459 - Why Chasing Validation Is Like Eating Cotton Candy

In this insightful episode of the Secret to Success podcast, CJ, ET and Karl discuss the power of feedback, the importance of listening to those around you, and how stubbornness can hold you back from achieving your goals. CJ shares a personal story of missing out on a simple solution because he didn't listen, and Karl opens up about his journey of letting go of the need for external validation. Together, they explore why trusting the right people and being open to feedback is crucial in both business and life and ultimately why the applause of others is like cotton candy—sweet but ultimately empty—Learn how you can focus on what truly matters: growth, success, and real results. Join the S2S team as they unpack how ego and blind spots can derail your progress and what steps you can take to stay on track. From family dynamics to high-stakes travel complications, this episode is packed with real-life lessons and relatable stories. Don't miss out on these nuggets of wisdom that can help elevate your mindset and career! Patreon Are you ready to take your growth to the next level? Join the Secret to Success Patreon community for exclusive access to live recordings, behind-the-scenes content, and deeper insights you won’t hear on the podcast. This is your chance to connect with us, ask your questions directly, and join a driven, like-minded community committed to success. Plus, you'll get early access to episodes and bonus content designed to keep you motivated and focused on your goals. Don’t just listen—level up with us! Head over to Patreon.com/S2Spodcast120 to become a Secret To Success Patreon! Listener Perks Organifi Is giving our listeners up to 20% off of their order! Just go to www.organifi.com/success. Support your journey from sunrise to sunset with fan-favorite superfoods backed by science to replenish micronutrients, support energy and balance hormones from am to pm with our customer favorites. Shopify is the place to get your business started! Shopify is a complete commerce platform that lets you start, grow, and manage your business online. Has multiple templates available to design your store. Shopify can also integrate with existing software you currently use. Head over to Shopify.com/SecretToSuccess for a $1 per month for three months on select plans. This episode is sponsored by Better Help , your partner along your personal journey to self improvement. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/SUCCESS to receive 10% off your first month and get on your way to being your best self.