About this episode
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Olivia Dydyna about her journey from being inorgasmic to fully awakened through sound, breath, and deep self-connection. The girls explore Soulgasm, light language, sounding for pleasure, and how to unlock turn-on even when trauma lives in the body. If you've ever wondered what it means to center yourself, speak your truth, and experience desire beyond outcome—this one’s for you. Olivia’s Story: From inorgasmic to orgasmic. (2:10) How do we achieve ultimate turn on? Mentally, physically, emotionally. (5:16) Breath work to get turned on. (8:15) Soulgasm: liberating the energy in your body to have a breakthrough. “What do you desire?” (9:09) Holding Space and Letting Answers Reveal Themselves: Leaving space for what comes up when there’s no response. (14:06) How to get turned on when our body holds traumatic wounds? (18:05) Sounding: Alternative ways to get turned on. (19:36) Authentic sounds we make when we have sex. (23:05) How to unlock the voice when you’re shy or blocked vocally. (25:38) Light Language: a language of the soul speaking directly to the genitals. (29:06) IRL examples. Developing a relationship to your cervix. Humming. (34:01) Surprising or beautiful experience. (38:08) Sounding for men. (41:18) Decentering the outcome of orgasm and finding the “one”. (44:59) Decentering men: what does life look like when we center ourselves? Balancing autonomy and togetherness. (49:03) Work with Olivia! (51:42) Links: Olivia's website: Besexessful.com Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.