Speed, Grit, and Raising Resilient Junior Golfers: Insights from Virgil Herring

In this episode of The Golf Parent Podcast , I sit down with Virgil Herring , a leading voice in junior golf coaching, to explore what it takes to develop not just great golfers but extraordinary individuals. Virgil shares his philosophy on balancing speed, grit, and mental resilience to help young players thrive both on and off the course. He reveals why struggle is essential for success , how parents can model the right behaviors , and why fostering autonomy and fun in golf is key to long-term development. We also dive into the emotional dynamics of youth sports and the crucial role parents play. Virgil offers actionable advice on maintaining a balance between praise and critique, managing competitive pressure, and using golf as a metaphor for navigating life’s challenges. From building confidence through competition to the transformative power of positive self-talk and hypnosis, this conversation is packed with insights for parents, coaches, and junior golfers alike. Whether your child is just starting out or competing at the highest levels, this episode provides invaluable strategies to help them excel while keeping the game fun and meaningful. Subscribe now for more expert tips on raising junior golf champions both on and off the course, and share your thoughts in the comments below! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Junior Golf Coaching 02:58 The Importance of Speed in Golf 05:52 Complacency and the Struggle for Success 09:05 Instilling Grit and Passion in Kids 11:53 The Role of Parents in Fostering Grit 14:53 Creating a Fun Learning Environment 17:53 The Mental Game of Golf 20:48 Using Golf as a Life Coaching Tool 24:09 The Importance of Competition in Development 26:47 Self-Talk and Mental Resilience 34:45 Navigating Parental Support in Sports 41:01 The Balance of Praise and Critique 45:48 The Power of Immersive Presence 53:30 Harnessing the Mind: Hypnosis in Sports 01:07:16 Encouraging Fun and Autonomy in Children Links: Virgil Herring Website - https://virgilherring.com/ Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/virgil.herring/⁠ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/virgil.herring X - https://x.com/i/flow/login?redirect_after_login=%2Fvirgiltourspin Books - https://virgilherring.com/books-by-virgil-herring/ Podcast: On the Virg The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent X - https://x.com/thegolfparent