About this episode
In this conversation, the hosts discuss the process of making amends in addiction recovery. They share personal experiences and reflections on the challenges and growth that come with making amends. They also touch on the impact of addiction on relationships and how sobriety has affected their approach to dating and building new connections. In this conversation, the speakers discuss their experiences with addiction and the challenges they faced in the workplace. They share stories of being homeless while working, using drugs while on the job, and the consequences they faced as a result. They also talk about the importance of finding a higher power, working the 12 steps, and the transformation that comes with recovery. The speakers emphasize the need for individuals to find their own path to recovery and the importance of sharing their stories to inspire others. Keywords addiction recovery, making amends, personal growth, relationships, sobriety, addiction, workplace challenges, homelessness, recovery, higher power, 12 steps, transformation Takeaways Making amends in addiction recovery is a process that requires self-reflection, accountability, and a genuine desire to change. Apologies in active addiction often lack sincerity and are not taken seriously by others. Making amends is not about showcasing personal growth, but about taking responsibility for one's actions and seeking forgiveness. Rebuilding relationships in sobriety requires self-awareness, growth, and a commitment to living by principles and values. Navigating dating and relationships in recovery can be challenging, and there may be a disconnect between those in recovery and those who have not experienced addiction. Addiction can have a significant impact on a person's ability to maintain employment and housing. Finding a higher power and working the 12 steps can be transformative in the recovery process. Recovery requires personal commitment and a willingness to change. Sharing personal stories of addiction and recovery can inspire others and provide hope. Each person's journey to recovery is unique, and it is important to find a path that works for them. Sound Bites "I was an avid. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry I'm so sorry and every time I said that I would go back and do the exact thing that I just apologize for" "I wasn't raised to be a piece of shit. I wasn't raised to steal from people. I wasn't raised to lie to people. I wasn't raised to hurt people." "The road to hell is paved with good intentions." "I've had another job where this was back in 2021. This is my last job that I had that I was inactive addiction before I just gave up on the workplace and just stuck to the streets." "So, so, so just saying you can't be productive on meth is just absolutely false. Let's just say I got my steps in." "He goes, listen, man, I used to suffer from the same problem. What you talking about? He goes, I know what you're going through." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Gratitude 02:04 The Importance of Making Amends 08:31 Reflecting on Past Actions and Values 13:25 Lessons and Growth from Relationships 21:30 Continued Growth and Building Better Relationships 26:06 Navigating Dating and Relationships in Recovery 29:09 The Disconnect Between Addiction and Normie Relationships 34:02 Employers' Understanding and Second Chances 34:58 Navigating Addiction and the Workplace 36:32 The Power of Finding a Higher Power 38:02 Transforming Lives Through Recovery 39:12 Inspiring Others Through Personal Stories 40:39 Finding Your Own Path to Recovery