The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor
Join hypnotherapist, subconscious mind expert, and relationship coach Kate Shelor in her cozy bed for fun, sexy talks on sex, relationships, intimacy, and romance. No topic is off-limits, from non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, stripping, to online sex work and more! Each episode features a special guest sharing personal stories, confessions, and a juicy "dirty secret." Tune in for slumber party vibes as Kate and her guests dish out dirt, laugh, and get real about the things we all want to talk about! Links: => https://beacons.ai/realkatykat
Jul 25
Dirty Secrets Ep 042 “Barefoot Mama – Getting Recognized, Collab Chaos & Ranch on Her Feet” 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Barefoot Mama (@@barefootmamamn) She got recognized in a Vegas restaurant by a woman screaming, “You’re that b*tch my husband pays for.” And honestly? She kind of loved it. This episode is WILD—in the best way. Barefoot Mama (aka Jen) shares how she went from child protection investigator to viral TikToker to full-blown adult content creator. We talk about secret OnlyFans launches, collab house drama, fisting injuries (yep), gangbang goals, and what it’s really like filming back-to-back scenes with strangers. She opens up about racism in the industry, dating disasters, feet in ranch dressing, and the pressure to be emotionally available to men while getting railed on camera. You’ve never heard a Minnesota girl tell it quite like this. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @@barefootmamamn Bone on a Zamboni, anyone?
Jul 17
Dirty Secrets Ep 041 “Lauren Elise Rogers – Purity Culture, Secret Fantasies & Escaping Shame” Ever tried to go from “don’t touch yourself” to “be a sex goddess overnight”? Yeah... it doesn’t exactly work. Lauren Elise Rogers was raised in deep evangelical purity culture, married a man who later came out as gay, and spent years untangling shame from her sexuality. Now? She’s a sex educator on a mission. We go deep on obligatory sex, religious guilt, post-divorce horniness, and why masturbation was her ultimate act of rebellion. Lauren shares her fantasies (hello, teacher/student), the therapy that saved her, and what purity culture really does to long-term relationships. If you were raised to feel bad about pleasure—or still can’t shake that inner guilt—you’re going to love this one. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @laureneliserogers
Jul 11
Dirty Secrets Ep 040 “Coy Wilder – Stranger Videos, Open-ish Marriage & Getting Caught Kissing” Coy Wilder spills everything—from her wild past filming real-life “stranger” encounters to her unapologetically hot cheating wife fantasy series. In this no-filter convo, Coy opens up about being raised in a small Southern town, how OnlyF’s cost her friendships and family, and why getting “caught” is still her favorite thrill. Kate and Coy dive into cuck dynamics, kissing boundaries (that went too far), and how her husband went from jealous to fully supportive… well, sort of. They talk about collabs, content, and the unexpected reality of filming sex for a living—like when Coy squirted on the cameraman from 20 feet away. If you’ve ever wondered what really goes down behind those stranger video titles or how to balance a hotwife fantasy with real-life love, Coy doesn’t hold anything back. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @officiallycoywilder
Jul 4
🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brooke Ryan (@brookebanter) & Coy Wilder (@officiallycoywilder) (OF @brooke_lovelydd @brookeryanvip @coywilderxxx @coywilder) Besties turned collab queens! Brooke and Coy open up about how they met in a creator house, went down on each other on day one, and never looked back. They talk about the blurred lines between friendship and intimacy, how collabs turned into sleepovers, and why their chemistry has fans begging for more. From strap-on 3somes and FaceTime cuck vids to live cam parties with double “come shows,” nothing is off-limits. They dive into orgy logistics, DILF preferences, and their most popular toys—plus, how preheating the oven is essential before getting wrecked on camera. They’re funny, flirty, and maybe in a full-blown relationship. But don’t worry, it’s still non-monogamous and profitable. @DirtySecretsPodcast@KateShelor @brookebanter @officiallycoywilder OF @brooke_lovelydd @brookeryanvip @coywilderxxx @coywilder
Jun 27
Dirty Secrets Ep 038 “Brooke Ryan – Banking by Day, D*ck Ratings by Night” 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brooke Ryan (@brookebanter) What happens when a conservative corporate banker discovers the wild world of OnlyF’s? Brooke Ryan tells all—from launching her secret no-face account duringthe pandemic to finally going full-face and full-throttle. Kate and Brooke talk about transitioning from buttoned-up banking to live c m shows, what makes a good d ck pic (hint: it’s not size), and how dirty fingernails can ruin everything. Brooke also opens up about her late-blooming sxual confidence, her first squirting experience, why she prefers girth over length, and the emotional balance of humiliation customs and girly collabs. This episode is full of charm, surprise, and juicy behind-the-scenes life from one of the most likable content creatorsaround. @DirtySecretsPodcast@KateShelor @brookebanter
Jun 19
Dirty Secrets Ep 037 “Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame, Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions” Dirty Secrets Ep 037 – 🎙️ Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame,Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Autumn Rain (@awwtumdabottom) Autumn Rain joins Kate to talk about how she went from pharmacy tech to viral trans adult film star—thanks to a Grindr hookup and a rebellious streak. They dive into what it’s like navigating the porn world as a trans woman, finding kinky community through FetLife, and why being a switch comes with unexpected challenges when everyone wants her to dom. Autumn shares stories about cosplay scenes, customs she’s tired of faking, and why topping cis women is her favorite kind of shoot (hint: no prep required). They also go deep on gender identity, hormones, and why tongue tricks and lip fetishes are more important than you think. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @awwtumduck
Jun 13
DirtySecrets Ep 036 “Vic Lagina – Brazzers, Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn Dirty Secrets Ep 036 – 🎙️ Vic Lagina – Brazzers,Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn 🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Vic Lagina (@viclagina) What really happens behind the scenes of the biggest p*rn empire in the world? Director and producer Vic Lagina opens up about his 20-year career with Brazzers—sharing how it all started with a chaotic crack-fueled first shoot and spiraled into becoming the workhorse behind one of the industry's biggest brands. Vic gets brutally honest about burnout, insane scene requests (elevator sex and prolapse stories included), and why the industry is more about ad clicks than pleasure. They dive deep into the Me Too era, performer boundaries, and what led Vic to finally walk away after decades on top. This is a raw, unfiltered look at the rise and fall of one man’s love affair with adult films—and the toll it took along the way. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @viclagina
Jun 6
Dirty Secrets Ep 035 “Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes, Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs” Dirty Secrets Ep 035 – 🎙️ Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes,Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Phoenix Marie (@PMarizzle) Legendary adult film icon Phoenix Marie joins Kate for a raw, hilarious, and unfiltered conversation about what it’s really like after filming 3,000+ scenes. From AVN Hall of Fame to calling out the fakes, Phoenix opens up about her preferences, orgasms, and why she’s never done a gang bang (despite being airtight more than once). They get real about industry myths, the evolution of s*x work, and the power dynamics on set—plus behind-the-scenes drama, strap-on struggles, and being cum-drunk for five hours. Also joining is former director Vic Lagina, who dishes on porn’s glory days, male talent mishaps, and why being a “Pornasaurus” still has perks. @DirtySecretsPodcast@KateShelor @PMarizzle