Frans Ludeke: The Soft Skills of Really Caring and Loving People

Frans Ludeke, legendary rugby coach with over 30 years of experience spanning South Africa to Japan, reveals the leadership principles that have defined his remarkable journey. Having transformed the Kubota Spears from a struggling second-division team to Japanese champions, Frans shares how authentic leadership and genuine care create the foundation for sustainable success. "Take your wins to your heart and your losses to your head," Frans advises, describing a mental approach that allows coaches to appreciate victories emotionally while processing defeats intellectually. This wisdom, passed down from his mentor, serves as a powerful framework for handling the inevitable ups and downs of coaching. Frans defines culture as "glue" that binds teams together, something that must be fed daily through consistent messaging, clear vision, and accountability. His philosophy centers on creating environments where players can grow, enjoy themselves, and succeed by striking the perfect balance between fun, fairness, and toughness. The transformative experience of raising triplets in Japan fundamentally shifted his leadership approach, teaching him the "soft skills of really caring and loving people." What distinguishes Frans's coaching is his commitment to creating "tables" where players contribute meaningfully to team direction. Even with world-class players like Victor Matfield at the Bulls, Frans prioritized player involvement in strategic decisions. His willingness to adapt his approach based on circumstances—simplifying communication in Japan and returning to teaching fundamentals—demonstrates his remarkable flexibility as a leader. For aspiring coaches, Frans emphasizes authenticity and emotional intelligence: "Be yourself, but have the ability to change gears in your leadership style." Different players require different approaches—veterans need ownership while rookies need clear direction. This adaptive leadership philosophy has proven successful across cultures and competitions. Join us for this unmissable conversation with one of rugby's most thoughtful and successful coaches, and discover leadership insights that extend far beyond the playing field. Send us a text If you can SUBSCRIBE, RATE, and SHARE the show and series, you would be doing your bit to grow this show. Very appreciated. Ben To subscribe to the newsletter or to get a copy of the book, jump onto: www.coachingculture.com.au Support the show Share this show with your mates, rugby, coaches, leaders! Dont be shy.