#21. How to Create the Golf Identity You Need to Shoot Lower Scores

" Who do you need to become to shoot par? " This is the starting point of today's episode, which features a detailed breakdown of how to deconstruct and ultimately create the golf identity you need to play to your potential. You'll learn what an alter ego is, its role, and how you can create one to shoot better scores on the course. Plus, you'll learn the exact framework I use (and use with my clients) to help them align with the person they desire and are destined to become. Whether you're aiming to improve your game or achieve personal milestones, this episode provides valuable insights and practical steps to help you become the golfer you aspire to be. Tune in to learn how to reverse engineer your identity and embody the characteristics necessary for success on and off the golf course. Start listening. P.S. If you're interested in learning more about how mindset coaching and hypnotherapy can help you get unstuck from the proverbial bunker of poor performance on the course and in your business, click here to schedule a coaching discovery call with me. Key Points: To achieve your golfing goals, you need to become the person who is capable of achieving them. Creating an alter ego can help you express different aspects of your golfing identity. Your self-talk, beliefs, actions, and results shape your identity. Write down a clear and specific golfing identity statement that reflects the person you want to become on the golf course. Align your actions and decisions with your golfing identity to achieve your goals. Key Quotes: "Who do you need to become to break 90? Who do you need to become to break 80, to shoot scratch?" "Who do you need to become to achieve said goal?" "Did you know that Beyonce has an incredibly strong religious upbringing?" "I show up with a beginner's mindset really as a student of the game to absorb and learn as much as I can from these individuals." "The sum of your results influences your identity. The sum of the decisions you make and the actions you take influence your results. It's the collection of your beliefs that influence the actions and decisions you make." "And it is your self -talk, which is composed of both your word choice and your thoughts that eventually go on to shape your beliefs." "And if we go from the very core, now moving bottom to top of piece of paper, it's your self -talk, which is composed of your word choice and thoughts that influence your beliefs, which influence your actions and decisions, ultimately shaping your results and creating your identity." Subscribe to the More Pars Than Bogeys Newsletter. This newsletter helps double-digit golfers overcome the emotional and mental hazards of their minds so that they can shoot more pars than bogeys. Each week, I'll provide insights, principles, and strategies to help you deter distractions, find your focus, manage your emotions, and cultivate boundless confidence so that you can play to your potential. Subscribe now . Grab my free hypnosis audio to help you prepare to play your best round. Download it here . Schedule a 1-1 mindset coaching discovery and strategy call with me - click here . For feedback, questions, or to take me out for a round of golf, shoot me an email or connect with me on social media: Instagram: @scratchgolfermindset Twitter: @parsoverbogeys LinkedIn: Paul Salter Coaching Time Stamps: 00:00: Introduction and Gratitude 03:49: Becoming the Golfer You Need to Be 09:05: The Power of Alter Egos in Golf 13:42: Understanding the Components of Identity 19:43: Crafting Your Golfing Identity Statement 28:32: Aligning Your Actions with Your Golfing Identity