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A Teen's Perspective

Dr. RJ·100 episodes

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A show for parents of teenagers. Each week, I interview teens so they can share their experiences growing up in today's world.

Episodes

14 min
May 23, 2026
Summer Success

Why is it so hard to get your teenager to make the most of their summer? You see them sleeping until the afternoon, staying up all night, turning into moody zombies who resist every productive suggestion you make. You want them to build good habits, stay motivated, maybe even earn some money or prepare for the future — but nothing you try seems to work. If you're exhausted from the constant battles and want real summer progress for your teen without destroying your relationship, this episode will show you the smarter path. I share when it's time to stop trying to handle it all yourself and bring in professional life coaching that actually understands how to motivate teens from the inside out. 🎧 Listen now and discover a better way forward this summer.

18 min
May 13, 2026
Life Coaching in 2026

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses the top reasons parents are seeking life coaching. There are changes happening among teenagers and it's important for parents to pay attention before it impacts their children.

16 min
Mar 11, 2026
How to Stop Disrepectful Teenagers

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the greater concerns with allowing teenagers to disrespect their parents. There are many strategies to encourage respectful conversations, but often times, parents do not utilize them. If you want your teenager to stop disrespecting you then tune in to this episode.

15 min
Feb 26, 2026
Social Media Battle

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses the number one battle between parents and teenagers. Social media has been a point of contention in families even before the Covid lockdowns. Dr. RJ explains why parents should not give in to their teens demands as it relates to technology.

18 min
Feb 11, 2026
Bad Advice

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the most common advice parents of teenagers give other parents. Unfortunately, this advice is rarely helpful and in some cases, it can be damaging. Tune in to this episode to learn strategies on how to help your teenager maximize their potential.

21 min
Jan 28, 2026
How to Discipline Teenagers

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the common difficulties parents experince when trying to discipline their teenagers. It is important for all parents to learn these strategies in order to minimize conflict in their homes.

17 min
Jan 14, 2026
Parenting, Marriage, and Health

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses the three main areas of life as a parent of a teenager.  Often times, one area can impact the other areas. He gives practical advice on how to improve all three.

22 min
Jan 8, 2026
Is Therapy Bad for Teens?

In this episode, Dr. RJ answers the question that most parents ask when learning about the benefits of life coaching. Life coaching is the preferred first line of defense when a child is struggling. What about therapy? Is therapy useful for the modern teenager? Dr. RJ answers these questions and more in this episode. Schedule your strategy session at https://drrjjackson.com/coaching

17 min
Jan 1, 2026
Teen Success in 2026

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses how to help your teenager or young adult find success in 2026. For many, 2025 was disappointing. Either your child struggled or did not perform at a high level. Dr. RJ describes the solution so that this year will not look like last year. If you are interested in our life coaching programs for teenagers, young adults, and parents then visit us at www.drrjjackson.com

19 min
Dec 31, 2025
Discipline Your Teen Correctly

In this episode, Dr. RJ teaches the correct way to discipline a teenager. Often times, parents are trying to correct their teenagers through yelling and punishments, but these are ineffective. At the end of this episode, parents of teenagers will know what to do and what not to do with disciplining their teens.

18 min
Dec 24, 2025
3 Mistakes Parents Make

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the top 3 mistakes that parents make with their teenagers. Unfortunately, these mistakes not only cause disputes in the home, but more importantly, they limit the growth of teens. Tune in to this episode to learn tips on how to help your child maximize their potential. If you are interested in Dr RJ's coaching program for PARENTS then scheule a strategy session at https://coachyourteen.com

18 min
Dec 20, 2025
Life Coaching Teenagers

In this episode, Dr. RJ teaches the basics of teen life coaching and why every teenager needs a life coach. He tackles the most common questions and misconceptions. Finally, he shares exactly how he coaches teenagers to success. If you are interested in scheduling a strategy session visit https://drrjjackson.com/coaching

17 min
Dec 11, 2025
Failure to Launch

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses the number one problem among older teens and young adults since Covid. He helps parents identify signs to look for in their teenagers. If you are a parent currently struggling with your child's lack of independence listen to the episode in it's entirety.

17 min
Nov 29, 2025
Holidays with Teens

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the most common problems that parents notice during the holidays. He also gives practical tips on how to prevent them from happening to you.

18 min
Oct 29, 2025
Willpower vs Conditioning

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses the differences between willpower and conditioning for teenagers. Many parents use strategies that influence willpower. The problem with choosing willpower is that it is not sustainable, nor does it yield results. Listen to this episode to learn the power of conditioning.

17 min
Oct 22, 2025
How to End Arguements with Teens

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the cure to arguments in your home. Even in the most loving families arguements can limit the success of the relationships between parents and their teenagers. Schedule your $10 strategy session at drrjjackson.com/coaching.

22 min
Oct 1, 2025
Marital Advice

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares his top three changes that parents can make to improve their marriages.  Healthy marriages create healthy environments for teenagers to succeed.

19 min
Sep 23, 2025Episode 1
Threat to Teens

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the number one threat that teens face each day. It's not going to a new school. It's not driving for the first time. This threat is much more terrifying for your child. As parents, you must equip yourselves with the knowledge and tools to effectively protect your children.

19 min
Sep 17, 2025Episode 1
Threat to Teens

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the number one threat that teens face each day. It's not going to a new school. It's not driving for the first time. This threat is much more terrifying for your child. As parents, you must equip yourselves with the knowledge and tools to effectively protect your children.

22 min
Aug 28, 2025
The Best Parenting Advice

Parents of teenagers, this episode is extremely important for you to listen to. Dr. RJ gives the best advice for parenting. After coaching over 14,000 teenagers, he shares the one thing that parents need to do immediately.

14 min
Aug 13, 2025
Back to School Motivation

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses why teenagers lose motivation when starting school in the Fall. He also shares a strategy that will help your child overcome the natural tendency to put fun above responsibility.

25 min
Jul 23, 2025
How Parents Can Hinder Growth

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses how parents can limit their child's growth. Too often, teens refuse to do things that will ultimately help them maximize their potential. So, parents are faced with a question. Do you need your child's permission before enrolling in programs that will support their growth?

17 min
Jul 10, 2025
Brainwashing

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses the brainwashing that happens among teenagers. He educates parents on what type of conditioning that is occurring and how to counteract the effects. If you are interested in learning more about life coaching, schedule a consultation at www.drrjjackson.com/coaching

14 min
Jun 25, 2025
Secret Strategy

In this episode, Dr RJ reveals a strategy that majority of parents of teenagers use everyday. Unfortunately, this strategy hinders the longterm success of the child. Listen to this episode to find a better strategy to use with your teenager.

16 min
Jun 18, 2025
Summer Strategy

In this episode, Dr. RJ talks about a strategy that will help your child develop certain qualities that will be necessary for school success. If you are interested in joining his life coaching program please schedule a consultation at www.drrjjackson.com/coaching

24 min
Jun 11, 2025
Sadness In Teenagers

In this episode, Dr. RJ reveals that sadness among teenagers is on the rise. He shares practical tips on what you should do and what you should not do when your teenager feels sad.

14 min
May 28, 2025
Do's and Don'ts for the Summer

In this episode, Dr. RJ gives parents ideas on how to help their teenagers have a productive summer. There are certain experiences that will hinder the child's future success. Parents want to avoid those this summer. Conversely, there are activities that teenagers can do that will enhance their success in the Fall. Teenagers should do those this summer. If you are interested in Dr. RJ's life coaching program for the summer, schedule a consultation at www.drrjjackson.com/coaching

24 min
May 14, 2025
Biggest Mistakes of 2025

In this episode, Dr. RJ addresses three common mistakes parent make with their teenagers. This episode will provide reasons why your teenager may choose to avoid spending time with their parents.

21 min
Apr 16, 2025
Parent Must Have

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the secret weapon that all parents have access to. This is a must have for parents who want a peaceful and respectful environment at home. If you are interested in learning more about Dr. RJ's coaching program for parents, schedule your consultation at https://drrjjackson.com/coachyourteen

16 min
Apr 2, 2025
Parenting in America

In this episode, Dr. RJ tackles the beginning of Pew Research Center's article, Parenting in America. If you are a parent of an adolescent, this episode will open your eyes about the common issues among today's teenagers.

18 min
Mar 19, 2025
Hidden Effects of Social Media

When it comes to social media, parents understand the many concerns. But what about the longterm effects? Many do not consider how social media could alter the way their child thinks. If your teenager is on social media then this episode is for you.

16 min
Mar 5, 2025
Should You Hire a Mentor

In this episode, Dr. RJ addresses the confusion between mentorship and life coaching. Both can be helpful but which one is right for your teenager. Join us as Dr. RJ educates families on finding the best help for their teens.

18 min
Feb 27, 2025
Social Media

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses the harms of social media and what parents can do to help their child. Even if your child has been using social media responsibly, this episode is for you.

14 min
Feb 21, 2025
Parent Teen Disconnect

In this episode, Dr. RJ uncovers reasons for disagreements with parents and teens. He shares how often times, the parents belief about their teenager is inaccurate. If you believe your relationship with your teenager needs improvements then schedule a consultation at the following link: https://drrjjackson.com/coaching

21 min
Feb 3, 2025
Chores for Teens

In this episode, Dr. RJ answers the question, "Should you force your teen to do chores?" The topic of chores is one of the most common causes of conflict in homes. Teenagers hate doing them so naturally they resist. Parents believe that chores will help them become more successful. Is that true? Listen to this episode to learn the secret to getting teens to do chores.

20 min
Jan 9, 2025
When To Use Aggression

The gentle parenting philosophy is on the rise. Is there ever a time to use aggression with your parenting? Or should every situation be handled gently? In this episode, Dr. RJ addresses the topic of gentle parenting and should aggression ever be used.

14 min
Dec 20, 2024
How to Change a Teenager

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares how parents can play a huge role in changing their child's overall mindset. With this skill, parents can help their teens maximize their full potential.

21 min
Nov 20, 2024
Friendships

In this episode, Dr. RJ reveals the main cause of your child's happiness (and sadness). He also shares a solution for parents to help train their teenagers when it comes to friendships.

18 min
Nov 12, 2024
Are Sleepovers Okay?

In this episode, Dr. RJ discusses the pros and cons of sleepovers. He also shares a strategy that will train your teenager to handle any situation. If you are interested in learning more about life coaching for your teenager visit us at https://drrjjackson.com/coaching

18 min
Nov 2, 2024
Election Coaching

The election is days away and your teen can be feeling very overwhelmed. In this episode, Dr. RJ shares strategies on how the parents can use the election to coach their teens on navigating contentious times in life.

20 min
Oct 29, 2024
How To Change Your Teen's Mindset

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares something that each parent can do today that will drastically change their child's mindset. If you are interested in life coaching for your pre-teen, teen, or young adult, schedule a consultation at https://drrjjackson.com/coaching

28 min
Oct 2, 2024
Parent / Teen Conflict

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares a strategy to use when all other strategies fail as it relates to growing the relationship with your teenager. This episode is for any parents with teens who defiantly make efforts to sabotage the relationship

19 min
Sep 21, 2024
Mistakes of 2024

In this episode, Dr. RJ reveals the most common mistakes parents are making this year. If you want to grow the relationship with your child, it is imperative that you stop making these crucial mistakes. If you are interested in coaching for you or your teenagers then schedule a consultation at https://drrjjackson.com/coaching

21 min
Aug 21, 2024
Back to School Tips

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares three tips on how you can support your child as they start school. Parents have the biggest opportunity to help their child maximize their potential this school year. Follow these tips to experience success with your child. If you are interested in learning about Dr. RJ's coaching program visit https://drrjjackson.com/coaching

20 min
Aug 7, 2024
Inside Out

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the hidden message in the movie, Inside Out. He discusses part 1 and reveals what your teenager may be learning after watching the movie. If you would like to learn how to manage your emotions then join Dr. RJ's private community at www.drrjjackson.com/few

13 min
Jul 17, 2024
Alternatives to Teen Life Coaching

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares the three alternatives to life coaching. If your child is not maximizing their potential then it is important that you find help for them. Teen life coaching is currently the best option for adolescents who are not taking the necessary steps to accomplish their their goals.

22 min
Jul 10, 2024
How Teenagers Change

In this episode, Dr. RJ breaks down the four ways teenagers change. Whichever issues your teen struggles with there are only four ways your child can change their behavior. Listen in to learn how you can potentially assist your adolescent with making changes in their life.

27 min
Jun 27, 2024
Takeaways From Parent Seminar

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares five key takeaways from his most recent parent seminar. He discusses how to handle disrespectful teenagers, what to do when your child starts dating, and more. If you are interested in learning more about teen life coaching visit www.drrjjackson.com/coaching

16 min
Jun 19, 2024
Takeaways from F.E.W.

In this episode, Dr. RJ shares his top three takeaways from his in-person transformative event for teenagers, F.E.W. He also shared that parents can join his private community by joining the waitlist at www.drrjjackson.com/waitlist. Finally, he discussed his desire to start a virtual book club for teenagers. If you are interested in your teen participating, fill out the form at www.drrjjackson.com/bookclub

9 min
May 23, 2024
Get Back Your Authority

In this episode, Dr. RJ encourages parents to take back their authority. Often times, parents unknowingly create an environment at home where teenagers are allowed to break rules and cross boundaries. This not only harms the relationship between the parent and child, but it also prevents the parental influence that is necessary for teenagers to maximize their full potential.