EP. 10: RACHEL & ASHLIE: A 351-Mile FKT & the Value of Mom Friendships

Send us a text I don't know about you, but I think making friends as a mom can be hard--especially due to lack of time, energy, and guilt (much like it is with running!). But today we learn how being intentional about prioritizing and investing in your friendships with other moms is so worth it!! Like with running, that time spent makes you happier, healthier, and a better mom. Today’s episode unpacks the beautiful friendship of Rachel Phillips and Ashlie Ithurburn: Ashlie recently ran the Fastest Known Time (FKT) for the 351-mile Pinhoti Trail stretching from Alabama to Georgia. Rachel, not a runner, was Ashlie’s ultimate hype girl—helping her prep for the race, making 10-hour long thoughtful playlists, and reaching out to me to interview her. The two share how they’ve prioritized growing their bond, which also includes a fun birthday club with other moms, and delve into importance of strong mom friendships. We also discuss Ashlie’s training for the FKT as a working mom and what the experience was like. Other topics we cover: -the importance of "having experiences" together to foster friendships -what ultra-marathon training looks like as a mom, and going after super huge goals -the power of community & making sure everyone feels empowered in friendships -how true friendships should never be about keeping score, & so much more. THANK YOU TO THIS EPISODE’S SPONSOR: Amazfit offers high-quality wearable tech for half the price! I love the Balance 2 watch. Save 10% on the GPS watches. MORE ABOUT ASHLIE ITHURBURN: Ashlie is born & raised in CA (one of 7 children) and married to her high school sweetheart She moved to Birmingham in 2018 & met her best friends there. She works as an exercise interventionist for studies with people with MS or Parkinson's Disease, encouraging them to get and stay active to help manage symptoms and slow progression of their disease. She’s mom to Finn, almost 9. IG: @ashlieithurburn MORE ABOUT RACHEL PHILLIPS: A native Texan, Rachel has proudly called Birmingham home for the past 12 years. She and her husband Blake have three energetic kids: Hannah (9), Luke (7), and Mae (4). As the communications manager at i3 Academy, Rachel thrives on connecting with others and advocating for effective schools. She’s the ultimate hype girl, passionately supporting her friends and family in all their endeavors. When she's not chasing kids, you can catch her planning a themed party, enjoying a Pilates class, or danci Whitney Heins is a mom of 2, a lifelong runner, a VDOT-certified running coach for moms who run, and founder of the resource, themotherrunners.com . When training for her first marathon as a mom, she found a dearth of information related to running and motherhood. She also felt extremely isolated as a new mom. As a former TV journalist and a freelance writer she decided to use her skills to fill the void with an online resource and community, called The Mother Runners. Whitney also recognized a need for run coaches who understood the demands of motherhood, so she also became a running coach—unearthing a passion for helping moms reap the rewards and empowerment of running. Coming out of a long injury cycle, she ran a 2:54 marathon and 1:20 half marathon in her 40s. She lives in Knoxville, TN with her husband, two kids, and three dogs. www.themotherrunners.com Instagram: @themotherrunners YouTube: The Mother Runners whitney@themotherrunners.com