Why Sex Feels Hard (Or Not): Ejaculation Dysfunction, Mismatched Libidos & Myths That Hold Men Back

Dr. Jesse Mills and Jordan are joined by sex therapist Natalie Finegood Goldberg for a no-shame, deeply practical crash course in the issues men are most afraid to talk about: premature and delayed ejaculation, mismatched desire, and the confusing role porn can play in modern sex lives. A licensed marriage and family therapist and clinical director of Creating Change LA, Goldberg explains why anxiety, tight pelvic floors, and fragile mind–body connection drive so many ejaculation problems—and how breathing work, pelvic floor therapy, “frontloading” conversations with partners, and even retraining how you masturbate can make a real difference. They dig into what happens when partners’ libidos don’t line up, why scheduled sex actually works , and how responsive desire is just as normal as spontaneous arousal. It’s an honest, compassionate guide to understanding your body, communicating better, and approaching sex as a skill—not a test you’re supposed to ace. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.