconcep

1 hr 14 min
Dec 4, 2025Episode 429
Q&A! Dating Despite A Dealbreaker & Was His Anniversary Gift Kinky Or Just Inappropriate? - Ep 429

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your podcast co-host disagree on whether or not to release an episode, should you compromise or stick to your perfectionism? If you know a relationship is doomed, is it still worth exploring for the experience of having "loved and lost"? If your entire family has near-daily Zoom calls, are you the A-hole for not wanting to participate? And if your husband gifts you a solo sex toy for your anniversary, is it kinky or just plain rude?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40% through December 12!- Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards better mental health today!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:59 - Q1: My Podcast Co-Host Wants To Release An Episode I Don’t Like—What Should I Do?11:12 - Q2: Is It Better To Have Loved And Lost Than To Have Never Loved At All?24:27 - Q3: My Entire Family Has A Zoom Call Almost Daily—Is This Normal & Do I Really Have To Join?49:06 - Q4: My Husband Gifted Himself A Solo Sex Toy For Our Anniversary—Am I Overreacting?If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

57 min
Nov 27, 2025Episode 428
LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! And what better way to celebrate thanks than with a double date?? That's right: It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Andrew Spencer and Alexe Godin from Season 10 of Bachelor In Paradise!Today Alexe and Andrew whirl into the studio despite Andrew's flight being delayed and Alexe having lost her phone! They give us a peek into the delightful chaos that is their relationship and discuss whether or not Alexe should have taken ALL the money on Paradise. We learn about the cultural differences of an American dating a Canadian, how they complement each other, and what they fight about (it's not what you think!) Finally, a hilarious mess of a Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing out loud! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY to get $150 off your first starter kit now until Dec 2!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to save 40% this weekend only from Thanksgiving through Cyber Monday!- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop!More Alexe:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexe.godinTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexe.godinMore Andrew:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/andrewzspencerTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewzspencerTime Stamps:0:00 - Interviewing Two Ghosts0:55 - Welcome To Andrew!6:13 - Welcome To Alexe!9:41 - Living In Chaos11:54 - First Impressions16:46 - Cultural Differences18:49 - How They Complement Each Other23:13 - Early Hurdle24:45 - What They Fight About32:02 - The Newlyweds GameIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyn

1 hr 14 min
Nov 20, 2025Episode 427
LOVE FEST! Jeremy Simon & Bailey Taylor Brown Are Ready To Surprise You - Ep 427

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Bailey Taylor Brown and Jeremy Simon from Season 10 of Bachelor In Paradise!Today Jeremy and Bailey give us a peek into their relationship and how they navigated blowback from their Paradise season. We learn the ins and outs of their dynamic that you didn't see on TV, how they complement each other, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a nail-biter of a Newlyweds Game that will keep you guessing until the very end! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and it instantly finds you more affordable alternatives!More Bailey:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/baileytaylorbrownTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@baileytaylorbrownMore Jeremy:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/j____wayTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@j____wayTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome to Jeremy & Bailey!1:21 - Living Together5:30 - First Impressions14:03 - Three Adjectives22:16 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves23:42 - How Jeremy’s Mom Handled The Show25:39 - Early Hurdle30:01 - Navigating Blowback From The Season38:15 - How They Fight43:27 - Common Misconceptions45:44 - Bailey’s True Thoughts On Jeremy’s Actions On BIP52:05 - The Newlyweds Game1:10:00 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Californ

55 min
Nov 13, 2025Episode 426
The Golden Bachelor S2: Finale | AFTER THE FINAL ROSE | Recap & Review - Ep 426

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose for ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40%!- Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards better mental health today!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Pajamas at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box!Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for up to 40% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping + Opening Thoughts5:04 - Finale Kick Off22:44 - Cindy Hot Seat35:27 - Peg & Mel In Antigua37:55 - Proposal41:51 - After The Final Rose45:21 - Taylor Frankie Paul47:21 - Bloopers48:01 - Overall Thoughts51:20 - Shandy Word WatchIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

41 min
Nov 6, 2025Episode 425
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 7 | FANTASY SUITES | Recap & Review - Ep 425

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Fantasy Suite week for ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 55% off a custom nightguard plus a FREE gift!Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for up to 40% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:23 - Antigua6:12 - Peg’s Overnight18:34 - Cindy’s Overnight34:47 - Episode MVP35:19 - Andy’s A-Game35:29 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed36:01 - Shandy Word Watch!37:32 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1 hr 24 min
Nov 4, 2025Episode 424
The Golden Bachelor's Theresa Nist Responds To Gerry Turner's Book Claims - Ep 424

Shandy is thrilled to welcome Theresa Nist for an EXCLUSIVE in-studio conversation. You know Theresa as the winner of the mega-hit season 1 of The Golden Bachelor. She wound up engaged to Gerry Turner, their televised wedding was watched by millions, but they announced their divorce only 3 months later. What *really* happened behind the scenes, after the wedding, and after the cameras turned off?In light of Gerry's new tell-all book describing his version of events, Theresa sits down with Shandy for her most raw, unfiltered interview to date. How did it feel for Theresa to learn that Gerry wondered if he should have chosen his runner-up, Leslie? Did she mislead Gerry about quitting her career, did she misrepresent her finances, and did she read "How To Win The Bachelor" during filming, as he claimed in the book? Did she really make Gerry sleep on the sofa?! Theresa is normally very private but could not stay silent in light of the book's many accusations. Do not miss her brutally honest account.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Get up to 40% off your entire order at https://laundrysauce.com/SHANDY (their biggest sale of the year!)- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother!More Theresa:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theresa_nist- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theresa_nistPast Dear Shandy episodes covering Gerry & Theresa:- Love Fest: https://youtu.be/hWCr91mBGb0?si=LOOwxXqEToxIpIBY- Golden Divorce: https://youtu.be/PyiFysUZJMc?si=OzqnEI2Ee4_gm8gSTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Theresa Nist10:08 - Leslie19:32 - Temper22:22 - “East Coast Mentality”27:44 - Finances, Her Work, The Prenup42:18 - Lifestyle45:00 - House Shopping47:50 - Her Home49:26 - Physical Intimacy55:50 - Her Intentions1:05:59 - Her Character1:16:05 - Regrets1:20:18 - Message To GerryIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine<p

1 hr 8 min
Oct 30, 2025Episode 423
Love Is Blind S9: Ep 13 | REUNION | Recap & Review - Ep 423

By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the Reunion!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.oneskin.co/HAIR and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY10FM and use SHANDY10FM for 10 free meals plus one free item for life!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way!- Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY to take the first step towards better mental health today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:31 - Jordan & Megan11:11 - Patrick & Kacie19:32 - Joe & Madison29:40 - Kait34:41 - Nick & Annie41:58 - Anton & Ali51:47 - Edmond & KBIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

33 min
Oct 30, 2025Episode 422
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 6 | WOMEN TELL ALL | Recap & Review - Ep 422

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down the WTA of ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2!Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping and 365-day returns!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:42 - Women Tell All Kick Off18:39 - Cheryl20:33 - Debbie21:34 - Mel Arrives26:00 - Jared Fried29:49 - Episode MVP30:26 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

42 min
Oct 23, 2025Episode 421
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 5 Recap & Review - Ep 421

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Season 2, Episode 5 of ABC's The Golden Bachelor.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping and 365-day returns!- Try Remi risk-free at https://www.shopremi.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY forup to 50% off your custom nightguard!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:47 - Episode 5 Kick Off4:59 - Peg’s Hometown12:50 - Debbie’s Hometown20:37 - Cindy’s Hometown31:33 - Rose Ceremony36:59 - Episode MVP37:11 - Andy’s A-Game39:26 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

49 min
Oct 22, 2025Episode 420
Love Is Blind S9: Ep 12 | FINALE | Recap & Review - Ep 420

By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the finale, aka episode 12.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop!- Shop at https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://manukora.com/SHANDY to save up to 31% plus $25 worth of free gifts with the starter kit!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor...- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY (Sharleen's favorite picks: Fits Everybody Scoop Neck Bralette, Fits Everybody T-shirt Bra, and Fits Everybody Boyshort)Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:21 - Anton & Ali17:52 - Edmond & KB35:52 - Jordan & Megan46:23 - Shandy Word Watch47:24 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

51 min
Oct 16, 2025Episode 419
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 4 Recap & Review - Ep 419

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Season 2, Episode 4 of ABC's The Golden Bachelor.Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY10FM and use SHANDY10FM for 10 free meals plus one free item for life!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Episode 4 Kick Off4:25 - Group Date32:39 - Cindy’s 1-On-137:49 - Rose Ceremony44:01 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed44:20 - Episode MVP44:52 - Andy’s A-Game45:26 - Shandy’s PredictionsIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.