21 | The Winning Mindset: Why Most LO’s Stay Stuck and How to Break Through

Feeling like you're getting your ass handed to you in this business? Good. That means you're growing. Now let's do something about it. Hey there, rainmakers! If you’re in the mortgage business, you’ve felt it: the pressure, the fires, the ghosting, the chaos. In this solo episode, I pull back the curtain on my own journey—after 6,500+ closings—to share the mindsets that keep you stuck … and what it takes to finally break through . From control issues and perfectionism to team leadership, trust, and thick-skin resilience, this is the real talk no one else is having. I also share why your next level won’t come from grinding harder—it comes from expanding your comfort zone , refining your process, and staying coachable every damn day. I made this episode especially for my Catalyst Coaching Community and those of you gearing up for our upcoming events. If you’re ready to grow your business by growing yourself , this one’s for you. No more excuses. Let’s rise. Let’s lead. Let’s make it rain. ☔🔥 💡 Key Takeaways: 💡 Chaos doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong—it means you’re growing 💡 Your business will never outgrow your personal growth 💡 You don’t need “perfect people”—you need people who care and own their mess 💡 Control, perfectionism, and needing harmony = secret business killers 💡 Stop making the client the hero—start championing your team 💡 Discipline to process is what makes you unfireable 💡 Track pre-approval meetings—they’re the stage where trust is built and deals are won 💡 Everyone’s insecure. Focus on how you can help and the nerves go away If you liked what you heard, leave me a five-star review and tell me what hit home for you! PLUS—if you’re done chasing the next shiny idea and want real, proven strategies that actually move the needle, then it’s time to join my free weekly newsletter, Rainmaker Insider . Every week, I share one key lesson from my billion-dollar career in mortgage lending—from sales psychology and leadership to mindset and systems that create true freedom. No fluff. Just real-world insights that help you close more deals and lead with confidence. Subscribe now at shaylagifford.com and start leading like the Rainmaker you’re meant to be! Connect with Shayla: Shayla on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shaygiff/ Shayla on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shayla-gifford-3019396/ Show Links: Shayla's Website: https://shaylagifford.com/ The Mortgage Rainmaker Podcast: https://shaylagifford.com/podcast/ The Catalyst Coaching Community: https://shaylagifford.com/catalyst/ Guild Mortgage: https://www.guildmortgage.com/