August 21, 2025
Ep 67: Fair Is Fair... Why Compersion Only Goes So Far
Vanilla Swingers - A Swinger Podcast for Newbies, by Newbies in the LifestyleAbout this episode
👀 "You had your threesome, now it’s my turn!" Let’s talk about the myth of keeping it “even” in the lifestyle. In this spicy episode, Kat and Leo break down how scorekeeping kills the vibe, why selflessness is the ultimate turn-on, and how to show up FOR your partner - even if your night was hotter than theirs. It’s compersion vs. lizard brain. And fair? Well, that’s not always 50/50. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Fair Is Fair... Why Compersion Only Goes So Far https://www.vanillaswingers.com/fair-is-fair-why-compersion-only-goes-so-far/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us