The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast
Dom Sub Living | BDSM & Kink Relationships
Dom Sub Living | BDSM & Kink Relationships
Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey. Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com , Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences. Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more. Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.
4d ago
#116 What do you do when real life and D/s collide? 👉 Join the free Dom Sub Living Community: https://domsubliving.com/community Today Jay and Alesandra answer your biggest Dom/sub questions: long-distance rules, sub drop, fear of judgment, family boundaries, punishment, switching, and even dirty talk styles. Join our Dom Sub Living Community to ask your own questions next episode! ➡️ Join the free Dom Sub Living Community: https://domsubliving.com/community ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/116 ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess
Dec 8
#115 Slave training doesn’t fall apart because the sub fails — it falls apart because the Dom can’t stay consistent. In this episode, Jay shares how our Master/slave training began, why most structures collapse, and the one thing Doms must master to keep their dynamic strong, sustainable, and consensual. Tap play to learn the simple shift that makes slave training actually work. ➡️ Free weekly newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup ➡️ Get deeper support: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess
Dec 1
#114 Can you kneel for your partner and still stand for equality? ❤️ Download your free cheat sheet, 'How to Be a Good Sub': https://domsubliving.com/sub In this episode, we're exploring how feminism and submission actually complete each other. Learn why power exchange isn’t powerless, how shame transforms into choice, and what true consent means in D/s. 💬 Got thoughts? Comment or DM Alesandra on Instagram: @domsubliving ➡️ Free 'How to Be a Good Sub' Cheat Sheet: https://domsubliving.com/sub ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/114 ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess
Nov 24
#113 Why do some scenes leave deep bruises and others nothing at all? In this episode we're unpacking bruises, branding, and marks in BDSM – what they mean emotionally, the science of bruising, how to explain them to vanilla people, and when branding goes too far. Listen now to feel safer and more seen. ➡️ Access the free BDSM Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free ➡️ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess
Nov 17
#112 Ever met a Dom who can control a room without saying a word? In this episode, we're revealing the 10 hidden power plays only experienced Dominants use – how silence, attention, and anticipation build real obedience and trust. Learn the quiet secrets that make submission magnetic. Which power play will you try first? ➡️ Free Dominant Quick Start Guide: https://domsubliving.com/dominant ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/112 ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess
Nov 10
#111 What if everything you’ve heard about BDSM and kink is wrong? In this episode, we're busting the biggest Dom/sub myths holding people back—from feeling too inexperienced to thinking BDSM is immoral. Learn the truth about who really belongs in kink. Listen now and start unlearning the lies about BDSM. ➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/005
Nov 3
#110 BDSM isn’t just fantasy—it’s how real people grow. Alesandra and Deborah Kat get honest about living a D/s lifestyle: consent, safewords, limits, protocols, weekly check-ins, 24/7 dynamics, parenting, money, safety, community—plus the fun, kinky parts. Loved it? Follow Deborah’s 'Better Sex Podcast' and subscribe for more real talk. ➡️ Deborah Kat's 'Better Sex Podcast': https://www.deborahkat.com/podcast ➡️ Free Dom Sub Living newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess
Oct 27
#109 What makes a BDSM scene truly work ? We talk about limits all the time—but rarely about the things we actually need to feel connected, grounded, and fulfilled. In this episode, Alesandra opens up about her real must-haves for every scene and why yours matter just as much. Reflect on your own and share them with us after listening. ➡️ Free Yes/No/Maybe checklist: https://domsubliving.com/checklist ➡️ Explore our step-by-step courses: https://domsubliving.com/courses
