About this episode
We talk a lot about forgiveness as something victims should offer, as if it's primarily about letting go for your own peace of mind. But we rarely talk enough about what forgiveness requires from the other side: a genuine, meaningful apology from the person who caused harm. If you find yourself needing to apologize, don't wait for the perfect words. They don't exist. What exists is your willingness to be honest, humble, and accountable. That's where real apologies live—and where real forgiveness becomes possible. I know this is a bit different from my usual messages but I hope if the day comes that you want to apologize you’ll find this helpful.