#186 - Kyle Thompson // A Sober, Gentle Man

We're diving deep into the qualifications for church overseers found in 1 Timothy 3:1-7, specifically focusing on verse 3 which states that an overseer must be "not a drunkard, not violent, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money." • Scripture clarifies that "not a drunkard" doesn't prohibit all alcohol consumption, as even Jesus drank wine (Matthew 11:19) • An overseer should never get drunk or be dependent on alcohol • "Not violent, but gentle" is like meekness – strength under control • Comparable to a Navy SEAL who can eliminate threats but still show tenderness to innocent children • "Not quarrelsome" means not walking around with a chip on your shoulder or looking to start arguments • "Not a lover of money" corrects the misquote about money being evil – it's the love of money that's problematic • An overseer shouldn't be consumed by acquiring possessions, power, or wealth Ask yourself throughout this week: "Do I have what it takes to be an overseer?" If you want to help equip other men for the fight, share this podcast and leave us a five-star rating and review. Support the show Want to connect? Email communication@coe22.com