About this episode
What if one small, honest thank-you could break a spiral? We go from laughing about chaotic days and dog-trashing-the-kitchen moments to a surprising mental reset that actually sticks: choose a single, concrete thing to be grateful for and repeat it through your day. David—known as Today I Am Grateful—opens up about hitting a wall, failing at the classic “write three gratitudes” advice, and discovering that one simple, repeatable anchor worked better for an anxious mind than any perfect routine. We dig into the fundamentals that quietly prop up mental health—sleep that isn’t chaotic, food that fuels instead of crashes, hydration that’s more than an afterthought, and movement that fits your body. Then we layer in a practical twist: pair gratitude with something you can touch. A coffee mug. A metal door covered in your kid’s art. A giant crayon. That tactile cue doubles as grounding, so you’re calming your nervous system while steering your thoughts. No toxic positivity here; we talk about holding two truths at once—naming the hard thing and choosing a small gratitude so your brain doesn’t decide everything is terrible. Along the way, we share real-life tactics: using short video for accountability when journals fail, letting community ask the hard “Are you okay?” question, and noticing the tiny joys that sustain us—blue birds, muffins, a pair of glasses you forgot to appreciate. We also explore grief and why loss can deepen gratitude without erasing pain. If you’ve felt overwhelmed by lofty routines, this is your permission to start smaller than small. Pick one word, tie it to something real, and repeat it until your mind begins to scan for better. If this resonates, tap follow, share with a friend who needs a lift, and leave a quick review to help more people find a path back to steady. Support the show You can find us on social media here: Rob Tiktok Rob Instagram Liam Tiktok Liam Instagram