About this episode
Good friendship isn't complicated, but it is intentional. At its core, being a good friend means showing up—not just physically, but emotionally. It's remembering that your friend got that promotion they were nervous about and asking how the first week went. It's listening without immediately trying to fix or judge. It's celebrating their wins as genuinely as you'd celebrate your own. The best friends I know have mastered the balance of being present without being intrusive, supportive without being enabling, and honest without being harsh. They text back (eventually), they keep confidences, and they love you through your messy seasons without making you feel like a project to be managed. Good friendships are grown, not found. They develop slowly through consistency, trust, and the willingness to see each other clearly and love each other anyway. In a world of quick connections, the deepest friendships are still built the old-fashioned way: one real conversation at a time.