About this episode
🎙️ Jay Rod was removed from B-Team. The community response was just as revealing as the offense. In this episode of Fighting Matters, Steve Kwan, Jesse Walker, and Jeff Shaw dissect the fallout from the Jiu-Jitsu world after Jacob “Jay Rod” Rodriguez was kicked out of B-Team following revelations of inappropriate behavior. While the gym acted swiftly and decisively, parts of the community rushed to defend him—and that’s where the real conversation begins. This isn’t about legal definitions or criminal charges. It’s about what kind of culture we’re building on the mats—and why so many in Jiu-Jitsu still treat predatory behavior with a shrug, if not outright support. The team breaks down the incident, the excuses, and what it says about power, values, and safety in martial arts spaces. ⸻ 👥 Featuring: Jeff Shaw ‪@BellinghamBJJ‬ Jesse Walker ‪@RoughHandsBJJ‬ Steve Kwan ‪@bjjmentalmodels‬ ⸻ 🧠Topics We Cover: • Why B-Team made the right call • The myth of “he didn’t break the law” • How power dynamics warp gym culture • Why community pushback matters more than you think • The real cost of prioritizing athletes over safety ⸻ 📖 Chapters: 00:00 Community Reaction to Jay Rod's Removal 02:48 Understanding Inappropriate Conduct in Jiu-Jitsu 06:07 The Impact of Power Dynamics in Gyms 08:55 Moral Standards vs. Legal Standards 11:42 Consequences and Redemption in the Jiu-Jitsu Community 14:50 The Path Forward for Jay Rod