Dating Apps, Red Flags, and Second Chances at Love | Ep. 115

Dating after divorce can feel intimidating, overwhelming, and even hopeless — but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode, I sit down with Andrea McGinty, America’s top midlife dating expert and author of Second Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50 . From founding It’s Just Lunch Matchmaking to facilitating over 33,000 dates and 10,000 marriages, Andrea has seen it all. She shares no-nonsense strategies for navigating the modern dating world, choosing the right apps, spotting red flags, and building a game plan for your love life. Whether you’re newly single or simply curious about what’s possible, this episode proves it’s never too late for a second act in love. Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome & Show Intro 00:35 – Today’s Topic & Guest Setup “Is online dating after divorce a nightmare…?" 02:35 – Why Dating After Divorce Feels Harder 04:45 – The Ocean, Not a Pool: Why Apps Matter 08:05 – Right App for Your City & Stage of Life 09:30 – Biggest Mistake: Quitting After Two Weeks 11:40 – Build a Dating “Business Plan” 13:45 – Values, Communication & Chemistry (The 3 C’s) 16:00 – First Relationship Post-Divorce: Are You Ready? 18:20 – Red Flags on Profiles 20:40 – Stop Texting Forever: Set the Date 23:00 – The Sex-on-First-Date Question 24:50 – Matchmakers vs Apps (Costs & Reality) 28:50 – Paid vs Free App Features 31:30 – Hope, Resilience & Process 35:10 – Phone Call or Not? Expectations & Boundaries 38:00 – First-Date Formats 39:30 – Who Pays? Regional Norms & Chivalry 40:20 – Where to Find Andrea + Outro Want a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today’s discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don’t miss out! Karen Bigman , a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases. This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider. Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast About the Guest: As seen on Oprah, WSJ, People, and CNN, Andrea McGinty is a professional dating coach, author, and entrepreneur with more than 25 years of experience. Having set up over 33,000 successful dates, she is the founder of two dating companies--It's Just Lunch and 33k Dates--as well as several other ventures, including BabyDagny and Pilatesworks. Connect with Andrea McGinty: Website : https://www.33000dates.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/33000dates Book: https://www.33000dates.com/book Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases. This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider. Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here: Email: karen@taboototruth.com Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast Substack: https://karenbigman.substack.com Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook , filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook . Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook .