Am I Just “Nice,” Or Am I A People Pleaser? Signs You’re People Pleasing

Somatic trauma therapist Chloe Bean joins Felicia and Kristie to talk everything people-pleasing. Drawing from her expertise in high-functioning anxiety, Chloe breaks down people-pleasing as a learned trauma response. She explains how it can originate from a childhood need for safety and why prioritizing others leads to resentment and losing yourself. Some takeaways: How people-pleasing works as a survival habit The connection between people-pleasing and losing yourself How prioritizing others' needs often leads to exhaustion and resentment Shifting from fear to setting authentic boundaries For sponsorships, please reach out to wytt@besttherapists.com Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack Follow WYTT on Instagram Follow Felicia on Instagram Connect with Chloe: IG: @chloebeantherapy Website: www.chloebeantherapy.com Freebie: https://chloe-bean-therapy.kit.com/freebie *Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle *Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks *Brought to you by BestTherapists.com *Produced by PodVision . If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it! This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.