589 - Carlos is Into Non Monogamy, BDSM, Swinging, Polyamory and More

Carlos is into non monogamy, bdsm, swinging, polyamory and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did he decide to be non monogamous and poly? How did he get into bdsm and swinging? And what does he like and not like about both those worlds? Tune in for all the details including how when he moved to this country he decided to be non monogamous and has been ever since, the dated first girl he dated who agreed to being non monogamous and got him into bdsm, the spanking parties they went to, how and why the non sexual nature of bdsm world was disappointing to him, the sex camps he attends and what does down there, how and why he joined fetlife, the local munches he attended and exactly what they are and what goes down at them, his relationship with a female slave and why he wasn’t into being her “master,” the difference between the slave and submissive roles and why he prefers to be with a submissive, how he discovered he loves seeing his partners with other men, why and how both of them getting gastric bypass changed their relationship, how and why they went from non monogamy to polyamorous and how that ultimately ended their relationship, how he met his current “nesting” partner, how and why they have been poly from the start, why and how they are in a hierarchical partnership and why thats frowned upon in poly community, how she’s bisexual and he labels himself heteroflexible, his best male friend in college and how he now hooks up with him, how and when they started going to swingers clubs and how him and his current gf enjoy foursomes and group sex, their recent mfm threesome with a guy they met online, why he prefers hooking up with experienced swingers as opposed to newer people, all the partners they have on the side and how it all works, how they sometimes get jealous and how they work through it, why he prefers mmf threesomes over ffm threesomes, the swinging bdsm events he goes to and what goes down at them an a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of most of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers . A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices