Protect Your Love AND Your Wallet: Relationship Money Red Flags | Ep. 106

Cheating isn’t the biggest relationship killer—money is. I reveal the hidden financial red flags that can quietly destroy trust and security, and how to protect yourself before it’s too late. I share my own experience of ignoring the warning signs and what it cost me, plus the subtle clues you might be missing: lavish spending on a modest income, secretive money habits, repeated requests for “loans,” inconsistent stories about debt, and more. You’ll learn: How to spot financial instability early Why joint expenses should never mean giving up control How to protect yourself with solid planning and prenups Why honest money talks are as vital as conversations about intimacy Whether you’re dating, remarried, or in a long-term relationship—especially in midlife—this conversation will help you protect both your heart and your wallet. Because healthy money habits aren’t just smart… They're sexy. Timestamps: 00:00 – Why financial red flags matter more than you think 00:25 – Money & sex: the two hardest conversations 00:55 – My personal story of ignoring the signs 01:35 – Lavish spending vs. real income 02:05 – Secretive behavior & repeated requests for money 02:40 – Why you should talk about credit scores 03:05 – Inconsistent debt stories & hidden bankruptcies 03:35 – The danger of “my money, your money” control 04:00 – Protect yourself with planning & prenups 04:40 – The importance of professional financial advice 05:05 – “Open books, open hearts”: building transparency 05:40 – Keep money talks going for a healthier relationship 06:10 – Final takeaway: healthy money habits are sexy Karen Bigman , a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases. This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider. Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases. This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider. Want a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today’s discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don’t miss out! Follow Karen Bigman: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@taboototruth Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551130276567 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenbigman Website: http://taboototruth.com Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook , filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook . Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook .