About this episode
In this powerful episode, we challenge the modern myth that "good parenting" means self-sacrifice at all costs. Instead, we explore what it really takes to show up strong for your family — starting with how you lead yourself. From the societal pressure to "do it all" to the quiet burnout no one talks about, we unpack how ignoring your own needs doesn't make you a better parent — it makes it harder to be the present, grounded leader your kids actually need. We redefine self-care as self-leadership and break down the mindset shifts, personal responsibility, and daily actions that help you parent from a place of strength — not survival. If you've ever felt guilty for wanting more time, more space, or more growth… this conversation will give you permission to take it — and a plan to model a healthier path for your family. Because your kids don't need a perfect parent. They need one who's fully alive. APPLY FOR COACHING: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/1-1-coaching SDE Method app: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/sde-method-app The Fitness League Waiting List https://u3rwk.share.hsforms.com/2rkAwsFntTAeZ__PxwXdr4Q Macros Guide https://www.lvltncoaching.com/free-resources/calculate-your-macros Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lvltncoaching FREE TOOLS to start your health and fitness journey: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/resources/freebies Alessandra's Instagram: http://instagram.com/alessandrascutnik Joelle's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joellesamantha?igsh=ZnVhZjFjczN0OTdn Josh's Instagram: http://instagram.com/joshscutnik Chapters: 00:00 The Myth of Self-Sacrifice in Parenting 02:36 The Importance of Self-Care for Parents 05:47 Navigating Social Media and Parenting Expectations 08:16 The Ripple Effect of Parental Happiness 11:09 Finding Balance in Parenting and Personal Wellbeing 14:10 The All-or-Nothing Mentality in Parenting 16:47 The Impact of Parental Behavior on Children 19:44 The Role of Mindfulness in Parenting 22:44 Generational Shifts in Parenting Approaches 25:17 Injecting Joy and Connection into Family Life 33:55 The Impact of Environment on Personal Growth 35:02 Taking Responsibility for Change 36:54 The Ripple Effect of Personal Decisions 38:35 Breaking Generational Patterns 41:37 Parenting Approaches: Gentle vs. Tough Love 45:23 Finding Your Parenting Style 48:58 The Role of Personal Responsibility in Growth 51:50 Redefining Self-Care as Self-Leadership 57:53 Pursuing Purpose and Fulfillment 01:02:29 The Importance of Slowing Down 01:06:13 Building the Best Version of Yourself