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Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda

Harris Creek Baptist Church·Hosted by Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp and Kathy Davidson·408 episodes

ReligionSpiritualityYoung adult faithPastoral adviceGuest conversationsStandalone episodesWeekly30-45 min

We’re all becoming something. What are you becoming? It's our goal for you to intentionally become the person God has called you to be. We'll release an episode each week with answers to real questions that college students and young adults are asking us. Listen in as Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson help you navigate life in your 20's and 30's!

Why listen

Becoming Something is practical Christian guidance for young adults trying to make faithful decisions about dating, work, anxiety, friendship, culture, and calling. Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson mix pastoral advice, listener-style questions, and guest conversations with well-known Christian authors and leaders. It is a strong fit for listeners in their 20s and 30s who want direct, Bible-shaped counsel that still speaks to everyday pressure points.

Episodes

39 min
Jul 20, 2026
The Happiness Crisis: Why Hard Things Lead to Joy | feat. Jon Eckert

This week we sit down with author and educator Jon Eckert to talk about his new book The Happiness Crisis and why the pursuit of happiness is actually keeping people from finding it. Jon breaks down how adversity, belonging, and curiosity are the real building blocks of a joyful life — and why Gen Z may be the generation that finally gets it right. Send this one to every parent, teacher, and young adult in your life, and grab a copy of The Happiness Crisis wherever books are sold! https://a.co/d/08kTjIow

28 min
Jul 13, 2026Episode 380
Who Are You Becoming in College? | feat. Josh Rutledge

In this episode we sit down with Josh Rutledge from Liberty University to talk about what spiritual formation actually looks like in the college years — and why the decisions you make at 19 can shape who you are for decades. JP opens up about his own first nine days of college and the fork in the road that followed, and Josh shares why this generation of students may be more spiritually hungry than any before them. If you're in college, heading there, or wish you could go back and do it differently, this one's for you!

33 min
Jul 6, 2026Episode 379
Faith, Fear & Fighting for Your Family | feat. Christian Huff

This week JP, Nate and Kathy sit down with Christian Huff, husband of Sadie Robertson, to talk about what it really looks like to lead your family through fear, anger, and hard seasons. Christian opens up about a terrifying medical scare with his daughter, wrestling with anger toward God, and what it means to step into spiritual strength as a husband and father. If you've ever found yourself blaming God for the enemy's work, this one is for you!

35 min
Jun 29, 2026Episode 378
Tough Enough: Calling Men Higher | feat. Trey Tucker

This week JP and Kathy sit down with therapist and author Trey Tucker to talk about the two traps most young men fall into — chasing achievement to outrun insecurity, or staying passive to avoid failing at all. Trey shares wisdom from his book Tough Enough on building a "team," getting comfortable with silence, and using what God gave you for others instead of yourself. He also tells the wild, true story of going undercover overseas to help rescue women from sex trafficking. Pick up Tough Enough and pass this one along to the men in your life who need to hear it.

15 min
Jun 22, 2026Episode 377
Priorities, Big Rocks & Beating Busyness | Live at Beso Live

As an extension of JP's Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include prioritizing the big rocks of life, why your phone is the biggest threat to intimacy with God, learning to say no, and what it actually takes to live a life leveraged for the kingdom.

31 min
Jun 15, 2026Episode 376
Modesty, Dating Standards & Motive | Live at Beso Live

As an extension of JP's Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include modesty and what the Bible actually says about it, how culture shapes our standards, dating with discernment, and why God cares more about why you wear what you wear than what you wear.

36 min
Jun 8, 2026Episode 375
Q&A with JP Part 2 | Live at Beso Live

We are back for Part 2 of the Q&A with JP as he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include storing up treasures in heaven, the purpose of prayer, grief and loss, discipleship, insecurity, legalism, and how to know if you're truly saved.

35 min
Jun 1, 2026Episode 374
Finding Hope in Suffering | feat. Kirby Kelly

In this episode we talk to author Kirby Kelly about her new book The Fabric of Hope. Life is full of seasons that leave us asking "why God?" — but what if those same seasons are exactly how He builds our faith? We talk with Kirby about how God weaves redemption into suffering and why bringing Him your honest pain is the key to finding real hope!

32 min
May 25, 2026Episode 373
Q&A with JP Part 1 | Live at Beso Live

As an extension of JP’s Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Becoming Something Live! Topics include feeling like you’re not doing enough for God, the Holy Spirit, dating and marriage, eschatology, spiritual success, Israel, and self-defense.

31 min
May 18, 2026Episode 372
Guarding Your Heart | Live at Beso Live

As we continue our BESO Live series, we start by answering a question about hearing God’s voice through dreams and how to discern what’s from Him. Then we dive into a conversation about staying pure and faithful through every stage of relationships—dating, waiting, and marriage.

29 min
May 11, 2026Episode 371
How to hear God’s voice | Live at Beso Live

In our first episode from BeSo Live, we answer the question that our attendees most wanted answered. They asked, “How do you hear God’s voice from your own thoughts?” If you want to grow in your understanding of God’s voice, this episode is for you!

51 min
May 4, 2026Episode 370
Blessed are the Spiraling (feat. Levi Lusko)

In this episode we get to talk to pastor and author, Levi Lusko, about his new book “Blessed are the Spiraling”. He shares with us about how God used a uniquely difficult season in his life. Many times God does His best work in the hardest times!

43 min
Apr 27, 2026Episode 369
Becoming Like Jesus (feat. Matt Chandler)

In this episode we talk to pastor and author, Matt Chandler, about his new book "Becoming Like Jesus". The path to holiness is oftentimes not a straight line. We talk with Matt about how God uses the ups and downs of life to shape us into the likeness of His Son!

36 min
Apr 20, 2026Episode 368
You Are Not Your Job Title

While our jobs are important, they are not our identity. How do we balance a desire to succeed in our job, without being obsessed with our job? We do our best to help you develop a healthy work ethic in this episode!

37 min
Apr 13, 2026Episode 367
Eyeing the Impossible (feat. Shannon Bream)

Fox News host and author, Shanon Bream, has just released a new book called “Nothing is Impossible with God”. She shares about how the stories in the Bible help give us faith today. Shanon even shares her own stories of God doing the impossible!

1 hr 10 min
Apr 6, 2026Episode 366
Revival in Iran (feat. David Nasser)

David Nasser is a leader in the American church, but he was born in Iran. He gives us an inside look into where Iran has been, where it is now, and where he hopes it goes in the future. You’re going to be moved by this episode!

40 min
Mar 30, 2026Episode 365
Modeling Faithfulness (feat. former top model Jon Passavant)

In this episode we talk to former top model, Jon Passavant, about how to navigate faithfulness in a difficult workplace. When you’re surrounded by people not following Jesus, how do you keep your standards? You won’t want to miss his stories!

38 min
Mar 23, 2026Episode 364
The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe (feat. Jennie Allen)

In this episode we get to speak with best selling author and speaker, Jennie Allen. Her new book “The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe” will help you identify where the enemy has deceived you. Satan has been a liar from the beginning, don’t let his voice win in your life!

55 min
Mar 16, 2026Episode 363
Gender Roles in the Church (feat. Preston Sprinkle)

In this episode we talk to author, Preston Sprinkle, about his new book “From Genesis to Junia”. Across denominations, there are varying perspectives on what the Bible says about gender roles. Through years of study, Preston gives us insight into what his perspective has become!

39 min
Mar 9, 2026Episode 362
How to handle the news (feat. Jason Woodruff)

In this episode we talk to Jason Woodruff, founder and editor in chief of The Pour Over, about how to handle the news. Some of us probably consume too much news, while others too little. How do we live informed, but not always outraged. This is an important episode for everyone!

34 min
Mar 2, 2026Episode 361
Can I be Friends with my Ex?

Break-ups are hard! In this episode we talk about how to handle all of the next steps. Should you reach out to your ex, or ignore them? All of that and more on this episode!

41 min
Feb 23, 2026Episode 360
Heal Your Hurting Mind (feat. Craig Groeschel)

We talk with pastor and author, Craig Groeschel, about his own journey to get a healthy mind. Craig experienced work burnout, but found some ways to heal his hurting mind. His insights will help you no matter what season you’re in!

37 min
Feb 16, 2026Episode 359
The Way We Date Isn’t Working

In this episode we talk through the major issues young adults have in dating. Are our standards too high? Not high enough? We talk through why things aren’t working and how to fix it!

37 min
Feb 9, 2026Episode 358
Preparing for Marriage (feat. Christian Bevere)

In this episode we get to talk to author, Christian Bevere, about how to wait well for marriage. In your singleness, how can you pray for your spouse while also being content in your current season?

32 min
Feb 2, 2026Episode 357
How to Be Yourself

Many of us are so prone to changing who we are based on who we’re around. In this episode we talk about how we can stop pretending, and to be who God created us to be!

41 min
Jan 26, 2026Episode 356
You Can Love the Bible! (feat. Amanda Bible Williams)

In this episode we talk to Amanda Bible Williams, one of the founders of She Reads Truth. They have put together a fantastic new resource called “The Bible is for You” that will help everyone love their Bible more. To learn to love the Word of God more, check out this episode!

44 min
Jan 19, 2026Episode 355
What Happens When We Sing (feat. Shane & Shane)

Shane and Shane have been writing songs for the church for years, and they’ve gotten to see how songs impact us. They’re convinced that we were made for worship! Their new daily devotional has helped thousands follow Jesus. To hear more, check out this episode!

34 min
Jan 12, 2026Episode 354
Can I Have Non-Christian Friends?

How do you handle friendships with people that don’t follow Jesus? How close can those people be to you? For help with your friendships, you won’t want to miss this episode!

32 min
Jan 5, 2026Episode 353
The Pressure to Perform (feat. Josiah Queen)

Josiah Queen is an artist that has found success at an early age. With songs like “The Prodigal” and “Dusty Bibles” he’s already selling out arenas in his young 20’s. We talk with him about what his journey has been like and how to stay grounded in God through all of it!

34 min
Dec 29, 2025Episode 352
Sex by Design Part 2 (feat. Juli Slattery)

We continue our conversation with clinical psychologist, author, and speaker Juli Slattery about sex. She answers some of the most asked questions on the topic of sex. Don’t miss this really helpful discussion!

35 min
Dec 22, 2025Episode 351
Sex by Design Part 1 (feat. Juli Slattery)

We get to speak to clinical psychologist, author, and speaker Juli Slattery about all things sex. She brings a wealth of knowledge to this subject and will help you wherever you’re at! Don’t miss this episode!

35 min
Dec 15, 2025Episode 350
Is Sarcasm a Sin?

How far is too far when it comes to joking around with friends? Are jokes and sarcasm ever ok, or it is a sin? For more, check out this episode!

31 min
Dec 8, 2025Episode 349
The Proof for Christmas (feat. Lee Strobel)

We continue our conversation with Lee Strobel about his book “The Case for Christmas”. He uses his investigative mindset to prove that Jesus really was born in a manger. However, he also sheds light on parts of the story you may not previously know!

29 min
Dec 1, 2025Episode 348
Seeing the Supernatural (feat. Lee Strobel)

We have a conversation with Lee Strobel about the evidence for supernatural things. God will work to bring joy to the angry heart, and even visions of Heaven to the dying. God is living and active and there is proof for it!

36 min
Nov 24, 2025Episode 347
Sleep, Alcohol, Food, and Your Brain (feat. Dr. Amen)

In this episode we talk with world renown Brain expert, Dr. Amen. He gives insights on how to live in a way that your brain will like! Healthy brains lead to healthier lives!

30 min
Nov 17, 2025Episode 346
Am I Doing Enough for God?

In this episode we talk about the pressure of doing all of the right things in our relationship with God. How do we know if we are praying or reading the Bible enough? If you struggle with feeling guilt, this episode is for you!

32 min
Nov 10, 2025Episode 345
Creating Real Community

What happens if you have friends, but may not really feel like you have genuine community? In this episode we talk about how to create deep relationships with the people around you. It may be simpler than you realize!

36 min
Nov 3, 2025Episode 344
Hearing and Obeying the Voice of God (feat. Jamie Winship)

In this episode, we conclude our conversation with Jamie Winship. He shares about how he has learned to follow the voice of God in his life. If you’re eager to be challenged in your faith this episode is for you!

32 min
Oct 27, 2025Episode 343
Who are you, really? (Feat. Jamie Winship)

In this episode we talk to Jamie Winship about finding our true identity. Many of us have lived for decades without actually understanding who God says we are. We are all unique creations of God and He has a special role for each of us!

27 min
Oct 20, 2025Episode 342
Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?

Is there a way to celebrate Halloween in a way that honors God? Or are we overthinking it entirely? Check out this episode for more!

28 min
Oct 13, 2025Episode 341
Should Christians Listen to Taylor Swift?

When it comes to movies, music and media, what are some boundaries that Christians should put up? Are we free to listen to whatever? What are the impacts if we do? We talk all that and more in this episode!

44 min
Oct 6, 2025Episode 340
In Sickness and in Health (Dating Thoughts from the Hospital)

JP’s stay in the hospital has brought increased clarity as to who you should be dating. With candor and clarity he talks about how sickness helps you know what to look for in a spouse!

35 min
Sep 29, 2025Episode 339
Dare to Be True (feat. Madi Prewett Troutt)

What does it look like to build identity on Christ before anything else? Madi Prewett Trout opens up about her journey into marriage, the pressure to perform, and how faith anchors true intimacy. Whether you’re engaged, married, dating, or still waiting — this conversation will encourage you to become who God’s calling you to be. https://a.co/d/2JYpgqS

31 min
Sep 23, 2025Episode 338
JP Health Update

In this special bonus episode we have a conversation with JP from the hospital. We cover how he’s processing this past week, why God doesn’t always heal, and how to serve someone who is hurting.

33 min
Sep 22, 2025Episode 337
How to Get Over Yourself

Pride and selfishness are silent killers in our relationship with others, and even with God. In this episode we talk about practical steps you can take to get over yourself!

27 min
Sep 15, 2025Episode 336
I’ve Lost My Passion for Jesus

Maybe you’ve been in a season where your fire for the Lord has fallen away. Your faith doesn’t have to stay that way! In this episode we talk about how to get your passion back and why it matters.

35 min
Sep 8, 2025Episode 335
The Roots of Revival (Feat. Tonya Prewett)

We get to have a conversation with author and visionary behind the Unite movement, Tonya Prewett. She shared with us about where this movement of God came from how prayer had the power to change everything. Pick up her new book, “Roses to Revival” here: https://a.co/d/eyMJJf4

31 min
Sep 1, 2025Episode 334
Can Ambition Honor God? (Feat. Ruslan KD)

We talk with Ruslan KD about his new book “Godly Ambition”. He’s a creative thinker and entrepreneur and has a lot to share about ambition. Is it a selfish thing? Or a God glorifying thing? For more check out his new book here: https://a.co/d/1xdGWx2

26 min
Aug 25, 2025Episode 333
Don’t Waste Your Waiting

When you don’t yet have what you hope God will provide, what should you do? We talk about how to make sure your waiting season isn’t a wasted season!

31 min
Aug 18, 2025Episode 332
Christians and ChatGPT

Is there anything that Christians should be worried about with AI? Is it all good? All bad? Somewhere in between? All of that and more in this episode!

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