About this episode
Actress and model Delilah Hamlin and software engineer Hayley Pearson didn’t know each other before walking into the hospital—but after receiving endometriosis surgery from Dr. A on the same day, they met in recovery and instantly connected over their shared struggles. In this episode, they open up about their diagnosis, their surgeries, their healing journeys, and the friendship that grew from one unexpected moment. This episode breaks down what endometriosis really is—clear, accessible, and grounded in real medical insight. We walk through the most common warning signs, the subtle symptoms people often overlook, and how to know when it’s time to advocate for yourself and ask for help. If you’ve ever wondered whether your pain is “normal,” this conversation is a must-listen. Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, Endometriosis, fertility, and hormonal balance. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being. Sponsors iRestore: Reverse hair loss with @iRestorelaser and unlock HUGE savings on the iRestore Elite with the code SHEMDPOD at https://www.irestore.com/SHEMDPOD ! Cymbiotika: Go to Cymbiotika.com/Shemd for 20% off plus free shipping Prolon: Prolon is offering SHE MD listeners 15% off sitewide plus a $40 bonus gift when you subscribe to their 5-Day Program! Vibrant Wellness: Ask your provider for the Hormone Zoomer by Vibrant Wellness — or find a Vibrant-certified provider today at vibrant-wellness.com/SheMD Aura Frames : $35 off with code SHEMD What You’ll Learn How to recognize symptoms of endometriosis and avoid misdiagnosis The importance of finding an experienced specialist for surgery Fertility preservation and egg count testing considerations How chronic inflammation impacts ovarian reserve Key Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:50 Fear, self-doubt, and uncertainty before diagnosis 04:33 Explanation of PMDD 10:00 Acne, bloating, hormonal imbalance, and painful periods 15:55 Why women’s pain is dismissed and misdiagnosed 29:20 Finding skilled endometriosis surgeons 32:00 Checking and freezing eggs 39:00 Painful sex and its impact on relationships 48:00 Mental health and sobriety 51:00 Autoimmune risk and systemic inflammation 52:35 Self-advocacy, research, and navigating the healthcare system Key Takeaways Women’s pain is often dismissed, making self-advocacy and research essential Painful sex and severe menstrual symptoms can signal endometriosis, not “normal” cramps Early diagnosis and surgery by an experienced specialist can protect fertility Chronic inflammation from endometriosis can affect ovarian reserve and overall reproductive health Endometriosis is linked to autoimmune risks, highlighting the need for comprehensive care Links: Delilah’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/delilahbelle/?hl=en Endometriosis Foundation of America: https://www.endofound.org American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists: https://www.acog.org See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .