#94: Dating After Loss: How Charlene Found Real Love Again

Charlene thought she was ready to date after losing her husband and parents, but she struggled to find real love with the men she was dating. Each relationship reflected the same old wounds she carried into her marriage: overgiving, hoping for scraps of connection, and treating attention like approval. Nothing shifts until you’re willing to look at what keeps repeating and ask why it still has a hold on you. That question became her turning point. Inside the Ready for Love program, she rebuilt trust with herself. She named her dating non-negotiables for the first time in her life. She stepped into dating with a calm, grounded confidence that didn’t need someone else’s interest to feel worthy. What happens when a woman dates with that mindset? She attracts people who actually fit the life she wants rather than the wounds she’s healing. This episode offers a clear look at dating after loss, breaking old patterns, and choosing partners from strength rather than fear. It invites you to consider where your own standards live and whether you’ve been settling for connections that don't match the depth you want. Episode Highlights: Dating after loss and how grief can shape your patterns Why emotionally unavailable men kept showing up The moment Charlene recognized she needed a new approach How naming her non-negotiables changed her confidence What dating looks like when you lead with self-respect How falling in love with herself shifted everything Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Facing Grief and Loss 05:07 Reflections on Marriage and Relationships 11:40 The Self-Confidence Transformation Process 19:22 Dating Again With Real Confidence 24:40 Embracing Self-Love and Empowerment 31:24 Advice for Women Attracting the Wrong Men ✨ I’m Hilary Silver, LCSW, former psychotherapist turned master coach and founder of Ready for Love. I help high-achieving women show up in love as confidently as they do in their careers. 💡 Through this podcast, I share my WOMAN-centered, SELF-centered approach—time-tested methods that blend psychology, brain science, relationship skills, and no-BS dating advice. 🎙️ Since 2017, we’ve helped over 10,000 women with a 98% success rate, making Ready for Love the #1 program in the world for women who’ve tried everything else. ✨ Ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally create the love you deserve? 🎯 Watch my free masterclass to learn the proven 4-step Ready for Love Method: https://readyforloveinc.com/masterclass 💬 Apply for a free Love Breakthrough Call with my team: https://readyforloveinc.com/apply LINKS: Cozy Earth: Your New Favorite Blanket Up to 40% off their Bubble Cuddle blanket and more. Use Promo Code: READYFORLOVE at CozyEarth.com AirDoctor: The Trusted Air Purifier for a Healthier Home Use Promo Code: READY Up to $300 off + Free 3-Year Warranty Exclusive Podcast Offer